Hopes and reality

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At some moments in my life I have hopes that me and my love will end up together. And it makes me feel like I don't care how much time I need to wait - as long as he is going to get fed up and get divorce.

Some days it seems like he is just about and some days it's like - hope is gone.

When people finally realizing that they are never are going to end up with person they love - how do they cope with 'end' of hope? Knowing that to the rest of their lives they will be unhappy!
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Posted by nanobyte
You are wasting what's left of your life, waiting on him.

But aren't you doing the same? You don't seem to be in a big hurry to divorce your cap?

I don't see anything changing in your situation.
I am not blaming him.

I just want to know IF not when.

Then I will sit and wait...

My hope will live! It does.

But i don't want to screw up by asking pushy questions...

That can annoy him right?

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You are wasting what's left of your life, waiting on him.

But aren't you doing the same? You don't seem to be in a big hurry to divorce your cap?

I don't see anything changing in your situation.
I am not blaming him.

I just want to know IF not when.

Then I will sit and wait...

My hope will live! It does.

But i don't want to screw up by asking pushy questions...

That can annoy him right?


Well you couldn't blame him even if you wanted to. Men take and will continue to take what you allow them to.

Yes you willannoy the Scorpio by asking him IF you and him are going to happen. Because he doesn't want to talk about it.... so he evades it. He evades it because then he's cutting off his supply to extramarital sex.

And all he has to do to manipulate you and get you to stick around is send you flowers.........

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No he wants to talk about it and we do.

And trust me - there aren't much sex at all!

I told him once that my spiritual adviser told me we are going to be together in a few years - he said but no one will get hurt right? I said I hope.