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Why a Pisces or Men Might Reconnect on Social Media
Men, including Pisces, may reconnect on social media to gauge your interest or test the waters without direct communication. It could also be a way to keep an eye on your life or rekindle interest subtly. Understanding their intentions depends on the context, but often it reflects curiosity or unresolved feelings.
O so y’all just gonna curve my topic smh
Lol your style of typing, I really like it.
I try to give y’all the full experience 😂
It's how we feel things out.
Do you think he is expecting me to validate him and reach out?
It's how we feel things out.
Do you think he is expecting me to validate him and reach out?
Yes
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For real? Typa nonsensical... 💀
I don’t have his number anymore anyway lol
But that’s unfortunate. I did like him.
It's how we feel things out.
Do you think he is expecting me to validate him and reach out?
We reach out when we ready, we hate being chased.
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Yes! Chasing is almost never successful anyway that’s why I just gave him a clean cut too..but it’s just so weird he pops up knowing I’d notice but actually says nothing. 😩
Man fuc y’all Pisces 😩 but not really 😩 but yea
I wouldn't of said anything and dissipated into the 7th dimension 😱 lol
So you accepted his friends requests? I think that was the first test. Now their will be random likes with no consistent pattern to test how amicable you are about the situation, and eventually a message. He may not want to date, but if he's an Aquarius Venus he may want to re-establish the friendship because he misses the way you made him feel. Sometimes I get hooked on the way a person made me feel, and I want to keep them in my life in some way. It never ends well, because I want to keep it light, they want things the way they were in the past. If he's doing what I described, cut him off or friend zone him quickly. BTW pisces female here.
I did 😩 I don’t hate him and I was hella curious! He has a cap Venus but I feel like you’re right anyway 😂 Honestly though I’ve never been keen on the whole friends with your ex thing so I’d halt that immediately lmaooo
O so y’all just gonna curve my topic smh
LMFAOO you remind me of me
Are u a sag moon
O so y’all just gonna curve my topic smh
LMFAOO you remind me of me
Are u a sag moon
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No haha I’m a gem moon
But I notice you’re also funny, ayyy 😂😂
so the pisces i was talking to disappeared for a few days, then came back. we just texted back and forth (just one or two words) i was like "sry for disturbing, i should stop texting you"-he didnt seem to want to talk. he's like "no i don't want you to stop". i think it depends on the situation, i think its probably best to be patient
O so y’all just gonna curve my topic smh
LMFAOO you remind me of me
Are u a sag moon
No haha I’m a gem moon
But I notice you’re also funny, ayyy 😂😂
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Sis I’m screaming we’re basically the same person. Sag/gem moon are so alike
O so y’all just gonna curve my topic smh
LMFAOO you remind me of me
Are u a sag moon
No haha I’m a gem moon
But I notice you’re also funny, ayyy 😂😂
Sis I’m screaming we’re basically the same person. Sag/gem moon are so alike
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Lmao we out here! I figured though sag/gem generally be on the wave 😂
It's how we feel things out.
Do you think he is expecting me to validate him and reach out?
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I think so too. He made a move to say he's ready to try again and he's giving you the green light. It's up to you to take it.
What happened, he date around and couldn't find anyone better than you so now he's giving you a second chance? HELL NO lulz
Long story short it ain't work and he lowkey disappeared into thin air lol.
ahh, the famous pisces "disappearing act" ...gotta love it! lmao
lmao okay hi key stressing cause he is very much so on my profile but hasn't broken the silence like gray areas give me anxiety y'all lmfaoooo
Long story short it ain't work and he lowkey disappeared into thin air lol.
ahh, the famous pisces "disappearing act" ...gotta love it! lmao
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lmao no!
and you're double fishy, what do you think is his expectation/hope from popping up like this? Base curiosity or is he provoking contact
I feel like he wants me to reach out..but I'm not sure. And i wouldn't even know what to say.. "Hey, whachu want?" LOL
This is kind of off-topic but I feel horrible for Pisces' right now. My cousin and grandfather are really going through it... Hope you guys are genuinely fine. ❤️ ❤️
I was actually looking at May's transits and i think they will get a break pretty soon.
so the pisces i was talking to disappeared for a few days, then came back. we just texted back and forth (just one or two words) i was like "sry for disturbing, i should stop texting you"-he didnt seem to want to talk. he's like "no i don't want you to stop". i think it depends on the situation, i think its probably best to be patient
I did miss him, now i'm in the middle of indifference and forgiveness like i have no expectations of him but i did promise myself i wouldn't date this year as i normally have (sticking to one guy) and try exploring all my options fairly. I still kind of see him as one but i do not want to break the silence i never asked for i feel like it should be him.
So patient and silent?
feels like a tesssttttt
This is kind of off-topic but I feel horrible for Pisces' right now. My cousin and grandfather are really going through it... Hope you guys are genuinely fine. ❤️ ❤️
I was actually looking at May's transits and i think they will get a break pretty soon.
