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Tresa0012
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I am very big on compatibility with zodiac signs which can be accurate depending on the situation. Well I am dealing with a friend/relationship crisis sort of speak. No offense to the other zodiac signs but I'll prefer a Pisces Man to my question. Just need a man point of view especially from a Pisces. Well here it goes. I've been knowing this Pisces male for about 5 years now. When we first meet we was going out on dates, talking on phone, spending quality time with each other, and basically just getting to know each other. So as we continue to do some of those things I started to grow feelings for him. He did tell me that he recently got out a relationship and I guess he was trying to get his feelings together. I didn't think any thing of it but I told him up front that I want a long term relationship, someone I can build with as far as raising a family and getting married and etc. So as my feelings kept growing stronger for this man while we're still friends and I wanted to be in relationship. We were talking for about 1-2 years around that time. And every time I asked him were is this relationship going? He would either say I don't know, wouldn't answer, change the subject, or make up something that would be irrelevant to the question I asked him. So I told him if you can't give me an answer then it's no need for us to keep talking. And he stated that I need to be more patience. I'm like how is that possible when I've been with him as a friend through think and thin, when he was on his down fall (and didn't leave his side), I was waiting for an answer about 2 to 4 years. I think that's patience enough lol. I was honest, faithful, trustworthy, supported his dreams, motivated him, and etc.So I after I was getting the feeling that I was being unappreciated and the fact that he didn't like me like I like him. Then he told that he don't want to be in a relationship. So after that we stop talking. So one day I decide to go on to his Facebook to send him a message to see how he was doing since we haven't talked in a couple of weeks. Since we still was friend on there.But I looked on his wall and his relationship status said in a relationship.A week or couple days later after we stopped talking and in the back of my mind I'm like WTF. He couldn't give me an honest answer that he didn't want to be in a relationship with me but he gave this other girl an answer. When I asked him up front where is this relationship going, do he want to just be friends or are we
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moving forward into a relationship and he didn't say anything. So now I'm like WOW that really hurt my feelings because I cared about him so much. And I know I did all of the right things but I guess it wasn't good enough for him. So after that we didn't talk for like a while I was so hurt by that situation that I didn't want to talk to him anymore. And the crazy thing about is that I still care for him.Even if he did leave me for another woman. So I will say probably about some years down the road he decide to contact me once again. So I was responded back and we started catching up with each other. So once again he comes back to me when he has broken up with another female. But this time it's more interesting the same thing he did to me his ex girlfriend did to him as far as leaving him for another man. I don't wish bad on people but karma is a cookiemonster. You don't do hurtful things to people and don't think that it won't come back full force to you. So anywho I really figure he loved this girl because of the same way he was acting around me that was the same way I felt when he did me like that. So now he sees how it feels. So me being his friend I was there for him when he was going through his emotions. But at the same time I know Pisces likes to be left alone so they can think in there fantasy world or whatever situation they may be going though at the time. So me still having feeling for him after he hurt me tremendously I decided to stay to see if this was going to be the same thing or will he finally realize that I am the one for him. So this time it was kind of like the first time we met but no so much so because of the fact of what happen last time. I still had this grudge towards him but I still care for him. So anywho we went out on a couples of dates, catch up, and did everything like we did the first we meet. So know I'm thinking why does he keep coming to me when he doesn't want an relationship with me but he knows I want one with him. He knows I care about him, I'm there for him during the down and up times, and when his ex didn't give a damn about him I was still there by his side.But this time we became intimate with each other (why I did that I don't know smh lol knowing that I still have feelings for him and know they grew even more stronger) thinking that this will draw us closer together and moving forward into a relationship (since that's what he said but I guess that was game) ......not. And the thing that kills me why is he wor
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about his ex girlfriend when she is not the one here with him now she with some other dude, he said he wants to get over her but he constantly stays in contact with her, and etc. So I told him that I'm just going to back off until you can figure what it is that you want to do. Because obviously he is still not over his ex and since he is not over his ex. He can't completely love me or like me or whatever until he able to move on without his ex.Because I'm not going to go through how you hurt me the first time again. Especially you're in love with girl and I wouldn't be able to compete with that due to the fact that the the relationship is still fresh. And he is not fully over her. So I told him don't contact me anymore until you can fully decided that you want to be in a relationship with me and that you're completely over your ex. So we didn't contact each other for a while until recently when he contact me the other day sometime this week. And I would say it has been for about a 8-9 months saying that " He wanted me to have some peace of mind, and to let me know that I was right and he was wrong, he miss me and he is sorry for what had happen between us and he may be finally looking to settle down". At first I was excited to see that he contact me once again. But then I started to come back to reality and started thinking about the way he treated like I was nothing to him, I felt he used me to get over his exes and just have someone that he enjoys talking to, how he choose another woman over me and told me that she was more patience than I was
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(Huh? If I'm not mistaken he was talking to this girl the same time he was talking to me, she only came around when he started to get good on his feet but I was there when he was on his down time but where was she), I felt unappreciated (especially this second time around when he was sick one day and after I got off from work i went to get him 4 cans of soup, some medicine, 2 gallons of Gatorade, saltine crackers, ginger ale, gave him a massage, stay with him for a little while because I had to get up for work in the morning. But he didn't appreciate that at all and all he did was complain. He didn't tell me thank you or gave me hug or nothing.) I use to tell him sweet things, something to make him laugh, or etc but he would take the umph out of it to make me feel sad or like I'm doing something wrong, When I didn't have to do none of those things and let his ex girlfriend do it but I did it cause I cared). I don't get it because the girls that he had a relationship with only came around when he was on his feet. But when he is on his down fall the same girls that he was with are never to be found because that's when I be there.
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Tresa0012
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And I thought that's what a man looks for in a woman the one who is going to be there during the good and bad times. Especially the bad times that's when you know who is for you but I guess he can't see that. So any who I'm sorry if this is a long message lol. So I would say I got the message on Monday of this week and I haven't responded since then. I want to response but then again I don't know. I know that you're not suppose to dwell on the past and move forward to the future. Which is true depending on what situation you come across. But in this situation he has hurt me so bad that I don't want to go through that hurt again and asking myself either why or what ifs. I'm TIRED of the what if when I know I'm good woman and he knows that as well. And it's crazy because everything that I give him that what he's looking for. But I guess just not with me. But it has to be something that he keeps wanting to stay into contact with me why I don't know. Well my question to you is if you was him (not comparing you to him just comparing your Pisces sign) what would be your insight on the way he feels towards me? This third time around is he playing games, still trying to string me along, trying to get good with me, does he want to be in a relationship with me this time around ? I would appreciate your answer as honest, and blunt that you can make it. Should I just let him go and stay nothing and move on? How do Pisces men feel when someone they have history with and they contact them and all of a sudden that they don't responded to your message(s)? I would appreciate your advice, suggestions, or insight please. Please no rude or negative comments but I??ll prefer open, honest, and as blunt as you can make it answers. I would really appreciate your feedback thanks in advance.
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jfc .... is this a joke?

