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H... yes you are dear

Houston - google Pisces male traits tons will come up the more the better hun! The more the better! It helps... because when we act a certain way you'll be like OOoo okay I see. Or I saw that one coming! lol

This has helped me with the Aqua... I'm like oh yeah I know what's going to happen next so it's not a shock to the system and your not scratching your head saying ok WTF just happened. Why did he take it like that why is reacting like his is.
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Posted by PunkyBruiser
Tbird, its always cool to see how mermaids like the Aquas.n its the funniest thing and one of the best friendships... I'm not a Pisces but my coworkers happens to be an Aqua dude and we crack each other up hehe. They're so adorabley humorous.



Aquas, aquas, aquas how I love the let me count the ways.... jebus!!!

Intellectual, funny, unconventional, humanitarians, generous, sexy as all hell, the air of being unobtainable, and of nonchalance...

OH YEAH!! How isn't that freaking drool worthy!

Plus he is a tiger.... oh my lord
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Posted by houstonpeach74
tried that...too many to read. don't know which are the best.






I think I've read every site there is on the Pisces guy. Knowledge is key!
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Exactly!!! I have read so much material on Aqua men it's down right ridiculous and I have re-read many of them. It helps so much it really does. I can't stress that enough... Linda is wonderful but the more you know...the better you can be prepared.
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Posted by PunkyBruiser
Tbird, its always cool to see how mermaids like the Aquas.n its the funniest thing and one of the best friendships... I'm not a Pisces but my coworkers happens to be an Aqua dude and we crack each other up hehe. They're so adorabley humorous.



Aquas, aquas, aquas how I love the let me count the ways.... jebus!!!

Intellectual, funny, unconventional, humanitarians, generous, sexy as all hell, the air of being unobtainable, and of nonchalance...

OH YEAH!! How isn't that freaking drool worthy!

Plus he is a tiger.... oh my lord
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Oh I forgot can carry on a interesting conversation for hours and fishes LOVE to flap our gums... hence the fishes board is more active than most of the other boards.
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Posted by PunkyBruiser
Aww. Calm down Peach and give um time to process things. Honestly, it sounds like he's just as into you and will come around in due time so don't worry your pretty self 🙂.



This! the fact that he called you is huge I hate to call people.I would rather text or keep it completely electronic.. that way you can take as you want to process it and there is no dead air. Plus it's easier to keep emotions out.. well for the most part.

If he didn't care... fishes are known for saying kiss it and be done... silent treatment the whole way even in person... we will look at you with irritation and disgust and walk the hell away like your not even worth the breath and vibration of my vocal chords to tell you where you can go. Seriously we can cut you off like that no problems at all.
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PParadise, after all this happened, I sent him 2 emails that pretty much put me out there with my feelings. He knows how I feel now. The "you will?" comment meant no harm, but I can now see based on all the fishies feedback that you all would have read it differently too.

He sent me a short email last night that said he wasn't ignoring and that he'd reply today. My emails truly put myself out there and I hope he knows I'm sincere about them.
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See I bet he tried to plan out every possible scenario in his head how the date would go. What he would do, what she would do, what would happen. But he didn't plan this possible scenario and it put a wrench in it.



Life in general throws loads of wrenches in things. Sometimes like a mine field. Everyone goes through gippy tummy before meeting. Not hanging yourself before doing it, there's the trick.
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See I bet he tried to plan out every possible scenario in his head how the date would go. What he would do, what she would do, what would happen. But he didn't plan this possible scenario and it put a wrench in it.



Life in general throws loads of wrenches in things. Sometimes like a mine field. Everyone goes through gippy tummy before meeting. Not hanging yourself before doing it, there's the trick.



Well then she shouldn't have hung herself even if accidentally.
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Or he himself by reading too much into a simple word. People are well known for mistakes.
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See I bet he tried to plan out every possible scenario in his head how the date would go. What he would do, what she would do, what would happen. But he didn't plan this possible scenario and it put a wrench in it.



Life in general throws loads of wrenches in things. Sometimes like a mine field. Everyone goes through gippy tummy before meeting. Not hanging yourself before doing it, there's the trick.



Well then she shouldn't have hung herself even if accidentally.



