Pisces and the Chase

Posted by transcendentbull
He has initiated conversation and even a date a few times, we went out the other night and it was great and he asked me to hang out again but hasn't said anything to me at all yet. I'm starting to think of retreating, as I always do.

Aww you seem so sweet!😄 Has something happened that makes you think he's not interested? Cause if not call him! Hunt him down. If you've already gone out a few times why would he feel pressured by the chase? I mean maybe he feels the same way? Like he thinks you're not interested?

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Posted by transcendentbull
He has initiated conversation and even a date a few times, we went out the other night and it was great and he asked me to hang out again but hasn't said anything to me at all yet. I'm starting to think of retreating, as I always do.

Aww you seem so sweet!😄 Has something happened that makes you think he's not interested? Cause if not call him! Hunt him down. If you've already gone out a few times why would he feel pressured by the chase? I mean maybe he feels the same way? Like he thinks you're not interested?

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I just have a gut feeling. I always have those gut feelings though, mainly because I never think something is going to work out and I tell myself not to bother with it. I guess I give myself negative energy. Its hard to differentiate between instincts when you know your habits are like that, aha. I didn't think he would even follow through with the date but he did, he messaged me to initiate it and messaged me the day of making plans and setting a time. We went out for a few hours, spoke straight through, laughed a lot (my cheeks hurt from smiling so much. Pretend I did not admit that, aha!) When he dropped me off he told me that he wanted to hang out again, but I figure that was just the standard thing to say when someone is exiting your car - you're not going to say "Bye." Hahah, unless you're heartless and want them to feel terrible. The real test is in the person following through with what they say, and so far he hasn't said anything to me.

I texted him after the date (with much promoting from my friends. Much, much prompting. I didn't want to come off as pushy.) saying thank you and telling him I had fun and he said he did as well and made a little joke, I replied and reiterated that I had a good time to reassure him based on what he had previously said and then he said he was glad and that he did too. Then I just didn't reply because the conversation was done and didn't need to be dragged on.

Now, silence.

It's hard to tell what's going through his mind. I think maybe talk to him face to face, and hint about doing something together to see his reaction. Don't have to flat out ask him if you're nervous - which is totally endearing btw😄

Posted by iceredrobot
It's hard to tell what's going through his mind. I think maybe talk to him face to face, and hint about doing something together to see his reaction. Don't have to flat out ask him if you're nervous - which is totally endearing btw😄

Ahah I've always seen being nervous as a weakness, I try to hide it but it obviously comes out. I laugh at myself sometimes, I caught him smiling at me whenever I did so on the date. Maybe you're right, aha.

I like an even amount if chasing/being chased.

If a guy is TOO into me, it turns me off.

If he plays it cool tooo much, I will freeze up and the relation will go nowhere.

Like goldilocks ha.

aww. I like to take a step back and see if they are willing to put any effort into it, but I also reciprocate and let them know I want to too. It's a complete give and take thing with me. Now if someone goes at it so hard and all the time, it's such a put off. Too clingy, too needy, too demanding, too much a pain in my arse. Some effort yes but too much grrr ooohhh for the love leave me alone! lol If too cool like before we can throw up the double deuces and say to hell with ya I'm done even if you come back UNLESS we are REALLY smitten, then only then will we allow this behavior.

See the thing is us mermaids/mermen want to know that we are wanted/thought about or anything, even if we don't answer you right away or read your text/email right away doesn't mean we are not interested. We could be in our leave me the hell alone mood. Nothing to do with you persay we just need to be alone to refuel and recharge. Now I will say if he doesn't get back to you after days then something is WRONG indeed. If you go silent after we've unplugged we will think I wonder where they went to and touch base with you. Now if you unplug from him and he doesn't get back to you....sorry luv he's gone. I hope that's not the case. You sound so freaking adorable. Good luck and lots of hugs!

Posted by tbird
aww. I like to take a step back and see if they are willing to put any effort into it, but I also reciprocate and let them know I want to too. It's a complete give and take thing with me. Now if someone goes at it so hard and all the time, it's such a put off. Too clingy, too needy, too demanding, too much a pain in my arse. Some effort yes but too much grrr ooohhh for the love leave me alone! lol If too cool like before we can throw up the double deuces and say to hell with ya I'm done even if you come back UNLESS we are REALLY smitten, then only then will we allow this behavior.

