Guys...what qualities would make a woman invaluable to you??

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Invaluable? I know what you mean, but I'm not sure that is the word I would use. Not because it is incorrect or anything like that, but because I have issues with idealization and devaluation. However, I understand the context, so...

... She has to be beautiful, both inside and out. This single word encompasses a lot of the qualities already mentioned here and then some. It isn't a word I use often, but when I do, she has certainly earned it. Especially after the Cancer trials I would put her through.
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Invaluable? I know what you mean, but I'm not sure that is the word I would use. Not because it is incorrect or anything like that, but because I have issues with idealization and devaluation. However, I understand the context, so...

... She has to be beautiful, both inside and out. This single word encompasses a lot of the qualities already mentioned here and then some. It isn't a word I use often, but when I do, she has certainly earned it. Especially after the Cancer trials I would put her through.
Cancer trials? I feel like I'm in a neverending one. Seriously, and this is really just a question, what's the purpose of these tests? Is there a method to this madness?
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Posted by Crabra
Invaluable? I know what you mean, but I'm not sure that is the word I would use. Not because it is incorrect or anything like that, but because I have issues with idealization and devaluation. However, I understand the context, so...

... She has to be beautiful, both inside and out. This single word encompasses a lot of the qualities already mentioned here and then some. It isn't a word I use often, but when I do, she has certainly earned it. Especially after the Cancer trials I would put her through.
Cancer trials? I feel like I'm in a neverending one. Seriously, and this is really just a question, what's the purpose of these tests? Is there a method to this madness?
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The Cancer trials is just a name I came up with myself in relation to these 'tests' I put a potential interest through. The name itself is not to be taken seriously, but the strong security trait crabs need before they invest their emotions most certainly is, and that's what the trials are about. You're really not even supposed to be aware of them, even the crab might not be aware that they do it.

The method to the madness is to discern that you are someone special, worth investing our time and emotion into. It really isn't even about passing or failing, but being unfamiliar and different than behavior the crab has experienced in the past that lead them to getting hurt.

IOW, just be you, and let the chips fall where they may.
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Comments: 4 · Posts: 1709 · Topics: 21
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Posted by Crabra
Invaluable? I know what you mean, but I'm not sure that is the word I would use. Not because it is incorrect or anything like that, but because I have issues with idealization and devaluation. However, I understand the context, so...

... She has to be beautiful, both inside and out. This single word encompasses a lot of the qualities already mentioned here and then some. It isn't a word I use often, but when I do, she has certainly earned it. Especially after the Cancer trials I would put her through.
Cancer trials? I feel like I'm in a neverending one. Seriously, and this is really just a question, what's the purpose of these tests? Is there a method to this madness?
click to expand


The Cancer trials is just a name I came up with myself in relation to these 'tests' I put a potential interest through. The name itself is not to be taken seriously, but the strong security trait crabs need before they invest their emotions most certainly is, and that's what the trials are about. You're really not even supposed to be aware of them, even the crab might not be aware that they do it.

The method to the madness is to discern that you are someone special, worth investing our time and emotion into. It really isn't even about passing or failing, but being unfamiliar and different than behavior the crab has experienced in the past that lead them to getting hurt.

IOW, just be you, and let the chips fall where they may.