
tbird
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Posted by piranhaparadiisePosted by intriguedbypiscesman
Well, I let this bother me for about a minute I must admit but then I realized that next to P-angel, PiranhaParadise is probably the most miserably unhappy closed-minded person up in here.
Just because I have a different opinion then yours and vice versa does not mean I am miserable... it means I don't agree with what you have put forth...
And even I didn't read until now that your husband is in agreeance of the end of your marriage and is agreeable to both you dating others outside of marriage...
My thoughts were based on one being deceived and not knowing the truth of what the other is doing...etc
But I still think it is more healthy to heal before going onto someone new...you haven't healed completely...you're still hurting from your husband and you will continue to until you have divorced and had time alone in your own place...
You are unhappy but this Pisces man is not what is going to make you heal...only standing on your own feet and dealing with your emotions from within will ...you will come out of it a stronger person...and then you will be healthy and complete to move forward with someone new...click to expand

Posted by piranhaparadiise
And to be honest these boards are full of people who want to be in the *in* crowd on dxp...and when a few people come with a difference opinion then oh can't have that...
I don't care if I am liked or not...I don't come on these boards to make buddies...just expressing my own thoughts ...
but I'm not going to pat people on the back if I don't agree on a subject...
you can't expect everyone to like your story nor agree or expect them to agree with everyone else...just like I can't expect anyone to agree on my thoughts...
Anyone can say anything on these boards...it doesn't mean everyone is speaking truth...

Posted by Nights22
People shouldn't lead another person on if they know its just gonna be a rebound.
I just wanna say if this was a guy doing this to a girl and he was just out of a relationship and still living with his gf and not over his gf and was leading another man on almost every woman on this site would be on his ass scolding him.
Just so happens that I'm the guy who comes into this thread that has become an illogical pit of estrogen hell.

Posted by piranhaparadiisePosted by tbird
So you basically jumped down her throat and called her a cheater without fully reading her posts? Is that what your saying? So is she still a cheater then? So am I a cheater even though I stated in many posts my ex hasn't lived with me for 7 months and he's moved in with this g/f?
I want clarification before I say what I wanna say...
tbird you're full of anger and quite honestly you can't expect someone to agree or feel the same way as yourself on certain topics...
you just can't expect anyone to think the same way...click to expand
Actually no, I'm not full of anger. I'm not even remotely pissed. I just wanted clarification tis all. I maybe irritated for being called something I am not without you fully looking at all the facts, then it seems you are back pedaling. Like I said before you label people read the whole post.

Posted by Nights22
People shouldn't lead another person on if they know its just gonna be a rebound.
I just wanna say if this was a guy doing this to a girl and he was just out of a relationship and still living with his gf and not over his gf and was leading another man on almost every woman on this site would be on his ass scolding him.
Just so happens that I'm the guy who comes into this thread that has become an illogical pit of estrogen hell.

Posted by piranhaparadiisePosted by tbird
Actually no, I'm not full of anger. I'm not even remotely pissed. I just wanted clarification tis all. I maybe irritated for being called something I am not without you fully looking at all the facts, then it seems you are back pedaling. Like I said before you label people read the whole post.
I don't back peddle...I stand by what I say...I did read the whole posts...but I didn't even comment on your situation because I was answering what you had said...about someone else...click to expand



Posted by Nights22Posted by aPiscesPrincessPosted by tbirdPosted by Nights22
People shouldn't lead another person on if they know its just gonna be a rebound.
I just wanna say if this was a guy doing this to a girl and he was just out of a relationship and still living with his gf and not over his gf and was leading another man on almost every woman on this site would be on his ass scolding him.
Just so happens that I'm the guy who comes into this thread that has become an illogical pit of estrogen hell.
lmfao illogical pit of estrogen hell... I like that... I may use that in the future!
I agree with that and you are correct we would scold him.
hahaha The guys would get no mercy in this illogical pit of estrogen hell 😄
haha luckily I can take the no mercy! lolz
I really really do wish women would think more logically before letting emotions take over.click to expand


Posted by Nights22Posted by venusianbullPosted by Nights22Posted by aPiscesPrincessPosted by tbirdPosted by Nights22
People shouldn't lead another person on if they know its just gonna be a rebound.
I just wanna say if this was a guy doing this to a girl and he was just out of a relationship and still living with his gf and not over his gf and was leading another man on almost every woman on this site would be on his ass scolding him.
Just so happens that I'm the guy who comes into this thread that has become an illogical pit of estrogen hell.
lmfao illogical pit of estrogen hell... I like that... I may use that in the future!
I agree with that and you are correct we would scold him.
hahaha The guys would get no mercy in this illogical pit of estrogen hell 😄
haha luckily I can take the no mercy! lolz
I really really do wish women would think more logically before letting emotions take over.
We cannot for the most part. We are the nurturers. God help the male sex.
Sometimes I dont even think he can help. lolz jkclick to expand