See the thing is us mermaids/mermen want to know that we are wanted/thought about or anything, even if we don't answer you right away or read your text/email right away doesn't mean we are not interested. We could be in our leave me the hell alone mood. Nothing to do with you persay we just need to be alone to refuel and recharge. Now I will say if he doesn't get back to you after days then something is WRONG indeed. If you go silent after we've unplugged we will think I wonder where they went to and touch base with you. Now if you unplug from him and he doesn't get back to you....sorry luv he's gone. I hope that's not the case. You sound so freaking adorable. Good luck and lots of hugs!

So the fact that I havent said anything to him since our date (three days, after I messaged him that night telling him I enjoyed myself and agreed to see him again when I was leaving the car) and he hasn't messaged me means he's gone/not interested? Sigh. I guess its my fault then.

He also has an Aries moon, which makes him get bored easily (I'm the same way with a Gemini moon). I don't think my chances are very high right now. Hahah. Oh well, at least I tried right 🙂

No chasing for me, i prefer an effort on both parties. I believe if im chasing you then your not as interested as i would like you to be, if your chasing me then maybe the interest isnt there on my part. If there is no chase both parties are being authentic which i prefer.

Posted by Fire-Water
No chasing for me, i prefer an effort on both parties. I believe if im chasing you then your not as interested as i would like you to be, if your chasing me then maybe the interest isnt there on my part. If there is no chase both parties are being authentic which i prefer.

Makes perfect sense. I have a very logical way of thinking, I tend to tell myself that if someone doesn't message you they simply dont want to speak. However, it goes both ways right. I guess I'm being a little hypocritical and super silly. I keep flip flopping between the idea of putting myself out there and messaging him, even if its just a hello! Welcome to grade 10 again. Hahah.

It's possible that he's waiting on you..,.to see how much you want to see him again. It's been long enough not to seem pushy, so if I were you, I'd out of the blue say so where do you plan on taking me this time? Or better yet say why don't you let me take you to one of my favorite places this time. Those both may be hard for you, I donno.....I'm a very forward person. I think Pisces guys like that as long as you don't seem overly interested, putting pressure on them. They hate pressure.

Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
It's possible that he's waiting on you..,.to see how much you want to see him again. It's been long enough not to seem pushy, so if I were you, I'd out of the blue say so where do you plan on taking me this time? Or better yet say why don't you let me take you to one of my favorite places this time. Those both may be hard for you, I donno.....I'm a very forward person. I think Pisces guys like that as long as you don't seem overly interested, putting pressure on them. They hate pressure.

I dont think I'd be able to physically allow myslef to do that. As lame as that sounds its just not who I am, I'd be a ball of frustration. Hahha I'm not the type to come off as overly interested, I usually come off as aloof or uninterested because I tell myself that I am just friends with the guy and that he couldnt possibly want more (situations like this just strengthen that notion and I'm left thinking that it would be so illogical to message them).

Just remember with guys like him.....the woman he goes for is usually a bit more outgoing and outspoken than him. I just mean if you seem too aloof, he'll go somewhere else because he won't think you are into him and he won't be assertive and chase you, especially if he doesn't think you want to be caught. It's ok with a guy like him for you to be open because they aren't usually the ones to take advantage of your feelings but rather appreciate them. Even if it turns out he's not that interested, he most likely won't take you for granted and you'll have a friend for life. I'm not telling you to change who you are but to sit back and wait for a Pisces won't often times work out in your favor. They are normally too shy in the beginning to be the pursuer. He did with the date, but I feel like now he's waiting to see if he moved you. All I'm saying is if you like him and dont text him soon, you'll loose him. His mind is probably wondering why you haven't yet.

They like a take charge woman, not in a bossy possessive way but a woman who knows what she wants and knows how to get it.

Posted by transcendentbull

Posted by Fire-Water
No chasing for me, i prefer an effort on both parties. I believe if im chasing you then your not as interested as i would like you to be, if your chasing me then maybe the interest isnt there on my part. If there is no chase both parties are being authentic which i prefer.

Makes perfect sense. I have a very logical way of thinking, I tend to tell myself that if someone doesn't message you they simply dont want to speak. However, it goes both ways right. I guess I'm being a little hypocritical and super silly. I keep flip flopping between the idea of putting myself out there and messaging him, even if its just a hello! Welcome to grade 10 again. Hahah.

