How do Capricorn react when they are jealous?

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I called my Capricorn friend and ask can I come to a game he was coaching. He said his girlfriend would be there and I said so, I wanted to come to see the game and I wasn't coming to see him. He said ok. I showed up by myself looking good as usually and my male friend showed up to join me later.

After that the Cappy started ignoring my calls. Sometimes he would answer and say he was going to call me back and never call. I told my male friend how the Cappy was acting and he said he was jealous because he showed up at the game. I didn't believe he was jealous because he never showed any signs of being jealous. I never did anything to make him jealous. He never show me he care about me outside of the bedroom.

After 6 weeks of ignoring me I started to think my male friend was right. I sent the Cappy a text and told him the male that join me at the game was just a friend I work with. I told him I felt stupid sitting there by myself so I invited him to come. After that he started talking to me again.
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Yes it's a long story!!! He said he was single for 2 years after his long term girlfriend broke up with him.We was talking all times of the day very long hours. He never showed any signs of a girlfriend. If I didn't annoy him to deaf one day he never would have told me that. He would tell me he was gonna be busy approximately 3 days every 2 weeks. At least that's what it seem like. I called him 1 day and he was home doing nothing after he said he was gonna be busy. I got angry and said something I shouldn't have said. He started acting real distant and said he didn't want to be brother.I done the wrong thing and starting annoying him by calling constantly. He was getting more annoyed and told me to stop calling. He said if he hang up one more time and I call him back he was gonna hurt me. I didn't know what he meant by that so I really started calling. That's when he said he had a girlfriend. He said she was gonna pick up the phone if I continue to call.No woman never answer his phone. If I knew what I knew now I would have just left him along for a couple of days. Because regardless of what he say he wouldn't stop dealing with me. I didn't know how he was plus he seem like he was enjoying me acting like I couldn't live with out him. Yeah this a soap bopper!!!
Posted by amethyst2002
...whoa whoa whoa.

Is this the same Cap you've been sleeping with for 8 months? And he has a GIRLFRIEND?

If so, Holy Jesus, you're a piece of work. Wow.

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Yeah I see you been paying attention. Everything I mention is true! He be blessing me in the bedroom. Why you think I was acting up. I make him think he got the best dick on the planet. I understand him a lot more. He was loving the attention.I stop giving him as much attention now. This was my 1st time ever having any type of relationship with a capricorn man. I know he has a good heart now, he just act so dam cold sometimes. That's a big front I don't understand why cappys don't really show their feelings. I know he has feelings for me but he think, I think if he show any feelings he can't control my actions. I've have been giving him space and not calling all the time and know he's been fine. I still have a lot of work to do in order to break down that shell of his.LOL
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I never had sex with him right away. Your miss interrupting what I mean by cold. I made the road rocky by acting ridiculous, when all he wanted was a little space for 2 days. Besides, that he treats me fine, plus he respect me. He just don't show to much emotions outside of the bedroom. He seem like he afraid to show emotions, thats what I mean by cold. I think I freak out on him when he was showing emotions and he's very cautious to let me know how he feel. I don't need a hug, I love myself more than I will ever love any man! Thanks for you reply! Keep in touch!
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He calls me all the time and we don't even talk about sex, we live in different states so we spend a lot of time on the phone. I don't even care for him as much as I use to. All my info in alias. I have movie stars that's tried to talk to me before and entertainers and I turn them down. I'm a unique person and never was easy to get. I admit I do fall hard when I have sex with a man. I'm not disparate and never was. I just would like to let everyone know.
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Your cap kind of reminds me of a cap I was dealing with. We were seeing each other for a few months, not necessarily dating, but we weren't necessarily just friends either, and while we seemed to get closer, the cap would become more and more persistent about having sex. I kept telling him no even though we would closer to it because I felt off about him in the long run. Every time I'd ask him if we could get together, even just casually, he'd always tell me that he wasn't sure, or that he was busy. However, he'd tell me sometime later that we needed to hang out or he'd ask me a week later if I wanted to see him. I thought nothing of this until after I was done with him. Sometime in between all this, when the cap started to become more distant than usual, I found out that he was seeing another girl besides me. Since we weren't dating, it wasn't like he was allowed, but he kept coming back to me. It really hit a nerve when I tried to give the cap a gift for his birthday and new years, but every time I tried to ask him if I could see him so I could bring his gift, he'd tell me he was busy. Although, I knew it was because he was seeing this girl; he didn't know I knew about her, and she didn't know I knew about them. Eventually the cap stopped speaking to me until about a month later when he texted me about of the blue, asking me to come and see him and if I wanted to have sex with him. It was confirmed right there that I wasn't much to him besides a booty call, and he asked even while still seeing the same girl I mentioned above.

I've seen some of your posts before, and I think you need to let this cap go or at least put him in a place where he's not a huge factor in your life. If you are aware of what you are to him, then by all means, continue what you are doing, but from what I see, you're quite hung up on him. You're allowed to have a friend with you because he has his own girl to worry about. I hope you've already stopped having sex with him.
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The friend I had with me was really a friend business I work in I'm always around sucessfull men. I don't know who was suppose to be his girlfriend because I never seen him talking to no woman.

