Do guys like the chase?

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Posted by Stensco21
Do guys secretly like when a woman is hard to get? I notice men lose interest once they get the girl.
Guys probably some. Men - if they are immature I'm heart.

I had a friend who liked to get girl I'm a sack and dissapear. We were 20 SOMETIING than.

I had a customer who was coming to my store seeing my husband there and secretly making kissy faces to me.

I've asked what's his name and he said Isabell! I laughed so hard - I cried!

He was about 60! Putz!!! ?
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Do guys secretly like when a woman is hard to get? I notice men lose interest once they get the girl.
Then the men your dating see you as an object to be won. Once they have you the hunt is over and they are onto the next pursuit.

Not all dudes are like this. Only fuc boi's


Where is the line for you between fuc bois and, as you said in another thread, a "dude who will like you enough to do anything to lock you down"?

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Many lines. But as relates to this thread topic...someone who pursues you, gives you exclusivity and or gf tittle and then promptly loses interest shortly after was just in it for the conquest.

That type of person who lies or misleads to get their dick wet = fuc boi.
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Do guys secretly like when a woman is hard to get? I notice men lose interest once they get the girl.
Then the men your dating see you as an object to be won. Once they have you the hunt is over and they are onto the next pursuit.

Not all dudes are like this. Only fuc boi's
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I loooove to see these boys falling in love with a women who don't give a shot about them! How they change!!! Into a snotty piece of crap! ?
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Do guys secretly like when a woman is hard to get? I notice men lose interest once they get the girl.
Then the men your dating see you as an object to be won. Once they have you the hunt is over and they are onto the next pursuit.

Not all dudes are like this. Only fuc boi's

It depend of the quality of the chase. If you open your legs the first day don't expect loyalty.

But I admit there is pretty dumb guy too. Like I've read there was a guy who chased a girl like one month then one night stand her. Pretty creepy and horrible too. Me after two week I've got a rules. If I keep continuing the chase I admit being in couple or I stop for not hurting anyone.

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Nah that's not true. I know several happy couples that fucked each other on the first date.

As long as your upfront that it's just sex and your not looking for anything further than your not responsible for her getting her feelings involved. It's when you lead people on with the intention that it's more when you only want to fuc that makes you the bad guy.
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Do guys secretly like when a woman is hard to get? I notice men lose interest once they get the girl.
Then the men your dating see you as an object to be won. Once they have you the hunt is over and they are onto the next pursuit.

Not all dudes are like this. Only fuc boi's


Where is the line for you between fuc bois and, as you said in another thread, a "dude who will like you enough to do anything to lock you down"?


Many lines. But as relates to this thread topic...someone who pursues you, gives you exclusivity and or gf tittle and then promptly loses interest shortly after was just in it for the conquest.

That type of person who lies or misleads to get their dick wet = fuc boi.
And why people on dxpnet now saying fuccboi instead of fuckboys

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Lemme guess, I've earned another L for the Pisces population
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Do guys secretly like when a woman is hard to get? I notice men lose interest once they get the girl.
Not me. I usually want a woman that meets me half way. If the premise is proving one's self...doesn't that door swing both ways? The only thing a woman shows me is that she isn't unique and is making herself into a trophy to be won. I don't want a trophy..I need a partner. Hence why men lose interest. They get that trophy and put it right on the shelf...and go after the next trophy. No room for ego when it comes to love and that goes for both genders.

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Do guys secretly like when a woman is hard to get? I notice men lose interest once they get the girl.
Then the men your dating see you as an object to be won. Once they have you the hunt is over and they are onto the next pursuit.

Not all dudes are like this. Only fuc boi's
I loooove to see these boys falling in love with a women who don't give a shot about them! How they change!!! Into a snotty piece of crap! ?
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Wut?
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Do guys secretly like when a woman is hard to get? I notice men lose interest once they get the girl.
Then the men your dating see you as an object to be won. Once they have you the hunt is over and they are onto the next pursuit.

Not all dudes are like this. Only fuc boi's
I loooove to see these boys falling in love with a women who don't give a shot about them! How they change!!! Into a snotty piece of crap! ?
Wut?
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Go back to school! Or put on reading glasses! Wut my ass...
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Do guys secretly like when a woman is hard to get? I notice men lose interest once they get the girl.
Then the men your dating see you as an object to be won. Once they have you the hunt is over and they are onto the next pursuit.

Not all dudes are like this. Only fuc boi's
I loooove to see these boys falling in love with a women who don't give a shot about them! How they change!!! Into a snotty piece of crap! ?
Wut?
Go back to school! Or put on reading glasses! Wut my ass...
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No amount of higher education could teach me how to understand your crazy
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Do guys secretly like when a woman is hard to get? I notice men lose interest once they get the girl.
Not me. I usually want a woman that meets me half way. If the premise is proving one's self...doesn't that door swing both ways? The only thing a woman shows me is that she isn't unique and is making herself into a trophy to be won. I don't want a trophy..I need a partner. Hence why men lose interest. They get that trophy and put it right on the shelf...and go after the next trophy. No room for ego when it comes to love and that goes for both genders.

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Agree! However sometimes you don't like a person from the beginning but with times you learning his good qualities, dence of humor, friendship and starting to change your mind...and before you know you are married! ?
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Do guys secretly like when a woman is hard to get? I notice men lose interest once they get the girl.
Then the men your dating see you as an object to be won. Once they have you the hunt is over and they are onto the next pursuit.

