wtf?

What is this supposed to mean?



A woman uses her sex appeal to get a man ==== makes herself sexually appealing to lure him in.


Then gets offended because he only wants her for sex.



:::: throws hands up in the air ::::

Normal?


No, I wouldn't say that's how life works .. I'd say that how women work, and to their own detriment, I'm afraid .. because they are the ones in emotional grief 99% of the time over the very condition of being used, in which betrays their feelings.


That seems abnormal to me 😛

Women get boob jobs and wonder why men only stare at their boobs. Dont get it either. No woman should have to go through that pain unless:

A. She has abnormally small boobs. Meaning she almost looks like a guy. Thats understandable to want to feel a bit more womanly.

B. Its more beneficial for her profession and will help her get more jobs/money.

"men do the same thing. They keep obsessing about their paycheck and then complain that they only attract gold diggers. *shrug*"

so true, I dont know if they want you to be a gold digger or thats what they expect??

This perception that "women grief 99% of the time" is pure BS!

That only applies to DEPENDENT women, NOT independent women like myself who don't give a rats arse what any man thinks.

So true what Xun3 said ... doesn't make sense to me.


What the hell is the matter with people?

If you give them a certain impression .. then they ARE going to have (this) impression.


MsP .. think about it.

Men have their own crazy ways .... I'm talking about women here, and the way they use their sexuality to secure a man's attention, to later cry because the man used them sexually.

What brought this thought to my head was the user name of a new member.

SexyCancer(something) .... and I thought .. sexy?


Women will go out and buy sexy things to entice a man, she will present herself in a light to suggest she is seductive ..... and all this for the purpose of securing a man to her, then once he picks up on her cues, she then wants him to have "feelings" for her and she cannot understand how he could give her that much attention in the beginning and not have loving feelings for her.


Uh, yeah ..... that attention he gave her? It was to get in her pants because this is the impression she made upon him by using her sexuality to snare him.



People are so fucked up ... seriously .. and have no clue.

All of us .... the most famous avatar of all times recognized how screwed up we are and tried to help .. in the end, he could only helplessly leave, making the conclusion that we know not what we're even doing.

This is a wtf thread ..... you can post yours too.


Men and how they attract women by using money as a bait, and then saying they are gold-diggers.


That's a definite .. what the fuck?

One of my sister-in-laws, who gets food stamps, at the beginning of every month she will buy steak, expensive cheese, shrimp & lobster ... which pretty much takes up 90% of her food money and only feeds her family for about 10 days.

Then around the 11th or 12th, or so of every month, she's crying to us about her family being hungry and needs help.


wtf?

I've got a good "WTF" Why is it that women on here are told they need to not contact a man or tell him how they feel, because men are hunters and they need to pursue. I really dont get that. If a woman wants to call a guy first, ask him out, tell him how she honestly feels then whats the problem. Either the man will love her for it and reciprocate, or he will be repulsed and leave. Either way she cant lose. She will get a man who wants her or not, so why does she have to be any less than herself. WTF!

I have one too.

I am speachless when I read somebody was involved with someone (even worse from an Internet online dating site) only for one or two months and now they ask for advice how to get them back.

only a few months. come on.

why don't they just wait and see what happens? nobody gets lost. thery are always there. you can always get a second chance. but no. these people want to have it today. the correct strategy to get the seet past back.

Klover_Fish if calling first and pursuing a man is working for you then do that, as antiquated and ancient as the old ways seem THEY WORK and it balances everything out starting day one, I find that women are sending out the wrong messages by chasing a man, to chase or not to chase is each individual womans prerogative...patience wins the race, a patient woman is a happy woman because she understands a mans heart and what makes him feel like he's in love, a man will feel flattered that a woman is calling first and what not but that doesn't inspire him to fall in love nor does it spark high interest and makes him want to pursue her beyond a couple of dates. He has to want you, want a relationship and he can't know that no matter how great of a woman you are if he's not being challenged in some way.

If a woman calls first, initiates anything first then she has to also know when to back up and let him know that she has a life and she's not waiting around for a man, she has to pursue in a way that doesn't come off pushy and she does that by making her interest known but she doesn't continue to follow up and call and call if he's not showing much interest....it's just completely counter productive and not in a womans best interest to do certain things during the dating process, young women today are working against themselves by trying to do it differently, and the results of that is a mixed bag, there is absolutely one way that is completely effective and the many other ways well it all depends

I want to emphasize that what women choose to do during the dating and wooing process is up to each individual, yet be flexible, if something isn't working for you then learn a more effective way of being with a man

Each person creates there own individual rules, some things simply work better ie is more effective during the dating process, I would never tell a woman not to say hi and open a conversation, that's very sexy but she also needs to know how to effectively close that gap between seeming desperate to being super confident and sure of herself. I find that men that don't initiate are super lazy and want a woman to do all the work, the more she initiates, does all the calling and pursuing she becomes the relationship and as long as she's being the whole relationship he doesn't mind showing up

confidence plays a huge part in the dating process I agree

"I tend to think it is normal to look or stare at things we find attractive and keep away, not look at things that are repulsive."

You're calling a woman a THING. We got our rights years ago we're not property or something for men's amusement and entertainment.

"He has to want you, want a relationship and he can't know that no matter how great of a woman you are if he's not being challenged in some way."