I'm really not ready to leave him alone. I have been holding my feelings in not showing him too much of interest and I'm sure he see a little change. I ask him do he miss me and he said yeah you know I miss you. He is in town and he ask me to go to a hotel with him and I said I was busy.
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The friend I had with me was really a friend business I work in I'm always around sucessfull men. I don't know who was suppose to be his girlfriend because I never seen him talking to no woman.

I'm really not ready to leave him alone. I have been holding my feelings in not showing him too much of interest and I'm sure he see a little change. I ask him do he miss me and he said yeah you know I miss you. He is in town and he ask me to go to a hotel with him and I said I was busy.
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UGH! seriously? why do people act as if there's no record of what they say?

i was going to let this slide but you're starting to tick me off with this act/denial/whatever. damn fixed sign women.

you posted this in the leo forum. i was going to respond when i read it initially but then i thought, she's a leo and she ain't gonna listen to shit. but at this point you're insulting my intelligence and we can't have that now can we?



Posted by faith $ golphin
I was infatuated with a Capricorn man. He's 4 years younger than me and it felt so much like love. My biggest mistake wasn't telling him how much I love him, because he continued to show feelings for me after that. My biggest mistake was... I didn't have any patience!!! I couldn't understand why he would spend so much time and energy in keeping me satisfied and then say he was gonna be busy for a couple of days. It seemed like he would distant himself for some odd reason. I should have remained calm and patience. I felt most men who wasn't in a committed relationship would have someone to full fill there needs, so therefore I felt he was being with another woman.

I would call him anyway to see if he would pick up. The majority of the time he would. After all the annoying caused him to act like he didn't have any feelings for me. He would tell me he didn't want to continue seeing me and stop calling him. I'm sure he was still liking me because I admit I was acting crazy and no matter how crazy I reacted if I call & continued to call and tell him I love him and want to see him, he still would give in and make love to me.

Since I have changed my behavior tremendous. He calls me & I call him back now. I'm not asking to see him. He was so use to me asking to see him. If I wait for him, to ask me I could be waiting for a long while. How long will it take him to admit he miss me and want to see me?Or do I need to initiate like I been doing?




uhm....?
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now read through your posts in this thread. i going to cite some stuff but eh, i don't feel like it and i don't feel like listening to leo woman justification right now.

just answer this...if you live in different states, how did you just end up at a game that he was coaching? was this during your phone-stalking phase? and you brought a friend? a male friend? and you didn't notice his girlfriend...because you were so intently looking for her? and you said all this to say, you're a reformed desperate woman and he must really be into you because he acted "jealous" by not talking to you for like 6 weeks?

maybe he was thankful his phone wasn't getting blowed the fuq up?

you're a lion on the chase and god help ya, maybe you'll catch him, maybe you two will live happily ever after?....naaaaaah 😛
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Posted by tubbyscubby
now read through your posts in this thread. i going to cite some stuff but eh, i don't feel like it and i don't feel like listening to leo woman justification right now.

just answer this...if you live in different states, how did you just end up at a game that he was coaching? was this during your phone-stalking phase? and you brought a friend? a male friend? and you didn't notice his girlfriend...because you were so intently looking for her? and you said all this to say, you're a reformed desperate woman and he must really be into you because he acted "jealous" by not talking to you for like 6 weeks?

maybe he was thankful his phone wasn't getting blowed the fuq up?

you're a lion on the chase and god help ya, maybe you'll catch him, maybe you two will live happily ever after?....naaaaaah 😛




EXACTLY!!! I read Faith's post last night and I wanted to comment, but I just couldnt. This is pure unadulterated stupidity.
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lol 🙂

we've all been there and that's why i didn't want to comment on the post in the leo forum. she's clearly in mode right now and having a hard time getting out of it. it's a damn shame too because when a person is in the space she's in right now, they don't realize they could actually be alienating the object of their affection.

cappy could have some feelings for her but the excessive "everything" is pushing/has pushed him away. it could be too late but given this thread, she's just putting a nail in that coffin. but that's just my e-pinion.
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You the same girl that may have been seeing him also? I remember you clearly. You so full of it! First of all he's a college coach. I go to many games in and out the state! Know you know a little more

Posted by amethyst2002
I love it when people ask for help, ignore everything they're told, and continue to do the same thing, not understanding why things aren't getting better.

So. Awesome. *cough*

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You the same girl that may have been seeing him also? I remember you clearly. You so full of it! First of all he's a college coach and 2nd, I go to many games in and out the state! Now did you find any info you needed in order to find out whether we are screwing the same man because I sent you a message a long time ago. I remember, and everything I said is true. My name, info, state, occupation, salary, email all bogus. If you would like to know anything you can have sent me a private message.

Posted by amethyst2002
I love it when people ask for help, ignore everything they're told, and continue to do the same thing, not understanding why things aren't getting better.

