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I don't know if personal pain factors in or not. Surely it must. I spend quite a lot of time reflecting on how I tick. I never could skip from one person to another. I am an unabashed flirt, but it stays at that level for the most part. It takes someone rare for me to reach out and want to connect in that way. I do fall, but more than like it's me holding it to myself so I don't trouble someone overmuch with it. I just love someone. Someone attuned to me surely must know, but I let it beat like a gentle pulse. Continue to show them that I'm there if they've need.
At times I've gone headlong so hard and fast that I want to take someone with me and just run. That is startling to someone who isn't there with me, on the same level emotion wise. My need to take care of those I care about is strong. I want to wrap everyone up and just beam and shine at them. So there's no question as to my feelings. I am more than like layering platonic feeling with romantic feeling trying to isolate things down in way of explanation.
Usually a mans first initial reaction to me is trying to get into my knickers. I will put that on blast and quick. I know myself inside and out. That step means much to me. I know absolutely 100% that if my body is there, so is my heart. I don't mess with 'spreading the joy' as it were. It's for someone I care deeply about. That doesn't mean Tom, Dick and Harry..that means ONE.
After my ex-husband walked out the door I've not seriously dated nor have I been out on a real physical date. I want the next go round to be lasting and true. I do not only think of myself in this equation, but my son and my daughter. Parts of myself who, while they factor into wanting their mothers happiness, mean the world to me. I'd not lessen or cheapen self by catting round. I want them to see in me someone they respect and love.
One Taurus womans explanation. Don't know if that helps or not.
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Ahhh but you see I DO want to drown in a person. Work my way under their skin, grow on them insidiously and take root and blossom. Pushing all others aside. LOL Such a Taur in that way I'll admit it. Through and through.
Oh yes, after great pain you have a healing time. This has to occur. But once it's laid to rest it's done. And I mean dead and buried done ( ohhhh I'll just cough up the hairball of my ex-husband again for shits and giggles ). I would never, and I mean ever entertain 'going back'. I think I just threw up a little in the back of my throat there. I bear him no ill will really. He and I did the best we could with what we had at the time. I have fully come to grips with my screw ups, and better yet I recognized that once I was outside the eye of the storm I could see with great clarity that he'd been dribbling poison into my water table for quite a long time. After I was done sucking my thumb over the affair I felt powerful, strong. I could stand on my own two feet and take care of bidness. I still feel strong. In me. Oh sure I have moments of self-doubt, questions like any other two legged beast roaming the earth, but I'm happy knowing my weirdosity makes others smile. Helps or soothes. The very best bit for me is I know I can start something fresh with a clean slate. And I'll be just fine. LOL Providing of course someone wants to put up with me. Time will tell.
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You're quite welcome. Tit for tat. Never feel helpless. Here's an idea, see if you're amenable to it. Since you are home with your children..extend that outward and care for others children as well. It would afford some money to squirrel away to find a place of your own. I can't imagine..when the ex told me he was going to spirit away from the marriage ( 13 years, 2 children ) and was in that limbo time. I recall it was two weeks I believe, but I was getting sick with it and told him to go. It was hell having him there knowing things were done. Hard on me, hard on the children knowing Daddy was leaving. I wanted to wipe the board of it.
I know you've not that luxury at present due to your own circumstance. If you cook, extend that outward. Offer to clean homes ( put up flyers at local churches, old age center, etc. ) You could take the children with you while you did that and put something in your pocket. Load up a bag with toys and snacks, sip cups and they could play while you did. It is gratifying to help someone in that regard, make a friend or three and still have a check to tuck in your pocket.
This has to be hard on the children too in its way. Toddlers or no they can certainly pick up on the strain of things.
I promise on my heart though that when the split occurs you'll be alright. When you are finally away from something like that and can truly heal it's an amazing journey. Not one you set out with to make, not one you wanted..but it's personal growth and realization.
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Its hughley doubtful tho! haha

No but really they just called it quits plust they still live together. Come on now. FAT CHANCE shes over him.



haha 😄

Well she said that the Gem moved out about a month ago. That's not very long ago though.



