Pisces Ex Has Come Back

Posted by AeshK

I’ve known my Pisces ex (Pisces sun, Taurus moon, Venus in Aquarius, Mars in Scorpio) for a decade now. I’m a Gemini (Gemini sun, Virgo Moon, Venus in Gemini, Mars in Aries). We were together on and off for 5 years (never went all the way). He never committed and disappeared on me for a year (moved to a different country for work). I met someone and got married (moved to the same country he had moved to). Right after I got married he got in touch to ask if I was happy. Since then we’ve spoken on and off. We met a total of two times. Then he got married. We weren’t in touch for 9 months - I’d decided to let him go for good. Now he’s messaging again and wants to meet. He’s told me he’s unhappy in his marriage. He told me for the first time in the 5 years we weren’t together that he likes me and has liked me for ten years and that he’s here for me always. I love him but he’s hurt me so much that I’m very cautious of his intentions. I have two kids now. He’s also said something along the lines that we have to accept what God planned for us and that it wasn’t in our fate to be together. I feel like he just made all the wrong decisions. I’m literally willing to risk everything for him. Please can someone help me decipher if he’s using me as a rebound (he always swims back to me after failed relationships and stays in touch even during his relationships). Who here has experience with Pisces sun, Taurus moon? I need to know if I’m being played. Does he just want to sleep with me?

Posted by besarlalluvia

I don't understand why u both got married so quickly after

Is something wrong with staying single and fixing ur baggage?

Even just a small bf/gf if you had to rebound that badly

Posted by Mactavish_R

If you both had feelings for each other then why the fuck did you both got married so quickly and you even had kids?

This is a classic Pisces x Gemini love story, full on one moment and full cold the other, I've had a fair share of these myself.

I would've advised you to give him a chance IF you weren't married and had kids, but now you do, so stop this classic Gemini bs and focus on your children and being a good mother for them.

Posted by Arielle83

Create boundaries and tell him he’s crossing the line.

It never worked out before, and you’re always there for him to fall back on.

He’s bored in his marriage and being nostalgic.

Yet it never worked.

He’s creating a fantasy to draw u into sentimentality.

You have two kids.

Don’t deconstruct all that because of some selfish Pisces.

I’d be furious if someone told me they have feelings for me considering our past and what exists in our present.

He’s planting the seed.

Don’t water it or give it any light.

Posted by AeshK

He’s also said something along the lines that we have to accept what God planned for us and that it wasn’t in our fate to be together.

I’m literally willing to risk everything for him.



I need to know if I’m being played. Does he just want to sleep with me?

Posted by pisceswoman123

I am Pisces sun, Taurus moon.

That he has always liked you like he says and that he contacts you doesn’t mean that he wants you totally in his life.

He feels comfortable with you and he miss you when things goes wrong in his life, but that is not the same as wanting to be completely serious with you.

Don’t risk your life and everything you have built because of him.

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Posted by Mactavish_R

If you both had feelings for each other then why the fuck did you both got married so quickly and you even had kids?

This is a classic Pisces x Gemini love story, full on one moment and full cold the other, I've had a fair share of these myself.

I would've advised you to give him a chance IF you weren't married and had kids, but now you do, so stop this classic Gemini bs and focus on your children and being a good mother for them.

He disappeared on me! I waited a year for him. I can’t get him off my mind. I know I should be focusing on my marriage and this sounds like a major risk but I don’t want to end up with a regret either. At the same time I can’t trust him because of his past behavior.

You are giving him all the power and you make your actions dependant on his.

Nobody deserves to have this much power over you, especially when he is not showing any signs of being serious or wanting to fight for you. Take back control over your life. Think about what you have now and what that means to you. I feel the regret will outweigh the consequences of that huge risk you are willing to take.

There's no guarantee that this man will choose you. Maybe think about that for a second. And what you are throwing away by choosing him.

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Posted by saggurl88

You’re thinking about stepping out on your marriage cause this wishy-washy guy finally told you something you wanted to hear?

And you already know the outcome?

He ruined his marriage and your relationship years ago, and now you’re willing to let him make you miserable and ruin your marriage as well?

Leave his wandering ass to his own devices. Don’t let him mess up your life. He ain’t it.

He is the same person you once knew. Nothings changed.

Posted by Skeleton

You need to straight your boundaries right for yourself.

It's always swimming away from him plus you told him that you can't trust him and you're right. He's now looking for a rebound to escape away.

Imagine what he will do behind his wife now while he's wanting you more. (if that's the case, imagine what he did while he disappeared on you)

No more hope, no more expectation. That false feeling of yours for him is nothing but mere fantasy. Right now be happy with your current life.

Posted by Arielle83

Create boundaries and tell him he’s crossing the line.

It never worked out before, and you’re always there for him to fall back on.

He’s bored in his marriage and being nostalgic.

Yet it never worked.

He’s creating a fantasy to draw u into sentimentality.

You have two kids.

Don’t deconstruct all that because of some selfish Pisces.

