Any insight is greatly appreciated!!!

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Libralady1985
@Libralady1985
8 Years

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Any help is appreciated very much!! Please take a moment to let you know what my reality currently looks like.....



This is the first Aquariuan I have ever dated and let me tell you, when they disappear it can be so mentally exhausting for me, being a Libra woman who natural disects everything lol

I have been seeing my guy for 8 months and for 90% if our 'relationship' it's been upward and positive.... He tends to disappear approximately every 6 weeks it's like clock work. Even though I expect it, that doesn't make it easier lol. Everytime he pulls away, he pulls away more fierce than the time before...mind you he comes back even stronger than before as well...

Everytime that happens, because it's more distant than previously I am sent into this world of thought about what on earth is going on. His silence is like a screaming in my ear lol. Don't get me wrong I'm cool with giving space, everyone needs that now and then, but when I'm ignored, affection completely shuts down and I'm treated like a complete stranger it makes me start to feel like he's second guessing things. He's there in a place of disappearring, yet again.... I usually wait through it and carry on with life. But this time decided to seek a forum and see if anyone has advice.



2 weeks ago, we were both in ecstasty with where our relationship was going. We really do make a good team. He has told me he loves me for months, but this time we was stating he is my man, I'm his girl, we will grow old together
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Libralady1985
@Libralady1985
8 Years

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Posted by arose32
I'm not a Aquarius, but I'm a Aquarius Venus & yes it can get overwhelming at times being with someone.

Do you guys communicate?


Yes we communicate but he is typical asshole very loving man. His affecton pours through authority even trying. Since he got distant he talks to me as though I'm a complete stranger. Hasn't told me he loves me in days. And typically he tells me he loves me a few times a day. Just so many halts all at once. I asked him if he wants it to end, he said no. But he's completely suppressed his emotions towards me