Well then she is lying somewhere because it does not coincide with her post on the bull board.



she is lying...they haven't moved out at all...

typical full of shit...

and the Pisces sensed it a mile away...that something was off...he knows nothing...no Pisces or man would risk being with a rebounder when they have a child...

This man is obviously looking for something long term he has mentioned his child etc...the fact someone is willing and selfishly to jump to another for their own emotional needs is a disgrace...

Doesn't even respect the Gemini either ...
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No, I havent dated a pisces before but my venus is in pisces.




https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/pisces-men-and-feelings-1673862/#1673863<BR>
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https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/i-m-really-into-you-1662270/#1662814<BR>

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I'm still catching up but at this point in the boards all I have to say is Jebus H. Christ.

See this is why you can't fool mermaids/mermen... we'll sense that something is rotting in Denmark.

Piran... you have a point... if he's looking for something long term and he has a daughter being a rebound would be the last thing on his mind. Damn... I was rooting for you guys... that sux.

This board was full of good vibes now... the fishes are getting all worked up in a frenzy.
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intrigued... i don't think you are a cheater. I've been in an emotionally abusive and dead relationship too... actually your story is creepy similar to where I was about 2 years ago. BUT, it's not going to have a happy ending unless you stop making excuses, holding onto the comforts of your suburban life style and the financial security of your husband. Ya, I said it...

I truly believe your feelings for this Pisces, but he won't make a move until you make the move to help yourself and change your situation. You spend a lot of time researching about Fish men, fantasizing and dreaming... but damnit you're a Crablet! You're cardinal! You can DO something for you.

A Pisces came into my life and I left everything standing in my way behind... dead relationship, company, investment property, mutual friends, fear, insecurities... lots and lots of stuff had to go and it was time to clean house.

It was very difficult, yet the best thing I ever did... and I get to reap the rewards. 🙂 If you want a fairy tale I'm sorry but you're going to have to work for it.

And don't compare yourself to HoustonPeach, she's full of shit.
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Wow what I have a problem with is if HP lied to the guy about what's going on... if he knows full and well hey I'm the rebound guy or that there is a high possibility of this then hey let him be the one to decided. If he wants to gamble his heart that's his choice.

BUT if he doesn't that's when the pissy fishy mode gets pressed. Honestly what HP doesn't sound completely right on point but I have messed up timelines and I thought I have been talking to the Aqua for longer than I have. But I will rightfully admit yeah I fuc*ed up my timeline. It's not the first time I've been wrong and won't be the last.

HP I can understand you getting pissy as well if your telling the truth and just fuc*ed up the timelines, but if that isn't the case then own up to it and move on.

As for intrigued... I have been talking to her for a while. Her situation is difficult and I had a mother who used to get beat like a red headed stepchild by my father. I can understand her apprehension to leave and she has taken the appropriate steps to leave she is very close. From what I understand H... if this offends you I will hide it her hubby has been in other relationships. Pirna I understand what you mean married is married.

For me... my situation is slightly similar to H's. I've been married for 13 years and separated since April when I kicked his out of my house and life since then. Never getting back with him. He's got a g/f and has moved in with her, me I just started dating what about a month ago. The aqua knows my situation and I have kids. I don't have a job been laid off, but I'm going to school. My hubby I like to call him my ex even though we are not official divorced, but in my eyes and heart he's no longer mine and I am no longer his. If he acts as such I'll be more than happy to throw this lovely fact in his fuc*ing face. Anyways... my ex is a drug addict and has been for years and doesn't contribute a damn thing. So right now financially my money has to go to rent, utilities, food and other essentials. With a fixed income affording a dissolution is out of the question until we get our income tax. I would of loved to walked up in court in April and be like set me free almighty judge from this troll but alas I cannot.

So I completely see H's point...and I can see your's and the fish that she is interested in. They both have issues to work out but she should be able to put out her feelings, as such I would like to have sex with the fish I've been talking to fo
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she is a human who feels what other feels and wants, which is to intimate with someone she is close to. I don't fault her for this... I identify with her about such things.

