Help. I need incite. Here is my story. I was in an 11 month failing relationship. After about 5 months into it I met this Capricorn woman. I am an Aries man. We were talking for about 4 months. Our talks mostly revolved around our jobs and seeking advice from each other on our relationships we were in at the time. Allot of flirting and "what if" scenarios were talked and joked about if both of us became single. We seemed to really hit it off. To the point where she told me she finally broke it off with the guy she was seeing at the time. I would go over to her place and chill out there fairly frequently as she liked spending time with me. I waa seriously considering breaking up with my girlfriend and was going to in a week or so regardless of what happens next. A few days after she broke it off with the guy she was dating we were chilling on her couch watching tv when all of a sudden she became really frisky and essentially jumped my bones. She was relentless even though I told her I didn't feel comfortable because I still had a girlfriend at that time. She attempted to seduce me and got pretty far but we didn't go all the way. About a week later I left my relationship and we were starting to get more intimate. She wanted to make out all the time and lay in bed naked with me all the time napping. She soon entered the process of moving to a different house and getting ready to start school back up since she is a teacher. After about 2 weeks of all this messing around and making me think she waa extremely interested in me, she said that she feels as if we were moving too fast and wanted to slow down and didn't want to lose me as a friend. Saying that she doesn't think she can handle a relationship with all the things that she now all of a sudden had to deal with with moving and all. That she values my friendship and perhaps can talk about a relationship when things calm down.
We have been hanging out for 2 months after that. She is still dealing with the move and stressing out. She said the other day that she was glad that we are friends and I have been a big help helping her with the move. She really appreciated me and she thinks that if we tried a relationship now she would implode.
I think she is interested in me as she still invites me over and buys me dinner and wants to see me. But whenever I talk about the dating subject she says we will discuss it later and becomes evasive about it. I know capricorns aren't very talkative or show their emotions but it is hard for me to read. And incite is appreciated.
LEO Sun ♌ - Pisces Moon ♓ - Scorpio Asc ♏ - Venus in Virgo ♍ Pluto in L
I agree with all above. Being a fire sign myself, I know what you are going through. But you just need to chill and let time bring her back to you. Do something during school mid-term breaks or Christmas. Good luck!!
Relax, everything is looking positive. It's just not moving at your pace... What she's saying is perfectly understandable. No mixed signals. Her actions are also A-okay. She's keeping you involved, maintaining contact and expressing her care for you with dinner and hang outs. Everything is chill stick it out.