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Relationships with Pisces Men...Is it worth it? (Page 5)
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Hamsi tavanın vakti gelmiştir...
Maybe he doesn't know what he want...
I start to beleive what Aquella once has said about P-Man: "They don't know what they want".
I'm thinking that we usually don't know what we want till we know who we are and geeeeeeeeze, this could take a lifetime to discover!
I do however know a Pisces man and he seems so confused to me...he tells me often that when I am with him that he feels like he is in a dream. I think when he says this he in reality is distancing himself from the situation and not being in the moment.
"I do however know a Pisces man and he seems so confused to me...he tells me often that when I am with him that he feels like he is in a dream. I think when he says this he in reality is distancing himself from the situation and not being in the moment."
Interesting point. However I have difficulity in understanding that. A man already tells you how he feel and you think this is the sign of him that he's trying to place some limits? How can you describe this situation is the terms of mortals such as me? 🙂
Just please explain what makes you think this? Fear?
Perhaps I know what you mean. You expect him to act, not speak. Right?
"Hamsi tavan_n vakti gelmi_tir..." What does that mean exactly Haffo? That it's time to let go? (for non-Turkish speakers, it's a idiomatic expression that translates into "it's time for fried anchovy")
In any case, no offense, but Pisces men suck!
I'm really going to date others in these 3 weeks, and I already have 2 prospects lined up. Not to be a beeotch, but I refuse to wait for him and make him think I'm going to be available after what he did.
Too bad, because I really liked him, to the point that it really hurts.
One thing is starting to fascinate me. People doesn't know what they feel. But when they lean that what they feel is actually what will make them do things and not what others say, perhaps a loooong time will pass.
Kafka:
You don't feel good about him right? Why dont you move on?
"In any case, no offense, but Pisces men suck!"
All men suck. But hey, we such but we don't swallow (as cancerlady said once, applauds to her). All men also thing that all women suck. Now what's a catch?
"I'm really going to date others in these 3 weeks, and I already have 2 prospects lined up. Not to be a beeotch, but I refuse to wait for him and make him think I'm going to be available after what he did."
As far as I can see he already got new ones. What are you waiting for?
" Too bad, because I really liked him, to the point that it really hurts."
ROFL! Pisces men ownz.
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Sorry Kafka, I'm in good and c*cky mood. I hope you figure out the answers from what I'ce written.
Haffo - perhaps I wasn't clear in my communication...I will attempt again. While I was with him enjoying the "moments" he would shake his head and say to me, "pinch me..I think I am dreaming." I would say, "no you are not - I am really here." He seemed to not believe that what we were sharing was REAL to him - almost like he had this fear that he would awake from his so called dream and I would be gone. I kept reassuring him that I was not going anywhere. He to me, seemed like he was not totally in the moment - held back because of his fear (whatever that was) ME—?? totally in the moment - always.
Kafka and all other women...
I was listening to a radio station and they said it is a scientific fact that that men are less able to decipher messages coming from other men than from women.
The reason is because the auditory sounds coming from a woman are processed by the same part of the brain that processes music so when men listen to women it is literally like "music to their ears"
When they listen to men's voices it is processed by the part of the brain that analyzes information. Men are simple creatures, while women are not...even our voices are more complicated than theirs!
Perhaps that's why ALL men suck to a certain degree!
Also their are less neural connectors in the brain of a man to connect the two halves so they are less adept at communication than we are. That's why women are able to multitask so well whereas men need to concentrate on one thing at a time.
CL
Thank you considering us as "stpid" beings Cancerlady.
I am sorry Kafka (What a jerk!) and Freebird 😢 that you are having such a hard time with your Pisces men! For me it was all good, I mean I could deal with his randomness a whole lot more when there weren't children involved. All fun & games....
Now, I don't necessarily regret the fact that I have the babies, but I regret the fact that he won't be the type of father I had and I feel like I am cheating them out of a better life.
Anyway...it seems like the only person who has a decent Pisces man is Tiamat! She is the reigning Pisces Man RULER!
CL
Hey Hey Hey
Haffo, I never said you were stupid...Actually I was giving you a scientific "excuse"
It's not really the man's fault that it is harder to process information coming from a female...Like I said they are simple creatures. Simple doesn't mean stupid.
Hi CL 🙂 actually, I am not having a hard time at all with my Pisces friend...he has been a friend for many years but just recently - I took it to another level and I believe that I totally caught him off guard - as he says, "I surprised him" and after all.... this is what us Aries do best 😉
I really feel that he thought of us as just "friends" and I still do feel that way...things just happened and the Aries ability to live in the moment took us to a different place. I hope he will be okay with this - I am not looking for a committed relationship with him. Being friends with him is great so far.