So if your going to spork and roast H under the flames then set up another pit because it's a seafood dinner tonight, crab and fish is on the menu.

I don't regret talking to the aqua. I've been up front and honest about everything and he's plenty aware of it. So are we both wrong... in your eyes maybe and mine hell to the nah! lol

Call me what you will honestly... it's not going to change anything, it's not going to make me stop talking and getting closer to the aqua and I feel the same with H and her merman. Both H and I have been honest about our situations and for now that is enough. Unless money falls out the sky to push up my divorce date (which I ask for everyday) I'm stuck like Norris.

So *shrugs shoulders* meh... I guess bring it? Not that I'm starting shi* but if your gonna bring to H, bring it here as well. and I will tell you with all the love I can muster in my mermaid heart to go kiss my quad-racial as $ .

NOTHING BUT LOVE GUYS!!! I seriously mean that!

H... don't cry I can sense your distraught.
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"and you just stay for whatever reasons" Because I live in the most expensive state in the US and I am only able to work part time until my kids are in kindergarten that's why I stay. I'm also about to go back to school so I can have my own resources to leave. Things take time.

Having relations with two people at once when they don't know about the other person is called cheating.

This Pisces has never given my typing fingers an orgasm, thank you!



And if he has so be it! Honestly you never lied to your merman as such as I with the aqua. Everyone is consenting adults.

Again my problem (if there is one) with HP is if she was lying to the merman about whatever. It's 2011 people, she and I aren't suck coc*s every Tuesday night at Ruby's. We both haven't been with many men intimately and fuc* if she wants to dream about a fish touching her like she wants. Who cares?! Hell fishes do this all the time, I don't care what you say but we all know that's true.
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Wow what I have a problem with is if HP lied to the guy about what's going on... if he knows full and well hey I'm the rebound guy or that there is a high possibility of this then hey let him be the one to decided. If he wants to gamble his heart that's his choice.

BUT if he doesn't that's when the pissy fishy mode gets pressed. Honestly what HP doesn't sound completely right on point but I have messed up timelines and I thought I have been talking to the Aqua for longer than I have. But I will rightfully admit yeah I fuc*ed up my timeline. It's not the first time I've been wrong and won't be the last.





It was not just a fucked up timeline but a down right lie.
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Trust me nights... I have the same feeling... I'm just trying to give her the benefit of the doubt luv.
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Posted by piranhaparadiise
yeh but the problem is all these women still married living under the same roof and instead of cleaning up the marriage first they go looking for someone to fill the void...why not stop leaning on the other men and fix yourself first...be single and then find a man when you are out of the marriage...

You need to be emotionally strong for yourself first ...this Pisces guy has enough problems of his own...imagine his thoughts that a married woman can so easily betray her vows and talk sexual to him...what will he think that one day she will do the same to him ?? Can't be trusted...







Not I said the fish.

Also... I hope you never have to be in similar situation. That's all I have to say about that.
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Wow what I have a problem with is if HP lied to the guy about what's going on... if he knows full and well hey I'm the rebound guy or that there is a high possibility of this then hey let him be the one to decided. If he wants to gamble his heart that's his choice.

BUT if he doesn't that's when the pissy fishy mode gets pressed. Honestly what HP doesn't sound completely right on point but I have messed up timelines and I thought I have been talking to the Aqua for longer than I have. But I will rightfully admit yeah I fuc*ed up my timeline. It's not the first time I've been wrong and won't be the last.





It was not just a fucked up timeline but a down right lie.



Trust me nights... I have the same feeling... I'm just trying to give her the benefit of the doubt luv.



Its kinda hard to give that when its a fact that she lied.
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This fish tries her best to see the best in other... hence why I didn't leave my ex eons ago.
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Wow what I have a problem with is if HP lied to the guy about what's going on... if he knows full and well hey I'm the rebound guy or that there is a high possibility of this then hey let him be the one to decided. If he wants to gamble his heart that's his choice.

