Pisceses, who suits you the most?

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Don’t care much for Tauruses. Libras are okay but don’t intrigue me.


I prefer Cancers, Virgo, or other Pisceans. Sometimes Aries depending


Taurus is too mundane and sensory for my liking. I’m not sure why ppl think we’re such good matches.

Taurus tend to be focused on the present, and although it could help ground us Pisces, they feel a bit too different in the way they see and interact with the world.

Taurus are very stable and grounded. They care mostly about things within their reach. Not worried about the past or think much about the future. They care more about people or things close to them or directly related to them. They seek security and are focused on those things as well as material things.


Pisces on the other hand are ruled by Neptune and is associated with the 12th house, which is the collective, unconscious, things beyond the physical realm. This is like the opposite of Taurus, who are in touch with the physical realm.

Pisces tend to be prone to depression, anxiety, and an unstable life style and/or bad habits. They are worried and preoccupied too much about what they cannot see. Although they care about those close to them too, they cannot just care only about what is around them. To the point that they can seem to neglect what is important right in front of them, which can be maddening to a Taurus who is so physical and down to earth. They can’t understand Pisces neurotic self destructive druggies (kidding not all Pisces are druggies of course! lol) it’s crazy to them how out of touch with reality they can be at times.

It is difficult for them to focus on sensory things and not be concerned with things not even directly related to them. Taurus ppl might find that frustrating and not interested in things they are interested in, because they probably think it’s not important and unrealistic.


And Taurus is a bit too passive to really help Pisces become more grounded so I don’t see them offering Pisces anything. They’re okay as friends but nothing more.

Honestly I feel like Virgo is just the best match for Pisces despite the opposition being considered bad. Virgos can understand Pisces instability or worries, because Virgos tend to be a bit like that as well. But they also love being of service to others and fixing or organizing peoples life, they can help Pisces in ways they couldn’t help themselves. While at the same time Virgos are productive but they are also the least sensory oriented earth sign. I just really love Virgos especially if they have water in their chart.


Cancer is also good but in a more sweet lovey dovey first love way. Virgo is more in like the lover who helps you grow kind of way.

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It seems to me that it is Venusians--Taurus, then Libra, too. Also Virgo, but they seem to be attracted to you more than you to them. That is what I see.


What's your experience?


Not quite! I run away from several Tauruses, married and divorced a Libra (with Taurus moon). No experience with Virgos, only with 2-3 Virgo risings who went full on Virgo at times, making me want to kill them.
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Y’all try so hard to force Pisces and Cancer with Libra. Like stfu, it ain’t happening.
Word. I get along more with Scorpio than cancer.


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Meh. I just don’t get along with watery people, that includes Scorpio. You know, that Water sign that tries the hardest to hide their shifty watery vibes. Aquarius, Aries, Leo, sometimes Sag, or Caps are often mutual attractions for me.

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I have a hard time trusting them now because of the ones in the past that I really liked lied to me constantly about things😞. Honesty is a big thing for Taurus, even when we know the truth will hurt us sometimes, we prefer to be hurt by the truth rather than a lie. You seem like a very honest Pisces though from what I’ve seen on here. You have kind of helped restore my hope that not all Pisces are liars 😌.

Hey… you would be surprised by what some taurus would put up with when we like someone. We want nothing more but for those we care about to be happy and try to do what we can to make them happy. Our stubbornness to let go will keep us from giving up on someone easily no matter what. If we can put up with cancers sporadic mood swings, Scorpios constant intensity, virgos neurotic nitpicking and criticism, i can’t see why we couldn’t get accustomed to a Pisces unstable mess. Love can be such a blessing and a curse at times.

You crushed on a Taurus in hs and never told him, why not? I crushed on my cancer friend Pisces sister who I became close friends with when I was in hs and never told her either.
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Don’t care much for Tauruses. Libras are okay but don’t intrigue me.


I prefer Cancers, Virgo, or other Pisceans. Sometimes Aries depending


Taurus is too mundane and sensory for my liking. I’m not sure why ppl think we’re such good matches.

Taurus tend to be focused on the present, and although it could help ground us Pisces, they feel a bit too different in the way they see and interact with the world.

Taurus are very stable and grounded. They care mostly about things within their reach. Not worried about the past or think much about the future. They care more about people or things close to them or directly related to them. They seek security and are focused on those things as well as material things.


Pisces on the other hand are ruled by Neptune and is associated with the 12th house, which is the collective, unconscious, things beyond the physical realm. This is like the opposite of Taurus, who are in touch with the physical realm.

Pisces tend to be prone to depression, anxiety, and an unstable life style and/or bad habits. They are worried and preoccupied too much about what they cannot see. Although they care about those close to them too, they cannot just care only about what is around them. To the point that they can seem to neglect what is important right in front of them, which can be maddening to a Taurus who is so physical and down to earth. They can’t understand Pisces neurotic self destructive druggies (kidding not all Pisces are druggies of course! lol) it’s crazy to them how out of touch with reality they can be at times.