I’m so happy! My grandfather had a stroke two days ago. My cousin is in a very nasty break up. I feel like most signs are going through it in some way. My Taurus brother also faced his like first real rejection and he’s devastated and broken. My Cap mother is extremely sick. And here I am trying to go after my dreams and then like trying to be strong for my lahved ones. Apart of me feels so guilty but I know I have to do me. Awful times in many ways.
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Indeed! I also just suffered a pretty big familial loss myself which was bitter-sweet. I forgot which, but one of the readers I follow mentioned 2019 being a year of karmatic reciprocity.
So i believe the things we've worked for will come into fruition. You should def follow your dreams girl! I'm so sorry about your mum 😢 but her being a cap im almost certain she'd be more than okay with you focusing on your own security, rather than over-worrying or sacrificing your opportunities for her. Parents, ugh lol
My mum is also a cappie 🙂
But yes this month is supposed to be good for us all so hopefully your family pulls through ❤️
I started busting out laughing when I saw "Porque?" lol. I wouldn't touch that combo with a 10ft pole. Pisces sun with a Sag moon? Honey it ain't worth it unless you ready to go to hell and back lol.
Dating my pisces is like.... what the hell is gonna happen today 😄
I started busting out laughing when I saw "Porque?" lol. I wouldn't touch that combo with a 10ft pole. Pisces sun with a Sag moon? Honey it ain't worth it unless you ready to go to hell and back lol.
Lmao I had to highlight my general confusion in another language 😂
Dating my pisces is like.... what the hell is gonna happen today 😄
At least someone enjoys it haha
Update for anyone intrested, I folded like a picnic table and messaged him on one of the social media outlets. 🙂
And he left me on read 🙂
Then proceeded to engage my content 🙂
But still never replied 🙂
And now I'm googling New York's State law on homicide 🙂
This is kind of off-topic but I feel horrible for Pisces' right now. My cousin and grandfather are really going through it... Hope you guys are genuinely fine. ❤️ ❤️
going through what may I ask ?
He's a Pisces, hiding in his 12thb house.....
As a woman who has dated 3 Pisces and is currently in a relationship with one, ik they'll definitely disappear if you're too harsh with them. Doesn't matter if they're in the wrong or not. Have you ever hurt or insulted him?
Either that, or your Pisces guy was never really into you in the first place. But why he would come back to you is likely because of his feelings. Pisces guys are more emotional driven than anything, and will do things that may not be considered appropriate. He probably wants to see how you're doing, and find a way to be part of your life again.
This is kind of off-topic but I feel horrible for Pisces' right now. My cousin and grandfather are really going through it... Hope you guys are genuinely fine. ❤️ ❤️
going through what may I ask ?
Cousin through a horrible divorce. And grandfather had a stroke. I am positive he isn't going to make it to the end of the summer, it's so weird but I just know it. I was soooooo lucky to have healed/repaired my relationship with his crazy ass during my late-teens and especially more recently the last 2 years! x
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oh I'm sorry but glad you are getting to spend quality time with him
As a woman who has dated 3 Pisces and is currently in a relationship with one, ik they'll definitely disappear if you're too harsh with them. Doesn't matter if they're in the wrong or not. Have you ever hurt or insulted him?
Either that, or your Pisces guy was never really into you in the first place. But why he would come back to you is likely because of his feelings. Pisces guys are more emotional driven than anything, and will do things that may not be considered appropriate. He probably wants to see how you're doing, and find a way to be part of your life again.
Well he can keep that little dick energy
As a woman who has dated 3 Pisces and is currently in a relationship with one, ik they'll definitely disappear if you're too harsh with them. Doesn't matter if they're in the wrong or not. Have you ever hurt or insulted him?
Either that, or your Pisces guy was never really into you in the first place. But why he would come back to you is likely because of his feelings. Pisces guys are more emotional driven than anything, and will do things that may not be considered appropriate. He probably wants to see how you're doing, and find a way to be part of your life again.
Well he can keep that little dick energy
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😂
I started busting out laughing when I saw "Porque?" lol. I wouldn't touch that combo with a 10ft pole. Pisces sun with a Sag moon? Honey it ain't worth it unless you ready to go to hell and back lol.
sounds like a nightmare 😭
imagining it now 😭
but i'm actually pro-ghosting 👻👻
I started busting out laughing when I saw "Porque?" lol. I wouldn't touch that combo with a 10ft pole. Pisces sun with a Sag moon? Honey it ain't worth it unless you ready to go to hell and back lol.
sounds like a nightmare 😭
imagining it now 😭
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What's the skinny on why this combo is bad? 😂
I did my sulking and wondering. But update: He definitely DID try something... idk wtf it was but it was something.
