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DON'T GO!!! You are entering his man cave! That is an inappropriate first date especially with the situation you are in... he's enjoying the game and is probably with friends. That will be so hard for a fish to give attention to all in such situations.

I say ask him if you can join him AFTER the game!! AFTER not during. Guys love their sports and do not want to have heavy conversations at that time. It's his time to enjoy himself not for you to be starting at him and freaking out that he's all into you. You will feel let down and he will feel it then he will feel pressure to attend to you and then have to struggle between his attention between the game, you and his friends.

I say nay to the game. I watch sports and I want to watch the sport NOT be distracted by other BS. Leave him be for now. Let the man enjoy the game.
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DON'T GO!!! You are entering his man cave! That is an inappropriate first date especially with the situation you are in... he's enjoying the game and is probably with friends. That will be so hard for a fish to give attention to all in such situations.

I say ask him if you can join him AFTER the game!! AFTER not during. Guys love their sports and do not want to have heavy conversations at that time. It's his time to enjoy himself not for you to be starting at him and freaking out that he's all into you. You will feel let down and he will feel it then he will feel pressure to attend to you and then have to struggle between his attention between the game, you and his friends.

I say nay to the game. I watch sports and I want to watch the sport NOT be distracted by other BS. Leave him be for now. Let the man enjoy the game.



tbird, it's too late she's off to watch sports with him.
She'll be back with a thread about how she was denied for a tv screen all night. Well maybe not ALL night. lol.
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FUC* ME! This ISNT good guys! She's going to feel neglected and feel sad and crap and he's gonna pick those vibes up and it will add more frustration to the situation...OO I'm a poet and didn't know it.

God I hope she likes sports and keep her feelings in check...she's entering a man cave my god I hope she can handle herself with men and sports. I watch sports and I'm observant and there is always a chick all dressed up like she's going to a club being bored playing with her hair hanging all over her dude vying or his attention. Not the time and place for such affections. Football is carnage at a frenzied state and should be enjoyed in all it's wonderful complexity and brutality not for a chick to be vying or doting after you unless your bring a beer and chips.

I'm like that don't fuc* with me when I'm watching a football game. Let me enjoy my beer and let me scream and cuss at the screen and cheer when my freaking Browns are doing well.

I hope it goes well...but I have a feeling it won't
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Before I leave the computer, I did get a reply from him. I will only share bits:

Nothing you did was wrong. It was true that I was confused by the disappearing act. It is also true that I overreacted and I'm sorry. I think you are wonderful and I like who you are. Everything you shared with me found a safe place in me. I am glad you shared. I guess we'll finish later since you are on your way here. 🙂"
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Posted by houstonpeach74
Before I leave the computer, I did get a reply from him. I will only share bits:

Nothing you did was wrong. It was true that I was confused by the disappearing act. It is also true that I overreacted and I'm sorry. I think you are wonderful and I like who you are. Everything you shared with me found a safe place in me. I am glad you shared. I guess we'll finish later since you are on your way here. 🙂"



Happy Cow. 😄
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If you go try to time it that when you walk in the door there is only 1 min left on the play clock. I hope to the cowboys are winning...if not yeah he's gonna be in a pissy mood to begin with. May God have mercy on you luv.



Hes not gonna be in a pissy mood because the cowboys are kicking ass. To they are good at blowing games but still!
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Well thank the lord for that

"Don't give her so much credit lolz jeez I'm sure shell b fine n knows her way around any sports bar"

If you do great... I'm not saying that she is stupid or not adaptable, but I'm saying such females are a rare breed.

Keep the convo on the game and don't talk too much. lol

Once the game ends don't be like so what's going on... especially if the play clock hits zero and you start into it. Give it time let the naturally progress. It's great you like the Cowboys root for them together. Keep it casual. Don't go overboard by your dress by trying to be a vamp or anything... that's just me.
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Posted by houstonpeach74
Before I leave the computer, I did get a reply from him. I will only share bits:

Nothing you did was wrong. It was true that I was confused by the disappearing act. It is also true that I overreacted and I'm sorry. I think you are wonderful and I like who you are. Everything you shared with me found a safe place in me. I am glad you shared. I guess we'll finish later since you are on your way here. 🙂"



Houston you are clear for landing! *holds hands up in the good* And it's good! It's all good.
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Oh man I have been following this story since e beginning, lolol, what a ride it's been silently rooting for it to work out! So funny how much love and hope you can have for people you don't even know.

Hope the game goes wonderfully!!!!

Want to add tho, I imagine there won't be a reply to the long email right? Just saying, I wouldn't continue to expect one now that things are back on track!
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We met at the bar. He was sitting with a few guys but they were just other bar goers. I got there and around the beginning of the 4th QTR. The Cowboys did win, yay. We had some small talk, mainly about his daughter and sports in general. He was impressed that I knew so much about the Cowboys and football in general. Really the conversation was very mild. There was once he leaned in and told me that I smelled nice and another time that he stood up behind me to shake hands with the guy sitting next to me and he put his face next to my next and whispered "You need to wear this perfect again, I like it". I wore my hair down so my hair was in his face when he said it.

I hugged him when I got there and we hugged twice at my car, but no kiss. He texted me about an hour ago and said he wanted to kiss me, but knows it's best to take it slow and steady. I'm good with that.