Cancer chic being HOT and COLD helppp:(

Scorpio here!

Ok so this cancer chic and I started talking on social media and then I asked for her number and she and I started texting/using voice text. At first it was great, we would flirt, talk literally ALL day, even keep each other informed when we weren't going to be able to respond for a while. (like brb taking a shower).. I know its pathetic but I loved it.

Anyways, so we would flirt. talk all day and it was great and THEN... she started dropping hints that she wasn't over her ex and started making comments like " I wouldnt start something new until Im over my ex"..so naturally I was a bit confused. All the sudden we are flirting and now you're dropping the ball on me that you're still hung up on your ex?
So what did I do? Being the blunt scorpio I am, I asked her why she even gave me her number in the first place and she said "Well honestly I didn't realize you were hitting on me... but i thought you were cute so ya."
So she gave me her number, we flirt for a while and she tells me she is not over her ex.
SO.. I told her that I want to respect her time to heal and that we should just be friends because I dont want to get involve with her intimately if she is not over her ex (cus then I would just get hurt) she said she understood.
So we went on texting as just friends..She actually opened up to me a LOT. and I guess this is something cancers don't do? She told me her insecurities, her fears, her desires.. a lot of private things (which made me like her more).
She really opened up to me and me being a psychology major and Scorpio I LOVED that. I loved that she came to me for comfort and reassurance. She would literally send me pictures of her smudged makeup from crying over her ex and it just made me wanna hug her and tell her everything would be ok. So this was all BEFORE we met in person (remember we linked up on IG) the she makes a trip to SD with her friends and I meet up with her.
Long story short that day was a treetrunking BUST! she had a panic attack (which she warned me might happen if she is away from home ) and knowing this I tried to comfort her but she pushed me away and then insisted she leave and go home:/ so they all left.
She texted me when she got home saying "hey just got home about to sleep blah blah".. then the next day she sent me a long paragraph saying how that day was all bad and her anxiety was just way out of control (which brought me reassurance because I thought she left cus she was over it ... afte

Honey, she sounds like a waste of time. Relationships cannot be formed from being their therapist.

She has no idea what she wants and she sounds like a selfish bitch.

"Oh you were cute, so yeah." = "I have no respect for you as a human being and am fucking around for my benefit."

Move along.

ya i seem to pick the worst girls. wtf

Being into psychology yourself, you may want to figure out why you're into this "white knight" bullshit. It's usually a sign of a very insecure individual, tbh.

"I SHALL SAVE HER BECAUSE IT MAKES ME FEEL TINGLY INSIDE AND DOWNSTAIRS."

Learn from those mistakes, too. You should know by now who's considered a "fixer upper" and what to watch out for when it comes to headache relationships with people like them.

Im not sure why I go for the "broken ones." Im a very secure individual and people have always said they admired how independent and "secure in myself i am" I noticed this trend of wanting to be in a relationship after my first girlfriend cheated on me. Before her, I loved being single.. now its as if its the opposite and I love being in a relationship.