Pisces Male, Cancer Female. (Page 2)

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@LunarMaiden
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by DAMEN VI

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Posted by DAMEN VI

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Posted by DAMEN VI
my gf is a cancer, and we've been together for over 5 years..

Are you and your Cancer lady still together?

yup, amazingly..this year so far has definetly been a ruff one thou

Congratulations! What's the problem south sider?

ever heard of the phrase "7 year itch"? well, i think both of us are going thru it right now lol

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I've heard of it, usually it's applied to married couples. Are you guys married? She's probably wondering when that ring will show up. I guess it's time to rekindle the romance.

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@ScorpioFish
15 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by P-Angel
since we won't fight for you .. we won't compete. He would just likely swim away without further ado, regardless of how he feels about you.

Speak for yourself, please Dear.

I would put an asshole through a plate glass window 50 stories up if I found out he was pursuing my woman.

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@TaurusBull1977
17 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by P-Angel

Another down side to the pairing .. is that a female Cancer doesn't really own her own feelings, and allows every little infraction of what other people say and/or do dictate to her how she is going to feel. And though, I understand this is her way and probably can't help it .. the Pisces is completely different (we detach from hurtful feelings, rather than suffer with them). We own every feeling we have and only allow ourselves to dictate how we are suppose to feel. That may seem like a contriction (own vs. detach) from feelings .. but, this isn't so. Because we put our hurtful feelings on a plane where it is seperated from us .. we still own that place in which these feelings reside, and often talk about objectively.

Great Observation!

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@ShakenNotStirred
13 Years

P-Angel: I haven't quite figured out who a female Cancer should be matched with yet, to tell you the truth.

I've seen more Cancer Woman + Virgo Man couples in R/L than any other Water + Earth pairing.

I would think a Pisces Man & Cancer Woman couple a good match -- so long as he's truthful. I don't mean that Fish Guys lie; but, I have seen them tell things the way they'd like them to be, rather than how they really are, and I think a CW wouldn't like / respect that trait.

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@Misscrab
11 Years

Dear all crab and pisces,
I have never posted anything like this in my life. But right now I need some unbiased opinion about my story.
I am a crab and my two significant relationships are with pisces male.
I can only say that I adored them. The first one was long distance almost got married but he cheated on me and said he didn't love me anymore. I was in real shock from the small cute fish they can become sharks.
The second one omg I can only say that he is the love of my life. I can still feel how much I love him and I feel he loves me too. It's so complicated that I am loosing my mind and weight like crazy.
We both live in the same country met randomly but got really close. Before the end, we were just inseparable only when he had his mood swings which I didn't mind. When we met he said that he has an ex they are separated and they have 3 kids. I believed him. He was on a vacation to visit them I helped him so much with all my heart booked for him the ticket bought gifts for the kids and dropped him at the airport. I got a chance to visit him at the other country because I was working there for 2 days. When I asked him to meet he said he will not be there and cannot decide right now. I was really upset and I broke up with him by sms told him that he was lying I know he is back to his wife and that he should stay with her and the kids and that it was a mistake. He called me from that country and messaged me that they got into a physical fight she broke his phone and that he was in jail. He said that he will contact me but he didn't for almost 2 months. I wrote him so many messages but he was just numb to me. When he got back to his home here he said that we have to meet and at first we almost got back together than he said we have to move apart and that it's his complicated life that he does not have to complicate anymore and that he thinks I did send him that message on purpose and that he was holding a grudge. I tried everything to get back together didn't work out we met couple of times but now he blocked me and he doesn't want to talk anymore and he said that his wife and kids are moving in here with him.
I have no clue what to do I discoverd that his wife has a hormone disease that makes without any sexual desire. I said maybe that's the reason he was cheating on her with me plus the distance. I have no idea why he did this last time I saw him he seemed sad and he kissed me. I just feel that he does still love me but he said something ab

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@cancer68
10 Years

I'm a Cancer, July 16 and met a Pisces, March 3. It was an immediate intense connection in our past and pesent life, likes/dislikes, spiritually and physically. He was the first Pisces I'd ever known and for the 1st 2 months, we felt like we'd met our soul mate. He was attentive, funny, charming, dooting and immediately our bodies when we were intimate would move as one and I can't put into words how magical our bodies reacted to one another.
Being a Cancer, I consciously would not allow myself to verbalize the intensity of my feelings and would make sure not to smoother him. He always reassured me that he cared for me but as I pulled back not to cling to him, he pulled away too. Then there would be 2 days I wouldn't hear from him. We made last minute plans one night and the time got closer and no word from him until I waited 15-20 min and he called and said he had to watch his kids. He acted so aloof to his inconsideration to even call me to cancel. Long story short, I knew I'd regret it but not knowing this signs characteristics, I ended it to protect my feelings and I thought he wasn't interested anymore. He was shocked and all he said was "ouch".
Two days later we spoke and agreed to go out to see a band together and we both went right back to our affectionate and comfortable place like nothing ever happened. Nothing different that evening or when we woke the next morning. He hasn't contacted me or replied to my texts and emails since then.
I miss him deeply and I'm sure my jumping to a negative conclusion that he'll resent me and I'll never know him again.
Can I do anything to let him know how special he was to me without looking like I'm stalking him or clinging? Pisces men...HELP please

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@Marie4lotuslove
9 Years

Posted by P-Angel
I haven't quite figured out who a female Cancer should be matched with yet, to tell you the truth. As much as on one hand, we normally are so different from our polar opposites, that life appears unbearable, then on the other hand .. it's these opposites who have the best ability to tolerate our "bad" sides.

A Pisces man would easily recognize the female Cancer's plans of manipulating him by presenting to him all the other men who are vying for her attention .. which the female Cancer will do. Her aim is to capture him in commitment, preferrably marriage so she will no longer feel insecure about being alone. And she will doso by trying to make him think that men are standing in line to get her, so he better step up to the plate if he wants to be the victor.

And this likely wouldn't go over well with the Pisces, since we won't fight for you .. we won't compete. He would just likely swim away without further ado, regardless of how he feels about you.

Pisces can turn the switch off .. detach.
Whereas, Cancer's are so attached that they latch on, for another to take care of her feelings for her.

Another down side to the pairing .. is that a female Cancer doesn't really own her own feelings, and allows every little infraction of what other people say and/or do dictate to her how she is going to feel. And though, I understand this is her way and probably can't help it .. the Pisces is completely different (we detach from hurtful feelings, rather than suffer with them). We own every feeling we have and only allow ourselves to dictate how we are suppose to feel. That may seem like a contriction (own vs. detach) from feelings .. but, this isn't so. Because we put our hurtful feelings on a plane where it is seperated from us .. we still own that place in which these feelings reside, and often talk about objectively.

So, this might be a huge obstacle in this coupling, for the Pisces man would soon grow weary of the female Cancer always allowing her feelings to get hurt over every little expression that he made, and since they are seperated from him, while still his, he can talk about them without feeling them. And the female Cancer would soon find herself crying all the time because he said hurtful things to her, while he would just stand there, scratching his head .. he was talking about them as though they were an object, so shouldn't be taken subjectively by her.

This forum is retarded and it's just as retarded as your comment, P-Angel. Youre stereotyping "pisces" and "cancers". Horoscopes are for dumbasses who put people in groups based on their birthdays because they can't cope with how different individuals are. They don't understand the concept of different people so they stereotype. So congratulations. You have the mind of a racist. You obviously don't have a very high IQ. No offence, honey.