I am truly sorry for your situation but.....please know that everything does happen for a reason and you may not know what the reason is for many days, months or years - but you will someday KNOW IT.
Another thing - you are better off without him in the picture if he cannot be a good dad. You do not want him passing those qualities on to your lovely children.
You are a great person with so much to offer, YOU WILL be the most wonderfullest mom ever and you will be such a gift to those little people 🙂 🙂
Keep keepin on my friend.
FreeBird...
Awww...Thanks for thinking I will be the most wonderfullest mom! I swear I get more support from this message board than the freakin father!
I realized that I am never going to come first in his life and he treats his friends better than me! I have never been one to play second fiddle and I ain't about to start let alone my children!
I'm glad that you aren't having issues, I wouldn't wish that on anyone!
And always remember, not to sound corny but I am a survivor and it will take alot more than some dumb man who doesn't realize what's in front of him because he is too busy looking backwards...to break me....ALOT!
CL/M2
what happened to all these insightful pisces people. All we're left with now is the perfect ones.
I miss cancerlady ...
You could talk to her about anything, and she didn't seem to get upset. Very cool woman
Awe .. one of cancerlady's threads pulled to the top.
Damn, I miss her too, Cappysweetie ...... her little angels are blessed to have a mommie like her, she's a special lady, indeed.
I happen to be a pisces women =) I am so0o0o freaking happy i found this site!!! Ahhhhh, im literally jumping with joy =)
pisces men only want one thing. true unconditional love. he wont give his love for anything less. thus if you arent showing him your heart and love he will stray. pisces dont cheat cause they want to it is because we've done something to hurt them. they stray because we havent given them what they have given us. i'm a cancer sun, pisces moon. recently R to LDR. my pisces can go days w/o reply any messages, but he needs his time and i let him have his freedom. i'm never angry that he doesn't reply, or anything, or if he would cheat. because he knows i love him unconditionally, and he i, the trust is there. and that althought he doesnt reply 🙂 he reads my messages and thinks of me just as i do him. that is true love. and that is what every pisces will only settle for.
i dunno, i guess i'm in my retreat mode. kinda need to recharge so i swam back lol how are you?
good is like = meh. ha, guess you're just going w the flow too. only way to be 😄 plus ive been looking into religion lately, for some reason i'm trying ot find answers because the ones i have i dont think are right. i probably just confused you :/
i guess i know the answers already but it is too painful (i'm kinda chicken) so i look elsewhere. im so scared of the what ifs coming true. i guess when you encounter something worthwhile, you care so much that the worry is destorying the beauty that exists. current chaos is ultimately part of universal order. i just wish hindsight was a gift i had lol. kinda
Snap!!!
it's good to know i'm not alone either. lol may not do much practial wise but it is good to know that you're not alone. cause that is just shit.
haha thanks 🙂 made me smile, fully just imagined myself as a vampire for some reason lol fang :K
i guess i know i'm not but i am in my mind and how i feel, because sometimes i dont think others understand how i feel because im so secretive as i dont want to burden em .... and because i dont even get how i feel myself :S i love being hamlet. lol. if only you could see what was inside ... it's a galaxy of blackholes doing the chicken dance.
thanks for throwing the rope to let me climb up to sit on that wall w ya. i'm a bit slow. emotions. they heavy.
ha, but without them i feel empty and thus would not be a real cancer lol
there's a contradiction for ya. but i guess you're right, if i truly was trying to be free, to go w the flow i would not be trying to control these emotions.
life aint just a chocolate box ay. its got jellybeans too.
indeed wise one. if you can call the infinite bounty of emotions that keep mating like rabbits love.
ha have a tsunami i could borrow?
Posted by Scubafish
Snap!!!Snap!!
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Snap snap!!!!!!!!!!
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Snap!!!Snap!!
Snap snap!!!!!!!!!!
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lol...what are all the 'snaps' about?
Posted by BeautifulPiscesDollNYC
I happen to be a pisces women =) I am so0o0o freaking happy i found this site!!! Ahhhhh, im literally jumping with joy =)
You are a very beautiful Pisces doll indeed if that is you in your pics! Welcome to DXP! What's going on in NYC besides the cold and snow?
🙂
definitely neptune's reincarnation.
definitely neptune's reincarnation.