Not all dudes are like this. Only fuc boi's
I loooove to see these boys falling in love with a women who don't give a shot about them! How they change!!! Into a snotty piece of crap! ?
Wut?
Go back to school! Or put on reading glasses! Wut my ass...
No amount of higher education could teach me how to understand your crazy
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I loooove to read this crap specially after like 10 people responded and 11rh come and shamelessly admiring she didn't understand letting other 10 know - she is stupid!!! —
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Do guys secretly like when a woman is hard to get? I notice men lose interest once they get the girl.
Then the men your dating see you as an object to be won. Once they have you the hunt is over and they are onto the next pursuit.

Not all dudes are like this. Only fuc boi's
I loooove to see these boys falling in love with a women who don't give a shot about them! How they change!!! Into a snotty piece of crap! ?
Wut?
Go back to school! Or put on reading glasses! Wut my ass...
No amount of higher education could teach me how to understand your crazy
I loooove to read this crap specially after like 10 people responded and 11rh come and shamelessly admiring she didn't understand letting other 10 know - she is stupid!!! —
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Yep I'm stupid and your a genius ?
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Do guys secretly like when a woman is hard to get? I notice men lose interest once they get the girl.
Then the men your dating see you as an object to be won. Once they have you the hunt is over and they are onto the next pursuit.

Not all dudes are like this. Only fuc boi's
I loooove to see these boys falling in love with a women who don't give a shot about them! How they change!!! Into a snotty piece of crap! ?
Wut?
Go back to school! Or put on reading glasses! Wut my ass...
No amount of higher education could teach me how to understand your crazy
I loooove to read this crap specially after like 10 people responded and 11rh come and shamelessly admiring she didn't understand letting other 10 know - she is stupid!!! —
Yep I'm stupid and your a genius ?
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Finally you getting somewhere!

Good start! Hold this though! ?
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Do guys secretly like when a woman is hard to get? I notice men lose interest once they get the girl.
Not me. I usually want a woman that meets me half way. If the premise is proving one's self...doesn't that door swing both ways? The only thing a woman shows me is that she isn't unique and is making herself into a trophy to be won. I don't want a trophy..I need a partner. Hence why men lose interest. They get that trophy and put it right on the shelf...and go after the next trophy. No room for ego when it comes to love and that goes for both genders.


Agree! However sometimes you don't like a person from the beginning but with times you learning his good qualities, dence of humor, friendship and starting to change your mind...and before you know you are married! ?
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But that's where having an open mind comes from. I'm not disagreeing with you but it's about the bigger picture. Also, not having an open mind is a major reason why many women lose out on a good man. Can't keep using the same approach and expect different results. But a woman has to be serious about wanting commitment in the first place and serious people don't play the chase game🙂

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Do guys secretly like when a woman is hard to get? I notice men lose interest once they get the girl.
A guy who loses interest as soon as he gets a woman was never truly interested in the first place. He was just interested in the game, "the chase". It's an ego boost for him once the women gives in, but she was never the true "prize".

Also a guy who persistently chases is either doing so because he is not confident in his ability to attract a woman otherwise (i.e. the "nice" guys), has nothing else going on in his life (i.e. a stalker), or knows you will eventually give in to his pursuit (i.e. a player).

Guys who lead busy lives and are good with women won't have the time or inkling to chase a woman. However all guys should be initiating contact while being direct with a women if they are actually interested.
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Do guys secretly like when a woman is hard to get? I notice men lose interest once they get the girl.
A guy who loses interest as soon as he gets a woman was never truly interested in the first place. He was just interested in the game, "the chase". It's an ego boost for him once the women gives in, but she was never the true "prize".

Also a guy who persistently chases is either doing so because he is not confident in his ability to attract a woman otherwise (i.e. the "nice" guys), has nothing else going on in his life (i.e. a stalker), or knows you will eventually give in to his pursuit (i.e. a player).

Guys who lead busy lives and are good with women won't have the time or inkling to chase a woman. However all guys should be initiating contact while being direct with a women if they are actually interested.
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Yeah, I think guys like the chase. I've never actually seen it work out well when the woman likes the man more. Somehow, the guy seems to sense it and takes advantage. Usually, it's when the man isn't that attracted to the woman and/or feels she's too dependent on him.

Ladies, never give up your power such as, financial earning abilities and looks.

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Do guys secretly like when a woman is hard to get? I notice men lose interest once they get the girl.
A guy who loses interest as soon as he gets a woman was never truly interested in the first place. He was just interested in the game, "the chase". It's an ego boost for him once the women gives in, but she was never the true "prize".

Also a guy who persistently chases is either doing so because he is not confident in his ability to attract a woman otherwise (i.e. the "nice" guys), has nothing else going on in his life (i.e. a stalker), or knows you will eventually give in to his pursuit (i.e. a player).

Guys who lead busy lives and are good with women won't have the time or inkling to chase a woman. However all guys should be initiating contact while being direct with a women if they are actually interested.
So if a guy is actually interested in you... how does he act?
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Well if a guy is interested in a woman (and isn't too "nice", stalkerish, or playing games), he'll still initiate contact. From there it all depends on his confidence level. Some guys will try to chat for a while before asking a woman out. Other guys will get right to the point and ask a woman out.