There's a line between friendship and interest.

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Romantic mostly. There's this guy at my job his birthday was yesterday. Bought him a cake, and a card. I work part time at an arcade. Long story short...
Me and coworkers are taking back a game of laser tag. My Taurus friend spiked my punch, and well I began to behave in a childlike manner. He walked up to me very close and said you're awesome you know that. I laughed and told him to catch me in the maze. He runs to the tower calls me and starts making goofy faces. Maybe that's the start to a friendship?
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That is a brain twister,well I will try my best only knew one Pisces guy from an old job. He was in and out of relationships, and I happened to point out his flaws/addictions he said I was one of the most ignorant judgemental person he'd ever met. I saw myself helping him actually. My grandmother whom is also a Pisces says she can't stand me, because I fail to keep contact. Don't have a good reputation with the fishes. Lol
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Ok we all made it home. So the entire night I noticed him catching glances every now and then. Mingling mostly but when he sat next to me and asked me how my night was and random conversation I felt the words. I more so felt the energy from the look in his eyes. Is that possible to feel so much intensity from a close to face stare?



I am by nature...."GOOFY" Pisces can feel within, the vibes from other people. So, If someone vibes to me more than friends type interest, but I only view them strictly as a friend. I try my best not to send mixed singles (We do not like to hurt people...Well, I Don't). I will stay my goofy fun self and try to avoid ANY heavy eye contact. Any body language that can be interpreted as "MORE" than friendly..I will try to avoid.
If I am interested, I will make Heavy eye contact. (Since we are very sensitive with a lot of pride.) We do a lot of body language checks with the other person. Does that make sense?? We will send you a vibe/message via body language and watch for the a response from the other person..via body language. We also use light conversation (usually fun sarcastic) and add the heat to see if you can keep up with our random weirdness. Not sure about all Pisces...But I like to discuss stuff that really matters...without the intensity of the topic, LOL. It could be about ANYTHING!! As long as it matters to you. Hope that makes sense. As we test the waters....The more reassurance or GREEN light GO we get from the other person. The braver we get to approach you and get more personal.

To answer your question....Yes it's very possible to feel energy from eye contact. It's something I like to share with someone I am interested in. Keep in mind that sharing that energy can drain us...like a battery. In the beginning stages were high from the new interest, So we are juiced on our own.....but after time....Please send us back some energy too. We will appreciate that very much.

Hope that helps a little.
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you mean by interest?

Are you implying that just because a person takes notice of you that they must want to begin a love relationship with you?

No?

then what you imply by saying "interest"?


Posted by LivingOnPorpoise

He walked up to me very close and said you're awesome you know that.






So, if someone tells you that you are awesome .... then you want to automatically placed irrational expectations on it, to make the suggestion that he this person wants a love relationship with you?

if you don't mean love relationship .... then what do you mean by interest? You say friends or interest. If you don't mean friends, then what do you mean by interest?


Posted by LivingOnPorpoise

I more so felt the energy from the look in his eyes.

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Just because YOU felt something, doesn't mean the other person does. Do you even realize that?

Sounds to me like you are one of those millions of desperate women out there who place love expectations on a guy just because he said "hello" to you.

It's ridiculous.
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Thanks my2 that was really insightful. Thanks for bringing me to reality Mrs.p. I guess I did get caught up making up things in my head based on mere perception. Maybe I feared rejection so I said friend to avoid any disappointment so I did mean love interest. With this one I seem to have acted with no clear signals imposing he likes me based off of chemicals simulation in my brain. I wouldn't say desperate as I don't seek out prey and expect them to give me any title or label in their life. I've noticed that I have a lot of working to do to give someone my best, so I tend to avoid relationships unless my daydreams smoother my reality.