How dense can a person possibly be?

Not only does this guy treat you like a second hand fiddle ... here you are telling him you'll take it, if that is all you can get.


here's a clue ... people get what they deserve. If this is what you're getting, then it's what you deserve. If you'd like to have something of value, then YOU have to act as if you have value.


You act like you're nothing more than a piece of old torn carpet for him to wipe his feet on, and that's exactly how he regards you .... and then you come in here to cry about it? As if you're some amazing person who didn't do anything to deserve it?


jfc
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Posted by KittenLaRouge

A guy will know if he wants a relationship with you after a month or a two if he says he doesnt want a relationship that means he doesnt want one with you. Never wait "years" my goodness.






then .... when someone gives you the only thing you need to understand ^^^^


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Thank you for your comment but you will have to read all 5 parts .

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you make the suggestion that she needs to read all of your bullshit, to get it?

seriously?


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Tresa0012
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@ P- Angel Thank you so much for your comment I really appreciate it. But let me ask you this are you a Pisces? ..... No Are you a male? ......No And it has nothing to do with being dense it has a lot of being there for someone. And I'm pretty sure that you were young once whatever year that was. I'm pretty that you ran across the love of life or blah blah blah. So don't here and judge me just needed some suggestions that's all.
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Posted by P-Angel

jfc .... is this a joke?

How dense can a person possibly be?