BUT if he doesn't that's when the pissy fishy mode gets pressed. Honestly what HP doesn't sound completely right on point but I have messed up timelines and I thought I have been talking to the Aqua for longer than I have. But I will rightfully admit yeah I fuc*ed up my timeline. It's not the first time I've been wrong and won't be the last.





It was not just a fucked up timeline but a down right lie.



Trust me nights... I have the same feeling... I'm just trying to give her the benefit of the doubt luv.



Its kinda hard to give that when its a fact that she lied.



This fish tries her best to see the best in other... hence why I didn't leave my ex eons ago.



Then shouldnt u have learned?
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lol... well this is on the internet... so it's easier to give people free passes. Trust me when I read it I was pissed don't get me wrong, then when H compared her story to HP's I got less pissy because I tried to look at it from both sides. Relationship hopping isn't good for her but again her lying to us isn't cool but it forgiveable we aren't talking in real life but if she's lying to the fish... trust me I'll get all pissy fishy with her too 😉
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yeh but the problem is all these women still married living under the same roof and instead of cleaning up the marriage first they go looking for someone to fill the void...why not stop leaning on the other men and fix yourself first...be single and then find a man when you are out of the marriage...

You need to be emotionally strong for yourself first ...this Pisces guy has enough problems of his own...imagine his thoughts that a married woman can so easily betray her vows and talk sexual to him...what will he think that one day she will do the same to him ?? Can't be trusted...







Not I said the fish.

Also... I hope you never have to be in similar situation. That's all I have to say about that.



Sorry I don't cheat emotionally or otherwise...never have never will...

I've had worse shit in my childhood...and still I don't think it's ok to cheat or do what you women do while still married...

even my mother cheated while married...it's a selfish act ...clean up your marriage first...
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First off PLEASE do not tell me to clean up my marriage since you don't have a clue about what's going on in my life and/or my marriage. So yeah. You never dreamed of anyone? In a relationship or not, even if you never talked to them like that or touched them? So that's what your saying... you can stop your subconscious mind in a dream state? Pfffff lmfao yeah okay!

You can have your opinions and I have mine but your wasting your breath with trying to disgrace me and act like I'm lower than you. Because it's not gonna happen. I had others suppress me for years and I've learned to be stronger and I'm been taking care of myself, my family, my finances, my emotions, my life, my everything for years with no support. I've been single for 7 months and just started talking/dating a month ago. If my situation is so distressing to you either ignore it and I wouldn't ever dream of receiving money from others.

So you can sit on your high horse all you like. It's not going to change a dam* thing in my eyes. lol honestly it's not. Try to shame someone else. All I have to say is I hope to GOD your never in our shoes. You'll be surprised ho
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My ex has a g/f and moved in with her. I don't care because like I said we are not together. The ring has been thrown into a river and there is no emotional ties. He doesn't live here anymore in my house and in my heart. Only thing is a piece of paper that connects us. Tis all my dear.

My father cheated on my mother he actually gave her a STD. I never cheated on my husband when we together and he done the same. Your attached to the piece of paper. WE are not, marriage isn't just a piece of paper, hence why I would never get married again because in the end it's all it is. Just bits of cotton strewn together and pressed out.

I'm not a traditionalist so I don't go by traditionalist's rules... that rule to me is nothing but traditions. I'm so over than.

Funny thing my mom, my kids, my family has been the ones to push me to date again! lol I don't need a man to complete me. I'm complete enough, I can stand on my own two feet have been for years. I'm not going to let you or anyone else's close mindedness bring me down. lol NO FREAKING WAY! Good try though... give you props.
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Crap I just relealized my post was cut off and it left it at ho!! lmfao to clear it up I was calling you a hoe

First off PLEASE do not tell me to clean up my marriage since you don't have a clue about what's going on in my life and/or my marriage. So yeah. You never dreamed of anyone? In a relationship or not, even if you never talked to them like that or touched them? So that's what your saying... you can stop your subconscious mind in a dream state? Pfffff lmfao yeah okay!

