Gemini woman and capricorn man....

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So this is my first post here and I just want to ask a question really.... I'm a gemini , he is a capricorn.

And well , Is this capricorn behaviour? Listen , I've recently met one and we've been seeing each other frequently. First of all, before we even met there was obvious attraction to each other, undeniable, and that was just over chatting through fb. When we actually met, the sex was fantastic but also the communication, it just flows so easily and it is so stimulating talking to him, even though he can be quiet at times, his mind is brilliant and as a gemini I love that! He has taken me out to a nice place to eat as well, which was very nice, we talked for hours over dinner, about all kinds of subjects, he is so brilliant and stimulating to my gemini mind. Another thing is , he's been very open about personal stuff with me, very very personal stuff....

Also, he's quite a busy guy and works very long hours but..... he always find the time to escape work to chat with me on fb, if only just to ask how my day is going, but there isn't a day where he's not online talking to me, which I like obviously. Also! he has been pretty outspoken about how much he likes me, he tells me all the time that he loves spending time with me and that I'm beautiful and sexy and so on. He's super affectionate and loving, he can't keep his hands off me!! He's always kissing me and hugging me and pulling me towards him, and even though I'm not generally a very affectionate person, with him is a different story, I absolutely love it. The other things is, I always thought capricorns didn't enjoy public displays of affection? I noticed once while we were kissing in public that I sensed he was a bit uncomfortable doing that and he said yes, I don't do public displays of affection but with you I don't care, you bring that out and I love it. So there you go, I know you're gonna say he obviously likes me very much, but...does he really? Is this typical capricorn behaviour when they're in to someone? I'm also dreading the day where he pulls his disappearance act like many capricorns seem to do when they start feeling "things" , that would be so shitty since I really, really like him, and have been pretty open about it with him too, direct and honest, I tell him all the time how beautiful and brilliant he is, because I feel it.

I think I'm falling hard for this one, but at the same time I don't want to be deceived...what do you think? Is this a good match? Do you think he's being honest with his displays of affection? Can this be pure attraction and nothing more? Anyway....
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Posted by gemoon

the day where he pulls his disappearance act like many capricorns seem to do when they start feeling "things" , that would be so shitty since I really, really like him,

I don't want to be deceived...what do you think? Is this a good match?




I don't see where it would be shitty. If you believe that would be shitty, then you're a shitty person, and so think in these terms.

Life is about experiencing things, feelings AND experiencing people. You wrote all of the lovely things about him and then end it by saying that if he doesn't continue to satisfy you on your terms then he's shitty.

How fucking selfish of you. People have a right to love to their fullest one day, and then not the next if that is what they feel. They are allowed to feel as they need to feel. And that doesn't make them shitty.

You're the only one deceiving you ..... you are the one putting unspoken conditions on him, in which he has to cater to giving to you - or you will consider him shitty.

This all boils down to - you don't actually want a beautiful loving experience ... you want control over him, to make him passify you so you can have a false sense of security.


If you were really sincere .... then you'd act like it.
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Cappys fall fast in the beginning and are pretty hot n heavy then cool down later. Although they will remain affectionate the other sides of them will start to shine through. They need time on their own, with their friends, and their time can often be a little longer than most understand. If you just go with his flow you'll be fine. If you start to question or nag it will push him. Also give him the chance to chase you now and then. Dont be too available for him. Cappys will walk all over weak females.
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Well some updates.

1.We fell pretty hard for each other, and more than me he's the one who's been pretty outspoken about it, very.

2.He did tell me one day he was having such a hard time with his emotions and he asked if we could slow down a bit, the amount of time we see each other and everything else, because he had so much on his plate : work, house hunting, personal stuff, and now me. I didn't have a problem with that and seeing how overwhelmed he was with everything I decided to give him some space I continued to do my own thing (I'm also quite a busy person so..) allowing him to contact me if he wanted to talk, or see me, I really didn't want to push it because I also wanted to take things a bit slow, I also have so much on my plate but I think I handle many things at once better than he does, still I got where he was coming from, and that allowed me to be compassionate and understand his situation. In the end, it all worked out fine. I did noticed though that even if I was giving him plenty of space, he would still try to contact me every day if only just mainly to reassure me that he was still in to me, and his coldness had nothing to do with me or anything, he was just going through a hard time. Great stuff. I appreciated that very much but still remained a bit distant so he could deal with his emotions and be a bit calmer. It worked wonders and he looks very at ease now and quite happy.

3.I've been pretty calm myself, maybe it's my taurus rising, but I've been taking things slow, and I feel pretty confident about us. I really do care about him and I am indeed pretty much in love with this cappy, and he knows. I do believe in soul mates and I have a feeling this is one of those cases....