Not only does this guy treat you like a second hand fiddle ... here you are telling him you'll take it, if that is all you can get.


here's a clue ... people get what they deserve. If this is what you're getting, then it's what you deserve. If you'd like to have something of value, then YOU have to act as if you have value.


You act like you're nothing more than a piece of old torn carpet for him to wipe his feet on, and that's exactly how he regards you .... and then you come in here to cry about it? As if you're some amazing person who didn't do anything to deserve it?



And people do not get what they deserve especially if there are being kind-hearted, and generous to people. I am a wonderful, magnificent, amazing person and I didn't deserve it. Oh Yeah and scroll to see my other comment that's directed towards you.
jfc

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And people do not get what they deserve especially if there are being kind-hearted, and generous to people. I am a wonderful, magnificent, amazing person and I didn't deserve it. Oh Yeah and scroll to see my other comment that's directed towards you.


Tresa hun, you are not any of that when you represent yourself as a door mat. This man lowered your value and you didn't tell him hell no. You allowed his value of you. Which was zilch. So if you feel you are all that you say stop allowing people to lower who say you are. P Angel wasn't being mean..she was being real. You need to hear the truth and stop being defensive of the situation you wanted people to comment on.

No Pisces man is going to comment..the situation is a bit silly...I said they are shaking there head at you and scrolling on. Us women will gang up on you only to get you to see not to do this silly crap again. Head up and move on..not slowly as you put it but cold turkey..he isn't worth a slow detachment. Screw him and love you.
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Posted by SpinCycle
And people do not get what they deserve especially if there are being kind-hearted, and generous to people. I am a wonderful, magnificent, amazing person and I didn't deserve it. Oh Yeah and scroll to see my other comment that's directed towards you.


Tresa hun, you are not any of that when you represent yourself as a door mat. This man lowered your value and you didn't tell him hell no. You allowed his value of you. Which was zilch. So if you feel you are all that you say stop allowing people to lower who say you are. P Angel wasn't being mean..she was being real. You need to hear the truth and stop being defensive of the situation you wanted people to comment on.

No Pisces man is going to comment..the situation is a bit silly...I said they are shaking there head at you and scrolling on. Us women will gang up on you only to get you to see not to do this silly crap again. Head up and move on..not slowly as you put it but cold turkey..he isn't worth a slow detachment. Screw him and love you.



@ Spincycle I thought I was talking to P- Angel not you. I didn't say anything about P - Angel being mean towards me. I glad she kept it real that's my point of this whole message. I'm not being defensive you gave your opinion now I'm giving mines and I wanted certain people to comment on this but I really do appreciate everybody else opinions.I pretty sure alot of people have been in this same situation. The people you've said that are scrolling on either laughing, been in the same situation but don't want to speak on it cause they feel like someone is going to judge, or some people just don't give a damn. But I guess I am the one that was bold enough to post mines. People are going to agree to disagree so what. You don't know if a Pisces man is going to comment or not. If my situation is so silly why do you feel the need to comment?? But I do appreciate your advice thanks.
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I am not a Pisces man. But i think this women,though they think that this post is silly, you are not. I know it takes courage to post something like this and be aware that people are judging you.

These women are just giving you their piece of mind. Kindly take it. Harsh or not, it's the truth. A cliche but again, find someone who will treat you the way you want to. Do not settle with that man. 🙂
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Posted by Tresa0012

I pretty sure alot of people have been in this same situation.







Nope, only stupid muther fukers.

What is happening here is that you've fucked up and instead of realizing this, you make the statement that it happens to others as well, so it's a natural thing to have happen.

It doesn't happen to others a lot ... it only happens to dense people, who can't get the point even when it's smacking them in the face.

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Posted by P-Angel

You keep waiting for male Pisces to respond ... I guess because you think a male would appreciate the servitude and subservient characteristic of a doormat.

You must be English, or from the UK somewhere .... because you obviously believe you are second rate compared to men, so your position is to sit there like a puppy dog, waiting to serve for a few crumbs.



lol



It doesn't matter where I am from. All that matter that I am a women and you're a women as well. I don't know what type of relationship you have been in but all women are not going to react the same to this situation. Instead trying to be little me just because you would have reacted totally different from this situation. Doesn't mean all woman are going to react the same.
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Dear, I dont think you are stupid at all.... we all get our lessons in love, sometimes they last a long time. Im also like you... if I love someone, I hang on forever (scorpio influence). You obviously love this man very much.

