what can I do?

I meet this Pisces guy 3 weeks ago and I'm unsure about how to get more from him than what he gives me. The first time we met up we talked but it was mostly me asking questions. He doesn't really talk to me about anything unless I ask him and we have slept together a few times. He doesn't really share unless I ask him something. I asked him if he's feeling me and he said your cool I don't really know how to answer that because we haven't hung out a lot because hes been busy working. He doesn't want anything serious right now and nor do I its to early for that but I want more than just me coming over chilling watching TV and having sex I want him to talk to me have conversation with me ask me about me. What should I do wait be patient? How can I turn this around and get more do more with him? BTW I'm a Capricorn

You know I had a similar encounter like that. I listen to a bunch of words and no action was getting better. No conversations were initiated unless by me or felt to respond just to answer a simple question.

What kind of question have you asked to give this response?

Someone somewhere would be happy to answer or ask to get to know someone mutually. I feel even in friendships both should communicate and be freely open. Now I have open to fixed decisions but willingness to perceive that either I make a decision to move on or stay to see if it can work out.

I felt that when someone is less communicative Than I, maybe they have a hard time feeling comfortable and maybe more light hearted questions should pan out.

@firstdecantaurianwomen0428 I just ask him about him what he may have done that day about something he attended or working on. Its like he doesn't wanna let me into his world. Im unable to vibe him out his personality his likes and dislikes?

Maybe he rather talk about other things idk weird.

What's his mercury? And yours?

Posted by imsoawesome
He doesn't want anything serious right now

There's your answer

Posted by BlueQueen

Posted by imsoawesome
He doesn't want anything serious right now

There's your answer

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I know - but that reminds me of my ex-husband and he was a pisces ... I really don't believe he ever got to know me - he said he knew me but I know he didn't or he would have understood when to stop

Posted by MiZLeo
Pisces like to listen and to talk, but they dont always want to share who they are a whole lot. Its a bit odd that he doesnt ask you questions. Only thing I can think is that he is just not that into you and just wants sex. Stop sharing so much with him. Maybe you talk to much for him? I remember once the Pisces I'm seeing told me about this cashier at the hardware store he was going to everyday for a job she kept asking him 20 questions when he'd go in and one of his employees was with him one day and said after they left "shes cute and she obviously likes you, why don't you give her your number and get some of that" and the Pisces said "she asks to many fucking questions...you can have her if you want her" so I told him after that story "alright, note to self....don't ask a lot of questions." And he said "No, no, you're good baby, you can ask me as many questions as you want" see difference?

Yup all true^^^


Yup, stop initiating. Get busy with your life. He'll come to you if he cares. They are very sexual men and not afraid of showing you. It's tricky with them because they are charming and he's very aware of it. You can't give in all the way because they love challenges. Best thing is to keep conversations like you have with a friend not a lover. Let him lay the cards out if you do ....he'll swim away. Yes they ask alot of questions give a vague answers (joke style) he loves to laugh. If he's really interested he call you out on it. That your opportunity to call him out too. He'll understand now you need balance to get things off the ground.

It's hard but it will teach you a lesson. Pay attention and move slow. Can't enjoy life moving to fast.

Posted by imsoawesome
He doesn't really talk to me about anything unless I ask him and we have slept together a few times.

You already know what you need to do.

Posted by imsoawesome
I'm unsure about how to get more from him than what he gives me.

Truth is you can't force someone to be who you want them to be.

If you want to be more than Netflix and chill, stop going to his place, stop sleeping with him. Plan something outside the four walls of his living room/bedroom.

You cant manipulate a Pisces. We'll just slip away from your grasp and swim away if we feel your hold tighten.

@datariesgirl the sex is good. The only thing is that he goes straight into it no foreplay. How do I changed that? I know its new and I know patience and space is key I'm just trying to figure out how to connect with him and get him to open up.

@firstdecantaurianwomen0428 I don't know. How do you find that out? His birthday is march 11 mines Dec 26

@cherisedlibra @ladyneptune @mizleo Its new so I can't expect too much I just don't know where his head is at. He's reserved so I can't really read him. He doesn't make any moves on me like he doesnt wanna make the wrong one like hes a little shy or dont wanna get rejected. He does contact me but I initiate things the hanging out the sex. He doesn't share too much he did share at the very beginning but now only if i ask he shares. I'm 30 he's 24 maybe he doesn't know what to talk about with me. I'm just trying to get to know him his personality how do I get him to open up feel comfortable because I'm reserved too. I hold back myself because I don't wanna do or say too much if he want care to hear or see it. I want us to hang out outside of home and do things.

@mizleo I didn't say he don't like want or get it what I'm saying is that I give it but don't receive it

@mizleo he does finger action he plays with it but nothing more I want more than that tho

Selfish indeed.

Posted by imsoawesome
He doesn't want anything serious right now and nor do I its to early for that

You both want differen things 👆👆👆
He doesn't want anything serious WITH YOU at all. Point blank. While you don't want anything serious RIGHT NOW but are looking at him as relationship material for later on.

Posted by imsoawesome
I want more than just me coming over chilling watching TV and having sex I want him to talk to me have conversation with me ask me about me.

Asking you questions, learning what your about defeats the purpose of a fwb, which is what you are to HIM. You ask questions of someone your dating. He's just fucking you.

Again, you both want different things here...

Posted by imsoawesome
He doesn't really talk to me about anything unless I ask him and we have slept together a few times. He doesn't really share unless I ask him something.

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He's already gotten between your legs, no more footwork is necessary. He's not looking to bond with you.

You did yourself and him a disservice by pretending to not be interested in a relationship, when in fact you are.

The best thing you can do in this situation is be up front with him. Tell him you ARE looking for more. He will either step up to the plate or cut you lose.

@oceanboy88 I texted him and ask if he wanted to hang out next week when hes free and get something to eat and he agreed. I texted him the next day asking what day but he didn't respond. I sent him a emoji the next day and a text later that day saying if you don't wanna hang out or if you changed your mind its fine just let me know what your feeling its cool either way. He responded saying I don't have to text him multiple times and that he sees my text hes busy he will hit me up and that he has a lot going on. My response was I'm didn't know I'm sorry and ok. Did i mess things up? How do I give him space and let him know I'm here?