I completely disagree with the last part of this statement ... not all men are lazy in a relationship, and not all men have to be challenged in one to know what he has with his woman.



"I tend to think it is normal to look or stare at things we find attractive .."


giggles .. the other night at poker, this woman was showing her boobs, she had on a really low-cut top and everyone could see her breats .... and we looked, because we liked "it" (them).

Yes but isnt it the confident woman who can say "I like you, I want to spend time with you" A confident woman can also say after a period of progression "I know that I want you, and I want to be exlusive and see where this goes" I understand what Tiki is saying I've heard it all before on the Cap board. I dont condone "making the first move" but I just dont see anything wrong with a woman being who she is, and if that means calling first and owning your emotions and being confident enough to say how you feel-than so be it. Because its like I said, and just like a MALE agreed-either the guy will love it or flee. If your idea of a confident woman sits and waits for the man to do everything and she's not allowed to speak her mind or heart until AFTER he has professed his love, than I dont want to be that kind of "confident" woman. I need to say what I think and feel at all times. You either love me or leave me alone.

lemme clarify my statement, I am not speaking about all men, again as I have stated each individual approaches dating differently, to each her own, you have been married how many years? So you really can't quantify or directly relate to if it's true or not given your status unless your dating outside of your marriage then I guess you would quantify that statement

I can appreciate your style klover, if that works for you I would encourage you to continue being that way

Its not a style . I dont date and I've been single for a while by choice. My view is based on who I am, I have to be me, I have to be true to myself. It has nothing to do with a " style " or how things "should" be.

Is it working for you? What I mean by working I mean is your date planner full? Are you dating that dream man that you enjoy so much? If it is then kudos but if you take time and think about what you want and how it measures up to how you are and if there is any conflicts with how you are and what you want then change is essential which means trial and error but if you truly feel how you are is getting you the results you want then never stray from that and lets face it every woman wants and in some cases need companionship but who we are given out too soon at the wrong time can effect how men relate to us.

Is there a reason your not dating?

As for the style statement, I didn't mean that literally, if you choose to be a certain way because of who you are and that's part of your statement as a woman than of course be true to that

Hey if a woman has it then flaunt it, nothing wrong with liking things *your word not mine Hizaki* lol

yawn...men can grow boobs too but i tend to get penis envy...sometimes i think i'd be an awesome dude

Oh no Hizaki lol I'm not offended at all those things are a huge distraction for a man well for anyone that has eyes...I knew what you meant when you said it, just a bit of teasing you know how I do with you...but hmmm narcissist tend to objectify things, people and body parts...jus say'n

ARe you suggesting that because a woman is married, then it means she has lost all ability to discern through observation? that she is no longer aware of what goes on around her?

do you think that I've never dated?


A woman who makes her interest known, only to pull back and await for him to come to her, isn't my kind of confident .. to me, that is fear of rejection syndrome.




Hey, Hizaki .. I love tits 😛 .. what can I say?

"Yeah I know, I keep 3 women in my basement who do my bidding as I please I give them fresh water and bread every day so what's the problem?"

ROTFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

As long as I'm not one of them, I have no complaints

Oh but Ms.Pisces I make it clear, I tell women to go out create a fun life, a life so good that he has to work to get in it, that's what ignoring a man that is RESISTANT is about, if he's resistant to giving you a relationship, resistant in holding up his half of the relationship, don't sit around whining about it, get out there and enjoy life, your dating planner is full, you have places to go, things to do, your life is exactly the way you want it to be with a man or without a man and he will feel that about you, he will sense that something that makes you different from other women and he will want that in his life, not needing a man is FREEDOM, you like men but you don't need them and that alone will speak for itself, women really have to take care of themselves before any man will even want to be in her life. (I don't mean YOU directly Ms.P)

There is no rules per say again, I don't know why women keep pegging this rule crap on me because I never said there were rules, there are behaviors that are more effective than others and if something isn't working CHANGE IT...I find that most of these women on dxp are insecure, they are needy and they feel a man will complete them, they can't sit by and let a man go on his way if he chooses to, of course there has to be a reason why he doesn't want it anymore and that alone says the woman has invested heavily in a man that didn't want what he had or even gave much thought to it.

There's a difference between being vulnerable, saying how one feels and saying how one feels because she NEEDS a man and NEEDS a relationship. One will bring a man closer and the other won't

lmao I love the bleach pic

That is messed up Hizaki....then again many had said that to me before.

"Lol! My basement "doors" are always open for you tiki."

*Shivers* I'm so not going down, I mean through your basement doors

"they can justify all sorts of sick and perverted desires"

well look at that, the saying is true...you do learn new things every day lol

I know one thing:


I've had enough of these Women R From Venus/Men from Mars.


Damn. This shyt never gets old.

guys don't hide fact that they are perverted
don't you two feel proud of yourself for announcing it to the world

lol you people are just too funny

snapple is a Leo boy who's username was kris ... as well as Fallenstar and a couple others I cannot remember

True ^^^^^^ But doesnt this make you a person who is making generalizations.

Bewbs.

As much crying as you just did over a post in which wasnt' directed towards any one person .. that would put you in the 99% category of emotional grief that most women experience becuase their feeligns betray them.