It is difficult for them to focus on sensory things and not be concerned with things not even directly related to them. Taurus ppl might find that frustrating and not interested in things they are interested in, because they probably think it’s not important and unrealistic.


And Taurus is a bit too passive to really help Pisces become more grounded so I don’t see them offering Pisces anything. They’re okay as friends but nothing more.

Honestly I feel like Virgo is just the best match for Pisces despite the opposition being considered bad. Virgos can understand Pisces instability or worries, because Virgos tend to be a bit like that as well. But they also love being of service to others and fixing or organizing peoples life, they can help Pisces in ways they couldn’t help themselves. While at the same time Virgos are productive but they are also the least sensory oriented earth sign. I just really love Virgos especially if they have water in their chart.


Cancer is also good but in a more sweet lovey dovey first love way. Virgo is more in like the lover who helps you grow kind of way.


I am a taurus with pisces moon, i am in my own world all the time, watching movies, reading about trends and news, and aesthetic movies. people like that are less productive like handy taurusses. what outlet

do you have for that? what do you do with your sense for collective subconscious? i know wanting a concrete an outlet is such an taurus thing to ask but still, what do you do with your proclivities?
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Since you have a Pisces moon that probably makes you more in your own world than the average Taurus.

I even known some Pisces mooners more like this than some Pisces suns.


For outlets do you mean like what kind of handy productive outlets or one you use that get you lost with reality?

Do you tend to spend a lot of time imagining, daydreaming, or in your head? Like you get lost in things? Like maybe when you’re listening to music you don’t just listen to it but also the music causes you daydream? Or things in the real world will cause you to get lost in thoughts or your imagination with things that don’t even become related to it. I don’t know if that makes sense I’m terrible at describing things lol


But I’m pretty sure you probably do this too since you’re a Pisces moon? Like you become out of touch with day to day life maybe. Maybe daydreaming is a good escape and you use music, movies, and books to help you escape reality. I do that a lot with music.

I think to be more productive maybe you can try to find a balance between allowing yourself to get lost in your own world in between breaks while you try to be more hands on productive.


Handy is such a taurus word, its more about is there any way pisceans utilize that tendencies? i just googles pisces hobbies, apparently there are artsy people. I become so out of touch with reality that i forget things.

This is such a huge topic. I am going to open another thread for that.
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I have a hard time trusting them now because of the ones in the past that I really liked lied to me constantly about things😞. Honesty is a big thing for Taurus, even when we know the truth will hurt us sometimes, we prefer to be hurt by the truth rather than a lie. You seem like a very honest Pisces thought from what I’ve seen on here. You have kind of helped restore my hope that not all Pisces are liars 😌.

Hey… you would be surprised by what some taurus would put up with when we like someone. We want nothing more but for those we care about to be happy and try to do what we can to make them happy. Our stubbornness to let go will keep us from giving up on someone easily no matter what. If we can put up with cancers sporadic mood swings, Scorpios constant intensity, virgos neurotic nitpicking and criticism, i can’t see why we couldn’t get accustomed to a Pisces unstable mess. Love can be such a blessing and a curse at times.

You crushed on a Taurus in hs and never told him, why not? I crushed on my cancer friend Pisces sister who I became close friends with when I was in hs and never told her either.

Really?! 😯 Well I’m glad I gave you a bit of hope! (:

I understand how maybe some ppl have bad experiences with Pisces being liars. Maybe some Pisces don’t want to hurt some peoples feelings so they might not be completely honest. While others may be just phony. But I believe you can be honest and still (at least try) not hurt the other person’s feelings. So I think it’s just cowardly to lie to people.

Although admittedly I can be passive aggressive at times.

I actually also knew a few Pisces friends who were not honest. I had a neighborhood friend who was also a Pisces, and I always sensed she didn’t like me, but acted like she did in front of me. I confirmed it when she got a new phone and gave our mutual friend her number but not me. I stopped talking to her then. But she was so fake to me. And honestly I don’t like that either, because I think it hurts more when someone acts different in front of your face but then you find out the truth versus just being obvious where you stand even if it hurts. I’d rather someone just show me they don’t like me.


Honestly though you don’t seem like you are too mundane to not understand a Pisces, so you gave me some hope with Taurus too 🙃I believe what Pisceans want most is someone who understands them or try to. When they show effort it’s heart warming. Maybe for most of them their love language is acts of service.


My experience with Taurus energy mostly comes from my Taurus stellium grandma, because most of our clashes come from her not understanding why I am easily distracted, or have times I feel down. Or when I talk to her about things I love or my dreams she completely doesn’t get. And she talks about everyday things which is boring to me lol but I still love my grandma even though we clash a lot she’s the person I’m closest to.


When I was in high school I was super super shy and introverted, even more than I am now. So I never let any of the guys I liked know I did. I just would hope one day they’d notice me but that didn’t work so well 😂

I only had one or two close friends. He had more friends than me and it was intimidating but also I never had any opportunities to get to know him more. Almost all the time it was just me liking from afar. I wasn’t confident enough to approach him.

