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I do not keep dxp a secret from him either.

He knows I write on here but he is not bothered enough to stalk or read what I write. Which slightly disappoints my Stinger side and my somewhat sick need or desire to be stalked by my lover. 😆

I suppose he may on occasion but rarely, he finds astrology to be only unicorn science.

In fact, he enjoys leaving everything of his out in the open for me to discover.

He does not hide much, he is private almost too private, but he is not secretive.
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I do not keep dxp a secret from him either.

He knows I write on here but he is not bothered enough to stalk or read what I write. Which slightly disappoints my Stinger side and my somewhat sick need or desire to be stalked by my lover. 😆

I suppose he may on occasion but rarely, he finds astrology to be only unicorn science.

In fact, he enjoys leaving everything of his out in the open for me to discover.

He does not hide much, he is private almost too private, but he is not secretive.
That was were i wanted to go.. Mine shows no interest and never stalks me.. 😢
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I do not keep dxp a secret from him either.

He knows I write on here but he is not bothered enough to stalk or read what I write. Which slightly disappoints my Stinger side and my somewhat sick need or desire to be stalked by my lover. 😆

I suppose he may on occasion but rarely, he finds astrology to be only unicorn science.

In fact, he enjoys leaving everything of his out in the open for me to discover.

He does not hide much, he is private almost too private, but he is not secretive.
That was were i wanted to go.. Mine shows no interest and never stalks me.. 😢
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Hah, as much as our sick need and desire wants to be sated.

We should still recognise and appreciate their solid trust in us. 🙂

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Well my wife is sitting beside me right now lol

I don't think there's anything wrong with that. 🙂
A couple spending time reading a forum seems rather creepy to me :p
lol she just looks from time to time

she has access to my everything.. i only look at her phone in case there are guys trying to chat her up or whatever..
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Does she not tell you when men chat her up?



I would tell my Virgent all the time because we like to talk about everything, so we could find amusement in it and because he knows I would be the last woman to stray.

Sometimes we laugh together about it, other times he would go silent. It really depends on the day and his mood.

Going into possessive mode or perhaps he does not enjoy having to process the thought of other men even remotely skimming my life?



What could it be yupvirgo?
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Well my wife is sitting beside me right now lol

I don't think there's anything wrong with that. 🙂
A couple spending time reading a forum seems rather creepy to me :p
lol she just looks from time to time

she has access to my everything.. i only look at her phone in case there are guys trying to chat her up or whatever..
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with a cute wife like u got i would check too xD
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well it's not like we're surfing porn or anything like that - ok once in awhile we get a dick pic or a flash fu ck but really - what is there to stalk ? waste of a lot of my time for nothing - besides, I guess I'm older and surely don't know any of you so who cares really ? lol
well, in my case, if he stalked me, he would find out i'm completely going nuts about our relationship, and how he treats me.

And as we have seen, people sometimes vent and talk deep stuff in foruns. So thats why i made topic about curiosity and not infidelity 🙂
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well it's not like we're surfing porn or anything like that - ok once in awhile we get a dick pic or a flash fu ck but really - what is there to stalk ? waste of a lot of my time for nothing - besides, I guess I'm older and surely don't know any of you so who cares really ? lol
well, in my case, if he stalked me, he would find out i'm completely going nuts about our relationship, and how he treats me.

And as we have seen, people sometimes vent and talk deep stuff in foruns. So thats why i made topic about curiosity and not infidelity 🙂
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Going nuts as in completely in love with him or in distress?
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well it's not like we're surfing porn or anything like that - ok once in awhile we get a dick pic or a flash fu ck but really - what is there to stalk ? waste of a lot of my time for nothing - besides, I guess I'm older and surely don't know any of you so who cares really ? lol
well, in my case, if he stalked me, he would find out i'm completely going nuts about our relationship, and how he treats me.

And as we have seen, people sometimes vent and talk deep stuff in foruns. So thats why i made topic about curiosity and not infidelity 🙂


Going nuts as in completely in love with him or in distress?
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Distress :v
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well it's not like we're surfing porn or anything like that - ok once in awhile we get a dick pic or a flash fu ck but really - what is there to stalk ? waste of a lot of my time for nothing - besides, I guess I'm older and surely don't know any of you so who cares really ? lol
well, in my case, if he stalked me, he would find out i'm completely going nuts about our relationship, and how he treats me.

And as we have seen, people sometimes vent and talk deep stuff in foruns. So thats why i made topic about curiosity and not infidelity 🙂


Going nuts as in completely in love with him or in distress?
Distress :v

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Oh facepalming, I am sorry to hear about that. 😢

Perhaps being direct with him and addressing your distress with him would be far more productive than him reading your posts on dxp.
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Well my wife is sitting beside me right now lol

I don't think there's anything wrong with that. 🙂
A couple spending time reading a forum seems rather creepy to me :p
lol she just looks from time to time

she has access to my everything.. i only look at her phone in case there are guys trying to chat her up or whatever..