Dont do anything more for that Pisces man (they can be very selfish)... let him come to you, let him beg for you. If he really wants you, he will come, if not... someone else comes. But let them win you over this time.
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Posted by P-Angel
Posted by Tresa0012

I pretty sure alot of people have been in this same situation.







Nope, only stupid muther fukers.

What is happening here is that you've fucked up and instead of realizing this, you make the statement that it happens to others as well, so it's a natural thing to have happen.

It doesn't happen to others a lot ... it only happens to dense people, who can't get the point even when it's smacking them in the face.

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When you're going through a situation you're not thinking about the outcomes. Just because you have not went through this situation or allow yourself to go through this situation. Doesn't mean alot of women out there have not went through this. And you say that I've fucked up and no I've realize that I've fucked up. I can admit that but there is two people that is in this friend/relationship crisis not just me. It's two sides to the story of this but you're only getting one. I'm not a stupid mother fucker by a long shoot but what I will say that I am is that I let my guard down (way tooo much) and I went into this vulnerable state (alot of people don't like to get into there vulnerable state because they're scared of get hurt like I did) that I couldn't seem to get out of. Instead of you pointing the fingers at me how about he took advantage of our friendship, me being honest, loyal, and etc. It's not a lot women that are out like that. It's a lot of women out here he who will lie, cheat and act just like a man. What about he should have man up and been honest with me instead of misleading. I don't know about any body else but I don't like to play mind games with someone because that's a waste of time and that hurt the other person feelings. So since you're so I won't a man do this to me, you won't be stupid enough to do this, this is a silly and ridiculous message, and I'm laughing you because you're stupid why don't you come off of your high horse, and get your head of your ass, and realize that this can happen to anybody. I was just bold and brave enough to post mines .
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Posted by eglantine
Dear, I dont think you are stupid at all.... we all get our lessons in love, sometimes they last a long time. Im also like you... if I love someone, I hang on forever (scorpio influence). You obviously love this man very much.

Dont do anything more for that Pisces man (they can be very selfish)... let him come to you, let him beg for you. If he really wants you, he will come, if not... someone else comes. But let them win you over this time.



@Eglantine

Thank you so much. I finally have some who knows where I am coming from. Yeah you're right this is my lesson that I am learning. I am only human. Yeah you right they can be selfish. He had sent me a message last week and I haven't responded back to him since. Yeah it hard
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Posted by P-Angel

A real woman of integrity doesn't put herself in your kind of situation.

It's obvious, from your presentation of yourself ... that you aren't a woman of substance .. rather a moron looking for validation because you are clueless to the concept of honor.

Nobody in here is validating you. Quite the opposite, actually ... but, you're too dumb to notice.



See I'm trying not to call you out of your name. But you're coming across as a cold-hearted witch who doesn't have any symphony, no consideration of other people feelings (especially if there are still going though it). Like you will never ever put yourself in this situation. Like I said before just because you wouldn't do it doesn't mean that other women have not went through it or going through this same situation. I'm not talking about everybody else I'm talking about you. If feel the need to want to try and bring me down instead of lifting me up, and that I'm so dumb. Why bother to keep commenting on my page?
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Posted by osiris626
I am not a Pisces man. But i think this women,though they think that this post is silly, you are not. I know it takes courage to post something like this and be aware that people are judging you.

These women are just giving you their piece of mind. Kindly take it. Harsh or not, it's the truth. A cliche but again, find someone who will treat you the way you want to. Do not settle with that man. 🙂



I know people are judging me that's how this society is. But I don't see no other women posting this same situation or a similar situation that they have been in. So I must be brave and bold enough to post this even though I know people are going to judge but so what. But hey i'm human and there is nobody perfect in this world. I can admit that I am not perfect but they can't. It's one thing to be blunt about a situation. But it's another to blunt and considerate of the other persons feeling especially if they're still going though it. The same people who are judging me or passing by this page are either in this situation now, can relate to this situation but doesn't want to comment, and etc. And I not settling with this man anymore. But thanks for your comment.
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Posted by Tresa0012

.... no consideration of other people feelings ....








this guy wants you to leave him the fuck alone ... but, you won't.

instead, you clung to him like a leach, trying to make him feel guilty for not carrying around your damaged baggage for you ... FOR FIVE YEARS !!!