Also the only time I got to talk to him was when he was working at the school cafeteria giving out icees. And I’d beg my friend to go with me to buy icees just to see him and he probably had no idea lol


Why didn’t you tell the Pisces girl you liked her? Maybe she liked you back too but was afraid to tell you
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I do think some of them did lie to me about certain things to not hurt or offend me, and to be honest some of those things would’ve hurt me to some extent. But I still would’ve liked for them to be 💯 with me because I can respect that more from them. I wouldn’t have gotten so offended and end up pulling away from them in the end like I did. I agree that you can be honest with people and not be hurtful, you just have to take people into consideration.

I admit that i have a passive aggressive streak too Cersei 🙃

I can’t stand when people are fake to my face like that, like if you don’t like me just say so, or don’t even speak to me. Don’t go around and act cool with me in person, but when I’m not around you show how you really feel. I will get the vibe they’re sending eventually without them speaking up. Don’t let the phonies like your neighbor bring you down, they don’t deserve what you have to offer in friendship.

Thank you! My Leo moon likes that complement ❤️. I’m glad I can give you some hope that we aren’t all bad. I learned as I got older to be less stubborn and inconsiderate, only thinking about my best interest and not others, to being more considerate and flexible towards others to better understand them. That’s something I think Taureans really needs to work on.

I admit that we Taureans can definitely be that way with people around us. We can be so inconsiderate to peoples thoughts and feelings that it can cause them to grow a distaste for us. And we’re so bullheaded that we wonder why people become upset with us 🙄. Just know some of us eventually learn to curb our inconsiderate stubborn ways to become better understanding people.

I totally understand not being confident, shy, and nervous around someone you like. I would always try to put myself around my crushes to get them to notice me and hopefully want to get to know me. But most of the time I would say or do something clumsy and make a complete fool of myself 😂. With us, you have to make it painfully obvious that you are interested in us for us to make a move. I’m sure if you would’ve made it obvious you liked him he would’ve jumped at the opportunity to get with you. He would be a fool not to.

Even though her sister and mom would ask me why haven’t I asked her out since we seemed like we would make a good couple…. I simply wasn’t confident she liked me more than a close friend. She would confide in me personal things that she wouldn’t feel comfortable bringing up to others as if I was her brother. I felt like she would’ve rejected me if I told her I liked her more than a friend.
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I have a hard time trusting them now because of the ones in the past that I really liked lied to me constantly about things😞. Honesty is a big thing for Taurus, even when we know the truth will hurt us sometimes, we prefer to be hurt by the truth rather than a lie. You seem like a very honest Pisces thought from what I’ve seen on here. You have kind of helped restore my hope that not all Pisces are liars 😌.

Hey… you would be surprised by what some taurus would put up with when we like someone. We want nothing more but for those we care about to be happy and try to do what we can to make them happy. Our stubbornness to let go will keep us from giving up on someone easily no matter what. If we can put up with cancers sporadic mood swings, Scorpios constant intensity, virgos neurotic nitpicking and criticism, i can’t see why we couldn’t get accustomed to a Pisces unstable mess. Love can be such a blessing and a curse at times.

You crushed on a Taurus in hs and never told him, why not? I crushed on my cancer friend Pisces sister who I became close friends with when I was in hs and never told her either.

Really?! 😯 Well I’m glad I gave you a bit of hope! (:

I understand how maybe some ppl have bad experiences with Pisces being liars. Maybe some Pisces don’t want to hurt some peoples feelings so they might not be completely honest. While others may be just phony. But I believe you can be honest and still (at least try) not hurt the other person’s feelings. So I think it’s just cowardly to lie to people.

Although admittedly I can be passive aggressive at times.

I actually also knew a few Pisces friends who were not honest. I had a neighborhood friend who was also a Pisces, and I always sensed she didn’t like me, but acted like she did in front of me. I confirmed it when she got a new phone and gave our mutual friend her number but not me. I stopped talking to her then. But she was so fake to me. And honestly I don’t like that either, because I think it hurts more when someone acts different in front of your face but then you find out the truth versus just being obvious where you stand even if it hurts. I’d rather someone just show me they don’t like me.

Honestly though you don’t seem like you are too mundane to not understand a Pisces, so you gave me some hope with Taurus too 🙃I believe what Pisceans want most is someone who understands them or try to. When they show effort it’s heart warming. Maybe for most of them their love language is acts of service.

My experience with Taurus energy mostly comes from my Taurus stellium grandma, because most of our clashes come from her not understanding why I am easily distracted, or have times I feel down. Or when I talk to her about things I love or my dreams she completely doesn’t get. And she talks about everyday things which is boring to me lol but I still love my grandma even though we clash a lot she’s the person I’m closest to.