Posted by intriguedbypiscesmanPosted by tbird
well fuc* me...nevermind H.
Huh? Oh, because I snatched that email up right quick and responded!click to expand


Posted by intriguedbypiscesmanPosted by piranhaparadiise
I'm not going to go look at what I wrote ...if two people *know* and have talked together that they agree on seeing others it isn't being deceptive to the other person cause they agreed...however if the other party *assumes* it is over by sleeping in different rooms but not talking about the real truth to the other person it is deceptive...it's cheating
...I still feel being under the same roof and married and seeing someone else ...it is still cheating...even if not seeing someone but emotionally...
To me personally however that scenario it wouldn't feel right....I couldn't go with someone else even if it was agreed...but that's just me...I would want to be completely free legally first...before going on to someone new...
So what am I then if I had some other place to go, or I had my own apartment established but just waiting for things to be finalized? Would I be a cheater then? Most women who go through a divorce gets the house and the kids while the bread winner, the father who is not the primary caretaker goes and gets himself a studio apartment. In my case he bought the house before we go married so it is not a marital asset. I cannot win his house nor can I afford a three bedroom place with all the furnishings, beds and dressers for my kids, A table for them to eat their meals at etc. People should look at things from all perspectives before the judge and name call.click to expand

Posted by intriguedbypiscesmanPosted by tbirdPosted by intriguedbypiscesmanPosted by tbird
well fuc* me...nevermind H.
Huh? Oh, because I snatched that email up right quick and responded!
Oh no hun that wasn't directed at you... more like crisis semi-adverted. 😛
maybe... *gigglesnort*
Oh I see. see? No worries necessary.click to expand

Posted by piranhaparadiisePosted by intriguedbypiscesman
So what am I then if I had some other place to go, or I had my own apartment established but just waiting for things to be finalized? Would I be a cheater then? Most women who go through a divorce gets the house and the kids while the bread winner, the father who is not the primary caretaker goes and gets himself a studio apartment. In my case he bought the house before we go married so it is not a marital asset. I cannot win his house nor can I afford a three bedroom place with all the furnishings, beds and dressers for my kids, A table for them to eat their meals at etc. People should look at things from all perspectives before the judge and name call.
look intrigue I stated my opinion and they are just my thoughts on how myself feels about a subject...
If you don't class yourself as a cheater then you don't ...thats your view...everyone can't or will not agree or disagree...it just difference of opinions .what feels right for one person might not feel right for another etc...
So I will agree to disagree on this whole thread...and won't comment further...click to expand

Posted by intriguedbypiscesmanPosted by venusianbull
If the children are toddlers they can share a room with bunkbeds for a time, or two twin beds. Have to pare down your thinking. Garage sales, rummage sales and charity type shops yeild amazing finds. I'd far prefer living in a one roomed dwelling safe and snug with my children in my arms than snuffling mold spore in a basement. Give yourself a hand UP woman. Think of it as a waystation or a place of peace until things are more on the level. Him holding the purse strings is doing you no favors. It's holding you down.
I'm more than fine with sharing a pull out bed with them and finding a table at a yard sale. Still, All I have in my bank is going toward a retainer fee for this lawyer. I'll be going back to school part time with not much room left for work. They will be in school in two years and I can work full time. This may drag out til then. Should my vagina not be looked at or touched by anyone other than myself for another two years? How many of you can go four years without sex?click to expand

Posted by tbirdPosted by piranhaparadiisePosted by intriguedbypiscesman
So what am I then if I had some other place to go, or I had my own apartment established but just waiting for things to be finalized? Would I be a cheater then? Most women who go through a divorce gets the house and the kids while the bread winner, the father who is not the primary caretaker goes and gets himself a studio apartment. In my case he bought the house before we go married so it is not a marital asset. I cannot win his house nor can I afford a three bedroom place with all the furnishings, beds and dressers for my kids, A table for them to eat their meals at etc. People should look at things from all perspectives before the judge and name call.
look intrigue I stated my opinion and they are just my thoughts on how myself feels about a subject...
If you don't class yourself as a cheater then you don't ...thats your view...everyone can't or will not agree or disagree...it just difference of opinions .what feels right for one person might not feel right for another etc...
So I will agree to disagree on this whole thread...and won't comment further...
Hell that's all you had to say to begin with and no drama would of happened, instead of calling people cheaters.
So meh pfff whatever.. I'm so doneclick to expand