He can't get away from you .. and oh lord has he ever tried. Should I go back to the first WOT and copy where you mentioned all the ways he's tried to ditch you, insult you, ignore you, offend you, overlook you, hide from you .... and you won't leave him the fuck alone no matter how hard he has tried.

You mean ^^^ that kind of consideration for someone elses feelings?
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Posted by P-Angel

A real woman of integrity doesn't put herself in your kind of situation.

It's obvious, from your presentation of yourself ... that you aren't a woman of substance .. rather a moron looking for validation because you are clueless to the concept of honor.

Nobody in here is validating you. Quite the opposite, actually ... but, you're too dumb to notice.



See I'm trying not to call you out of your name. But you're coming across as a cold-hearted witch who doesn't have any symphony, no consideration of other people feelings (especially if there are still going though it). Like you will never ever put yourself in this situation. Like I said before just because you wouldn't do it doesn't mean that other women have not went through it or going through this same situation. I'm not talking about everybody else I'm talking about you. If feel the need to want to try and bring me down instead of lifting me up, and that I'm so dumb. Why bother to keep commenting on my page?





P-Angel is right about it in the beginning.

Only main thing with you is that you seems slower to understand and caught the honeymoon phase that you won't listen of everyone's warning, his rejection nor even a lot of hint from him that he wants you to leave him alone. Even it seems that you have been caught of his Neptune. Plus, I think you already starting to notice him already in the beginning.

Also are you young? Because you said friends/relationship crisis is that it may have sounds like you have troubles from them that you dislikes them all but that Pisces him. I like to see your birthchart anyway about this problem you have.
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@hotbeefy
I understand it quite well. I might have understood it when I was going though it but I understand it now. For example Just like a woman being in a abusive relationship with her husband. She thinks it's love and etc. But her family, friends, and outsiders looking in tells her this man is no good for you, you need to divorce, leave alone and etc. But the wife can't see that she either learns the hard way or the easy way. How is it that he wants me to leave him alone but he continues to get in contact with me?
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Posted by Tresa0012

.... no consideration of other people feelings ....








this guy wants you to leave him the fuck alone ... but, you won't.

instead, you clung to him like a leach, trying to make him feel guilty for not carrying around your damaged baggage for you ... FOR FIVE YEARS !!!

He can't get away from you .. and oh lord has he ever tried. Should I go back to the first WOT and copy where you mentioned all the ways he's tried to ditch you, insult you, ignore you, offend you, overlook you, hide from you .... and you won't leave him the fuck alone no matter how hard he has tried.

You mean ^^^ that kind of consideration for someone elses feelings?
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No I meant what I said. I guess you're this perfect person that doesn't make any mistake don't you?
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.... no consideration of other people feelings ....








this guy wants you to leave him the fuck alone ... but, you won't.

instead, you clung to him like a leach, trying to make him feel guilty for not carrying around your damaged baggage for you ... FOR FIVE YEARS !!!

He can't get away from you .. and oh lord has he ever tried. Should I go back to the first WOT and copy where you mentioned all the ways he's tried to ditch you, insult you, ignore you, offend you, overlook you, hide from you .... and you won't leave him the fuck alone no matter how hard he has tried.

You mean ^^^ that kind of consideration for someone elses feelings?




No I meant what I said. I guess you're this perfect person that doesn't make any mistake don't you?
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lol ... so seriously? you really didn't get that sarcastic dig?

I didn't really realize how dense you are ... I thought it was just marginal.
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Posted by Tresa0012

.... no consideration of other people feelings ....








this guy wants you to leave him the fuck alone ... but, you won't.

instead, you clung to him like a leach, trying to make him feel guilty for not carrying around your damaged baggage for you ... FOR FIVE YEARS !!!

He can't get away from you .. and oh lord has he ever tried. Should I go back to the first WOT and copy where you mentioned all the ways he's tried to ditch you, insult you, ignore you, offend you, overlook you, hide from you .... and you won't leave him the fuck alone no matter how hard he has tried.