When I was in high school I was super super shy and introverted, even more than I am now. So I never let any of the guys I liked know I did. I just would hope one day they’d notice me but that didn’t work so well 😂

I only had one or two close friends. He had more friends than me and it was intimidating but also I never had any opportunities to get to know him more. Almost all the time it was just me liking from afar. I wasn’t confident enough to approach him.

Also the only time I got to talk to him was when he was working at the school cafeteria giving out icees. And I’d beg my friend to go with me to buy icees just to see him and he probably had no idea lol

Why didn’t you tell the Pisces girl you liked her? Maybe she liked you back too but was afraid to tell you
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I do think some of them did lie to me about certain things to not hurt or offend me, and to be honest some of those things would’ve hurt me to some extent. But I still would’ve liked for them to be 💯 with me because I can respect that more from them. I wouldn’t have gotten so offended and end up pulling away from them in the end like I did. I agree that you can be honest with people and not be hurtful, you just have to take people into consideration.

I admit that i have a passive aggressive streak too Cersei 🙃

I can’t stand when people are fake to my face like that, like if you don’t like me just say so, or don’t even speak to me. Don’t go around and act cool with me in person, but when I’m not around you show how you really feel. I will get the vibe they’re sending eventually without them speaking up. Don’t let the phonies like your neighbor bring you down, they don’t deserve what you have to offer in friendship.

Thank you! My Leo moon likes that complement ❤️. I’m glad I can give you some hope that we aren’t all bad. I learned as I got older to be less stubborn and inconsiderate, only thinking about my best interest and not others, to being more considerate and flexible towards others to better understand them. That’s something I think Taureans really needs to work on.

I admit that we Taureans can definitely be that way with people around us. We can be so inconsiderate to peoples thoughts and feelings that it can cause them to grow a distaste for us. And we’re so bullheaded that we wonder why people become upset with us 🙄. Just know some of us eventually learn to curb our inconsiderate stubborn ways to become better understanding people.

I totally understand not being confident, shy, and nervous around someone you like. I would always try to put myself around my crushes to get them to notice me and hopefully want to get to know me. But most of the time I would say or do something clumsy and make a complete fool of myself 😂. With us, you have to make it painfully obvious that you are interested in us for us to make a move. I’m sure if you would’ve made it obvious you liked him he would’ve jumped at the opportunity to get with you. He would be a fool not to.

Even though her sister and mom would ask me why haven’t I asked her out since we seemed like we would make a good couple…. I simply wasn’t confident she liked me more than a close friend. She would confide in me personal things that she wouldn’t feel comfortable bringing up to others as if I was her brother. I felt like she would’ve rejected me if I told her I liked her more than a friend.
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That’s an amazing trait to have, not too many people are like that. And even if you have stubborn moments it’s sweet that you still try to become a more understanding person (:

I was exactly the same way around my crush ! 😂 I would try to get him to notice me and wait and hope for him to come to me, but yet I did nothing like a fool and yeah same here for me it never worked out so smoothly!😳one time I tripped in front of my crush lol


As for that Pisces girl, it seems like she liked you. I’m not sure if all Pisces are like this, but I will never confide in a guy if Im not interested in him as more than a friend. So sharing certain things like that would only happen if I was interested more than a friend. If you ever find a Pisces you can trust again if they confide in you like that Im sure there is a good chance she’s liked you more than a friend!


& thank you I really appreciate those words 💙 I always wondered what would have happened if I told him I liked him 🥲 But in any case it was nice feelings to have while it lasted!

Im sure Pisces or not if you show them all the good sides you have they will gravitate towards you for sure. You have a lot to offer ! ~
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That’s very sweet of you to say for real, thank you so much. It took me having to lose some good people in my life who genuinely cared about me to open my eyes to my negative traits. I’m still working on being a better me, so when I do meet someone great I won’t blow it.

Trying to get noticed by a crush rarely seems to work doesn’t it, It’s foolish for us to not just let it be known to them. Shyness is a mofo I tell ya. Lol you tripped in front of him.. did he see it happen and say anything? one time I banged my head hard on a hallway light fixture because I got distracted by my crush looking so pretty 🙈.

You just confirmed to me what I suspected back then. When I look back at it, I do think she liked me more than a friend because of the things she confided in me and not someone else. I think she was just waiting for me to make the first move, but I was too much in my head to do it. I tend to overthink things way to much smh. Noted… if I do meet one that confides in like she did, I will not make that same mistake again.

Believe me he would’ve been a fool to turn you down if you told him. You seem like a really sweet, respectable, sincere, loving, considerate, lovable girl. And I’m sure you’re quite pretty to boot. You have so much goodness to offer.. some guy is going to be lucky to have you. Girls like yourself are hard to find these day and should be protected at all cost.

That’s very kind of you to say that cersei ❤️ you made my week ☺️. I knew there was a reason why I like you even though you’re a Pisces 😜. You’re such a gem! don’t ever change who you are.