Does she not tell you when men chat her up?



I would tell my Virgent all the time because we like to talk about everything, so we could find amusement in it and because he knows I would be the last woman to stray.

Sometimes we laugh together about it, other times he would go silent.

Going into possessive mode or perhaps he does not enjoy having to process the thought of other men even remotely skimming my life?



What could it be yupvirgo?
Honestly, I'm very possessive tho I don't seem to come off that way. I have Taurus moon, Leo Venus and a Scorpio dominant. Sometimes we go to parties that we can't say no to coz of our friends. Whenever I take a call, get a drink or go to the men's room, sometimes but not always, there is always some arrogant guy trying to approach her. Must be her gentle Cancer rising. And of course social media. She does point them out and when she does I always take her phone so I can reply to those idiots.

They don't even have to do much. Physically approaching her pisses me off enough. Or saying hi in social media pretending to do the "friend routine." Makes me so mad. It's not like she's any better tho lol. She has access to my everything. And we do go into silly little quarrels where she tries to avoid me when I'm being sweet on her until she can't bear it anymore lol. I'm very affectionate in private lol. I'll barrage her with so much until she gets so overwhelmed.

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You lot really do not come off that way at all and my Virgent always seems really relaxed or mellow in such situations. He is not reactive which makes it more of a mystery, rather he goes silent or tries to move the conversation forward unto something different entirely as if he did not hear what was shared?

Which surprises me if it is indeed possessiveness because besides his volcanic temper, he is very laid back despite being mentally neurotic in thoughts.

Instead he enjoys watching me stand on my own and how I react to such approaches. He almost relishes this?

He observes and watches me like a hawk, I cannot say I do not enjoy it. I am a slightly twisted Stinger after all, like all of our kind. 😆

The dichotomy confuses me at times. I share not out of spite or to incite jealousy, I share because I want to be able to talk about everything with him. The sheer silliness of men who still try to approach me when I have clearly made my stance of being happily taken with my bubble of coldness enforced.

Sometimes I wonder if I am missing something here in understanding his reactions.

Virgents are sickeningly sweet and affectionate in private, if only the women on the Virgo board knew. It is rather adorable to witness.
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well it's not like we're surfing porn or anything like that - ok once in awhile we get a dick pic or a flash fu ck but really - what is there to stalk ? waste of a lot of my time for nothing - besides, I guess I'm older and surely don't know any of you so who cares really ? lol
well, in my case, if he stalked me, he would find out i'm completely going nuts about our relationship, and how he treats me.

And as we have seen, people sometimes vent and talk deep stuff in foruns. So thats why i made topic about curiosity and not infidelity 🙂


Going nuts as in completely in love with him or in distress?
Distress :v




Oh facepalming, I am sorry to hear about that. 😢

Perhaps being direct with him and addressing your distress with him would be far more productive than him reading your posts on dxp.

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I've tried, all he gonna say its all my fault and he just mirrors me. xD Infernal loop
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I think her Leo moon is encouraging them just to make me jealous tho.

Got into a few fights with some knuckleheads before.

I'm a very very jealous lover.



Also, as for your Virgent.. some of us are good at pretending we're not jealous you know 😉




Well you lot are very good at pretending then, could have fooled me. 😆
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well it's not like we're surfing porn or anything like that - ok once in awhile we get a dick pic or a flash fu ck but really - what is there to stalk ? waste of a lot of my time for nothing - besides, I guess I'm older and surely don't know any of you so who cares really ? lol
well, in my case, if he stalked me, he would find out i'm completely going nuts about our relationship, and how he treats me.

And as we have seen, people sometimes vent and talk deep stuff in foruns. So thats why i made topic about curiosity and not infidelity 🙂
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that's true - don't want him to see your conversations
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well it's not like we're surfing porn or anything like that - ok once in awhile we get a dick pic or a flash fu ck but really - what is there to stalk ? waste of a lot of my time for nothing - besides, I guess I'm older and surely don't know any of you so who cares really ? lol
well, in my case, if he stalked me, he would find out i'm completely going nuts about our relationship, and how he treats me.

And as we have seen, people sometimes vent and talk deep stuff in foruns. So thats why i made topic about curiosity and not infidelity 🙂
that's true - don't want him to see your conversations
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wtf -_-
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Well my wife is sitting beside me right now lol

I don't think there's anything wrong with that. 🙂
A couple spending time reading a forum seems rather creepy to me :p
lol she just looks from time to time

she has access to my everything.. i only look at her phone in case there are guys trying to chat her up or whatever..