You mean ^^^ that kind of consideration for someone elses feelings?




No I meant what I said. I guess you're this perfect person that doesn't make any mistake don't you?




lol ... so seriously? you really didn't get that sarcastic dig?

I didn't really realize how dense you are ... I thought it was just marginal.
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LMAO I did get what you were saying sarcastically but I guess you didn't get mines as well. You still didn't answer the question ......
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I'm kind of envious of him, tbh .... he's had you as his toy for 5 years to yank on whenever he fancied getting his ego stroked.

You're easy to lead in circles ... because most things fly over year head.


But, of course, I know you're eagerly waiting for your next treat from him, so your focus is on that. After he drops his next crumb for you, and in that moment when you are feeling content because he noticed you, come back to this thread ... maybe then you will begin to see what you've done to yourself.
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@hotbeefy
I understand it quite well. I might have understood it when I was going though it but I understand it now. For example Just like a woman being in a abusive relationship with her husband. She thinks it's love and etc. But her family, friends, and outsiders looking in tells her this man is no good for you, you need to divorce, leave alone and etc. But the wife can't see that she either learns the hard way or the easy way. How is it that he wants me to leave him alone but he continues to get in contact with me?



Because deep down you still likes him that you cared for him.
That's why let it go!
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I am letting go thanks.🙂
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@hotbeefy
I understand it quite well. I might have understood it when I was going though it but I understand it now. For example Just like a woman being in a abusive relationship with her husband. She thinks it's love and etc. But her family, friends, and outsiders looking in tells her this man is no good for you, you need to divorce, leave alone and etc. But the wife can't see that she either learns the hard way or the easy way. How is it that he wants me to leave him alone but he continues to get in contact with me?



Because deep down you still likes him that you cared for him.
That's why let it go!
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I am letting go thanks.🙂
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Tresa0012
@Tresa0012
11 Years

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Posted by P-Angel

I'm kind of envious of him, tbh .... he's had you as his toy for 5 years to yank on whenever he fancied getting his ego stroked.

You're easy to lead in circles ... because most things fly over year head.


But, of course, I know you're eagerly waiting for your next treat from him, so your focus is on that. After he drops his next crumb for you, and in that moment when you are feeling content because he noticed you, come back to this thread ... maybe then you will begin to see what you've done to yourself.



Thank you so much for your insight I'm glad you feel that way. But hey you still didn't my question ..... but yeah i get it lol
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eglantine
@eglantine
12 Years

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But hey you still didn't answer my question

Tresa, these people here give you only rational advice, most of them are cowards that never follow their heart in relationships. So they end up bitter alone or in unhappy relationships without any spark because they settled.

But love is not rational, in love you must follow your heart (I mean you still have to have common sense🙂. You can pm me the DOBs, if you want.
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Cmccask1
@Cmccask1
11 YearsCapricorn

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Hello I'm a pisces female. I don't know about the pisces male but as a pisces female, I dislike clingy/needy people! He will never appreciate/value you until you appreciate/value yourself (and that goes for any sign).

You shouldn't be giving him all of that if he isn't your husband. Why would he date you or marry you if he can have his cake and eat it too? He's a freaking jack A for not seeing how great you are. Why is his needs/wants more important than yours? You care about making him happy more than yourself!

He will never value you because he can leave for months and come back to a smiling face. Let him go honey. Join some fun clubs, hang out with friends ANYTHING to forget about him. Never let ANYONE have that much control.

Good luck 🙂
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osiris626
@osiris626
11 YearsCancer

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Posted by Cmccask1
Hello I'm a pisces female. I don't know about the pisces male but as a pisces female, I dislike clingy/needy people! He will never appreciate/value you until you appreciate/value yourself (and that goes for any sign).

You shouldn't be giving him all of that if he isn't your husband. Why would he date you or marry you if he can have his cake and eat it too? He's a freaking jack A for not seeing how great you are. Why is his needs/wants more important than yours? You care about making him happy more than yourself!

He will never value you because he can leave for months and come back to a smiling face. Let him go honey. Join some fun clubs, hang out with friends ANYTHING to forget about him. Never let ANYONE have that much control.

Good luck 🙂



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