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Unfortunately he saw me trip. I was going down a ramp as he was going up, and he was looking right at me it was so embarrassing 😂


Thank you so much that’s such a sweet thing to say 😭 you are really such a sweet guy. People like you make ppl not want to let others jade them though!

I often find myself not having the will to get through the days, so hearing those things mean a lot to me, especially when I feel they are genuine. So your words also made my week ☺️💙💙

that means so much to me Cersei❤️ like you have no idea🥲



One thing that has always bothered me about this world is seeing great girls, like yourself, lose themselves and become jaded because of crap people, friends, family etc bringing them down. I’ve seen it happen with people I care about in the past and it hurt me to see it change them. I try and do what ever I can to prevent it from happening to the good ones, like yourself, that are still golden in this world.



I hope you can stay strong against the negativity that surrounds us and continue to shine in this dark world. The way you see things and carry yourself is a thing of beauty to behold, and to know girls like you still exist keeps my hope alive. Please Keep your head up, you have a lot of good to offer people who could really use someone like you.



Just make sure they are deserving of you before you grace them with your amazing qualities. I have a feeling you will eventually get what your heart desires out of life🙏.
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I have a hard time trusting them now because of the ones in the past that I really liked lied to me constantly about things😞. Honesty is a big thing for Taurus, even when we know the truth will hurt us sometimes, we prefer to be hurt by the truth rather than a lie.
With more and more experience, I have noticed this about many Piscean women. If they're not lying to appease, they're doing it out of some deluded notion that their fanatical reality is the actual reality. What's really disturbing is that no amount of factual evidence or reasoning will make them reconsider their psychotic beliefs.


Another thing I've noticed is that the women (I can't speak for the men) really struggle to deal with sudden bouts of adversity. When things don't go their way, they tend to cross over to the dark side, throwing hissy fits, gaslighting and playing the victim. Any severe derailment from the dream world they live in turns them into really unpleasant people.

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You are the deluded one, dude!

What you need is a woman Insecure enough to accept a man who will never commit to her entirely (not going to marry her). Who can neglect most of her needs to look after each and every one of yours, or you'd throw "hissy fits". Who is OK to be with someone who doesn't want to find out how she ticks and what her needs are, because you have no intention to cater to them. Who gives in to your pathological need to shush her, reprimand her, be petty with her, belittle and degrade her, so you could feel better about yourself!

What you want, however, is an intelligent, straightforward and independent woman who is not repelled by a feminine and often emotional man, and responds to his needs with care, love and understanding. You are deluded to think that a Pisces woman (or any other woman with self respect) who fits this profile is going to tolerate any of the crap which surfaces once the REAL you starts showing through the mask you had put on to lure her in!

Buy hey, carry on playing the victim, the misogynist, the abuser, or the "misunderstood" one, depending which dxp user is willing to listen...

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I have a hard time trusting them now because of the ones in the past that I really liked lied to me constantly about things😞. Honesty is a big thing for Taurus, even when we know the truth will hurt us sometimes, we prefer to be hurt by the truth rather than a lie.

With more and more experience, I have noticed this about many Piscean women. If they're not lying to appease, they're doing it out of some deluded notion that their fanatical reality is the actual reality. What's really disturbing is that no amount of factual evidence or reasoning will make them reconsider their psychotic beliefs.

Another thing I've noticed is that the women (I can't speak for the men) really struggle to deal with sudden bouts of adversity. When things don't go their way, they tend to cross over to the dark side, throwing hissy fits, gaslighting and playing the victim. Any severe derailment from the dream world they live in turns them into really unpleasant people.

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You are the deluded one, dude!


What you need is a woman Insecure enough to accept a man who will never commit to her entirely (not going to marry her). Who can neglect most of her needs to look after each and every one of yours, or you'd throw "hissy fits". Who is OK to be with someone who doesn't want to find out how she ticks and what her needs are, because you have no intention to cater to them. Who gives in to your pathological need to shush her, reprimand her, be petty with her, belittle and degrade her, so you could feel better about yourself!


What you want, however, is an intelligent, straightforward and independent woman who is not repelled by a feminine and often emotional man, and responds to his needs with care, love and understanding. You are deluded to think that a Pisces woman (or any other woman with self respect) who fits this profile is going to tolerate any of the crap which surfaces once the REAL you starts showing through the mask you had put on to lure her in!


Buy hey, carry on playing the victim, the misogynist, the abuser, or the "misunderstood" one, depending which dxp user is willing to listen...