Does she not tell you when men chat her up?



I would tell my Virgent all the time because we like to talk about everything, so we could find amusement in it and because he knows I would be the last woman to stray.

Sometimes we laugh together about it, other times he would go silent.

Going into possessive mode or perhaps he does not enjoy having to process the thought of other men even remotely skimming my life?



What could it be yupvirgo?
Honestly, I'm very possessive tho I don't seem to come off that way. I have Taurus moon, Leo Venus and a Scorpio dominant. Sometimes we go to parties that we can't say no to coz of our friends. Whenever I take a call, get a drink or go to the men's room, sometimes but not always, there is always some arrogant guy trying to approach her. Must be her gentle Cancer rising. And of course social media. She does point them out and when she does I always take her phone so I can reply to those idiots.

They don't even have to do much. Physically approaching her pisses me off enough. Or saying hi in social media pretending to do the "friend routine." Makes me so mad. It's not like she's any better tho lol. She has access to my everything. And we do go into silly little quarrels where she tries to avoid me when I'm being sweet on her until she can't bear it anymore lol. I'm very affectionate in private lol. I'll barrage her with so much until she gets so overwhelmed.




You lot really do not come off that way at all and my Virgent always seems really relaxed or mellow in such situations. He is not reactive which makes it more of a mystery, rather he goes silent or tries to move the conversation forward unto something different entirely as if he did not hear what was shared?

Which surprises me if it is indeed possessiveness because besides his volcanic temper, he is very laid back despite being mentally neurotic in thoughts.

Instead he enjoys watching me stand on my own and how I react to such approaches. He almost relishes this?

He observes and watches me like a hawk, I cannot say I do not enjoy it. I am a slightly twisted Stinger after all, like all of our kind. 😆

The dichotomy confuses me at times. I share not out of spite or to incite jealousy, I share because I want to be able to talk about everything with him. The sheer silliness of men who still try to approach me when I have clearly made my stance of being happily taken with my bubble of coldness enforced.

Sometimes I wonder if I am missing something here in understanding his reactions.

Virgents are sickeningly sweet and affectionate in private, if only the women on the Virgo board knew. It is rather adorable to witness.
Oh yes, that's how we are at first...but when I become more silent, that's when I become angrier. Mind you, I could be smiling the whole time or even calmly engaged in conversation but inside I am seething. Coz there are some guys who are just so obliviously arrogant. To be fair, there had only been two instances when it came to physical blows. The first was when some dude slid in next to her, completely ignoring the fact that I sat beside her then began to flirt by saying something dirty (probably unaware that we're together) and the second one was at a party where an idiot was being touchy when she was obviously uncomfortable.

But notice our eyes can't leave you.

Even if you think we're not paying attention, we are paying attention.
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Anger?

Hah yupvirgo, I really would have never guessed it to be possible anger.

The stare makes me blush, and it takes a lot for a man to make me blush in public. There is no stare like it, I cannot even describe it. Intense would be far too cliché but there is truth to it nonetheless.

Oh, I am well aware he is watching me. I do not mind it at all, I sort of relish it.

The difference is, he never makes a move. You may react but he never does, he only watches my reactions and how I would cope with it all.

Sometimes I think he has learned this self control so situations do not escalate. After all he has had enough fights in his younger years to know how to resolve things as calmly and peacefully as possible now a days.

Although there is still a part of me that wishes he would say or do something, even out of a sense of protectiveness / possessiveness but I know that need is not perfectly healthy.

I would assume he enjoys watching my independence (for having kept that side of my personality even though we are in a committed relationship) and capabilities in caring for myself?

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Greetings citizens,

If your boyfriend/girlfriend was daily visiting a forum (like dxp), would you be curious? And come to look around? (not stalk)

I'm asking this because to me this is obvious, i blame it in my curiosity to always try to get to know deeper people close to me, or maybe i'm just insecure.
What makes you think dxp is the only place I would be watching him?

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hahah best gif xD

well i used for example. Always seem to me that social media aren't as deep as forum posts.

BUT, aqua venus don't stalk!
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Do excuse me @facepalming, for having slightly derailed your thread there.

I really should stuff my mouth at times and stop gushing about my Virgent.

It is inappropriate and embarrassing I should have had some self restraint!


haha freedom of speech for the win! Silly me i was thinking that Virgent u speak of was someone that nickname is a Virg something and avatar is a man's suit xD
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Do excuse me @facepalming, for having slightly derailed your thread there.

I really should stuff my mouth at times and stop gushing about my Virgent.