You can have your opinions and I have mine but your wasting your breath with trying to disgrace me and act like I'm lower than you. Because it's not gonna happen. I had others suppress me for years and I've learned to be stronger and I'm been taking care of myself, my family, my finances, my emotions, my life, my everything for years with no support. I've been single for 7 months and just started talking/dating a month ago. If my situation is so distressing to you either ignore it and I wouldn't ever dream of receiving money from others.

So you can sit on your high horse all you like. It's not going to change a dam* thing in my eyes. lol honestly it's not. Try to shame someone else. All I have to say is I hope to GOD your never in our shoes. You'll be surprised how it turns out.
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Barbie's marriage with Ken lasted forever.
Ken had no penis.
Zomg. It makes perfect sense now!



Nope they are separated... happened like a few years back. Mickey and Minney, Bert and Ernie however are still going on strong =D



Wow. I missed that episode!
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First off PLEASE do not tell me to clean up my marriage since you don't have a clue about what's going on in my life and/or my marriage. So yeah. You never dreamed of anyone? In a relationship or not, even if you never talked to them like that or touched them? So that's what your saying... you can stop your subconscious mind in a dream state? Pfffff lmfao yeah okay!

You can have your opinions and I have mine but your wasting your breath with trying to disgrace me and act like I'm lower than you. Because it's not gonna happen. I had others suppress me for years and I've learned to be stronger and I'm been taking care of myself, my family, my finances, my emotions, my life, my everything for years with no support. I've been single for 7 months and just started talking/dating a month ago. If my situation is so distressing to you either ignore it and I wouldn't ever dream of receiving money from others.

So you can sit on your high horse all you like. It's not going to change a dam* thing in my eyes. lol honestly it's not. Try to shame someone else. All I have to say is I hope to GOD your never in our shoes. You'll be surprised ho



I wasn't disgracing you or whatever...
I'm stating a fact of myself I never cheat and never will...I would never tarnish a bond between two people by bringing in a third party...no matter how bad emotionally neglected I felt...

You may call it me being on my high horse...I call it having morals and respecting my partner...

No I never dream of other guys I don't have interest with other men...when I have a partner I want him and only him ...sorry if you don't believe that but some women only have eyes for one man...and if I have to fantasise it would be about my partner not some disgusting stranger...

All I can say don't get married if you can't be loyal through good and bad... :-/

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*gigglesnort* lol yeah ok I forgot you know me!

Your not understanding what I mean about the dreams either. So meh... honestly I don't care. It's funny how I don't have morals... ha ha I eat babies too on Sunday's after I have my blood bath like Elizabeth Batherory. Muwahahahaha

No your being on your high horse by talking DOWN to others, nothing to do with your own morals.
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having venus in pisces - idk - is contributing to the chaos.

this is where reality and dreams contradict and go to war with each other...

i never thought i??d say this: but i love my aqua placement.



It can, which is why I urge honesty and getting to the bottom of things.



i know you do 🙂

but

you have great other placements. for the pisces in venus i envy you not. although, i am sure your creativity and nuturing side is boosted even more by this. that is a + of course.

you know though, when it's good it's great, when it's bad it's nasty.....

*hugz love and light*



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It is, I feel it is. It softens so very much, sometimes I think a bit too much. But hey ho, it's a part of me I'd never change.

(((((((((( Wrapping Mermaid Tight ))))))))))) Love to you Nem.
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how did we get to marriage?!

engagement ring, wedding ring, suffer ring....hehehe 😄

oh boy.



LOL Worlds smallest handcuffs you know...but MY how it shines in the light.



*choking on my coffee* 😛



@days: 🙂 see, i am not princess gloom boom after all?
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Hehehehehe. *raising my own mug high*
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Thank you, It's nice to seem some people in here know how to see things for what they are. I've always been and honest and faithful person. Things change people's views when they are subjected to situations. I will never put myself it another situation like this. I'm true to the one I love. Period. This was over two years ago. He's gone out and dated, I only wish he stayed gone.



When one or both marriage partners is at the point where they're happy their spouse is gone and dating other people, the marriage must've been over a long time ago.

