
Oh, thanks 🙂

Posted by hydorahOmg! She took you literally and posted a second thread. lmao... gem'sPosted by TeteCool. Remember to create a new thread every time he texts or stops texting, so that we keep updated on the situation
@Lyse, no sweet at all.
So the last two days he has texted me.
Yesterday it was via game chat. He said: Hola Nerd. I didn't reply cause I saw the text super late.
Today he texted again via phone: How are you? How did your exams go?
I replied nice, he hasn't replied back :/
I'm happy that he is texting tho 😄click to expand


Posted by P-AngelI agree 100 % ..... when I read your post I was pitying this poor pisces.... you are playing games and are interested just because he seems not interested enough (meaning: he is not your slave anymore) i dont understand why all the others think he is cruel and a player........Posted by Tete
.... you enjoy to give love, care and attention ....
... if you dont get it you will act hurt ....
... i was very closed down ....
... im not needy, nor clingy, and was always clear about things being light and fun....
How can you be INTO someone, say such nice things all the time and act accordingly .... and always attentive to my needs.
.... he has not texted me privately and the last we chat he was plain and cold.
.... that sudden change really hurt me and pissed me and im backing off.
.... im smart enough to understand that regardless of the sign, when a man is interested will do what he has to.
Actually, you're not smart at all ... quite stupid, actually.
He has been chasing you, pampering you, filling you to the brim with nice things and being attentive to your needs .... according to your words here, I didn't read any description where you reciprocated in any way. In fact, you made sure to tell us that you remained closed off, and just wanting things to remain light and fun.
the reality here is ... you were playing games with the attention you got from him. And he finally realized that you're not sincere and was just using him for attention.
All of this is actually good for him. Now he can ditch a person like you who gives mixed signals, so he can find a person who is genuine.click to expand

Posted by Pandora101I was/am not playing games with him. Would like to read why you think I'm.Posted by P-AngelI agree 100 % ..... when I read your post I was pitying this poor pisces.... you are playing games and are interested just because he seems not interested enough (meaning: he is not your slave anymore) i dont understand why all the others think he is cruel and a player........Posted by Tete
.... you enjoy to give love, care and attention ....
... if you dont get it you will act hurt ....
... i was very closed down ....
... im not needy, nor clingy, and was always clear about things being light and fun....
How can you be INTO someone, say such nice things all the time and act accordingly .... and always attentive to my needs.
.... he has not texted me privately and the last we chat he was plain and cold.
.... that sudden change really hurt me and pissed me and im backing off.
.... im smart enough to understand that regardless of the sign, when a man is interested will do what he has to.
Actually, you're not smart at all ... quite stupid, actually.
He has been chasing you, pampering you, filling you to the brim with nice things and being attentive to your needs .... according to your words here, I didn't read any description where you reciprocated in any way. In fact, you made sure to tell us that you remained closed off, and just wanting things to remain light and fun.
the reality here is ... you were playing games with the attention you got from him. And he finally realized that you're not sincere and was just using him for attention.
All of this is actually good for him. Now he can ditch a person like you who gives mixed signals, so he can find a person who is genuine.click to expand

Posted by Pandora101I don't get why people think he's cruel and a player either ... when it's obvious that she's the one who was playing him.Posted by P-AngelI agree 100 % ..... when I read your post I was pitying this poor pisces.... you are playing games and are interested just because he seems not interested enough (meaning: he is not your slave anymore) i dont understand why all the others think he is cruel and a player........Posted by Tete
.... you enjoy to give love, care and attention ....
... if you dont get it you will act hurt ....
... i was very closed down ....
... im not needy, nor clingy, and was always clear about things being light and fun....
How can you be INTO someone, say such nice things all the time and act accordingly .... and always attentive to my needs.
.... he has not texted me privately and the last we chat he was plain and cold.
.... that sudden change really hurt me and pissed me and im backing off.
.... im smart enough to understand that regardless of the sign, when a man is interested will do what he has to.
Actually, you're not smart at all ... quite stupid, actually.
He has been chasing you, pampering you, filling you to the brim with nice things and being attentive to your needs .... according to your words here, I didn't read any description where you reciprocated in any way. In fact, you made sure to tell us that you remained closed off, and just wanting things to remain light and fun.
the reality here is ... you were playing games with the attention you got from him. And he finally realized that you're not sincere and was just using him for attention.
All of this is actually good for him. Now he can ditch a person like you who gives mixed signals, so he can find a person who is genuine.click to expand

