Four years ago, I me an amazing Pisces guy. It was a long distance relationship. Only a couple of hours apart. The first 2 years were great. Year 3, he starts pushing away. Year 4, he gets married. I let it go. One day, out of the blue, he calls and tells me that he made a mistake and that he's miserable. I really didn't know what to do with that. I especially didn't know why he would call me - the person he pushed away. I told him at the time that if he was unhappy he needed to get out, that no one deserves to be miserable.. I know he's afraid that people will think he failed. Recently, he wanted to see me. After a couple of weeks, I gave in and met him. He was overly happy to see me. I hadn't seen that much sparkle in his eyes since the first year we were together. We talked for about an hour, but nothing was brought up about his situation. I didn't feel that it was my place to bring it up. I will literally never turn a friend in need away, and I know that one day he will go off the deep end and I am pretty good at calming him down, so I won't shut him out completely. Yes, he really hurt me. He's not a bad person, but he does make bad decisions. My question is why, after hurting me the way he did, is he coming to me and in that one hour, treating the best he had since that first year?
