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Sooooo.... 😄
I'm currently dating a pisces man.
We've been dating since three months now (have been on only 3 dates so far, but are in contact via text messages almost every day, exchanging beautifuly poetic letters and romantic fantasies).
There is extraordinary chemistry between us and definetly big potential.
We're currently "only" dating, neither of us want's to be in an exclusive relationship.
In the last couple of days his messages got fewer and shorter. It seems to me that he's ignoring me out of the blue.
I've asked him if he is feeling o.k., if I can help him in any way and offered my support in case he needs it (he just ignored the message).
I still send him a message every day, keeping it light hearted and uplifting, but I don't bombard him with messages (maybe he's just busy at the moment and I definetly don't want to annoy him and respect his space).
Although, I kinda feel the urge to "clear the air".
I want to ask him what's going on. If he's just been busy lately with his life, if there is a problem, if I have done something "wrong", if he's not interested anymore, or if he just needs some space in general...
I feel a really strong emotional, romantic and "best friend" connection to him (almost like a finally found soulmate), I miss him, I'd really like to see him again. And I actually want to write him exactly that.
But: I'm afraid of scaring him away if I tell him my feelings for him so bluntly. I don't want him to feel pressured to commit solely to me (which is not my intention).
He also told me once that he ended most of his relationships because one person got too attached to the other one (so that's also why I'm afraid of scaring him away if I tell him my feelings).
Do you think it would be better to tell him what I feel and think? Or to clear the air and ask him if there's any problem? Or to be patient and wait until he reaches out to me?
I'm used to him beeing a little bit flaky (I have no problem with that), but it's unusual for him to be so "absent".
I don't want to pressure him into anything, but I also don't want him to swim away 😄
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ME: female, age 25. #Sun in Capricorn, Ascendant Leo,
#Mon #Ven, #Mar #Jup and #Ura in Aquarius,
#Mer and #Plu in Sagittarius, #Sat Aries, #Nep Capricorn
HIM: male, age 37. #Sun Pisces, Ascendant Scorpio
(sadly that's all I know of his chart)