Help with a Pisces male

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Shell14
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11 Years

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So I should start by saying I have known him for 8 months. We have slept together on and off. It is usually me that instigates the off as I feel a bit disappointed. When I met him online he said he was just looking to sleep together didn't want anything more. I have no idea why agreed to it, but something just told me too. I Instantly liked him in lots of different ways. It was very respectful meet for a drink get something to eat sleep together. I did say I wanted a relationship with him but he was like I don't want a relationship. He's had two where both of them treated him badly. He's even said to me that he cant believe how nice I am to him and that we get on really well. Recently he has said to me that he wants us to get together more regularly but its not easy as I live in a shared house, no guests allowed and he lives at home. He seems to be all up for meeting up and then ignores me. He gets offended really easily like if I say I cant see him. I have to keep texting until he finally speaks to me. I told him the other day I missed him I thought he'd ignore me but he didn't. When I leave it I never hear from him. But now I have got into a thing where I am texting him a lot when hes not replying! All positive stuff but I don't know what else to do. I don't understand why he ignores me. Why is it not hey yeah lets have sex see you then. Why is he doing the texting not texting thing, ignoring me.

He was texting me non stop the other night and it feels like now hes just disappeared.

Am I dealing with this all wrong. Should I just be leaving it. P Angel I am sure you will have something to say about it.

I wanted to take things as they are and be more open with him and if something grows it grows. I have been on dates with people and they are not as respectful or attentive or a gentleman like he is.

He now seems to be making a point of saying we can only meet in the hotel cant speak on the phone have a drink its just sex nothing else.

A few weeks ago he took me round his friends house for dinner. She asked if we were together he answered like I was a gorilla. No were are definitely not together. That's right tho isn't it just be single. She asked him if he loved me and he went on again about how its not good to be in a relationship.

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Hmm. Well, I can tell you that all he wants is sex. It sounded like you guys were kicking it and then you revealed your feelings now he is pulling back hoping that you lose interest in that area. He's all good for only wanting sex, but tis all. A tell tell tale sign of a Pisces is digging on you is that we constant text you back not just for one night. I mean consistently.

If you're texting him over and over and there is no reply, then yeah... You're not important in his world. If he cancels dates, you're not important.

A Pisces can be in a car accident on a way to a date and would be freaking out about the other person waiting for them IF they love you or are interested. We will break our leg and if we have a date that day we will go to the date or reschedule the next day. We don't play around with love.

Please don't take offense to what I will say next.

He is only around when HE is horny and wants some. Everything else can fall by the wayside. I'm highly surprised that he took you to his friends house, my guess is he wanted a buffer.

You are asking if something will grow. Unfortunate no, it doesn't take a pisces all day to recognize sunshine (love, interest). You are there ONLY to fulfill a purpose. Satisfy his hunger for sex. Nothing more. Also for him to speak to his friend like you said (gorilla ) while you were standing there, means he doesn't respect you. Pisces normally wouldn't do that.

He doesn't care if you stay or go, but you made it very clear you're not going anywhere, so why even try? No reason to. He can use you up and speak badly about you while you around. Why not?You don't care, you don't even speak up for yourself.

I wonder what other placements he has. What is your sign.

Sounds like you want to stay around and eh, you do you. It's not healthy, but you know that already. You already know the answer, the problems... the writing is on the wall. Are you going to go business as usual or adhere to its warning is up to you. Heartbreak is on both sides of this seesaw.
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Shell14
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Thanks tbird I'm a taurus. I do hear what your saying but it does seem a abit deeper. I have had guys use me before But he is different.

He's very indecisive it's like he says lets met up then he changes his mind. He's says he's not interested then he messages me to meet up. One night we went to a hotel had sex then rushed to get ready and go out drinking in the town. He's told me before than we're not sleeping together we are just friends.

He is all over the place. He stops himself as he doesn't want to get involved. I love him and I want him so much to just give us a chance. Is there anything I can do to assist with that. I know how much he's been hurt but why not give me a chance.

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malloryor
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Posted by Shell14
Thanks tbird I'm a taurus. I do hear what your saying but it does seem a abit deeper. I have had guys use me before But he is different.

He's very indecisive it's like he says lets met up then he changes his mind. He's says he's not interested then he messages me to meet up. One night we went to a hotel had sex then rushed to get ready and go out drinking in the town. He's told me before than we're not sleeping together we are just friends.

He is all over the place. He stops himself as he doesn't want to get involved. I love him and I want him so much to just give us a chance. Is there anything I can do to assist with that. I know how much he's been hurt but why not give me a chance.


If he is indecisive and you know this, then why are you holding out for him. There is never indecision in matters of love. People either are interested or they are not, they want to have sex or they dont, they want a relationship or they dont. Indecision in matters of the heart is motivated by one thing and that's the selfish desire to lead one person on for the other's gain.

I agree with all that Tbird wrote, we are pretty much like that as Pisces, except Pisces men can be a bit on the ego trip at times.

Anyway, there is not much we can tell you. He doesnt want a relationship with you and you cannot force it. You cant force him to see you either. You only have control of yourself.
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Posted by tbird
Hmm. Well, I can tell you that all he wants is sex. It sounded like you guys were kicking it and then you revealed your feelings now he is pulling back hoping that you lose interest in that area. He's all good for only wanting sex, but tis all. A tell tell tale sign of a Pisces is digging on you is that we constant text you back not just for one night. I mean consistently.

If you're texting him over and over and there is no reply, then yeah... You're not important in his world. If he cancels dates, you're not important.

A Pisces can be in a car accident on a way to a date and would be freaking out about the other person waiting for them IF they love you or are interested. We will break our leg and if we have a date that day we will go to the date or reschedule the next day. We don't play around with love.

Please don't take offense to what I will say next.

He is only around when HE is horny and wants some. Everything else can fall by the wayside. I'm highly surprised that he took you to his friends house, my guess is he wanted a buffer.

You are asking if something will grow. Unfortunate no, it doesn't take a pisces all day to recognize sunshine (love, interest). You are there ONLY to fulfill a purpose. Satisfy his hunger for sex. Nothing more. Also for him to speak to his friend like you said (gorilla ) while you were standing there, means he doesn't respect you. Pisces normally wouldn't do that.

He doesn't care if you stay or go, but you made it very clear you're not going anywhere, so why even try? No reason to. He can use you up and speak badly about you while you around. Why not?You don't care, you don't even speak up for yourself.

I wonder what other placements he has. What is your sign.

Sounds like you want to stay around and eh, you do you. It's not healthy, but you know that already. You already know the answer, the problems... the writing is on the wall. Are you going to go business as usual or adhere to its warning is up to you. Heartbreak is on both sides of this seesaw.
This is another trait of Venus in Taurus, do you think woman has time for all that.
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Time for all of what?