I’d be furious if someone told me they have feelings for me considering our past and what exists in our present.

He’s planting the seed.

Don’t water it or give it any light.

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Posted by Mactavish_R

If you both had feelings for each other then why the fuck did you both got married so quickly and you even had kids?

This is a classic Pisces x Gemini love story, full on one moment and full cold the other, I've had a fair share of these myself.

I would've advised you to give him a chance IF you weren't married and had kids, but now you do, so stop this classic Gemini bs and focus on your children and being a good mother for them.

He disappeared on me! I waited a year for him. I can’t get him off my mind. I know I should be focusing on my marriage and this sounds like a major risk but I don’t want to end up with a regret either. At the same time I can’t trust him because of his past behavior.

You are giving him all the power and you make your actions dependant on his.

Nobody deserves to have this much power over you, especially when he is not showing any signs of being serious or wanting to fight for you. Take back control over your life. Think about what you have now and what that means to you. I feel the regret will outweigh the consequences of that huge risk you are willing to take.

There's no guarantee that this man will choose you. Maybe think about that for a second. And what you are throwing away by choosing him.

I completely agree with you. I’d never hurt my husband or children. Just needed to know if he was genuine but I don’t think so.

What if he is genuine?

Would that influence your decision?

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Posted by Mactavish_R

If you both had feelings for each other then why the fuck did you both got married so quickly and you even had kids?

This is a classic Pisces x Gemini love story, full on one moment and full cold the other, I've had a fair share of these myself.

I would've advised you to give him a chance IF you weren't married and had kids, but now you do, so stop this classic Gemini bs and focus on your children and being a good mother for them.

He disappeared on me! I waited a year for him. I can’t get him off my mind. I know I should be focusing on my marriage and this sounds like a major risk but I don’t want to end up with a regret either. At the same time I can’t trust him because of his past behavior.

You are giving him all the power and you make your actions dependant on his.

Nobody deserves to have this much power over you, especially when he is not showing any signs of being serious or wanting to fight for you. Take back control over your life. Think about what you have now and what that means to you. I feel the regret will outweigh the consequences of that huge risk you are willing to take.

There's no guarantee that this man will choose you. Maybe think about that for a second. And what you are throwing away by choosing him.

I completely agree with you. I’d never hurt my husband or children. Just needed to know if he was genuine but I don’t think so.

What if he is genuine?

Would that influence your decision?

I haven’t seen anything yet that would show me he’s genuine. He’s been persistent all these years. Looking at it from a logical perspective we don’t have a future. We’d really have to fight to be together considering we have spouses and I have kids. He is my weakness though and as much as I try, I can’t hate him. I’m too forgiving but only when it comes to him. We’ve had so many incidents where fate has made us bump into each other. I always feel like there’s something more. Like we’re meant to be but the timing isn’t right. I don’t know if I make sense and sound like a complete lunatic. Getting back to your question, if he is genuine then yes it may influence my decision. I don’t want a friend with benefits kind of situation though. I’d want something more solid. Wishful thinking, sigh!

I know!

It's hard because you can look at this rationally and emotionally. If you use logic, there will always be that nagging feeling of "what if....?". If you approach this emotionally, then marriages get broken up, families torn apart and so on. It's a matter of heart vs head....

And you could end up in a situation where both of you are waiting for the other to end the marriage, but none of you really takes that step. You will be each others "one that got away".

And you know why that is? It's because you have to leave your marriage because your heart tells you to do so, not because this Pisces guy is hanging around and triggering things within you. Ask yourself if you would stay if this guy was not in your life.

If fate keeps bringing you together, you can sit him down and talk to him about it. The timing may be off, but you never know when is the right time. If he is meant for you, he will be back in your life again, but this time in a more mature way.

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Posted by AeshK

I’ve known my Pisces ex (Pisces sun, Taurus moon, Venus in Aquarius, Mars in Scorpio) for a decade now. I’m a Gemini (Gemini sun, Virgo Moon, Venus in Gemini, Mars in Aries). We were together on and off for 5 years (never went all the way). He never committed and disappeared on me for a year (moved to a different country for work). I met someone and got married (moved to the same country he had moved to). Right after I got married he got in touch to ask if I was happy. Since then we’ve spoken on and off. We met a total of two times. Then he got married. We weren’t in touch for 9 months - I’d decided to let him go for good. Now he’s messaging again and wants to meet. He’s told me he’s unhappy in his marriage. He told me for the first time in the 5 years we weren’t together that he likes me and has liked me for ten years and that he’s here for me always. I love him but he’s hurt me so much that I’m very cautious of his intentions. I have two kids now. He’s also said something along the lines that we have to accept what God planned for us and that it wasn’t in our fate to be together. I feel like he just made all the wrong decisions. I’m literally willing to risk everything for him. Please can someone help me decipher if he’s using me as a rebound (he always swims back to me after failed relationships and stays in touch even during his relationships). Who here has experience with Pisces sun, Taurus moon? I need to know if I’m being played. Does he just want to sleep with me?