What do you think about this guy?

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Well..interesting mix.

I know a guy who is both Pisces Sun and Venus. This makes for a soft feminine man.

However like .me he is Capricorn Moon. This could mean that he may be a little cold emotionally by not opening up easily and being in control of his emotions.

This may be overtaken by his two Pisces placings.

Don't know much about Aquarius and Taurus so hope this helps so far x
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New boyfriend?! You need to tell us how your well publicised story with the Cap ended, if that’s the case...

I know a woman with the first three placements and she’s lovely...cheerful, down to earth, adventurous but family oriented, friendly...

Pisces Venus would add a touch of romanticism. Taurus Mars, of sensuality and indulgence...


it was going so well until I found something. things got so ugly that though I've never raised a hand on anyone my entire life, I slapped him and kicked him out of my apartment twice. he deserved worse and I'm not even sorry. no 2 people could've hurt each other more in one freakin week. I blocked him everywhere but he always finds a way.

also, i've been talking to this guy before I was official with the capricorn. I'm starting to think I should've dated him instead.
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New boyfriend?! You need to tell us how your well publicised story with the Cap ended, if that’s the case...

I know a woman with the first three placements and she’s lovely...cheerful, down to earth, adventurous but family oriented, friendly...

Pisces Venus would add a touch of romanticism. Taurus Mars, of sensuality and indulgence...

it was going so well until I found something. things got so ugly that though I've never raised a hand on anyone my entire life, I slapped him and kicked him out of my apartment twice. he deserved worse and I'm not even sorry. no 2 people could've hurt each other more in one freakin week. I blocked him everywhere but he always finds a way.

also, i've been talking to this guy before I was official with the capricorn. I'm starting to think I should've dated him instead.
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Was he cheating, on top of mentally abusing you— I was wondering how much you could take, there always seemed to be so much drama in your relationship. How long did it last? Tell us some more about the past, before you move forward.
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New boyfriend?! You need to tell us how your well publicised story with the Cap ended, if that’s the case...

I know a woman with the first three placements and she’s lovely...cheerful, down to earth, adventurous but family oriented, friendly...

Pisces Venus would add a touch of romanticism. Taurus Mars, of sensuality and indulgence...

it was going so well until I found something. things got so ugly that though I've never raised a hand on anyone my entire life, I slapped him and kicked him out of my apartment twice. he deserved worse and I'm not even sorry. no 2 people could've hurt each other more in one freakin week. I blocked him everywhere but he always finds a way.

also, i've been talking to this guy before I was official with the capricorn. I'm starting to think I should've dated him instead.

Was he cheating, on top of mentally abusing you— I was wondering how much you could take, there always seemed to be so much drama in your relationship. How long did it last? Tell us some more about the past, before you move forward.
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how did you know about the mental thing? Yes criticisms streaming from him when in comparison to me in status/profession/background, I'm ahead of him. honestly it all started when I changed our couple pic to my solo pic last year. that tiny gesture started everything. he admitted recently he felt crazy after that. our last 2 dates last year were absolute disasters and I felt the resentment really build. we haven't been seeing each other months and we fought most times when we're on the phone. helll I don't even wanna talk about what he did, but I hated the people we've become after that stupid facebook pic drama. But we never broke up through all that. It was a heavy relationship coz my family's against it anyway but I didn't give up and later I found out that whatever I really don't wanna talk about it but I'll never really get over what he did. And I don't really understand why he still wants to drag our relationship and genuinely believe we can still have this' fixed' and I'm a virgo but that's a nooooo for me. I gavve him 2 chances and he still messed up. To be fair, I asked for permission the 2nd time when I punched him.

He wanted to come over this morning, used his cousin's messenger to contact me. He'd be gone for months again anyway. He's made me cry so much. The first time I kicked him out he cried and played victim then accused me of dressing in purposely revealing clothes (that was pre-laundry day, I had no choice) and coming home way too late from work. Then I got a bad feeling and thought about all the time he's made accusations like that after huge fights so I checked his phone (also something I've never done to anyone before). And my feeling was exactly right.

Now he's whiningg about my' violence' yet still wants to see me. This guy makes me wanna punch him. Why do we even have to make this work? I'm disgusted with him. Wonder what he's gonna tell his family about why we broke up. Probably play victim.
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Posted by Undine

New boyfriend?! You need to tell us how your well publicised story with the Cap ended, if that’s the case...

