Help please

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Michele on Monday, March 20, 2017 and has 13 replies.

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@Michele
9 Years

How long is space to a pisces male. Who has admitted to overreacting has apologised and say he would like some space. And thanks you for understanding. Xxxx

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@EvatheDiva
10 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Uh, I can relate to this. When we ask (or not ask) for space we REALLY don't want you in our lives. IF you hurt us/me; we/I will swim away. I told you "why" and if you ask to be "friends" I will gladly refuse, BUT IF I volunteer to be friends with you then you are someone different/special that didn't hurt my heart, feelings, family, etc.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: IF this Piscean told you to give him "space" then do so and wait until he comes to you....it may take a long, long, long, time (just ask my ex-boyfriend; Saggy......) or my next door neighbor (where I grew up), she HURT me for the last time and it's been 37 years since I've spoken to her. When I visit my mom (yeah, she still lives there) I don't wave at her, etc. She did ask my mom if I ever needed a baby sitter she would baby sit for me....NOT!

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@Michele
9 Years

No it's not me that's hurt him he overreacted and has said that. He said if I don't give him space he will be out of my life so I don't believe he wants me out. And yesterday he sent me two kisses. Do I have to wait?! its quite pathetic!! This need space becuase you said something I don't like. Get a grip! There's a lot worse thugs than me saying I will call you tomorrow I don't want to talk to you now as you've upset me!

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@Michele
9 Years

Hi Shakedown who bloody knows. He's beyond over the top to me. I have explained that I had bad day and in actual fact the reason I didn't want to speak to him was becuase I was goin to get further emotional. He explained he overreacted but now this has brought back bad memories or his last relationship and he needs to think about things. To me i think lets talk it's done it's over move on. This I want to sit in a dark room for however long is ridiculous. Imagine if I actually hurt him!!! Sensitive as hell is right.

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@Michele
9 Years

Iv made it very clear that I haven't pushed him away. I am still here trying to talk to him. So how can he feel hurt. How long is this space thing for please ?

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@Michele
9 Years

A picture of an Ox is about right! You are the doofus! For the 100th time I have said how long is space have you answered that no! Is it a week two a rough idea do you understand stand now on wading in!!

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@HeavyEntertainmentShow
9 Years5,000+ Posts

3-4 decades, give or take a day or two.

PS: I don't think he overreacted. I think you hurt his feelings real bad (whether you intended to or not) and he's using the alleged overreaction as an excuse to shake you loose without hurting your feelings too much.

Sounds like something I would do.

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@boxcarmirnta
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Just give him a little time to snap back to normal.. How long has it been? He'll either write you when hes ready or you can txt him something simple and brief.... If he really cares he does not want you gone for good believe me. Sometimes we just get overwhelmed and need to deal with our feelings privately.