@LibraLovesHim
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Do guys snoop as much as women?
I know this is directed at men, however I will if I have suspicions of people hiding things from me.
#scorpiorising problems
NO
My GF did that. She left her phone charging and unlocked for a whole day. This has happened before during a time when I didn't feel secure in the relationship and I did not open her phone. She eventually came back and got it.
The opposite thing happened one morning after I didn't come home the night before. I left my phone in the kitchen. I could have sworn it was locked. I came out of the shower and she had read through my messages.
My GF will always snoop no matter what. I'm tempted to snoop when I feel insure, but most times I don't. I read notes in her notebook, but that's the extent of my snooping.
Posted by HermesVirgoMy GF did that. She left her phone charging and unlocked for a whole day. This has happened before during a time when I didn't feel secure in the relationship and I did not open her phone. She eventually came back and got it.
The opposite thing happened one morning after I didn't come home the night before. I left my phone in the kitchen. I could have sworn it was locked. I came out of the shower and she had read through my messages.
My GF will always snoop no matter what. I'm tempted to snoop when I feel insure, but most times I don't. I read notes in her notebook, but that's the extent of my snooping.
Interesting. Passive snooper? lol!
No I've never snooped and never felt it was necessary. I will take note of how comfortable a woman is with me being around her phone though (example, if a woman is comfortable enough to have me read text messages to her from her own phone). If I ever get get the sense a woman is hiding something from me, I'll start backing off.
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by HermesVirgoMy GF did that. She left her phone charging and unlocked for a whole day. This has happened before during a time when I didn't feel secure in the relationship and I did not open her phone. She eventually came back and got it.
The opposite thing happened one morning after I didn't come home the night before. I left my phone in the kitchen. I could have sworn it was locked. I came out of the shower and she had read through my messages.
My GF will always snoop no matter what. I'm tempted to snoop when I feel insure, but most times I don't. I read notes in her notebook, but that's the extent of my snooping.
Interesting. Passive snooper? lol!
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When my GF snooped through my phone she was accusing me of stuff like chatting with my sister. LOL. She read some very old texts of a few girls sending me pics or we were meeting somewhere. The thing is you can only get so much from a text conversation. It's best to not snoop and worry over something unnecessary.
Passive Snooper: So I did snoop and read through my GFs journal. I wish I hadn't because it's hard to determine if her writing was fictional or embellished situations or factual. The content I read was all before we got serious. I also noticed that all her entries stopped when we became an item. I would never bring this stuff up to her. The lesson here is it's best to NOT snoop.
Overt Snooper: My GF doesn't care if I know or not. She's a snooper and proud. She would never request to see info, but if I left my phone unlocked or away. 98% she's checking, that's just her nature. LMAO.
I don't snoop ever. Why? If that person will cheat or lie they will cheat or lie, there is nothing I can do to stop them ... and snooping will not solve that.
Posted by tiziani
Biggest temptation is to take her phone and take pictures of myself to leave inside.
Tainting her phone with your cooties
Posted by tiziani
Posted by SassyKiwi
Posted by tiziani
Biggest temptation is to take her phone and take pictures of myself to leave inside.
Tainting her phone with your cooties
And I'd do it again!
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Do mine ?
men can say they don't…but i don't believe it
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Say your gf left her mobile phone in your presence for the day-would you feel tempted to have a nosey? Have you ever done this? Did you find anything and how did you feel about doing it?
If he's a SCORPIO, YES! Smh..
Posted by brazilnut_32
I don't snoop ever. Why? If that person will cheat or lie they will cheat or lie, there is nothing I can do to stop them ... and snooping will not solve that.
Yeah but it gives you knowledge to use to decide to leave that shit.
Posted by FiercestFire
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Say your gf left her mobile phone in your presence for the day-would you feel tempted to have a nosey? Have you ever done this? Did you find anything and how did you feel about doing it?
If he's a SCORPIO, YES! Smh..
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Hahahaha! Don't I know it, asked my stepdad (scorp) the same question, he proceeded to tell me a story of the dentist who put his car into my fathers workshop for body work, and left his phone in the car. He decided to have a wee look and found pics of him making clay moulds from his erect cock! Rather interesting! That was just plain noseyness lol!
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Say your gf left her mobile phone in your presence for the day-would you feel tempted to have a nosey? Have you ever done this? Did you find anything and how did you feel about doing it?