Pisces widower

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This man is 55. He is actively looking for a partner. We thought his wife had been dead for a long time but he said it’s been 3 months!

And he is all devastated because today is her BDay and he is acting like she was love of his life...crying even...and chasing women...

What is this? Normal?

His moon Libra

Mars Pisces



He is a waiter in my fav restaurant...

So no crazy talk please...
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Posted by -sierra-

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so uhh you wanna date him?


Yeah...I want Scorp/Gem/Pisces sandwich! Lmao

Nooooo! My friend likes him. Now she is like 👀👀👀...

3 months and he is ready to move on? Which is fine...but making a scene about loving his wife SO much...I find it strange.


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She is a Taurus but I don’t think it matters if he is a clown!
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Posted by -sierra-

so uhh you wanna date him?


Yeah...I want Scorp/Gem/Pisces sandwich! Lmao

Nooooo! My friend likes him. Now she is like 👀👀👀...

3 months and he is ready to move on? Which is fine...but making a scene about loving his wife SO much...I find it strange.


Maybe he feels guilt about being ready to move on. I mean, you’re judging him. He’s making sure people know that he loved his wife but he’s not a spring chicken and he still wants to experience life and love.
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I am not judging him. I just don’t want her to end up with someone who will be talking about his wife all the time...

And if he loves her that much - wouldn’t he take longer to grieve? He is in business with people. Notnlike he is alone completely.

And he is working a lot!
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Posted by Mhmmm

Men are different than women when it comes to becoming widows. Most older men crave companionship and generally tend to put themselves out there quicker after their spouse passes away. There’s nothing wrong with that.


I have no problem with marriage whenever. My issue is with him almost date a woman and crying about his wife...

I’ll be very happy if they get married and I’ll be able to stop spending money at the same restaurant every week! Lol
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I just finished dating a widower Pisces male, they will talk about their late wife for quite some time. It’s perfectly normal, he is grieving. A book that really helped me understand is “Dating a Widower” by Abel Keogh. You have to be one tough individual to date a widower, especially being a Pisces emotional person. Date of death, anniversaries, birthdays, important venues to them it will all come in waves of emotions. It’s an emotional roller coaster ride and I jumped off after 2 long years and lots of patience with him.
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Posted by SunAndMoon

I just finished dating a widower Pisces male, they will talk about their late wife for quite some time. It’s perfectly normal, he is grieving. A book that really helped me understand is “Dating a Widower” by Abel Keogh. You have to be one tough individual to date a widower, especially being a Pisces emotional person. Date of death, anniversaries, birthdays, important venues to them it will all come in waves of emotions. It’s an emotional roller coaster ride and I jumped off after 2 long years and lots of patience with him.


I believe he is going to be the worse! ‘I shouldnhad bought her cake and balloons but I’ll do it anyway...’

However my Taurus girl had been without man forever and I am sure she can handle it. As long as he is as sexy as he looks...

So they ARE annoying...right? Is it comes and goes or it’s in his head constantly?