Or he himself by reading too much into a simple word. People are well known for mistakes.



VB she accidentally fucked up. I don't care how you spin it.

And now she is doing the same thing by worrying about his words. So yeahhhhh.
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They BOTH did. The question now is what's being done to correct the oversight. That's what I mean. You can't walk through a minefield worrying over one syllable every time you speak. That's unfair. It doesn't come to the heart of things. It leaves them in limbo between two people that should be laying waste to it. Too much time for imagination to spin out things that aren't even reality.
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See I bet he tried to plan out every possible scenario in his head how the date would go. What he would do, what she would do, what would happen. But he didn't plan this possible scenario and it put a wrench in it.



Life in general throws loads of wrenches in things. Sometimes like a mine field. Everyone goes through gippy tummy before meeting. Not hanging yourself before doing it, there's the trick.



Well then she shouldn't have hung herself even if accidentally.



Or he himself by reading too much into a simple word. People are well known for mistakes.



VB she accidentally fucked up. I don't care how you spin it.

And now she is doing the same thing by worrying about his words. So yeahhhhh.



They BOTH did. The question now is what's being done to correct the oversight. That's what I mean. You can't walk through a minefield worrying over one syllable every time you speak. That's unfair. It doesn't come to the heart of things. It leaves them in limbo between two people that should be laying waste to it. Too much time for imagination to spin out things that aren't even reality.



You don't leave a convo that questions a meeting that is happening in about 12 hours.

Pisces and Taurus just wont work I'm starting to be convinced if this is the thought process.
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And as to DAT, wouldn't happen in my world. I'm usually the one left hanging. True story. I'm waiting on a text right now as a matter of fact. That'll take me from zero to schizoid quicker than anything. Two seconds, TWO.
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Posted by houstonpeach74
We are sending little messages back and forth. I just told him that I'll let him get back to watching the Cowboys game. He replied with "you're not bothering me". but I just feel I need to back away. I know he is either willing to take another shot or just sees me as a friend, so I don't want to try to figure this out over text during a football game.



Erm, KEEP bothering him. Take that one at face value.
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And as to DAT, wouldn't happen in my world. I'm usually the one left hanging. True story. I'm waiting on a text right now as a matter of fact. That'll take me from zero to schizoid quicker than anything. Two seconds, TWO.



Not my point. My point being she was afraid to put her foot in the water but even though she was he still pursued her strongly. Then this text thing happened and it made him swim back and afraid to swim forward again. So now she is having to strongly pursue and she is doing a good job. But if a taurus is thinking this stuff needs to be worked out and now! Yeah probably not gonna happen.

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I don't mean "right the hell NAO", just more of an acceptance of things that have occurred and a realization that it's a sticking point. Back and forth. Taurus gets the finger put on them about not being willing to stick their neck out, but I think it's humanity in general. She made an unwitting gaffe. He 'eeped' over it. She 'eeped', they're both 'eeping'. Less 'eep' more talky. Everyone relaxes. Easy, breezy beautiful Cover Girl. Neither of them bending in a way, when a middle ground is necessary.
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Leave him alone now. There was no sense in you pouring your heart in a one page email because he was upset about you falling asleep. It was never a big deal in the first place. When he decided to cancel the date over such silliness, then you should've left him alone until he contacted you again. Act like nothing has happened, everybody has their moments. And just continued to be warm to him. You don't give attention to the negativity of something like that. He sounds like a commitment phobe anyways. He was upset because you didn't respond to his text in a timely manner and canceled a date because of that. HELLO RED FLAG!!!!!

P.S. Contacting a man during booty call hours is a no no. What did you need to say hi for, when you knew you would see the "manbaby" the next day anyways? You just couldn't wait? It's understandable that you like the guy, but you laid all the cards out on the table already. You've got to learn to keep it cool and dispense a little at a time until he lays all of his out there, because men get bored real quick.