Aww babe, I totally understand how you feel and my heart goes out to you. I think its just the way they are. My man told me I don't spend enough time with him. When I got close to him and made my own demands, I got branded as being possessive. Now if I leave him alone, he thinks I don't make an effort. You know what girls, its just the way they are. I reckon either love them or leave them. No point staying to get wound up every single day, hey. Bless you all. x
I am happily married to my pisces man and we have a beautiful scorpio son. We dated for 2 years before getting engaged, pregnant and married. As with all relationships it takes both partners to want it to work for it to work. He is a good hearted, calm, very attractive man who is an excellent father and husband.
if a pisces man cheated on you..its probably because you deserved it..
all these women in here fronting like they shyt don't stink..maybe you fat/got fat, maybe you just don't look that good, or maybe your personality stinks,idk, but whatever the case, im 100% sure something wasn't right with you too
Posted by DAMEN VI
if a pisces man cheated on you..its probably because you deserved it..all these women in here fronting like they shyt don't stink..maybe you fat/got fat, maybe you just don't look that good, or maybe your personality stinks,idk, but whatever the case, im 100% sure something wasn't right with you too
O...........M...........G.
I've not heard something this horrid in quite some time.
Posted by Pecheresse
Then Damien, according to you, why would Pisces be with them fat/ugly women in the first place?...........
well, if he choose a chick that was fat and ugly to begin with, then he's probably ugly too and has low self esteem, or he's using her for whatever she has..which more than likely is food
but who knows, maybe he really do enjoy her personality :/
Posted by DAMEN VI
if a pisces man cheated on you..its probably because you deserved it..all these women in here fronting like they shyt don't stink..maybe you fat/got fat, maybe you just don't look that good, or maybe your personality stinks,idk, but whatever the case, im 100% sure something wasn't right with you too
O...........M...........G.
I've not heard something this horrid in quite some time.
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i like to give it to you raw baby..ooooh baby i like it rawwwwwww yea baby i like rawwwwww
LOL ^
Posted by Nemesis
*squashes da bull*
*Holds Fishy oh so close and kisses cheek* Miss speaking with you Anemone.
yeah, but sometimes 'intense' is a blanket term for self-absorbed knob. bo-ring
not in all cases 😄
Posted by WasteOfTime
I can see how that comes off. Maybe the 'intense' person is having a hard time finding a way to let it out onto/with others?
oh yeah, i think you're right. but it reads as self indulgent when a person doesn't LET themselves be understood, know what i mean? it's like, i'm so deep no-one can reach me, don't even try. just....loosen up sometimes, lol life is short!
Posted by nimbue
yeah, but sometimes 'intense' is a blanket term for self-absorbed knob. bo-ringYeah it's true. People need to have space and meet other people to grow. If you are in an emotionally intense relationship it's like you're very absorbed in your own little world (with your SO). I mean aren't we supposed to help and support each other, not stiffling each other and prevent them from spreading their wings?
That's just me though...
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i agree with this. i dunno, maybe the drama is fun at first...but like you said. how is a stifling relationship healthy? well i suppose at some point one person gets fed up and flaps off...whilst the jilted one gets to mope around and look pitiful *rolls eyes*
Posted by WasteOfTime
I can see how that comes off. Maybe the 'intense' person is having a hard time finding a way to let it out onto/with others?oh yeah, i think you're right. but it reads as self indulgent when a person doesn't LET themselves be understood, know what i mean? it's like, i'm so deep no-one can reach me, don't even try. just....loosen up sometimes, lol life is short!
I know exactly what you mean. I used to be in that phase of ' I'm so deep no one can reach me '. Then I started not really caring what people thought about me so I started opening up. Haven't regretted it since. They could just have a fear of whomever not really liking the 'real' them that they're trying to 'hide' inside. Rejection is a bitch.
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aha, there you go! i guess insecurity is a big river to cross for some though, hey...
It's worth it..if you are looking for someone caring but also playful 🙂
Pisces will always be there..LOL and the messages will come morning..noon and night..yup they are caring and attentive 😛
Always keep guards up, don't invest emotions..and don't take things seriously..that's how you proceed with Pisces (based on my experience with a Cancer-also water sign)
Water signs have a natural way of invoking your emotions and stirring emotions..stay grounded & logic..it's hard but it's attainable.
Once you can keep your emotions grounded, you won't bother the Pisces-water antiques 🙂
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Thank you, BJ. I thought so too.
When he talks to me on msn, I'm not talking back. Today I did, and it was before I read his stupid blog.
Thanks, thanks. And thanks Tiamat. You guys have no idea how this helps...I can't talk to my friends too much about it for 2 reasons: 1-A lot of them know him and want to be neutral, 2-My other close circle friend just happen to be going through major crises of their own about breakups, so mine is so trivial compared to theirs.
I hope to hear from you too, Haffo!