I know a woman with the first three placements and she’s lovely...cheerful, down to earth, adventurous but family oriented, friendly...

Pisces Venus would add a touch of romanticism. Taurus Mars, of sensuality and indulgence...

it was going so well until I found something. things got so ugly that though I've never raised a hand on anyone my entire life, I slapped him and kicked him out of my apartment twice. he deserved worse and I'm not even sorry. no 2 people could've hurt each other more in one freakin week. I blocked him everywhere but he always finds a way.

also, i've been talking to this guy before I was official with the capricorn. I'm starting to think I should've dated him instead.

Was he cheating, on top of mentally abusing you— I was wondering how much you could take, there always seemed to be so much drama in your relationship. How long did it last? Tell us some more about the past, before you move forward.

how did you know about the mental thing? Yes criticisms streaming from him when in comparison to me in status/profession/background, I'm ahead of him. honestly it all started when I changed our couple pic to my solo pic last year. that tiny gesture started everything. he admitted recently he felt crazy after that. our last 2 dates last year were absolute disasters and I felt the resentment really build. we haven't been seeing each other months and we fought most times when we're on the phone. helll I don't even wanna talk about what he did, but I hated the people we've become after that stupid facebook pic drama. But we never broke up through all that. It was a heavy relationship coz my family's against it anyway but I didn't give up and later I found out that whatever I really don't wanna talk about it but I'll never really get over what he did. And I don't really understand why he still wants to drag our relationship and genuinely believe we can still have this' fixed' and I'm a virgo but that's a nooooo for me. I gavve him 2 chances and he still messed up. To be fair, I asked for permission the 2nd time when I punched him.

He wanted to come over this morning, used his cousin's messenger to contact me. He'd be gone for months again anyway. He's made me cry so much. The first time I kicked him out he cried and played victim then accused me of dressing in purposely revealing clothes (that was pre-laundry day, I had no choice) and coming home way too late from work. Then I got a bad feeling and thought about all the time he's made accusations like that after huge fights so I checked his phone (also something I've never done to anyone before). And my feeling was exactly right.

Now he's whiningg about my' violence' yet still wants to see me. This guy makes me wanna punch him. Why do we even have to make this work? I'm disgusted with him.
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You went through a lot! I paid attention to your story, since I was dating a Cap with Pisces moon and Aqua Venus about the same time you did. Our LDR wasn’t as dramatic as yours, in fact it felt amazing for the first 9 months. The issues started when we met for the third time. He didn’t text me when he arrived, only to find him later smoking and chatting with another woman. Then he acted like he didn’t like the look of me, or having sex with me, or eating some of my food....all the things he claimed to have loved only 6 months before. We eventually broke up by email a few months later, after he turned against me. Firstly, he accused me of not communicating the way he wanted (something you yourself had to put up with). Then he gave me the silent treatment when I tried to defend myself. Finally, he answered my question about our relationship with a list of criticisms. Some things were petty, others quite hurtful. Strangely enough, he claimed (after I broke up with him) that his intention was to change me, not to break up with me. Yeah, right.

Your relationship sounds far more toxic, and even physically violent! Girl, get out of there before something bad happens! Whatever he’s doing to you, it seems to surpass your tolerance levels by far, and take aggressive forms.

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Posted by Undine

New boyfriend?! You need to tell us how your well publicised story with the Cap ended, if that’s the case...

I know a woman with the first three placements and she’s lovely...cheerful, down to earth, adventurous but family oriented, friendly...

Pisces Venus would add a touch of romanticism. Taurus Mars, of sensuality and indulgence...

it was going so well until I found something. things got so ugly that though I've never raised a hand on anyone my entire life, I slapped him and kicked him out of my apartment twice. he deserved worse and I'm not even sorry. no 2 people could've hurt each other more in one freakin week. I blocked him everywhere but he always finds a way.

also, i've been talking to this guy before I was official with the capricorn. I'm starting to think I should've dated him instead.

