Pisces man Scorpio Woman - He played me?

Can a Pisces man kiss you, hold you in his arms, tell you you're beautiful, hold your hand for hours, and stare at you all night, only to ignore you the next day?

I'm slightly hurt.

lol

Why lol?

I texted him, he never replied 😉

What makes you think that one day of no-contact = avoidance? This is what women do that drives themselves and others up a wall. We try to psyche HIM out, psyche out THE RELATIONSHIP after a date or a few dates, a kiss, a hot connection. You can't do that. Gotta go with the flow in the beginning cuz it could go anywhere or nowhere. And with Pisces men in particular, I find you have to gentle and very patient. They are intense and sometimes the strength of those feelings are too much for them and they need to go into their man cave and chill out. Don't read anything into one day of no contact.

Posted by LostinPhilly
I texted him, he never replied 😉

Leave it at that, and move on. If a man wants you in his life, he'll make it known.

I have dated two Pisces men. One was my first relationship. I dated him for five years from age 17-22 and my current boyfriend is a Pisces. I really wont take my first boyfriend into account because we were both young and dumb. With my current boyfriend, although there are times when he likes his personal space, he is vocal about it and I know what is going on. Never has he just not responded. Then again, I do not contact him a lot. Even at 10 months into our relationship, I do not contact him a lot. One because I am really busy and two because he contacts me before I get a chance to pick up the phone and send him a text most times. Ding, ding, ding! And there's your answer. Allow room for some mystery.

You're a Scorpio. Play your position. Lol. You kissed him, shared an enjoyable moment with him. Now, allow him to come after you. From my experience, Pisces men do not like women who are smothering or appear to be needy because they are somewhat needy themselves. Yet, they have a desire for freedom. A smothering woman is not compatible with either. Not to say you are smothering him. However, your impatience and focused energy on him might APPEAR to him as a women who has the potential to be. So, relax. Do whatever you were doing the day before you met. Resume to business as normal. Try to stop thinking about him or exerting any energy on him. Let him be. Let him swim. If you really put it on him, he will be back for more. If not, his loss.

*as a woman

I never text him actually

I text him maybe once a week to talk about plans. I just texted him today because we had a date last night and it was just a flirtatious text. I wasn't asking him about his day or anything. I told him I'm not a big texter myself so he certainly can't expect me to text every single day, for sure!

I was just like "Hope we can finish what we started next time we see each other" (we mainly had light foreplay) so I'm surprised he never responded! I mean, I gave him an open invitation, and I got nothing in return. He wanted to take me to his house, but I told him I wanted to make him sweat a little (jokingly).

It could very well be he is busy, has phone issues or whatever, but I'm feeling slightly embarrassed that I put myself out there, and he didn't even get bother getting the hint.

Pisces and Phones have nothing in common even if they start with the same letter.

Yep, tried to text him again, no response. Next I suppose!

Leave it be and don't take it personal. Who knows what he has going on. The more you agonize over it, the more needy or unnerved you might come across when you finally do speak with him.

Think this:
Calm and confident. Calm and confident. I am calm and confident.

Go on about your business. Do not feel embarrassed. You are a grown woman. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. Just do not continue to put yourself out there. Leave it alone and allow him the space to come back to you. Pisces men are intuitive. They can feel when a women is pinning away for them and when she is carefree, independent, happy and living her life. I cant lie. I used to get a little anxious about my boyfriend in the beginning. Ask DJ Buck. Lol. The minute I realized that he would be a fool to walk away I felt my own anxiety decrease and I went on with MY life and sure enough he followed right after me. You want to make sure that any man you date is putting in the effort to fit in your world not the other way around.

Be calm. Stay collected. Move on with it and smile. Everything will work out as it should. 😉

I'm done 🙂 He clearly was only in it for sex. I texted him something along the lines of "come over" and he responded, but when I started talking about last night, he backed off.

D-Bag all the way. Karma's a bitch.