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The way i look at it is if you dont put yourself out there you will never know, i dont want to live like that. I'd rather figure it out and move on from there. I dated a taurus girl a while back and we got along really well but she was so reserved in her actions but in her talk was more outgoing. I slowly moved away from her because it didnt add up to me.

Posted by transcendentbull

Do you tend to go for what you want, or do you like to take a step back ....

As a Taurus I'm having a hard time making myself message the Pisces guy I like ...

He has initiated conversation and even a date a few times, we went out the other night and it was great and he asked me to hang out again but hasn't said anything to me at all yet.

First of all, let me put this into proper reality for you .... YOU are the one in want. You state that you like him. I see no statement from him here saying he likes you. You asked if they tend to go for what they want, and this is an assumption on your part that he wants you.

You want him .. get that part straight.

Do Pisces tend to go for what they want? Yes, they do.

Note last quote of yours above where he appears to not care to mention hanging out again ... that doesn't appear to be a sign of "want" on his part.


What seems obvious to me is that you tend not to go after what you want ... and to be honest, you are going to be hard pressed to find a Pisces wanting to chase a person with zero drive and determination ... unless of course, it's for getting laid.

Well your a bull honey that's normal behavior for you. I would send a follow up text to say hi. If he doesn't get back within a day or two yeah he's gone.

Like you said you tried and consider it his loss, if he is gone. It's hard... trust me it sucks I've been there with a Virgo instead he stood my ass up.

"It's ok with a guy like him for you to be open because they aren't usually the ones to take advantage of your feelings but rather appreciate them. Even if it turns out he's not that interested, he most likely won't take you for granted and you'll have a friend for life."

This is true. Merfolk who aren't "broken" will not take your emotions for granted and won't take advantage of them. Now if we don't care about you...then we won't take the time to consider them. Sounds rude but we can't do that. We actually feel other people emotions.

"I'm not telling you to change who you are but to sit back and wait for a Pisces won't often times work out in your favor. They are normally too shy in the beginning to be the pursuer."

SO true and EXACTLY! Remember with merfolk give and take.

"you are going to be hard pressed to find a Pisces wanting to chase a person with zero drive and determination ... unless of course, it's for getting laid."

This is also true. The reason for this is because merfolk can have the sex (the promiscuous merfolk...I do notice we come in two flavors, promiscuous and prudish) and leave and not have to worry about you feeling more because you have zero drive and determination. They can swim away free and clear without any ties. Now if he WANTS a relationship then yeah we will pass on these type of folks, we aren't going to devote ourselves to someone who can't (willingly or otherwise) do the same. We would feel unfulfilled in many aspects so we don't touch that, even though we can be a bit of masochist in a way. That comes into play when merfolk are totally in love with someone. We will deal with a whole bunch a bullbutter to make it work. We love our misery sometimes and when we wake up from that...again we are gone.

I messaged him. A simple witty message of something we both found entertaining when we were talking the other night. I'm super nervous but this is good for me. Hahah.

Posted by STARPISCESWAR
So he Reply ?

Sent about 15 minutes ago. Nothing yet! Now I feel silly, eek.

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Posted by Fire-Water
No chasing for me, i prefer an effort on both parties. I believe if im chasing you then your not as interested as i would like you to be, if your chasing me then maybe the interest isnt there on my part. If there is no chase both parties are being authentic which i prefer.

You Stolen My Words Bro 😉

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haha

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Posted by transcendentbull

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So he Reply ?

Sent about 15 minutes ago. Nothing yet! Now I feel silly, eek.

Just 15 minutes,
Try to divert your mind watch Tv Or Youtube Videos 😉
Don't Worry just be Happy 😄

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Ahaha completely, I know that people have lives I wouldn't expect an answer right away. Its just when you send a message and you're nervous you're kind of like "OK hurry up! So I don't feel silly anymore!" He could take all night and logically I wouldn't let myself overanalyze that, the guy is a busy bee.

Try to think of a way to end world hunger. 🙂

Hmmm he replied.

Me: Guess who I just saw walking downtown in all of his baloon-making glory?
Him: Ahahah that is amazing! My friend mike said he saw you at the gym today.

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Note: I don't know who Mike is, I've never met this friend. I do work at our University gym though so maybe he recognized me. Very odd that he'd bring that up.