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that guy is so annoying.

i feel so bad for pisceans with earth signs tbh like caps or taurus. i feel like they're just better off with fellow mutables (sag, gem, virgo, fellow pisces).

this pisces girl that my loser cap ex impregnated tells me that she's the one who always needs to 'woo' him after fights. even when she's pregnant, all he ever did was throw hissy fits. very selfish. i'm obviously not suprised at all. he brings me up to her just to hurt her whenever she brings up financial support for their daughter. like he'd say stuff like: "virgoOPPP was so much nicer. my dad just died and you're always bringing up money with me."

uhm you got her pregnant and she had to drop her schooling for you (college) and she obviously can't work at her condition. plus i've always had more money coz in comparison, he is dirt poor.

bet that saturn returns would say i'm 'stalking' when i'm literally being fed unsolicited info.

capricorn men are straight up aholes and so what if they're good at their jobs? almost everything else with them ranges from abyssmal to meh.
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I have a hard time trusting them now because of the ones in the past that I really liked lied to me constantly about things😞. Honesty is a big thing for Taurus, even when we know the truth will hurt us sometimes, we prefer to be hurt by the truth rather than a lie.

With more and more experience, I have noticed this about many Piscean women. If they're not lying to appease, they're doing it out of some deluded notion that their fanatical reality is the actual reality. What's really disturbing is that no amount of factual evidence or reasoning will make them reconsider their psychotic beliefs.

Another thing I've noticed is that the women (I can't speak for the men) really struggle to deal with sudden bouts of adversity. When things don't go their way, they tend to cross over to the dark side, throwing hissy fits, gaslighting and playing the victim. Any severe derailment from the dream world they live in turns them into really unpleasant people.

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You are the deluded one, dude!

What you need is a woman Insecure enough to accept a man who will never commit to her entirely (not going to marry her). Who can neglect most of her needs to look after each and every one of yours, or you'd throw "hissy fits". Who is OK to be with someone who doesn't want to find out how she ticks and what her needs are, because you have no intention to cater to them. Who gives in to your pathological need to shush her, reprimand her, be petty with her, belittle and degrade her, so you could feel better about yourself!

What you want, however, is an intelligent, straightforward and independent woman who is not repelled by a feminine and often emotional man, and responds to his needs with care, love and understanding. You are deluded to think that a Pisces woman (or any other woman with self respect) who fits this profile is going to tolerate any of the crap which surfaces once the REAL you starts showing through the mask you had put on to lure her in!

Buy hey, carry on playing the victim, the misogynist, the abuser, or the "misunderstood" one, depending which dxp user is willing to listen...


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that guy is so annoying.

i feel so bad for pisceans with earth signs tbh like caps or taurus. i feel like they're just better off with fellow mutables (sag, gem, virgo, fellow pisces).

this pisces girl that my loser cap ex impregnated tells me that she's the one who always needs to 'woo' him after fights. even when she's pregnant, all he ever did was throw hissy fits. very selfish. i'm obviously not suprised at all. he brings me up to her just to hurt her whenever she brings up financial support for their daughter. like he'd say stuff like: "virgoOPPP was so much nicer. my dad just died and you're always bringing up money with me."

uhm you got her pregnant and she had to drop her schooling for you (college) and she obviously can't work at her condition. plus i've always had more money coz in comparison, he is dirt poor.

bet that saturn returns would say i'm 'stalking' when i'm literally being fed unsolicited info.

capricorn men are straight up aholes and so what if they're good at their jobs? almost everything else with them ranges from abyssmal to meh.
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Why do you always talk about money? All your stories revolve around money and you giving people money while being taken advantage of. It would imply you have a massive ego when it comes to being charitable (someone who takes pics of themselves giving change to homeless people), but also a victim complex about it all.


It's kinda like how Mother Teresa was found out to be a fraud and was actually a terrible person. Her charity was all a photo-op to stroke her own massive ego with recognition and accolades. Yet she portrayed a Saint who was putting herself out to help the less fortunate.


Was she a pisces moon also?
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he's the one who brought it up 🤷🤷

I think he just meant that I've never made money as something to 'harrass' him about. He sounds ridiculous coz why when we don't have kids.

and I don't always talk about money but more like I always feels like in a lot of relationships, most people were not very reasonable about it with me but that's prob partly my fault.
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Posted by GeminiJim
Posted by BullofHeaven
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Posted by Saturn_Returns
Posted by LentoBull91

I have a hard time trusting them now because of the ones in the past that I really liked lied to me constantly about things😞. Honesty is a big thing for Taurus, even when we know the truth will hurt us sometimes, we prefer to be hurt by the truth rather than a lie.

With more and more experience, I have noticed this about many Piscean women. If they're not lying to appease, they're doing it out of some deluded notion that their fanatical reality is the actual reality. What's really disturbing is that no amount of factual evidence or reasoning will make them reconsider their psychotic beliefs.

Another thing I've noticed is that the women (I can't speak for the men) really struggle to deal with sudden bouts of adversity. When things don't go their way, they tend to cross over to the dark side, throwing hissy fits, gaslighting and playing the victim. Any severe derailment from the dream world they live in turns them into really unpleasant people.

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You are the deluded one, dude!

What you need is a woman Insecure enough to accept a man who will never commit to her entirely (not going to marry her). Who can neglect most of her needs to look after each and every one of yours, or you'd throw "hissy fits". Who is OK to be with someone who doesn't want to find out how she ticks and what her needs are, because you have no intention to cater to them. Who gives in to your pathological need to shush her, reprimand her, be petty with her, belittle and degrade her, so you could feel better about yourself!