DONE! Next!

I texted him and asked him if he wanted to sleep with me tonight, he responded, of course!

Posted by IrresistableScorp
WTF??

Good luck honey

Nah, I'm just going to ignore him from now on, and pretend it was a drunk text.

Translation

I went on 1 date with a Pisces. When he didn't respond to me right away, in the way that I wanted... I sent some "test" texts to try to initiate the kind of response I wanted and gage what he's feeling.... within 24hrs.

You set him up.

Now, you'll never know if he was genuine or not because you tried to control the situation with games.

NEXT!

Posted by shellshocker
Translation

I went on 1 date with a Pisces. When he didn't respond to me right away, in the way that I wanted... I sent some "test" texts to try to initiate the kind of response I wanted and gage what he's feeling.... within 24hrs.

You set him up.

Now, you'll never know if he was genuine or not because you tried to control the situation with games.

NEXT!

We went on 3 dates!

slow your roll!!!

Wait....isn't this the guy u broke up with before, left u, then u went online looking for him again, trying to woo him back—!!!

If so then am not surprised

Oh man I swear I see this kinda resolve outta scorpio women more than any other.... This is of course minus the typical members on this site. This has to be the third or fourth female scorpio... Scorpio women might do best just to stay the hell away from pisces and Aquarius men. For some reason they stop thinking rationally.

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Oh man I swear I see this kinda resolve outta scorpio women more than any other.... This is of course minus the typical members on this site. This has to be the third or fourth female scorpio... Scorpio women might do best just to stay the hell away from pisces and Aquarius men. For some reason they stop thinking rationally.

Umm I beg to differ!! LOL. This behavior is clearly indicative of a lack of maturity and possibly self esteem as well. Mature Scorpio women are introspective and would kick their own as for sending out test texts messages out of temporary stupidity. They wouldn't need a forum of others to do it for them. Lol.

My name is Natural, I am a Scorpio woman, and I do NOT approve this behavior! Bwahaha.

He was the one who came back and tried to win me back. I didn't try to get in touch with him at all.

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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Oh man I swear I see this kinda resolve outta scorpio women more than any other.... This is of course minus the typical members on this site. This has to be the third or fourth female scorpio... Scorpio women might do best just to stay the hell away from pisces and Aquarius men. For some reason they stop thinking rationally.

Umm I beg to differ!! LOL. This behavior is clearly indicative of a lack of maturity and possibly self esteem as well. Mature Scorpio women are introspective and would kick their own as for sending out test texts messages out of temporary stupidity. They wouldn't need a forum of others to do it for them. Lol.

My name is Natural, I am a Scorpio woman, and I do NOT approve this behavior! Bwahaha.

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I agree, I had a temporary moment of stupidity. This plus with the alcohol, not a good mix. I'll probably apologize to him in a few days and move on. At least I know what he's about, but I just can't believe he tried to "win" me back only to have sex with me. I feel used. But anyways.

the lies... the lies!

i have a great memory and I don't need to go back to your previous posts (that you??ve probably conveniently deleted).

Posted by LostinPhilly
He was the one who came back and tried to win me back. I didn't try to get in touch with him at all.

you sent him your new phone number, texted him etc. and then came back and complained that he wasn't contacting you.

and the posts you made about him viewing your profile but not contacting you and your —confusion?? over that. now, I'm sure you did a few other little tricks to get his attention... and when you finally got the date you wanted (the other 2 probably being months ago) you jumped the gun and pulled out your dick. most men don't like penises on women.

yes, I know you leave out details and lie to protect yourself and your emotions. You can't handle them or feeling vulnerable so you??d rather try to save face. i get it, but you should know that you are fooling no one. The sooner you learn that about yourself the sooner you will stop pulling people into your own delusion that you like to disguise as —deep?? and —intense??

I'm sure this thread will disappear shortly...

Posted by LostinPhilly

Can a Pisces man kiss you, hold you in his arms, tell you you're beautiful, hold your hand for hours, and stare at you all night, only to ignore you the next day?