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Posted by transcendentbull
Hmmm he replied.

Me: Guess who I just saw walking downtown in all of his baloon-making glory?
Him: Ahahah that is amazing! My friend mike said he saw you at the gym today.

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BTW How Old Are U and Him ?

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I'm 20 he is 26!

He's just being casual...and/or checking up on you. lol

Posted by tbird
He's just being casual...and/or checking up on you. lol

I like casual, I can do casual. Hahah.

If he said his friend saw you at the gym then you came up in conversation Between the two of them. That's a good sign that he's interested. Some people obviously don't read everything. Either that or they are blinded by their own negativity. I believe you said HE mentioned a second date!

::::shakes head::::

Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
If he said his friend saw you at the gym then you came up in conversation Between the two of them. That's a good sign that he's interested. Some people obviously don't read everything. Either that or they are blinded by their own negativity. I believe you said HE mentioned a second date!

::::shakes head::::

Please don't shake your head at me! My whole life I've told myself I'm not good enough. I have people tell me that any guy would be lucky to have me but I retreat because of my own negativity. Trust me I know! Its frustrating for me. Hahah. Its almost an impulse. If I retreat and tell myself that he couldn't possibly be interested, then I won't get hurt. Super silly, super pathetic, but super habitual. I'm working on it. I never would have messaged him but I'm working on making myself do things that are out of my comfort zone.

He did mention a second date, but it was as I was about to exit his car. Its the right thing to say, its filler in any date situation. You're not going to say goodbye to someone "Okay bye!" you're going to say "We should hang out again" because its the right thing to say. I've always looked into what they do AFTER, when they aren't so obligated.

I always use the filler I had fun, but I can see that being one too. Well he texted you back that's a good sign so take it from there.

Not shaking my head at you hon! I think you're adorable and I can see that you have your head on straight. He would be lucky to have you. I wasn't referring to you.

I replied, he made a joke, and then I replied again and he read the message and never replied.

I think its safe to say I lost this fish. I tried, sigh.

Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
Not shaking my head at you hon! I think you're adorable and I can see that you have your head on straight. He would be lucky to have you. I wasn't referring to you.

Woops! Well everyone just got an unnecessary explanation. Hahah. Thanks for your help! 🙂

It's hard to know what he's thinking. Just keep it up as casual/friendly. Take the enitiative to get to know him even if as friends. He'll get to know you better and become more comfortable with you. He'll be affectionate with you once you are together in person and be a gentleman if he wants more than friends, if not, he'll still be a great friend to you. Until then when you aren't together, you will be driving yourself crazy wondering what he's thinking. Just go with the flow and contact him just once daily just by saying a simple.....hey....hope you're having a good day today. When he responds then the conversation has a chance to bloom, don't be discouraged that he didn't answer. The conversation has to end by someone. Me and the pisces I've been talking to are still just friends ( he's obviously still very much in love with his deceased wife) some days we don't talk at all, others we can talk for four and six hours. Some days he says goodnight and will wish me sweet dreams and others, he just goes. Either way I always let him know I hope he's doing ok and I'm thinking of him. You're not being vulnerable by doing that if you choose. Don't try to figure him out, just be there, that's all. If it doesn't work out romantically, he'll likely be a great friend who will appreciate yours. I don't think it will be something you'll regret either way. Pisces don't want to hurt you.

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Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
Not shaking my head at you hon! I think you're adorable and I can see that you have your head on straight. He would be lucky to have you. I wasn't referring to you.

Woops! Well everyone just got an unnecessary explanation. Hahah. Thanks for your help! 🙂

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No problem.

Dear Transcendentbull, From one bull to another stuck on a specific fish: There are many, many more in the vast sea of life. 🙂

Cherish the rush of the 'chase' but never forget the enduring power of love and devotion we strive toward. The soul who realizes what you bring to the table won't 'chase' you, they'll embrace you with fervor and zeal.

The journey is fascinating. Who knows what's next? Maybe an apparently steely Capricorn, who in his moment of weakness (while taking a break from reading the fundamentals of engineering) watches you walk by and never forgets your face. R * F * SIN(TE-TA)= Transcendentbull. See? You made him forget the formula for torque.

Maybe a caring Cancer? While playing basketball with his buddies, takes a moment to rest and notices you at the gym. He skitters around you, secretly wishing the ball in his hands was Transcendentbull. As he gets closer, he'll notice you pouting (sad from the loss of a fish that swam too far), and his heart will flutter.

