Pisces man problems please help!!!

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Damnata
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"So I met this guy 8 months ago and we just clicked on every level he is without doubt my soul mate and my best friend as well as my lover... The main problem is he's 22 and I'm 32 with a 6yr old little boy to past relationship. Things have always been a bit up and down partly to do with the fact that he has abused steroids for 5yrs :,( and has been seriously damaged by past quite abusive relationships making him so insecure and trust no one. I've been so loyal to him and have literally done everything I can to help this guy but he still questions me. The first time he did his disappearing act it killed me because I just wanted answers and he just wanted to be left alone to have space. He flits constantly between loving me and wanting me and feeling like he isn't sure that the situation is what he wants. I've tried to just walk away on a few occasions but he won't let me he will turn up at my house saying he can't leave me... But he won't fully commit ? What can I do to get this guy to book his ideas up and do what is needed?!... His indecisive flakey personality drives me mad but I'm crazy about him and I know he's crazy about me?!... I'm holding on hoping stuff will change but I can't take much more. I need it just be all or nothing. He did buy me a ring and tells me he loves me on a daily basis but recently I found out he was on facebook behind my back with no mention of me?! Almost living the double life... What the hell is he playing at and what is going on? What can I do... Please help "

Yeah, without a doubt indeed.
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Posted by Aquagirl1
Damanata - thank you for reposting I don't know what happened...

And p-Angel? .... Not sure how you quite came to that conclusion not reading the full story?


lol



The fact that you are incapable of grasping this simple concept pretty much sums it all up.

There's no doubt every person you encounter who has more than one brain cell comes to the same conclusion once you tell them, "soul mate" and then proceed to describe the opposite.

I'm just the only one who dares to call you out for your ridiculousness because everyone else is too worried about their image to engage in real talk.

You have fun in your delusion ..... I'm sure it's quite nice, all fuzzy and ignorant and all.

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Wow what a cunt you are sorry but maybe your the one with more problems than mine been as your on a forum slating me at 57yrs old? Haha... after reading what is quite a small paragraph, I've not told you all the good parts to my relationship just the ones I wanted advice on... Deluded? ? ... Don't comment again please, you can't even call that constructive criticism your just nasty!
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Posted by Damnata
"So I met this guy 8 months ago and we just clicked on every level he is without doubt my soul mate and my best friend as well as my lover... The main problem is he's 22 and I'm 32 with a 6yr old little boy to past relationship. Things have always been a bit up and down partly to do with the fact that he has abused steroids for 5yrs :,( and has been seriously damaged by past quite abusive relationships making him so insecure and trust no one. I've been so loyal to him and have literally done everything I can to help this guy but he still questions me. The first time he did his disappearing act it killed me because I just wanted answers and he just wanted to be left alone to have space. He flits constantly between loving me and wanting me and feeling like he isn't sure that the situation is what he wants. I've tried to just walk away on a few occasions but he won't let me he will turn up at my house saying he can't leave me... But he won't fully commit ? What can I do to get this guy to book his ideas up and do what is needed?!... His indecisive flakey personality drives me mad but I'm crazy about him and I know he's crazy about me?!... I'm holding on hoping stuff will change but I can't take much more. I need it just be all or nothing. He did buy me a ring and tells me he loves me on a daily basis but recently I found out he was on facebook behind my back with no mention of me?! Almost living the double life... What the hell is he playing at and what is going on? What can I do... Please help "

Yeah, without a doubt indeed.


lol, I know right.
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Damnata
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Posted by Nemilicious
you are making it harder for yourself by sugar coating a dysfunctional "relationship" .... of course this happens to justify one's own part in it.

you son of a bitch she said; i am trying to build a meaningful

relationship.

you can't build it with a hammer,

he said.

bukowski
“Love is a battle," said Marie-Claude, still smiling. "And I plan to go on fighting. To the end."

Love is a battle?" said Franz. "Well, I don't feel at all like fighting." And he left.”

― Milan Kundera, The Unbearable Lightness of Being