Why would a pisces stare?

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I have noticed him staring at people when they talk. But he stares at me when i'm not even talking.

I tried my best not to look at him today but again i caught him staring and i made eye contact for like 1 second with him when i caught his stare. Why does he do this? I asked him if he wants to hang out whenever he is free he said yes but never ended up messaging me :/
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Posted by P-Angel
Why do you insist on making his every little gesture or movement into meaning something profound about you?



it's like you're stalking him, he can't even look at something or someone






I'm hurt about him ignoring us hanging out so I guess I'm trying to make myself feel better by asking these stupid questions. I should just let it go I don't know why I can't :/

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Posted by confusedaries7513
I have noticed him staring at people when they talk. But he stares at me when i'm not even talking.

I tried my best not to look at him today but again i caught him staring and i made eye contact for like 1 second with him when i caught his stare. Why does he do this? I asked him if he wants to hang out whenever he is free he said yes but never ended up messaging me :/
1 step:say to him that u like him

2 step:go out together

3 step: happy life

Simple?
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But man I kinda got rejected. I have texted him first three times and he didnt even bother messaging me so we can hang out. And he is weird i feel like he tried to avoid me after i asked him if he wants to hang out :/
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I have noticed him staring at people when they talk. But he stares at me when i'm not even talking.

I tried my best not to look at him today but again i caught him staring and i made eye contact for like 1 second with him when i caught his stare. Why does he do this? I asked him if he wants to hang out whenever he is free he said yes but never ended up messaging me :/
1 step:say to him that u like him

2 step:go out together

3 step: happy life

Simple?
But man I kinda got rejected. I have texted him first three times and he didnt even bother messaging me so we can hang out. And he is weird i feel like he tried to avoid me after i asked him if he wants to hang out :/


Just ask him direct if he likes u,maybe hes shy?if he doesn't like u then its the end,if he does u two find a way?
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God No! I am not looking to get rejected again. 🙂))) i would prefer to just leave it
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Posted by confusedaries7513
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Posted by confusedaries7513
I have noticed him staring at people when they talk. But he stares at me when i'm not even talking.

I tried my best not to look at him today but again i caught him staring and i made eye contact for like 1 second with him when i caught his stare. Why does he do this? I asked him if he wants to hang out whenever he is free he said yes but never ended up messaging me :/
1 step:say to him that u like him

2 step:go out together

3 step: happy life

Simple?
But man I kinda got rejected. I have texted him first three times and he didnt even bother messaging me so we can hang out. And he is weird i feel like he tried to avoid me after i asked him if he wants to hang out :/


If a man ignores you about hanging out, then he's not as interested to take you out.

Plain and simple.
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I agree 😢
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Okay... if he didn't respond then he isn't interested right now. If we are intrigued with someone, then we will meet them or at the very least engage with them.

Sounds like he was trying to be nice and you followed through...maybe he wasn't expecting you to do that... maybe he was and thought you would get the hint if he disengaged.

Best thing to do is... just do you. If a Pisces like you... they will find a way to engage. But tread lightly. We have a tendency to swim close and swim away.

If you can't stop thinking about him, then think is a dick or whatever that will help you get over it. You being "thirsty" isn't a good look and really back fire on you with Pisces (he could always think you would be around so he can take his sweet time if he was interested or just mess with you...some people just like being liked even if they have no interest).

Also... don't take the whole staring at people thing TOO seriously. He isn't a Virgo or anything. He could be just thinking did he leave the stove on, in his own world (us merfolk are UNKNOWN for this one) or just observing (I do that a lot and a Pisces guy I used to date loved to people-watch as a hobby).

It really isn't a sign of anything.
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Okay... if he didn't respond then he isn't interested right now. If we are intrigued with someone, then we will meet them or at the very least engage with them.

Sounds like he was trying to be nice and you followed through...maybe he wasn't expecting you to do that... maybe he was and thought you would get the hint if he disengaged.

Best thing to do is... just do you. If a Pisces like you... they will find a way to engage. But tread lightly. We have a tendency to swim close and swim away.

If you can't stop thinking about him, then think is a dick or whatever that will help you get over it. You being "thirsty" isn't a good look and really back fire on you with Pisces (he could always think you would be around so he can take his sweet time if he was interested or just mess with you...some people just like being liked even if they have no interest).

Also... don't take the whole staring at people thing TOO seriously. He isn't a Virgo or anything. He could be just thinking did he leave the stove on, in his own world (us merfolk are UNKNOWN for this one) or just observing (I do that a lot and a Pisces guy I used to date loved to people-watch as a hobby).

