
tresdynamiques
@tresdynamiques
8 YearsCancer
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Posted by SupesLMAO I tried that!!
Why don’t you just tell him to come over and give you a good pounding?
That usually works

Posted by crazysiouxI figured that since they move so slow, overthink everything and don't like to be pushed that chasing him would be a bad idea... he's almost always responsive to me, but I've refrained from putting any pressure on him. You really think I should chase??
I've got 4 words for you: "Your place or mine?" Ask him that. And then go chase his ass down and sink your claws into him. Caps don't chase. Very seldom will they do the chasing because they are mollified at the idea of fucking things up. They respond best by being chased, and Cancer chicks are NOT afraid of doing the chasing. Go git heeem!! 😄
My daughter's mother was a Cancer and she chased me. My ex -- a Taurus -- chased me. The Aqua I had awesome intimacy with? I explained to her that she has to figure out what she would rather do between moving backward and staying with an ex-boyfriend or moving forward with me. Or vice versa - I could be the step back. Took her 3 months to make a decision ... and she chose to move forward with me. That's just how we roll and and how we respond. I had way too many really close Cap friends over the years whose birthdays were just days apart, and ever single one of them botched all of their relationships in which they felt compelled to do the chasing, and it hurts them so badly that they'll never do the chase game again).
So your work is pretty much cut out for ya! 😄
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I realized my mistake a few minutes later and immediately apologized, but his response to it was... equally suggestive. Over the next few days we discovered that we were indeed attracted to each other. Neither of us is ready to date anyone and we're both enjoying being single and focusing on our kids and careers, but the attraction has grown from this smoldering little ember to a complete inferno and we are mutually agreeable that friends-with-benefits is on the table.
He is the WORST TEASE. He's so responsive, but he's reserved in the way he talks to me (not a lot of vulgar stuff), and though I've suggested that we "hang out" (/netflix and chill, etc lol), he has yet to jump on the chance.
Is this normal Capricorn behavior? I know they're known for being slow-moving, and though I'm starting to get frustrated, I'm still willing to be patient... but oh my lord I WANT HIM!! They're not known for being game-players, are they? Do I just wait him out, or am I wasting my time?!