I don't really get the cheating part of it. I mean how can you be cheating on a spouse when the marriage is already over in both of your hearts? I mean yeah I can see why technically it's best to wait until it's officially over on paper.. but that's just it, it's only paper. Listen to your hearts not some paper.
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Some interesting stories on this thread... one thing about life is that nothing is cut n dry/ black and white, that's for sure.

I so agree with this aPP. Marriage is about a commitment to each other's hearts. When that is gone, the two people mutually agree it's over and emotionally cut ties... it's just a piece of paper
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Posted by intriguedbypiscesman

I'm talking to a man on line. Oh my goodness hang me now, where's the noose?



H... don't even waste your breath... It's funny if marriage is held so closely... I wonder if she is a virgin.. cause if not she already tainted it in the traditional sense. So meh

Who gives to waddly doopie whoops what she says. Are you going to stop talking to your fish. I hope not... am I going to stop talking to the aqua nope. Does anyone else give two craps. Nope hence that's why they moved onto different topics.

and away I go...So I just got back from my daughter's band concert. It was GLORIOUS!! I was such a proud momma bird.

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Intrigued, most of these people are so high up on their own slippery slope, that this isn't the best place to share what you're going through. They have no regard for your feelings, only looking at your situation one-sided. No one has walked in your shoes and until some of them do, you are only trying to defend yourself among people who are judgemental - although I thought Pisces didn't judge?

Nonetheless, please do what you can as soon as you can to get yourself out of that situation. For some people in your situation, that's easier said than done. But the sooner you can rid yourself of this hell, the sooner you can show your kids a happier you.
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Posted by houstonpeach74
Intrigued, most of these people are so high up on their own slippery slope, that this isn't the best place to share what you're going through. They have no regard for your feelings, only looking at your situation one-sided. No one has walked in your shoes and until some of them do, you are only trying to defend yourself among people who are judgmental - although I thought Pisces didn't judge?

Nonetheless, please do what you can as soon as you can to get yourself out of that situation. For some people in your situation, that's easier said than done. But the sooner you can rid yourself of this hell, the sooner you can show your kids a happier you.




For the most part we don't especially when our own lives are not involved in the situation at all... usually we let others live their own lives, because in the end.... it's their own lives. We are chicken fuc*ers and we aren't molesting anyone. All are consenting adults, all are very much aware what's going on. If it makes others feel good that their morals are higher than so be it. Hold you head up and walk on soldier, but don't expect others to bow down to your black/white scenario of the world when the world has so many beautiful colors.

Hell with that outlook you can't watch porn... that sux! *gigglesnort*

I'm tired about discuss this even though I did come to a revelation about something... if someone states they do not care about you opinion of such matters and you keep harping on... that is a definition of a troll. I maybe be a cheater in others eyes so be it... can't win them and don't want to.... Meh what can you do... nothing!! lol

Peace to all because at the end of the day we aren't in each others lives... it's a board tis all.
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Shell and APP I agree. Hence I am able to date with a clear concious. When I was with my ex I never looked at another man or approached another man. I was approached but declined very graciously stating I'm married. I was proud to be married, it sucks it didn't work out and apparantly I thought we be together forever hence getting married. No one gets married and says I want this to end in such and such time.

Life happens and so does shi*. We just have to roll with the punches, learn from our mistakes, and grow as people.
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LMFAO I meant aren't chicken fuc*ers! 😉


For the most part we don't especially when our own lives are not involved in the situation at all... usually we let others live their own lives, because in the end.... it's their own lives. We are chicken fuc*ers and we aren't molesting anyone. All are consenting adults, all are very much aware what's going on. If it makes others feel good that their morals are higher than so be it. Hold you head up and walk on soldier, but don't expect others to bow down to your black/white scenario of the world when the world has so many beautiful colors.

Hell with that outlook you can't watch porn... that sux! *gigglesnort*

I'm tired about discuss this even though I did come to a revelation about something... if someone states they do not care about you opinion of such matters and you keep harping on... that is a definition of a troll. I maybe be a cheater in others eyes so be it... can't win them and don't want to.... Meh what can you do... nothing!! lol

Peace to all because at the end of the day we aren't in each others lives... it's a board tis all.