It really isn't a sign of anything.


That is so true thank you for your advice! When I saw him today though, i just acted friendly and spoke with him a bit just for the sake of my own peace of mind knowing things aren't weird between us. I hope he didn't think I am/was thirsty :/ I just have a tendency to overthink everything. I need to let him go.
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Posted by confusedaries7513
I have noticed him staring at people when they talk. But he stares at me when i'm not even talking.

I tried my best not to look at him today but again i caught him staring and i made eye contact for like 1 second with him when i caught his stare. Why does he do this? I asked him if he wants to hang out whenever he is free he said yes but never ended up messaging me :/
If he only locked eyes for you for 1 second that means he only glanced your way.

Sounds like your the one whose staring at him. It's far more likely that he feels your intense stare and is looking around to see who is being creepy by watching him.

Stop pestering this poor boy and find something else to obsess over.
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Posted by confusedaries7513
I have noticed him staring at people when they talk. But he stares at me when i'm not even talking.

I tried my best not to look at him today but again i caught him staring and i made eye contact for like 1 second with him when i caught his stare. Why does he do this? I asked him if he wants to hang out whenever he is free he said yes but never ended up messaging me :/
If he only locked eyes for you for 1 second that means he only glanced your way.

Sounds like your the one whose staring at him. It's far more likely that he feels your intense stare and is looking around to see who is being creepy by watching him.

Stop pestering this poor boy and find something else to obsess over.
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I glanced at him for one second. Soon as i noticed he was looking i looked away. I never stare at him (or anyone) I dont know how long he has been looking. But you are right 🙂
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Posted by confusedaries7513
I have noticed him staring at people when they talk. But he stares at me when i'm not even talking.

I tried my best not to look at him today but again i caught him staring and i made eye contact for like 1 second with him when i caught his stare. Why does he do this? I asked him if he wants to hang out whenever he is free he said yes but never ended up messaging me :/
If he only locked eyes for you for 1 second that means he only glanced your way.

Sounds like your the one whose staring at him. It's far more likely that he feels your intense stare and is looking around to see who is being creepy by watching him.

Stop pestering this poor boy and find something else to obsess over.


I glanced at him for one second. Soon as i noticed he was looking i looked away. I never stare at him (or anyone) I dont know how long he has been looking. But you are right 🙂

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Maybe I'm reading the situation wrong...but from what you've wrote it seems like he's not looking at you any harder than anyone else.

But even if he was...look at his actions. He hasn't made an effort to accept your invite and get to know you. And your realizing this. So don't waste any more time. Move onto the next.
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Posted by confusedaries7513
I have noticed him staring at people when they talk. But he stares at me when i'm not even talking.

I tried my best not to look at him today but again i caught him staring and i made eye contact for like 1 second with him when i caught his stare. Why does he do this? I asked him if he wants to hang out whenever he is free he said yes but never ended up messaging me :/
If he only locked eyes for you for 1 second that means he only glanced your way.

Sounds like your the one whose staring at him. It's far more likely that he feels your intense stare and is looking around to see who is being creepy by watching him.

Stop pestering this poor boy and find something else to obsess over.


I glanced at him for one second. Soon as i noticed he was looking i looked away. I never stare at him (or anyone) I dont know how long he has been looking. But you are right 🙂


Maybe I'm reading the situation wrong...but from what you've wrote it seems like he's not looking at you any harder than anyone else.

But even if he was...look at his actions. He hasn't made an effort to accept your invite and get to know you. And your realizing this. So don't waste any more time. Move onto the next.
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oh no you're not reading the situation wrong I explained it badly (English isn't my first language) haha. he always stares at me a lot. Especially when he sat next to me and i could tell, without looking at him directly that he was staring at me for an unusually long amount of time and it kinda made me feel uncomfortable to be honest. But yeah you're absolutely right. all of this is pointless. he hasn't made an effort and I will make it my mission to move on and not think about him anymore. 🙂
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Posted by confusedaries7513
I have noticed him staring at people when they talk. But he stares at me when i'm not even talking.