What you want, however, is an intelligent, straightforward and independent woman who is not repelled by a feminine and often emotional man, and responds to his needs with care, love and understanding. You are deluded to think that a Pisces woman (or any other woman with self respect) who fits this profile is going to tolerate any of the crap which surfaces once the REAL you starts showing through the mask you had put on to lure her in!

Buy hey, carry on playing the victim, the misogynist, the abuser, or the "misunderstood" one, depending which dxp user is willing to listen...

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that guy is so annoying.

i feel so bad for pisceans with earth signs tbh like caps or taurus. i feel like they're just better off with fellow mutables (sag, gem, virgo, fellow pisces).

this pisces girl that my loser cap ex impregnated tells me that she's the one who always needs to 'woo' him after fights. even when she's pregnant, all he ever did was throw hissy fits. very selfish. i'm obviously not suprised at all. he brings me up to her just to hurt her whenever she brings up financial support for their daughter. like he'd say stuff like: "virgoOPPP was so much nicer. my dad just died and you're always bringing up money with me."

uhm you got her pregnant and she had to drop her schooling for you (college) and she obviously can't work at her condition. plus i've always had more money coz in comparison, he is dirt poor.

bet that saturn returns would say i'm 'stalking' when i'm literally being fed unsolicited info.

capricorn men are straight up aholes and so what if they're good at their jobs? almost everything else with them ranges from abyssmal to meh.
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Why do you always talk about money? All your stories revolve around money and you giving people money while being taken advantage of. It would imply you have a massive ego when it comes to being charitable (someone who takes pics of themselves giving change to homeless people), but also a victim complex about it all.

It's kinda like how Mother Teresa was found out to be a fraud and was actually a terrible person. Her charity was all a photo-op to stroke her own massive ego with recognition and accolades. Yet she portrayed a Saint who was putting herself out to help the less fortunate.

Was she a pisces moon also?
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A lot of people derive their self-worth from "giving" to others

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I agree but why this dude up there gotta overreact like we're even talking about charity in the first place.
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Posted by BullofHeaven
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by GeminiJim
Posted by BullofHeaven
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by Undine
Posted by Saturn_Returns
Posted by LentoBull91

I have a hard time trusting them now because of the ones in the past that I really liked lied to me constantly about things😞. Honesty is a big thing for Taurus, even when we know the truth will hurt us sometimes, we prefer to be hurt by the truth rather than a lie.

With more and more experience, I have noticed this about many Piscean women. If they're not lying to appease, they're doing it out of some deluded notion that their fanatical reality is the actual reality. What's really disturbing is that no amount of factual evidence or reasoning will make them reconsider their psychotic beliefs.

Another thing I've noticed is that the women (I can't speak for the men) really struggle to deal with sudden bouts of adversity. When things don't go their way, they tend to cross over to the dark side, throwing hissy fits, gaslighting and playing the victim. Any severe derailment from the dream world they live in turns them into really unpleasant people.

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You are the deluded one, dude!

What you need is a woman Insecure enough to accept a man who will never commit to her entirely (not going to marry her). Who can neglect most of her needs to look after each and every one of yours, or you'd throw "hissy fits". Who is OK to be with someone who doesn't want to find out how she ticks and what her needs are, because you have no intention to cater to them. Who gives in to your pathological need to shush her, reprimand her, be petty with her, belittle and degrade her, so you could feel better about yourself!

What you want, however, is an intelligent, straightforward and independent woman who is not repelled by a feminine and often emotional man, and responds to his needs with care, love and understanding. You are deluded to think that a Pisces woman (or any other woman with self respect) who fits this profile is going to tolerate any of the crap which surfaces once the REAL you starts showing through the mask you had put on to lure her in!

Buy hey, carry on playing the victim, the misogynist, the abuser, or the "misunderstood" one, depending which dxp user is willing to listen...

click to expand

that guy is so annoying.

i feel so bad for pisceans with earth signs tbh like caps or taurus. i feel like they're just better off with fellow mutables (sag, gem, virgo, fellow pisces).

this pisces girl that my loser cap ex impregnated tells me that she's the one who always needs to 'woo' him after fights. even when she's pregnant, all he ever did was throw hissy fits. very selfish. i'm obviously not suprised at all. he brings me up to her just to hurt her whenever she brings up financial support for their daughter. like he'd say stuff like: "virgoOPPP was so much nicer. my dad just died and you're always bringing up money with me."

uhm you got her pregnant and she had to drop her schooling for you (college) and she obviously can't work at her condition. plus i've always had more money coz in comparison, he is dirt poor.

bet that saturn returns would say i'm 'stalking' when i'm literally being fed unsolicited info.

capricorn men are straight up aholes and so what if they're good at their jobs? almost everything else with them ranges from abyssmal to meh.
click to expand

Why do you always talk about money? All your stories revolve around money and you giving people money while being taken advantage of. It would imply you have a massive ego when it comes to being charitable (someone who takes pics of themselves giving change to homeless people), but also a victim complex about it all.