Posted by P-AngelI don't think it was blind support, but the fact that even tho he was like that, at the same time he said things like he wasn't looking for anything, etc.Posted by Pandora101I don't get why people think he's cruel and a player either ... when it's obvious that she's the one who was playing him.Posted by P-AngelI agree 100 % ..... when I read your post I was pitying this poor pisces.... you are playing games and are interested just because he seems not interested enough (meaning: he is not your slave anymore) i dont understand why all the others think he is cruel and a player........Posted by Tete
.... you enjoy to give love, care and attention ....
... if you dont get it you will act hurt ....
... i was very closed down ....
... im not needy, nor clingy, and was always clear about things being light and fun....
How can you be INTO someone, say such nice things all the time and act accordingly .... and always attentive to my needs.
.... he has not texted me privately and the last we chat he was plain and cold.
.... that sudden change really hurt me and pissed me and im backing off.
.... im smart enough to understand that regardless of the sign, when a man is interested will do what he has to.
Actually, you're not smart at all ... quite stupid, actually.
He has been chasing you, pampering you, filling you to the brim with nice things and being attentive to your needs .... according to your words here, I didn't read any description where you reciprocated in any way. In fact, you made sure to tell us that you remained closed off, and just wanting things to remain light and fun.
the reality here is ... you were playing games with the attention you got from him. And he finally realized that you're not sincere and was just using him for attention.
All of this is actually good for him. Now he can ditch a person like you who gives mixed signals, so he can find a person who is genuine.
He gave and gave, and in her own words, "always attentive to my needs" ... while she, according to her own words was, "i was very closed down"
And people come in here to tell her that he's the fucked up one. It's because of blind support like that as to why people are so messed up .... every person, except a few, are too afraid of telling another the truth.
it's a shameclick to expand


Posted by TeteYou're cute but when people go out with you and say they aren't looking for anything it generally means they're shy and waiting for you to validate their feelings, don't be an autist pls thx
I don't think it was blind support, but the fact that even tho he was like that, at the same time he said things like he wasn't looking for anything, etc.
and that's why I'm telling you I was not playing games with him and wasn't making him my 'slave'. I like him, showed him and reciprocated his attention. But, yes I kept my emotions 'under control'.
How to handle a Pisces that show so much care and then goes telling, like thinking out loud, 'you should tell that I'm your next two weeks guy'?
Look, I have no problem hearing the truth, or being made fun of like the Pisces and the Aries did on this thread.
What I would like is to hear the truth and an honest advice, if you have any to give. He could be feeling like that, liked I played him, and I don't want him to think so or feel that way cause that was not what I was doing.

Posted by hydorahI think it depends on the person's culture/perception as to "what they mean". If someone were to say that to me(and they have) I would think, ok they are being upfront about not wanting anything...and generally that is the case. Tete did what anyone unsure of the other person's genuine intentions, as is smart. Leave her be.Posted by TeteYou're cute but when people go out with you and say they aren't looking for anything it generally means they're shy and waiting for you to validate their feelings, don't be an autist pls thx
I don't think it was blind support, but the fact that even tho he was like that, at the same time he said things like he wasn't looking for anything, etc.
and that's why I'm telling you I was not playing games with him and wasn't making him my 'slave'. I like him, showed him and reciprocated his attention. But, yes I kept my emotions 'under control'.
How to handle a Pisces that show so much care and then goes telling, like thinking out loud, 'you should tell that I'm your next two weeks guy'?
Look, I have no problem hearing the truth, or being made fun of like the Pisces and the Aries did on this thread.
What I would like is to hear the truth and an honest advice, if you have any to give. He could be feeling like that, liked I played him, and I don't want him to think so or feel that way cause that was not what I was doing.click to expand

Posted by TeteACTUALLY, you have nothing positive or productive to say P-Angel, so why don't you just ACTUALLY shut your damn mouse trap already!Posted by piranhaparadiiseYes, as days go by and my emotions are getting calmed down i can see things more clear, Last night i was thinking that yes, i can not keep seeing/thinking that he gave me mixed signals, he was just nice and sweet and living the moment we had together best way he knows and enjoy it.Posted by Tete. i was clear about what it all was. traveling companions with benefits lets call it (yet he treated me like his GF) and i was ok and comfortable about it, never attaching myself to him to avoid the heartbreaks.You were ok with being traveling companions with benefits,
what you are doing is looking into it more then what it is, it is you that is creating false hope.
There are Pisces or rather man and women out there that like the companionship without wanting much more.
He is not confusing nor giving mixed signals, it is you that is placing expectations on him because you feel with some of his interactions with you,it would make you think he wants more than what was said at the beginning, travel companions with benefits.
Unless he comes out saying he wants a relationship {doubtful for long distance - Pisces don't do well for long)click to expand