4. About questioning and nagging that's not something I can see happening because well, I do also need a lot of space and would be pretty unfair to nag about something I need too, in fact I told him already that's the case and we are totally in a great position right now only seeing each other on the weekends, cause we both have so much to do during the week. We communicate mainly through messaging and we keep it pretty short. I hate small talk so our conversations are usually deep if we do engage in long ones. About the chasing thing, I think it happens quite naturally? Because I'm quite unavailable most days, I don't initiate conversations much, he usually does, and I do disappear often because I'm in school every day and don't have time to be on the phone waiting to talk to him. Those things just happen, they're not planned as if to play a "chase game". I think that's what makes this a very exciting situation, cause we get to miss each other like crazy, in terms of seeing each other and communicating. To me, it works.

5. also, we had a chance to talk a few days a go and decided that even though we still don't want to label ourselves as a "couple" we do want to be exclusive
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Continuation

5. So now we are exclusive, and it feels good. It's what we both wanted and let me tell you, he is still the one initiating any kind of emotions/feelings/where things are heading with us sort of conversations, which to me is a good thing, I don't push anything I just sit back and watch how he relaxes and starts opening up to me, it is such a beautiful thing to see, I love it cause it makes me feel that he really feel comfortable around me. Oh and I thought Cappys didn't do public displays of affection much? Well he is definitely very affectionate in public let me tell you that...

6.And so finally, our charts , if anyone can help me analyse them that would amazing!

Mine is : Rising Sign 01 Degrees in Taurus, Sun 07 degrees Gemini, Moon 18 degrees Virgo, Mercury 25 degrees Taurus, Venus 22 Degrees Aries, Mars 21 Degrees Gemini, Jupiter 16 Degrees Aquarius, Saturn 23 Degrees Scorpio, Uranus 16 Degrees Sagittarius, Neptune 02 Degrees Capricorn, Pluto 02 Degrees Scorpio.

His : Rising Sign 05 Degrees Taurus, Sun 16 Degrees Capricorn, Moon 13 Degrees Aquarius, Mercury 26 Degrees Sagittarius, Venus 08 Degrees Sagittarius, Mars 28 Degrees Sagittarius, Jupiter 14 Degrees Virgo, Saturn 06 Degrees Aquarius, Uranus 14 Degrees Capricorn, Neptune 16 Degrees Capricorn, Pluto 22 Degrees Scorpio

There you go!
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Posted by truecap
Gem and Cap are NOT a good match.

I'm a cap woman divorced from a gem man. Oh, the stories I could tell. lol!!!

It may be different for gem woman/cap man, though.
i dont see gem man/cap woman often....

but YES i do see alot of gem woman/cap man...

i believe it's because they will FOLLOW the capricorn man and her mercurial ways (and whatever dominant energies she has) can help ease his workaholic ways.

and a cap man likes it most of the time if you FOLLOW him.
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Venus and Mars in Sagittarius and Moon in Aquarius he definitely loves his freedom not only he's probably a good talker and flirter..capricorns are the best liars from what I see is that you should be aware that he might talk with other women even if he is with you he can still be talking to other women. This is a man you can't take tame probably a very dominant one even if you don't notice that now yet things will reveal themselves later.
Your moons go well together your Mars to he's probably experienced in bed and loves to have endless discussions with you.
GIRL, what the ---?? are you posing for a SEXY NIGHTIE magazine—


does your boyfriend mind? HOOOOOO -- boy!!!! are you one SEXY MOMMA for the oogling men out there. 😆 😆
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Venus and Mars in Sagittarius and Moon in Aquarius he definitely loves his freedom not only he's probably a good talker and flirter..capricorns are the best liars from what I see is that you should be aware that he might talk with other women even if he is with you he can still be talking to other women. This is a man you can't take tame probably a very dominant one even if you don't notice that now yet things will reveal themselves later.
Your moons go well together your Mars to he's probably experienced in bed and loves to have endless discussions with you.
GIRL, what the ---?? are you posing for a SEXY NIGHTIE magazine—


does your boyfriend mind? HOOOOOO -- boy!!!! are you one SEXY MOMMA for the oogling men out there. 😆 😆

hahahahaha ‚‚ this is literally the first time I have a picture like that
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😆


next time, get a black nightie!!

and i put the WRONG video...this is the right one for the guys out there ooogling at you:


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Posted by truecap
Gem and Cap are NOT a good match.

I'm a cap woman divorced from a gem man. Oh, the stories I could tell. lol!!!

It may be different for gem woman/cap man, though.
i dont see gem man/cap woman often....

but YES i do see alot of gem woman/cap man...

i believe it's because they will FOLLOW the capricorn man and her mercurial ways (and whatever dominant energies she has) can help ease his workaholic ways.

and a cap man likes it most of the time if you FOLLOW him.
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What do you mean by FOLLOW? Like, doing things "his way" ?