Why does Pisces not want sex?

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Ive been dating girl on and off for last 2 years. Im a scorpio male. She basically friendzoned me at one point in the relationship. I walked away and told her to contact me only if she wanted to explore something romantic. After 2 months she reached out and we have been seeing one another. I love this woman but cant get her to make love to me. She clams up whenever i do try to make a move. She was very sexual in the beginning of courtship. Before she friendzoned me i made it clear that i wanted a lover not a friend. So when she contacted me she knew what she was getting into. So what do you pisces women think?
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for women in general sex is 80% in our heads. so if we don't feel like it then we won't do it. I would think you need to set the scene and basically woo her in a very romantic fashion but try not to appear manipulative. if you put her under pressure she will swim away. very frustrating I know but I'm sure you can succeed if you want to. obviously rejection for a scorpio is a mega big deal. alternatively ask her what's up.
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Yes asked her. She says she is not ready. One day had a talk and she cried and said she didnt like how her body looked. Mind you i think she has a beautiful body. Recently she recovered from a surgery. But its been 2 months from surgery and she is doing great. She is going to gym working out. DR told her her estrogen levels were low and testerone was not existing. But she is taking testerone now a shot they gave her and she said that is why she has no desire for sex cause her levels being low
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Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by FAJ47
I have been patient. Its been 10 months since we started seeing one another and no sex in that span of time.
Yes, you are patient! I don’t know what to say... she has a problem. Hopefully it gets better soon and you both are happier. But she is lucky to have you.
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.....or maybe the sexual chemistry isn't there?
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Posted by FAJ47
I have been patient. Its been 10 months since we started seeing one another and no sex in that span of time.
Yes, you are patient! I don’t know what to say... she has a problem. Hopefully it gets better soon and you both are happier. But she is lucky to have you.
.....or maybe the sexual chemistry isn't there?
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That was my first thought but she is having hormonal therapy so I think it is a problem that she can’t control. Hopefully it doesn’t last any longer
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HRT is worse for the woman than the man. They get hit from all sides. We deal with backlash of mood swings but it’s a major toll for them.



You getting frustrated, even though you are there, isn’t actually support.

There is no timeline for this though. They can change dosage and the mood swings will come and go, not to mention the physiological effects on top of the emotional and physical.

She’s not in mood for sex.

You guys congratulate him on his support but trust me... it’s like being a care giver it’s tough. At some point you need to be selfish and think of your own wants and needs

My ex had cancer and we went to counseling over this exact issue... maybe y’all should try it.
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Posted by FAJ47
I have been patient. Its been 10 months since we started seeing one another and no sex in that span of time.
No, really it’s only been 2 months. You broke it off so the other 8months don’t mean shit.

You walked away from her before because she didn’t put out like you wanted. What kinda message does that send? She’s not gonna fuck you if she doesn’t feel safe. If I’m in her shoes I’d be worried your just trying to get your dick wet.



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Thanks for all the comments good and bad. And no i dont smell at all. I value hygine. As for sucking in bed when we were having sex it was amazing for us both. Any advice to help me be more desirable to her? Tbings i can work on to make me more attractive and desirable to her?
Obviously not or else she’d be riding your dick rn and this thread wouldn’t exist. Put aside your ego and focus on finding out what she wants and needs. This isn’t just about you dude.
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Yes asked her. She says she is not ready. One day had a talk and she cried and said she didnt like how her body looked. Mind you i think she has a beautiful body. Recently she recovered from a surgery. But its been 2 months from surgery and she is doing great. She is going to gym working out. DR told her her estrogen levels were low and testerone was not existing. But she is taking testerone now a shot they gave her and she said that is why she has no desire for sex cause her levels being low
Sit her down and be direct. Tell her what you need.

She doesn’t need to fuck you for you to get off and for you both to have intimacy. Mouth parties, tit job, hand job, etc. etc.

Either you both are looking forward to a time in which the sex is restored to the relationship, or she agrees to an open relationship. Or maybe it’s best to call this what it is, a friendship.
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Its not about just me. If it was then would not be here asking for advice and like i mentioned earlier would have moved on if all i wanted was sex. Sex is important but not evertyhing. I want to feel the connection we had when we both were intimate. Making love is just one of many ways we bond. How many men really would wait 10 months without any sex? Not many. But i have in hope she will reconnect with me.
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Posted by FAJ47
Its not about just me. If it was then would not be here asking for advice and like i mentioned earlier would have moved on if all i wanted was sex. Sex is important but not evertyhing. I want to feel the connection we had when we both were intimate. Making love is just one of many ways we bond. How many men really would wait 10 months without any sex? Not many. But i have in hope she will reconnect with me.
If you're serious about her then show her, take her out on a date or something and make her feel special. Shes obviously feeling a little insecure right now and probably isn't sure about your intentions so you should be moving mountains for her if you want that intimacy. Shes gonna make you work for it lol
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Its not about just me. If it was then would not be here asking for advice and like i mentioned earlier would have moved on if all i wanted was sex. Sex is important but not evertyhing. I want to feel the connection we had when we both were intimate. Making love is just one of many ways we bond. How many men really would wait 10 months without any sex? Not many. But i have in hope she will reconnect with me.

Admiration for your patience. What you you need to do is do nottalk about sex. Arrange a romatic dinner for just the two of you with candles, nice music, good food and then just slowly start with tender hugs and kisses. Make her feel beautiful and secure. And she's yours.

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Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by FAJ47
I have been patient. Its been 10 months since we started seeing one another and no sex in that span of time.
Yes, you are patient! I don’t know what to say... she has a problem. Hopefully it gets better soon and you both are happier. But she is lucky to have you.
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is she really though?

op seems gross
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Posted by FAJ47
I have been patient. Its been 10 months since we started seeing one another and no sex in that span of time.
And it could be another 10 months. Do you really want sex with someone who's not into it? It seems like what she needs is companionship and not a lover. You may not be able to have the relationship with her that you desire.
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right?

i feel like she was semi coerced into a romantic situation in the first place

she friendzoned you not because you didn't make a move

you started off romantic and did something to turn her off

and whatever that things is actually is the real reason why you aren't getting any nookie

hormones aside

if a piscean woman is into you we will still do other things even with a low libido

she's just not that into you but hasn't found anything better so she's with you for now imho
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Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by FAJ47
I have been patient. Its been 10 months since we started seeing one another and no sex in that span of time.
Yes, you are patient! I don’t know what to say... she has a problem. Hopefully it gets better soon and you both are happier. But she is lucky to have you.
.....or maybe the sexual chemistry isn't there?
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OH SNAP
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Posted by RedemptionSong
Posted by FAJ47
I have been patient. Its been 10 months since we started seeing one another and no sex in that span of time.
And it could be another 10 months. Do you really want sex with someone who's not into it? It seems like what she needs is companionship and not a lover. You may not be able to have the relationship with her that you desire.
right?

i feel like she was semi coerced into a romantic situation in the first place

she friendzoned you not because you didn't make a move

you started off romantic and did something to turn her off

and whatever that things is actually is the real reason why you aren't getting any nookie

hormones aside

if a piscean woman is into you we will still do other things even with a low libido

she's just not that into you but hasn't found anything better so she's with you for now imho
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The only thing i can think of was i was too nice. I was always good to her and trying to meet her needs. In the beginning of relationship we had sex several times a week. I would go to her job and take her roses and balloons just because. I never changed from day one till the day she tried to friendzone me. I have been genuine. She has told me on numerous occassions that i am a good man.