Posted by Moonbutterit depends on the context of course but it seems it was the cas there, and it's easy to get the context if you pay attentionPosted by hydorahI think it depends on the person's culture/perception as to "what they mean". If someone were to say that to me(and they have) I would think, ok they are being upfront about not wanting anything...and generally that is the case. Tete did what anyone unsure of the other person's genuine intentions, as is smart. Leave her be.Posted by TeteYou're cute but when people go out with you and say they aren't looking for anything it generally means they're shy and waiting for you to validate their feelings, don't be an autist pls thx
I don't think it was blind support, but the fact that even tho he was like that, at the same time he said things like he wasn't looking for anything, etc.
and that's why I'm telling you I was not playing games with him and wasn't making him my 'slave'. I like him, showed him and reciprocated his attention. But, yes I kept my emotions 'under control'.
How to handle a Pisces that show so much care and then goes telling, like thinking out loud, 'you should tell that I'm your next two weeks guy'?
Look, I have no problem hearing the truth, or being made fun of like the Pisces and the Aries did on this thread.
What I would like is to hear the truth and an honest advice, if you have any to give. He could be feeling like that, liked I played him, and I don't want him to think so or feel that way cause that was not what I was doing.click to expand

Posted by hydorahExcept you were speaking in general terms...and a bit condescending if I might add.Posted by Moonbutterit depends on the context of course but it seems it was the cas there, and it's easy to get the context if you pay attentionPosted by hydorahI think it depends on the person's culture/perception as to "what they mean". If someone were to say that to me(and they have) I would think, ok they are being upfront about not wanting anything...and generally that is the case. Tete did what anyone unsure of the other person's genuine intentions, as is smart. Leave her be.Posted by TeteYou're cute but when people go out with you and say they aren't looking for anything it generally means they're shy and waiting for you to validate their feelings, don't be an autist pls thx
I don't think it was blind support, but the fact that even tho he was like that, at the same time he said things like he wasn't looking for anything, etc.
and that's why I'm telling you I was not playing games with him and wasn't making him my 'slave'. I like him, showed him and reciprocated his attention. But, yes I kept my emotions 'under control'.
How to handle a Pisces that show so much care and then goes telling, like thinking out loud, 'you should tell that I'm your next two weeks guy'?
Look, I have no problem hearing the truth, or being made fun of like the Pisces and the Aries did on this thread.
What I would like is to hear the truth and an honest advice, if you have any to give. He could be feeling like that, liked I played him, and I don't want him to think so or feel that way cause that was not what I was doing.click to expand

Posted by hydorahI agreePosted by TeteYou're cute but when people go out with you and say they aren't looking for anything it generally means they're shy and waiting for you to validate their feelings, don't be an autist pls thx
I don't think it was blind support, but the fact that even tho he was like that, at the same time he said things like he wasn't looking for anything, etc.
and that's why I'm telling you I was not playing games with him and wasn't making him my 'slave'. I like him, showed him and reciprocated his attention. But, yes I kept my emotions 'under control'.
How to handle a Pisces that show so much care and then goes telling, like thinking out loud, 'you should tell that I'm your next two weeks guy'?
Look, I have no problem hearing the truth, or being made fun of like the Pisces and the Aries did on this thread.
What I would like is to hear the truth and an honest advice, if you have any to give. He could be feeling like that, liked I played him, and I don't want him to think so or feel that way cause that was not what I was doing.click to expand

Posted by Pandora101I don't find this to be a "concept" and I am a Cancer...so please enlighten me...how does this convo proceed? I would like to know as well for myself when someone says they are "not looking for anything".Posted by hydorahI agreePosted by TeteYou're cute but when people go out with you and say they aren't looking for anything it generally means they're shy and waiting for you to validate their feelings, don't be an autist pls thx
I don't think it was blind support, but the fact that even tho he was like that, at the same time he said things like he wasn't looking for anything, etc.
and that's why I'm telling you I was not playing games with him and wasn't making him my 'slave'. I like him, showed him and reciprocated his attention. But, yes I kept my emotions 'under control'.
How to handle a Pisces that show so much care and then goes telling, like thinking out loud, 'you should tell that I'm your next two weeks guy'?
Look, I have no problem hearing the truth, or being made fun of like the Pisces and the Aries did on this thread.
What I would like is to hear the truth and an honest advice, if you have any to give. He could be feeling like that, liked I played him, and I don't want him to think so or feel that way cause that was not what I was doing.
but for the OP as a gemini it may be a hard concept to grasp, no offenceclick to expand
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