I'm slightly hurt.

Here it is ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ this is exactly what I told all you people.

Posted by shellshocker
the lies... the lies!

i have a great memory and I don't need to go back to your previous posts (that you??ve probably conveniently deleted).

Posted by LostinPhilly
He was the one who came back and tried to win me back. I didn't try to get in touch with him at all.

you sent him your new phone number, texted him etc. and then came back and complained that he wasn't contacting you.

and the posts you made about him viewing your profile but not contacting you and your —confusion?? over that. now, I'm sure you did a few other little tricks to get his attention... and when you finally got the date you wanted (the other 2 probably being months ago) you jumped the gun and pulled out your dick. most men don't like penises on women.

yes, I know you leave out details and lie to protect yourself and your emotions. You can't handle them or feeling vulnerable so you??d rather try to save face. i get it, but you should know that you are fooling no one. The sooner you learn that about yourself the sooner you will stop pulling people into your own delusion that you like to disguise as —deep?? and —intense??

I'm sure this thread will disappear shortly...

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What are you talking about? He checked my profile and contacted me first on that dating website! You're making up an entire story without the consistent details.

When did I mention I was the one who sent me my contacts? I didn't even have his phone number anymore. I deleted the other thread because P-Angel was slagging me. Not because I AM Fucking lying.

He checked my profile once, and came back a couple days later, and then sent me an email. I didn't post about the email because I didn't feel like it. HE then REQUESTED my number and we started talking again.

HE made the first move on me, contacting ME not the other way around. I didn't contact him until HE did. Stop taking things out of context to slag people.

You have no idea what you're talking about. I'm not lying. He contacted me, otherwise, I would have been smart enough to know it's all my fault!

Besides, we went on 3 dates since.

Nevermind about my previous post .... this sounds more like being a case of yous-a-cunt

I know I was an idiot in believing in it, alright. I know. No need to rehash the past, and add fire to the fuel.

Posted by LostinPhilly
I texted him, he never replied 😉

He's probably air guitaring in his room to some records he just found in the dollar bin. Let him detox. It's been a day. Chill out. Womens...

Oh I didn't read the rest of the thread. Just go volunteer somewhere and meet someone in person. Sorry.

Well, I texted him for his birthday, and he never replied! Speaks volume.

Posted by kissmygrits
Oh I didn't read the rest of the thread. Just go volunteer somewhere and meet someone in person. Sorry.

No worries 🙂 He and I went on a couple of dates but I guess the fact that we met online screwed a few things up!

Yeah that stinks. Think of it as a lesson learned.

Posted by LostinPhilly

Speaks volume.

If his actions were able to speak volumes to you then none of your posts on dxp would exist ... you apparently don't own the ability to pick up what even his whispers are implying.

You also appear to lack the ability of being aware of your surroundings ... sad, really, since it's your life being lived while you stand by without noticing.

Posted by shellshocker
Translation

I went on 1 date with a Pisces. When he didn't respond to me right away, in the way that I wanted... I sent some "test" texts to try to initiate the kind of response I wanted and gage what he's feeling.... within 24hrs.

You set him up.

Now, you'll never know if he was genuine or not because you tried to control the situation with games.

NEXT!

+1 we're good at sensing when someone is playing games so he most likely responded that way with the idea of getting off with you one last time before ditching you for good. Wrong move!

Posted by LostinPhilly
Can a Pisces man kiss you, hold you in his arms, tell you you're beautiful, hold your hand for hours, and stare at you all night, only to ignore you the next day?

I'm slightly hurt.

I did almost the exact samething to a scorp chick before..except i didnt tell her she was beautiful,nor did i hold her in my arms or hold held her hand, or even stared at her all night..but i did fuck the shit out of her and didnt call her anymore..she called me a few days later thou, and to my surprise i even remembered her name..so guess she was special to me 🙂