Posted by piranhaparadiisePosted by tbirdPosted by piranhaparadiisePosted by intriguedbypiscesman
So what am I then if I had some other place to go, or I had my own apartment established but just waiting for things to be finalized? Would I be a cheater then? Most women who go through a divorce gets the house and the kids while the bread winner, the father who is not the primary caretaker goes and gets himself a studio apartment. In my case he bought the house before we go married so it is not a marital asset. I cannot win his house nor can I afford a three bedroom place with all the furnishings, beds and dressers for my kids, A table for them to eat their meals at etc. People should look at things from all perspectives before the judge and name call.
look intrigue I stated my opinion and they are just my thoughts on how myself feels about a subject...
If you don't class yourself as a cheater then you don't ...thats your view...everyone can't or will not agree or disagree...it just difference of opinions .what feels right for one person might not feel right for another etc...
So I will agree to disagree on this whole thread...and won't comment further...
Hell that's all you had to say to begin with and no drama would of happened, instead of calling people cheaters.
So meh pfff whatever.. I'm so done
to be honest tbird I can say what I want to say just like you can...so yeh ...I'm done too...click to expand


Posted by intriguedbypiscesmanPosted by tbirdPosted by intriguedbypiscesmanPosted by venusianbull
If the children are toddlers they can share a room with bunkbeds for a time, or two twin beds. Have to pare down your thinking. Garage sales, rummage sales and charity type shops yeild amazing finds. I'd far prefer living in a one roomed dwelling safe and snug with my children in my arms than snuffling mold spore in a basement. Give yourself a hand UP woman. Think of it as a waystation or a place of peace until things are more on the level. Him holding the purse strings is doing you no favors. It's holding you down.
I'm more than fine with sharing a pull out bed with them and finding a table at a yard sale. Still, All I have in my bank is going toward a retainer fee for this lawyer. I'll be going back to school part time with not much room left for work. They will be in school in two years and I can work full time. This may drag out til then. Should my vagina not be looked at or touched by anyone other than myself for another two years? How many of you can go four years without sex?
What brand of batteries do you use because I need to invest some stock into them! 😆 *gigglesnort*
God bless that furry pink bunny and his drum banging... wait... ZOMFG!!!! ROTFL drum banging yeah he knows!!
Energizer my dear.....it keeps going, and going, and going........click to expand



Posted by venusianbull
What I meant was taking your power back. Your given right as a human being, as a woman. Stalemate right now with you in that house. What's in your knickers is your business but I didn't even entertain anything of the sort until the divorce decree was blotted and signed by both laywers and a judge. Good Gawd Almighty I'S FREE! FREE AT LAST! Even then I simply couldn't. It took a very long time for me to be able to even trust someone. Put your hand out and afraid it's going to get chewed off into a bloody stump. Not to mention the repellant factor, just had my heart stomped and ground into glass powder. No ways was I gonna. But here I is. Loud and proud. I think it's been 3 years now and I can truly and finally say "I'm ready." When are the girls are nattering on I grin cheekily, flip them the two fingered salute and we all have a laugh over it. They keep trying to fix me up with 'someone perfect'. Know what? I don't want *perfect*..GUH, how BORING.



Posted by venusianbull
I AM
I am spring rain,
Bringing life to parched fields and
Arid land.
I am fire, consuming all in its path.
A great Dragon, cleansing and purging.
I am the wind flowing round you,
Through you.
Cold as frost.
Warm as summer breeze.
I am the bearer of life.
The milk that sustains you,
The cool fingers on fevered brow.
I am the comfort of well worn denim,
The brush of silk against your skin.
I am the spring in your step,
The smile on your lips.
I am the trail of elusive perfume.
The wicked glance under arched brow.
I am the undertow of the Ocean -
The Sirens song.
I am the thorn in your side,
The curse you send up to the heavens,
And the birds wing that takes flight.
I am the fall of hair,
The switch of a hip.
The lightening, all flash,
The thunder below:
Rumbling, deep, strong.
I AM WOMAN.

Posted by venusianbull
LOL I've probably been beaned more than once, but it should be that 2x4, not a blow up bat. *looking round* What the? That a mosquito?