Was he cheating, on top of mentally abusing you— I was wondering how much you could take, there always seemed to be so much drama in your relationship. How long did it last? Tell us some more about the past, before you move forward.

how did you know about the mental thing? Yes criticisms streaming from him when in comparison to me in status/profession/background, I'm ahead of him. honestly it all started when I changed our couple pic to my solo pic last year. that tiny gesture started everything. he admitted recently he felt crazy after that. our last 2 dates last year were absolute disasters and I felt the resentment really build. we haven't been seeing each other months and we fought most times when we're on the phone. helll I don't even wanna talk about what he did, but I hated the people we've become after that stupid facebook pic drama. But we never broke up through all that. It was a heavy relationship coz my family's against it anyway but I didn't give up and later I found out that whatever I really don't wanna talk about it but I'll never really get over what he did. And I don't really understand why he still wants to drag our relationship and genuinely believe we can still have this' fixed' and I'm a virgo but that's a nooooo for me. I gavve him 2 chances and he still messed up. To be fair, I asked for permission the 2nd time when I punched him.

He wanted to come over this morning, used his cousin's messenger to contact me. He'd be gone for months again anyway. He's made me cry so much. The first time I kicked him out he cried and played victim then accused me of dressing in purposely revealing clothes (that was pre-laundry day, I had no choice) and coming home way too late from work. Then I got a bad feeling and thought about all the time he's made accusations like that after huge fights so I checked his phone (also something I've never done to anyone before). And my feeling was exactly right.

Now he's whiningg about my' violence' yet still wants to see me. This guy makes me wanna punch him. Why do we even have to make this work? I'm disgusted with him.

You went through a lot! I paid attention to your story, since I was dating a Cap with Pisces moon and Aqua Venus about the same time you did. Our LDR wasn’t as dramatic as yours, in fact it felt amazing for the first 9 months. The issues started when we met for the third time. He didn’t text me when he arrived, only to find him later smoking and chatting with another woman. Then he acted like he didn’t like the look of me, or having sex with me, or eating some of my food....all the things he claimed to have loved only 6 months before. We eventually broke up by email a few months later, after he turned against me. Firstly, he accused me of not communicating the way he wanted (something you yourself had to put up with). Then he gave me the silent treatment when I tried to defend myself. Finally, he answered my question about our relationship with a list of criticisms. Some things were petty, others quite hurtful. Strangely enough, he claimed (after I broke up with him) that his intention was to change me, not to break up with me. Yeah, right.

Your relationship sounds far more toxic, and even physically violent! Girl, get out of there before something bad happens! Whatever he’s doing to you, it seems to surpass your tolerance levels by far, and take aggressive forms.
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They definitely have very similar personalities.

It's weird how they act like that and yet don't wanna break up, it's a nightmare. Also mine claimed he's just trying to make me 'stronger.' Helll he's not wrong, what with the way things turned out. Made me hit him hard. My emotions run so high around this guy.

And I have to admit that I do still love him. Last time we've talked we agreed we still felt the same way. I told him it's his fault that we can't be together anymore, that I was willing to put up with anything but that. There was no way to fix it even if we still love each other. Funny too how I got my period the day we broke up and he's tried to get me pregnant once without my consent (another fight we had). When he found out (that I'm relieved I had my period) he was disappointed and accused me of not wanting his baby.

I told him how complicated it would be to have a baby when our relationship was the way it was. He didn't care, claimed he'd be insanely happy and this was when I blocked him the first time then he later on convinced me to give him another chance, that he can restore everything.
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he even wanted my mom to stay with me the 2 months he'd be away so he'd be sure that I won't have sex with some otherr guy lol. all these suspicions he created in his head made me think about why and what he might be up to. And I was so right about my gut feeling. And yes his pisc ex cheated but he now tells me ambiguously that it was his fault that she did. Thing about him is that he mixes truths with lies which makes it hard to detect him. Sometimes I think he's just always confused about what he wants himself. Yet the 2nd time when I punched him, he didn't cry anymore and I just saw in his face that he was trying to find a way to emotionally-manipulate me again. he even murmured to himself that he'd just apologize to me like some crazy person lol. He did Admit he tends to go crazy whenever we fight. But my mind can't take anymore of this.
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There was something off about the relationship from the beginning. I'm glad you're out of it since it was only causing you consternation. Cap with Pisces moon is often conflicted due to vastly different natures. Maybe this Pisces with Cap moon can get the right mixture of solidity and understanding. Aqua merc is a great placement and Earth Mars works well with Earth Suns.
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I haven’t heard from you in a while (Im not really on here tbh so thats probably why) but I’m glad you’re out of that situation.

I know I always joked around about it but he was a bit... weird, to say the least.

I’m sorry that it came to this though. Cap men are definitely... something else for Virgo women. Forgive him eventually, for your happiness sake. Not his. Take care of yourself🤍