Ah yes, and here comes another dreamy Pisces. For some reason, this fish keeps coming back-- in fact, he stays close to the water's edge. Sitting on your emerald terrain of warmth, you feed this fish every morning without fail. One day, while trying to get a closer look at this fish, you fall into the water. This fish didn't swim away..instead he gave you a magical kiss. He shows you the underwater realm, his dreams..thoughts. The next day, you scoop him up in a secure fishbowl, you show him earth in all it's magnificence. After returning him to the water, the cycle continues-- with the possibility of a lifetime.

Take care 🙂

Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
It's hard to know what he's thinking. Just keep it up as casual/friendly. Take the enitiative to get to know him even if as friends. He'll get to know you better and become more comfortable with you. He'll be affectionate with you once you are together in person and be a gentleman if he wants more than friends, if not, he'll still be a great friend to you. Until then when you aren't together, you will be driving yourself crazy wondering what he's thinking. Just go with the flow and contact him just once daily just by saying a simple.....hey....hope you're having a good day today. When he responds then the conversation has a chance to bloom, don't be discouraged that he didn't answer. The conversation has to end by someone. Me and the pisces I've been talking to are still just friends ( he's obviously still very much in love with his deceased wife) some days we don't talk at all, others we can talk for four and six hours. Some days he says goodnight and will wish me sweet dreams and others, he just goes. Either way I always let him know I hope he's doing ok and I'm thinking of him. You're not being vulnerable by doing that if you choose. Don't try to figure him out, just be there, that's all. If it doesn't work out romantically, he'll likely be a great friend who will appreciate yours. I don't think it will be something you'll regret either way. Pisces don't want to hurt you.

You make complete sense, and I truthfully want to try to do so. It will be a process to message someone each day. I already feel let down by the fact that he blew off my conversation, and so apparently too. It seems as if he is trying to show me that he's not very interested, or that is how my mind keeps interpreting it and I just can't think otherwise. I've got a lot of work to do aha.

I like to give chase when I get the green light ..could be a big venus in Aries influence.The green light is when I know the girl I like likes me.Travelling to her is exciting and adventurous.These days I not as willing to take the fall so fast.I guess it comes from experience that I know to trust my instincts.

Posted by transcendentbull

I think its safe to say I lost this fish. I tried, sigh.

Bullshit .. you put forth zero effort .. that is the opposite of trying.


Pisces tend to not like people who lack drive and passion .... also, you never had him to lose.


I would suggest pretending next time, if you can't find it in you to actually want to show him he is desired ... most signs (non-P's) are so egotistical that they wouldn't realize you're pretending for a long while

I very much agree with P-Angel here......

"You put forth zero effort .. that is the opposite of trying.

Pisces tend to not like people who lack drive and passion "

You gave up before you even started. Pisces want someone who know what she wants and is not afraid to go after it. Someone who will fight for his affections, who is confident and knows her self worth. I think you need an Aries or a Leo. I think you are way too insecure and submissive for a Pisces. This will turn him off. If you really want this guy, you can't take the back seat, you have to show him, plain and simple.

His phone died, he apologized for improper "etiquette" and an untimely reply and I said no worries and that I hoped he was doing well. He's in another city right now working so I don't want to hassle him but I wanted him to know that I was thinking of him.

In the back of my head I completely know that you two are right. I tend to get stubborn and think that I'm putting in enough effort when in reality one simple message isn't going to change the whole scenario. I will continue to message him. P-Angel you're right, you can't lose someone you don't have, and from what you guys has continuously said he won't take my effort as creepy, he'll either be flattered or friendly and respect me. It doesn't seem as scary when I tell myself that over and over again. I woke up with a lot of determination (obviously I have to work on it), this is very weird for me! Hahah.

Actually, no, you would not be very compatible with a Leo or Aries, however you need a partner who will take the lead.

As for you guys: What is too much effort? For a Pisces, is a simple text a day going to send him swimming away? Or is it the very intense bombardment that makes them flighty? Its obviously foreign for me to be chasing someone, but I know that I like him and that I'd like to see if he could potentially like me back, so I've got to try without being too forward.

Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
Actually, no, you would not be very compatible with a Leo or Aries, however you need a partner who will take the lead.