It's kinda like how Mother Teresa was found out to be a fraud and was actually a terrible person. Her charity was all a photo-op to stroke her own massive ego with recognition and accolades. Yet she portrayed a Saint who was putting herself out to help the less fortunate.

Was she a pisces moon also?
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A lot of people derive their self-worth from "giving" to others

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I agree but why this dude up there gotta overreact like we're even talking about charity in the first place.
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No, I was saying you treat your potential mates like charity. Or you did., I've not really paid attention to these boards in a long while. You've made multiple threads about why people take advantage of you financially. It wasn't just the cap you speak of. There was a pisces, a cancer, and I'm sure others. When a pattern presents itself, sometimes a look inside may hold the key.

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well, don't you think I know that?

but that's my own problem to deal with. after the cap tho, I think I've def improved uhm except maybe here and there but meh there's always room.

I wouldn't call it charity tho, I just like people with potential. part of that is coz i like to look into what I can bring to the table instead of the other way around. I just don't see why I should bother people when they're doing well. But obvi, I need to make some slight changes on that idea.
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Unfortunately he saw me trip. I was going down a ramp as he was going up, and he was looking right at me it was so embarrassing 😂

Thank you so much that’s such a sweet thing to say 😭 you are really such a sweet guy. People like you make ppl not want to let others jade them though!

I often find myself not having the will to get through the days, so hearing those things mean a lot to me, especially when I feel they are genuine. So your words also made my week ☺️💙💙

that means so much to me Cersei❤️ like you have no idea🥲


One thing that has always bothered me about this world is seeing great girls, like yourself, lose themselves and become jaded because of crap people, friends, family etc bringing them down. I’ve seen it happen with people I care about in the past and it hurt me to see it change them. I try and do what ever I can to prevent it from happening to the good ones, like yourself, that are still golden in this world.


I hope you can stay strong against the negativity that surrounds us and continue to shine in this dark world. The way you see things and carry yourself is a thing of beauty to behold, and to know girls like you still exist keeps my hope alive. Please Keep your head up, you have a lot of good to offer people who could really use someone like you.


Just make sure they are deserving of you before you grace them with your amazing qualities. I have a feeling you will eventually get what your heart desires out of life🙏.

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Aww I’m glad it meant a lot to you ! You deserve to hear it 😭thank you so much for this thoughtful paragraph I don’t think thank you is enough but hugs to you!




You seem like such a sweet and romantic guy and I really appreciate that. And appreciate how genuine you are. I hope I do find a guy who is romantic like you someday🙃

I also have a feeling you will also get what you want in life too! I’m cheering for you! Keep your hopes up and hope you find someone to love you like you should be loved (: In fact I believe you will💙
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You’re so sweet and caring… I absolutely love it. Thank you for all your kind words, they make me smile and really mean a lot to me❤️. You definitely deserve a guy who will give you everything you ever wanted. Someone who will love, respect, and cherish you the way you should be. You’re something special that needs to be appreciated and looked after in this world. Best believe I’m here in your corner rooting for you too sweet Pisces❤️

I do hope to have someone as sweet, kind, and caring as you are someday. That would be like a dream come true for me 😌

Even though I’m just a stranger talking to you on here know this.. whenever you’re feeling lonely, look up at the stars and know that I’m with you, where ever I am

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@cersei, no, I wasn't needlessly being an asshole to Virgoop. Literally everything I said was a fact. For years all of her problems have revolved around money. She mentions money all the time, which implies it's on the top of her mind, a priority to her and her conversations. So in her everyday life it's no surprise she attracts people who seek her out to use her for money. Self reflection is important to understand why you attract what you attract.


I deleted it because honestly, I realized my contribution brought a small amount of life back to an otherwise dying DXP. The place really does need to die. So I decided to remove any and all of my contributions to the site.


If I wanted to needlessly be an asshole, I'd tell you Kurt Cobain was a talentless hack who stole most of his songs from other up and coming bands of the day. But, aside from him stealing most of his songs, the rest is just an opinion.

maybe if i worked with sandwiches, i might talk about it more. but sadly it's mostly taxes, insurance and old people. and as for my issue with people that end up treating me a certain way, it's a little left field considering the title of this actual topic and the overall story of my cap ex. but whatever, you've always been like this anyway. i vaguely recall dating various people in the past and you seem to have a lot of issues with someone in their 20s having failed dates at that time.
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Posted by BullofHeaven
If I wanted to needlessly be an asshole, I'd tell you Kurt Cobain was a talentless hack who stole most of his songs from other up and coming bands of the day. But, aside from him stealing most of his songs, the rest is just an opinion.


lol I recently was told that the only 2 Nirvana songs I like were Meat Puppets songs

further cementing my opinion that Nirvana is ass to a profound degree