It is inappropriate and embarrassing I should have had some self restraint!


haha freedom of speech for the win! Silly me i was thinking that Virgent u speak of was someone that nickname is a Virg something and avatar is a man's suit xD
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Oh no, dear god no. I call Virgo men Virgents far before that user came along and named himself VirgoGent.
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I apologize to you too OP @facepalming

I have no chill when it comes to my wife.


Virgo couples really do need a special place, to lock us all up and out. 😆

To keep us from gushing to the world about our relationships on a constant basis. The only respite being when we are feeling private, very private.

Almost hermit like in our seclusion zone of sickeningly sweet affections.
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Greetings citizens,

If your boyfriend/girlfriend was daily visiting a forum (like dxp), would you be curious? And come to look around? (not stalk)

I'm asking this because to me this is obvious, i blame it in my curiosity to always try to get to know deeper people close to me, or maybe i'm just insecure.
What makes you think dxp is the only place I would be watching him?

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hahah best gif xD

well i used for example. Always seem to me that social media aren't as deep as forum posts.

BUT, aqua venus don't stalk!



Who told you that lie? But I'm venus square pluto any way, so possibly...

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dayummm i feel like i need an astrology degree *google searches*

"Your emotions, particularly when it comes to feelings of love and attachment, run very deep. Your personality is magnetic, and you tend to arouse strong feelings in others, who may find you intriguing or somehow offensive! And all of this before you even open your mouth."

uáu 🙂

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I apologize to you too OP @facepalming

I have no chill when it comes to my wife.


Virgo couples really do need a special place, to lock us all up and out. 😆

To keep us from gushing to the world about our relationships on a constant basis. The only respite being when we are feeling private, very private.

Almost hermit like in our seclusion zone of sickeningly sweet affections.


🙂 Oh I won't blame my Virgo sun.. it's my Leo Venus lol

it wants to shout love to the mountaintops

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I have no Leo parts, I blame the Virgo coupling dynamic! 😆
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Greetings citizens,

If your boyfriend/girlfriend was daily visiting a forum (like dxp), would you be curious? And come to look around? (not stalk)

I'm asking this because to me this is obvious, i blame it in my curiosity to always try to get to know deeper people close to me, or maybe i'm just insecure.
What makes you think dxp is the only place I would be watching him?

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hahah best gif xD

well i used for example. Always seem to me that social media aren't as deep as forum posts.

BUT, aqua venus don't stalk!



Who told you that lie? But I'm venus square pluto any way, so possibly...


dayummm i feel like i need an astrology degree *google searches*

"Your emotions, particularly when it comes to feelings of love and attachment, run very deep. Your personality is magnetic, and you tend to arouse strong feelings in others, who may find you intriguing or somehow offensive! And all of this before you even open your mouth."

uáu 🙂



Who wrote this? How do they no me? ? Hades moon paranoia.

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hahaha owned! now i gotta google hadesmoon...

https://cafeastrology.com/natal/venusplutoaspects.html
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No. I wouldn't even check. For one, I'm lazy and the takes too much effort and I think that everyone deserves privacy. If my man is going to cheat on me he will find a way regardless. Snooping will not prevent it.

I have never searched through a phone, computer or wallet. If I had a question, I asked. I may have been lied to a thousand times but that's a chance I took.
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No. I wouldn't even check. For one, I'm lazy and the takes too much effort and I think that everyone deserves privacy. If my man is going to cheat on me he will find a way regardless. Snooping will not prevent it.

I have never searched through a phone, computer or wallet. If I had a question, I asked. I may have been lied to a thousand times but that's a chance I took.
You're an example to follow /bows

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No. I wouldn't even check. For one, I'm lazy and the takes too much effort and I think that everyone deserves privacy. If my man is going to cheat on me he will find a way regardless. Snooping will not prevent it.

I have never searched through a phone, computer or wallet. If I had a question, I asked. I may have been lied to a thousand times but that's a chance I took.
You're an example to follow /bows

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I learned what not to do by watching my ex brother in law's girlfriend. She would call every 5 minutes, search his phone, hack his email and sit outside clubs and watch through the windows. She worked for Verizon and used to get his phone records and ask me about every female name. It was psychotic. He did end up cheating on her, repeatedly. She never caught him. The snooping was all in vain.

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No. I wouldn't even check. For one, I'm lazy and the takes too much effort and I think that everyone deserves privacy. If my man is going to cheat on me he will find a way regardless. Snooping will not prevent it.

I have never searched through a phone, computer or wallet. If I had a question, I asked. I may have been lied to a thousand times but that's a chance I took.

Too true.

Incriminating text and phone call logs can be deleted anyways. It says more when he freely invites you into his privacy or doesn't freak out when you pick up his phone in front of him. Imo.