A Virgo or a Capricorn would be suited well for you. You can easily have harmony with a Pisces but you'd have to take more initiative.

You aren't bombarding him unless you are pressuring him by forcing feelings out him, asking him how he feels about you. They appreciate that you are often thinking of them. You can't have too many feelings when it comes to expressing them to a Pisces, they love sentiment and endearing concerns for them. No, once a day will most likely make him smile. They don't get annoyed at people who show care for them. Just people who put too much pressure on them. You'd have to show your ugly rude side and show no compassion for him and others for him to not want to be around you. But, also, if you are too lax with him, he will move on to someone more passionate about him, I guarantee you.

I don't think you can be too forward as long as you are being genuine and classy about it. Just don't ask him what you are to each other, don't label it, just "be". If you aren't that good at taking the lead, don't worry about being too forward, I don't think you can be "too" forward. I am extremely forward. I guess the way I look at it is, I'm not afraid to get my heart broken. If I did everything I could, and I don't succeed then it wasn't meant to be.

Posted by transcendentbull
He won't take my effort as creepy, he'll either be flattered or friendly and respect me.

Precisely

I want!!!! I for one do not find then exhausting but very much worth the fight. Will my efforts pay off? Donno, but I enjoy the time I do have with him. He's trusting me more and more, he now uses my name every time he contacts me, he signs his name with an xo and sometime even spells out the whole words hugs and kisses. Right now it means no more than I am cosidered a worthy friend, not just an acquaintance. We are building a good foundation, be it great friends or otherwise. It's all good. Just enjoy him.

H and PA do have a point here luv. Don't take it harshly.

I thought imagining the worst was a trait that pisces have a knack for but most others do not. I guess taurus possess this trait as well. Anywho.

I'll tell you one thing a guy who has a "I don't give a damn" or "make your own path" attitude but goes out of his way for you is SO freaking sexy. I can't stress that enough. Esp with guys that don't talk as much but will with you for hours. Makes a person feel all special, giggly, mushy, and googly at the same time. Oh my stars *cups face with both hands*

I will add that a guy/girl doesn't have to have that I'm the shite, you know you want this air about them. To me that is a huge turn off. Pff whatever. That's why Leos/Aires wouldn't work for this fish. A person who is secure about themselves and someone can be shy. I think shyness is adorable. I just want to pick you up give you a big ol' hug and put you in my pocket so we can cuddle later. But a person needs to be able to go after what you want cause as a pisces your gonna have to step up to us. We will show you we like you and if you don't reciprocate to our liking. Bye-bye. This could mean tons of stuff or it could be only one thing. Every fish is the same. I knew a male fish who dropped the girl he liked cause she didn't say bless you when she sneezed. He thought she was selfish. Now keep in mind he was on the fence about her anyways. Some things will not tolerate. If you don't pass our, I wouldn't say test but I can't think of another word to call it, we are done.

Also with merfolk like other signs (Virgo, Aqua, Scorp) our minds WANDER, oh my goodness it wanders. Try having a conversation with us...a very long one. If you notice we will start on a topic half way we switch, go to another subject then end up right back to the original subject. We must be able to keep up and not all us crazy. It's not that we lack focus we are just all over the map mentally. We have to keep our minds stimulated. If you see a merfolk just in a daze, he's thinking/dreaming of something. Guaranteed!

@nights: bahahaha. You do have a point there. I mean aquas wouldn't want someone clingy. You want someone to be on their own, have their own lives. Tis what merfolk do. I mean we think about the ones we care about (sometimes way too often) but we give you your space. Unless you mean we are flaky in the aspect of when you're ready for us to come around we don't? But if you put us on the back burner for too long. Yeah we are going to be done and swim away and mirror you and put you on the back burner. You get what you give. Mirroring is so huge for merfolk.

@trans: Again H is right your not being scary. You won't scare him off. Now I will say what's scary is if you tell us your going to be our princess and love us to the day we die and all we have to do is hold your hand and you will be there and comfort us til our dying day. Now this is fine to say and will be appreciated once an actual relationship (loving relationship) has been started by both partners but if you say this and you aren't there yet. I will scare the shite out of us. Eeep.

Your cool with what your doing. Even long conversations everyday for 12 months in a row isn't going to scare us. Just means you both can talk and have a lot of things in common. I see nothing wrong with that dear. Don't fret! We can pick up on that! Just sayin...