Liked my message eons later (probably a month) and said "I hope you're doing well, down to chat if you wanna call"
Then I blocked him, cause fuck outta here. There's only room for one petty princess here, and I am her. She is me. 😂
but i'm actually pro-ghosting 👻👻
Lmaoooo! You know what's funny! I'm over here sulking like I don't hand my number to dudes willingly, only to NEVER reply to their texts. With read receipts 💀
Like I haven't full blown gone out with a guy, ended the date swell and never spoke to him again only because he was a lil shorty. 💀
Like Im not out here blocking guys online talm 'bout "wHy yOu TAkE fOReVeR tO reSpONd"
But this was literally the first time I've tasted my own medicine and let me tell you, shit was not sweet 😂
These are my confessions and hopefully karma will fucking chill cause I don't need this type of energy in my life 😂😂😂😂😂
I started busting out laughing when I saw "Porque?" lol. I wouldn't touch that combo with a 10ft pole. Pisces sun with a Sag moon? Honey it ain't worth it unless you ready to go to hell and back lol.
sounds like a nightmare 😭
imagining it now 😭
What's the skinny on why this combo is bad? 😂
I did my sulking and wondering. But update: He definitely DID try something... idk wtf it was but it was something.
Liked my message eons later (probably a month) and said "I hope you're doing well, down to chat if you wanna call"
Then I blocked him, cause fuck outta here. There's only room for one petty princess here, and I am her. She is me. 😂
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i've dealt with a sag sun/pisces moon before
bet the reverse isn't any better
I started busting out laughing when I saw "Porque?" lol. I wouldn't touch that combo with a 10ft pole. Pisces sun with a Sag moon? Honey it ain't worth it unless you ready to go to hell and back lol.
sounds like a nightmare 😭
imagining it now 😭
What's the skinny on why this combo is bad? 😂
I did my sulking and wondering. But update: He definitely DID try something... idk wtf it was but it was something.
Liked my message eons later (probably a month) and said "I hope you're doing well, down to chat if you wanna call"
Then I blocked him, cause fuck outta here. There's only room for one petty princess here, and I am her. She is me. 😂
i've dealt with a sag sun/pisces moon before
bet the reverse isn't any better
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It just hit me that my direct supervisor is a Pisces sun, sag moon 😦
We share the same quarters and get along on the surface, like it's all jokes. But I honestly can't imagine having to deal with her on a consistent basis in real life.
It's like perpetual Opposite Day, featuring that one fucking story you've heard 52 times.
I started busting out laughing when I saw "Porque?" lol. I wouldn't touch that combo with a 10ft pole. Pisces sun with a Sag moon? Honey it ain't worth it unless you ready to go to hell and back lol.
sounds like a nightmare 😭
imagining it now 😭
What's the skinny on why this combo is bad? 😂
I did my sulking and wondering. But update: He definitely DID try something... idk wtf it was but it was something.
Liked my message eons later (probably a month) and said "I hope you're doing well, down to chat if you wanna call"
Then I blocked him, cause fuck outta here. There's only room for one petty princess here, and I am her. She is me. 😂
i've dealt with a sag sun/pisces moon before
bet the reverse isn't any better
It just hit me that my direct supervisor is a Pisces sun, sag moon 😦
We share the same quarters and get along on the surface, like it's all jokes. But I honestly can't imagine having to deal with her on a consistent basis in real life.
It's like perpetual Opposite Day, featuring that one fucking story you've heard 52 times.
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at work there's this hilarious virgo sun/sag moon girl and she's really good friends with a pisces sun/gemini moon who adores her. think it can go either way.
Omg this sounds just like what my ex boyfriend does ( umm we are in contact again., it’s swim in and swim out) He starts with liking my stuff on Facebook for awhile before he sees if it’s safe to swim close lol we have had a year of togetherness though and god damn it fell in love. 🤦♀️🙃 oh he’s Pisces Mars but Cap sun.
I was also married to a Pisces sun but only for 2 years. He moved super fast & there was never a back and forth though. I left him because he couldn’t stay in one place & be responsible. He drove me freaking insane.
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I don't mind if you aren't a pisces, men in general can answer, but do note if you are a pisces.
For my ladies, let me know how you'd feel if you've dated a fishy.
I am casually dating presently but before I was focused on one guy - fishy with a sag moon.
Long story short it ain't work and he lowkey disappeared into thin air lol.
I'm talking homeboy dissipated into the 6th dimension. I've never experienced such a clean cut lmfaooo 😭 😭 😭
BUT! one thing I did like was that instead of ghosting we had a conversation about it first, even if there was no real answer as to why he wanted to part (at least not readily known to me)
He was real straight forward and kind of cold about it. But "Never let 'em see you sweat" is my personal motto 😎 and aside from all the questions i asked (in vain) I think I did a good job at that. I was kinda hurt but we left on decent terms.I did delete him from all my social media though.
Anyway we basically went 3 months no contact. He was not my friend prior to us dating which was just barely 2 months.
All of a sudden he added all my social media back but he did not text me
Porque?? 😂 In today's world its so easy to snoop. Why make your presence known to me that way instead of a call/text? If we were friends before dating it wouldn't be so weird. But he had to have gone out of his way to find all that again because we have no mutual anything and I've changed my names since.
Guys, why would you do this?