P.S.S. I had the same situation with a Pisces man early on the relationship. He freaked out. He called me one evening and said he was going to stay home instead of spending time with me, so I was like ok because in my mind I didn't think it was a bad thing, because we weren't physically connected at the hip. Lol then he was like well I'm falling too fast so I need to rethink all of this. I was like ok do whats best for you, but in my mind I was like WTF ever. I didnt try to contact him after that because I knew I had not done anything to him except be loving to him. He called me back begging my forgiveness. What I told him that there is nothing wrong with wanting time to yourself to think, but don't come at me with bullshit trying to upset me or get a rise out of me. He did it again and we are no longer together. He now looks at me like a wide eyed child which is exactly what he is.
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And as to DAT, wouldn't happen in my world. I'm usually the one left hanging. True story. I'm waiting on a text right now as a matter of fact. That'll take me from zero to schizoid quicker than anything. Two seconds, TWO.



Not my point. My point being she was afraid to put her foot in the water but even though she was he still pursued her strongly. Then this text thing happened and it made him swim back and afraid to swim forward again. So now she is having to strongly pursue and she is doing a good job. But if a taurus is thinking this stuff needs to be worked out and now! Yeah probably not gonna happen.



I don't mean "right the hell NAO", just more of an acceptance of things that have occurred and a realization that it's a sticking point. Back and forth. Taurus gets the finger put on them about not being willing to stick their neck out, but I think it's humanity in general. She made an unwitting gaffe. He 'eeped' over it. She 'eeped', they're both 'eeping'. Less 'eep' more talky. Everyone relaxes. Easy, breezy beautiful Cover Girl. Neither of them bending in a way, when a middle ground is necessary.



well that's not gonna happen with constant bothering of him!
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Obstinate. And I recognize the trait, yep! Have it. LOL He told her she wasn't bothering him. I don't mean to continue stomping in on the game..as tempting as that is. 😛
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Posted by intriguedbypiscesman
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We are sending little messages back and forth. I just told him that I'll let him get back to watching the Cowboys game. He replied with "you're not bothering me". but I just feel I need to back away. I know he is either willing to take another shot or just sees me as a friend, so I don't want to try to figure this out over text during a football game.



Erm, KEEP bothering him. Take that one at face value.





Yep....he's hinting he wants you to take the lead.....
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Yeah because he is lazy and realized she's willing to do all the work now. If you wrestle with a pig you will get the filthy, but the pig will like it. Lol
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Leave him alone now. There was no sense in you pouring your heart in a one page email because he was upset about you falling asleep. It was never a big deal in the first place. When he decided to cancel the date over such silliness, then you should've left him alone until he contacted you again. Act like nothing has happened, everybody has their moments. And just continued to be warm to him. You don't give attention to the negativity of something like that. He sounds like a commitment phobe anyways. He was upset because you didn't respond to his text in a timely manner and canceled a date because of that. HELLO RED FLAG!!!!!

P.S. Contacting a man during booty call hours is a no no. What did you need to say hi for, when you knew you would see the "manbaby" the next day anyways? You just couldn't wait? It's understandable that you like the guy, but you laid all the cards out on the table already. You've got to learn to keep it cool and dispense a little at a time until he lays all of his out there, because men get bored real quick.

P.S.S. I had the same situation with a Pisces man early on the relationship. He freaked out. He called me one evening and said he was going to stay home instead of spending time with me, so I was like ok because in my mind I didn't think it was a bad thing, because we weren't physically connected at the hip. Lol then he was like well I'm falling too fast so I need to rethink all of this. I was like ok do whats best for you, but in my mind I was like WTF ever. I didnt try to contact him after that because I knew I had not done anything to him except be loving to him. He called me back begging my forgiveness. What I told him that there is nothing wrong with wanting time to yourself to think, but don't come at me with bullshit trying to upset me or get a rise out of me. He did it again and we are no longer together. He now looks at me like a wide eyed child which is exactly what he is.



Your situation was quite different so sod off with ur nonsense.
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Ok sorry if I offended you. Just thought it was ok to give my opinion since it is a public board and all. 🙂
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Guys, I need some help here. He's actually at a sports bar - pretty popular chain here in Houston. I joked with him and said "Well there's one of 4 places you could be, but I won't show up and surprise you". He replied wiht "Ha", and I replied with "I wouldn't do that to you",

THEN he replies with "Westheimer".

THat's the location he's at. Is he telling me to come see him or is he teasing me?