I tried my best not to look at him today but again i caught him staring and i made eye contact for like 1 second with him when i caught his stare. Why does he do this? I asked him if he wants to hang out whenever he is free he said yes but never ended up messaging me :/
1 step:say to him that u like him

2 step:go out together

3 step: happy life

Simple?
But man I kinda got rejected. I have texted him first three times and he didnt even bother messaging me so we can hang out. And he is weird i feel like he tried to avoid me after i asked him if he wants to hang out :/


Just ask him direct if he likes u,maybe hes shy?if he doesn't like u then its the end,if he does u two find a way?
God No! I am not looking to get rejected again. 🙂))) i would prefer to just leave it


No risk no gain?
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Exactly haha

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Posted by confusedaries7513
I have noticed him staring at people when they talk. But he stares at me when i'm not even talking.

I tried my best not to look at him today but again i caught him staring and i made eye contact for like 1 second with him when i caught his stare. Why does he do this? I asked him if he wants to hang out whenever he is free he said yes but never ended up messaging me :/
1 step:say to him that u like him

2 step:go out together

3 step: happy life

Simple?
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I disagree don't do this.

Aries venus. Remain a challenge.
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Posted by confusedaries7513
I have noticed him staring at people when they talk. But he stares at me when i'm not even talking.

I tried my best not to look at him today but again i caught him staring and i made eye contact for like 1 second with him when i caught his stare. Why does he do this? I asked him if he wants to hang out whenever he is free he said yes but never ended up messaging me :/
1 step:say to him that u like him

2 step:go out together

3 step: happy life

Simple?
But man I kinda got rejected. I have texted him first three times and he didnt even bother messaging me so we can hang out. And he is weird i feel like he tried to avoid me after i asked him if he wants to hang out :/

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See you tried too hard.

Be independent, remain aloof but be friendly and enjoy your life ( friends coworkers etc).

That's how you'll attract him.
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Posted by confusedaries7513
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Posted by confusedaries7513
I have noticed him staring at people when they talk. But he stares at me when i'm not even talking.

I tried my best not to look at him today but again i caught him staring and i made eye contact for like 1 second with him when i caught his stare. Why does he do this? I asked him if he wants to hang out whenever he is free he said yes but never ended up messaging me :/
1 step:say to him that u like him

2 step:go out together

3 step: happy life

Simple?
But man I kinda got rejected. I have texted him first three times and he didnt even bother messaging me so we can hang out. And he is weird i feel like he tried to avoid me after i asked him if he wants to hang out :/



See you tried to hard.

Be independent, remain aloof but be friendly and enjoy your life ( friends coworkers etc).

That's how you'll attract him.
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Meh I just wanted to get to know him. If this is too much attention for him then it won't work out between us ever. His loss. 🙂) Besides the first two times i messaged him was to remind him of a due date so I was only trying to be nice like he was to me.
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my pisces mom crack me up with the way she stares at people, she just turn and stare like its her business...then look at them with innocent eyes when they are like um what are you staring at

bishes let my mom stare LOL



my pisces dad act like he's not staring-paying attention but then he either comment or laugh and ruin the whole nonchalant act




ahaha interesting 😛 I someties stare but not for too long. pisces people just stare until it gets very uncomfortable to be honest.
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Why do you insist on making his every little gesture or movement into meaning something profound about you?



it's like you're stalking him, he can't even look at something or someone






I'm hurt about him ignoring us hanging out so I guess I'm trying to make myself feel better by asking these stupid questions. I should just let it go I don't know why I can't :/

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Maybe it's an Aries thing but I look into small things people do too. But I believe it's like a 6th sense tbh bc most Aries I know are very intuitive about people. Just bc someone looks at me, doesn't mean I think they like me or I even think into it. But idk how to describe but I read vibes from people very well and I can tell when someone might be interested or they're thinking something about me. Or if they just don't like me or don't care for my presence... You're not weird or crazy for thinking this, other signs don't get it. Especially Earth signs
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Why do you insist on making his every little gesture or movement into meaning something profound about you?



it's like you're stalking him, he can't even look at something or someone






I'm hurt about him ignoring us hanging out so I guess I'm trying to make myself feel better by asking these stupid questions. I should just let it go I don't know why I can't :/


Maybe it's an Aries thing but I look into small things people do too. But I believe it's like a 6th sense tbh bc most Aries I know are very intuitive about people. Just bc someone looks at me, doesn't mean I think they like me or I even think into it. But idk how to describe but I read vibes from people very well and I can tell when someone might be interested or they're thinking something about me. Or if they just don't like me or don't care for my presence... You're not weird or crazy for thinking this, other signs don't get it. Especially Earth signs
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Yeah i agree. His stares were different. But i'm over him now 🙂)