Posted by tbirdPosted by venusianbull
LOL I've probably been beaned more than once, but it should be that 2x4, not a blow up bat. *looking round* What the? That a mosquito?
lmfao... yeah I should tell the aqua to pick up something heavier... find a boulder or something.click to expand

Posted by venusianbullPosted by tbirdPosted by venusianbull
LOL I've probably been beaned more than once, but it should be that 2x4, not a blow up bat. *looking round* What the? That a mosquito?
lmfao... yeah I should tell the aqua to pick up something heavier... find a boulder or something.
I was thinking of a Bugs Bunny anvil. LOL Pick up my Acme bat suit and go careening into the side of a cliff.click to expand

Posted by tbirdPosted by venusianbullPosted by tbirdPosted by venusianbull
LOL I've probably been beaned more than once, but it should be that 2x4, not a blow up bat. *looking round* What the? That a mosquito?
lmfao... yeah I should tell the aqua to pick up something heavier... find a boulder or something.
I was thinking of a Bugs Bunny anvil. LOL Pick up my Acme bat suit and go careening into the side of a cliff.
Wily coyote popped in my head with the careening into a side of a cliff... don't for help to hold up your Yipe sign and look disconnected and detached.click to expand






Posted by ellybdPosted by venusianbull
Anyone else feel as though we should be sitting around a great round table with some nice dark beer or good coffee and eats?
And for the record, I am not judging..I am intolerant of the action itself. It smacks my complete moral code right upside the head.
A nice beer would be nice! Lol. I'm on because I went to bed at like seven pm then woke back up and couldn't go back to sleep haha. I have to be at work at siz AM too. Beehhhhhhh. And I'm sick on top of that. But, gotta make dem monies. I only wish I could sleep. I got seven hours last night and still woke up barely awake and feeling like I been hit by a train. If I feel asleep at this very second, I'd get six hours... Boooo. I'm gonna feel like shit tomorrow.click to expand


Posted by tbirdPosted by venusianbull
LOL And why did he never catch the Road Runner.
BEHOLD!!!

Posted by ellybdPosted by venusianbullPosted by ellybdPosted by venusianbull
Anyone else feel as though we should be sitting around a great round table with some nice dark beer or good coffee and eats?
And for the record, I am not judging..I am intolerant of the action itself. It smacks my complete moral code right upside the head.
A nice beer would be nice! Lol. I'm on because I went to bed at like seven pm then woke back up and couldn't go back to sleep haha. I have to be at work at siz AM too. Beehhhhhhh. And I'm sick on top of that. But, gotta make dem monies. I only wish I could sleep. I got seven hours last night and still woke up barely awake and feeling like I been hit by a train. If I feel asleep at this very second, I'd get six hours... Boooo. I'm gonna feel like shit tomorrow.
I have my hours all flipped round now. I'm a closer so that's 10 p.m. Whoooot! Get home it may as well be 3 p.m. Stay up till 2 or later, nap, drag my butt up out of bed to see my son off for school. Hit the rack again. And do I solve major issues, invent cures for illness? LOL Nah! I'm on dxp! 😛
lolololol. My scorp just commanded me to find medicine to take. I will begrudgingly comply. I might have some of that perscription strength Tylenol plus codeine still when I had my work accident a few months ago. That will help with my fever and sleep. Now if only I can remember where I put the dang things...click to expand




Posted by ellybdPosted by venusianbullPosted by ellybdPosted by venusianbullPosted by ellybdPosted by venusianbull
Anyone else feel as though we should be sitting around a great round table with some nice dark beer or good coffee and eats?
And for the record, I am not judging..I am intolerant of the action itself. It smacks my complete moral code right upside the head.
A nice beer would be nice! Lol. I'm on because I went to bed at like seven pm then woke back up and couldn't go back to sleep haha. I have to be at work at siz AM too. Beehhhhhhh. And I'm sick on top of that. But, gotta make dem monies. I only wish I could sleep. I got seven hours last night and still woke up barely awake and feeling like I been hit by a train. If I feel asleep at this very second, I'd get six hours... Boooo. I'm gonna feel like shit tomorrow.
I have my hours all flipped round now. I'm a closer so that's 10 p.m. Whoooot! Get home it may as well be 3 p.m. Stay up till 2 or later, nap, drag my butt up out of bed to see my son off for school. Hit the rack again. And do I solve major issues, invent cures for illness? LOL Nah! I'm on dxp! 😛
lolololol. My scorp just commanded me to find medicine to take. I will begrudgingly comply. I might have some of that perscription strength Tylenol plus codeine still when I had my work accident a few months ago. That will help with my fever and sleep. Now if only I can remember where I put the dang things...
Ah geesh Ellybean, drink some juice with that will you? Codeine is so binding.
Oh no... That's the last thing I need. I'm already all like that die to me going off of one of my other medications, LOL. But I did drink a glass of OJ with my pill. Hopefully I'll be in dream land in the next 20. Tomorrow at work I'm slinging back OJ like no tomorrow. Ugh. Being sick and going off these wretched pills at the same time? Sigh.
And I like ellybean. 😄click to expand
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