So. Awesome. *cough*

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damn leo women are crazy when on the chase. i forgot how wacked yall can be. leo/scorp...coo-coo. tau/aqua...emotards.

why do the immature leos think that the more passionate and demanding they are, the more "real" a situation is? sure, there's something about a lion making royal commands that's just sexy. us lesser mortals do enjoy succumbing to your royal highness. but this only works if you behave royally and with dignity. right now you're being a royal pain in the ass.

you keep testing him by acting foolishly. and you KNOW you're behaving foolishly. you are getting off on testing the shit out of this man. you love the dRaMa! it's like air and truth is, you don't want "normal" right now. you're not ready for it so you willingly sabotage this situation with the cap and invite turmoil into your life.

if he responds to your foolishness, it must mean he likes you right? wrong!

he will gradually get sick of your desperation and "passionate" demands. he's already distancing himself. you think that if he responds to your monthly ho visits that he must have some level of affection for you. NO! it means he can tolerate being up in your ass once a month but eventually, you won't be worth the dRaMA! he'll pull out...permanently.

and what will you do then? you will do what you've conditioned yourself to do and that's act even crazier. blow up his phone even more. disrespect him, argue with him, act like the childish, temper tantrum throwing hood rat.

he might give in but as this cycle of him running and you chasing continues, he will distance himself more and more. the more he distances himself, the more you test the bounds of crazy. eventually it will get to the point where you're too much dRaMA!

you will have debased yourself for a man who MAY have been interested in you at some point but your immaturity, desperation and lack of self-respect will have driven him away.

grow up!
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R u serious?!! Faith, He is not into you at all. You keep giving him the punani, that is why he keeps coming back. He thinks all of this is just a game, and enjoying every bit of it. That jealousy stunt he played at that baseball game, just another way to keep you around thinking he have feelings. My former Cap supervisor used to do this with all his club hos while married to his wife. You might want to start dating other people. That goes for the other girl on DXP dating him. He won't feel like "the man" anymore, once you both get rid of him.
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You don't have no clue on who I am! I never was needy! I slip for 1 month and that's because I disrespect him at a man. I didn't imagine how bad I hurt him. I didn't think he would be that sensitive and boy was I wrong. Anyway, I never really let this forum know what actually really happen didn't know Cappies was stubborn to the extreme like that. We are fine now. We talk enough but not every single day. He calls me and I call him and he will return my calls . If things change I will let you guys know understand cappies more now but 8 months ago I had no clue. The day disrespect him, I lost 2 long term friends 2 hrs before I called him. He never was aware of what happen with my 2 long term friends because I never got a chance to tell him . I was upset because he wasn't even busy and everything could have been prevented. He still don't know why I reacted like that. I felt extremely bad after that because I was in the wrong and he didn't have anything to do with. I don't even speak to my girlfriends now!!!
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you are awesome tubbyscubby!
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Posted by tubbyscubby
damn leo women are crazy when on the chase. i forgot how wacked yall can be. leo/scorp...coo-coo. tau/aqua...emotards.

why do the immature leos think that the more passionate and demanding they are, the more "real" a situation is? sure, there's something about a lion making royal commands that's just sexy. us lesser mortals do enjoy succumbing to your royal highness. but this only works if you behave royally and with dignity. right now you're being a royal pain in the ass.

you keep testing him by acting foolishly. and you KNOW you're behaving foolishly. you are getting off on testing the shit out of this man. you love the dRaMa! it's like air and truth is, you don't want "normal" right now. you're not ready for it so you willingly sabotage this situation with the cap and invite turmoil into your life.

if he responds to your foolishness, it must mean he likes you right? wrong!

he will gradually get sick of your desperation and "passionate" demands. he's already distancing himself. you think that if he responds to your monthly ho visits that he must have some level of affection for you. NO! it means he can tolerate being up in your ass once a month but eventually, you won't be worth the dRaMA! he'll pull out...permanently.

and what will you do then? you will do what you've conditioned yourself to do and that's act even crazier. blow up his phone even more. disrespect him, argue with him, act like the childish, temper tantrum throwing hood rat.

he might give in but as this cycle of him running and you chasing continues, he will distance himself more and more. the more he distances himself, the more you test the bounds of crazy. eventually it will get to the point where you're too much dRaMA!

you will have debased yourself for a man who MAY have been interested in you at some point but your immaturity, desperation and lack of self-respect will have driven him away.

grow up!




faith i think you need to read this again ^^^
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This is making me facepalm over and over. Faith, your cap isn't jealous. He has a girlfriend. He just wants to keep you around in small increments so he can get some from you (at least at this point). You throw yourself at him like a rag doll, and that's the last thing you need to be doing. Maybe when the relationship was just beginning he felt deeply for you, but you literally kicked that out the window when you started flipping your shit. We know it's painful when the object of your desires starts to pull away; it drives us crazy. I have leo in venus, so I empathize with the desire to make grand displays of affection thinking that'd keep the boy around. We often misinterpret reactions for completely different things, and what you might perceive as the cap man loving you and wanting you, even if it isn't completely obvious, probably isn't this. You need to take a step back and release that emotional and mental grip you have on the cap. If he wanted you, he'd respect you, he'd come back without your prodding, he'd actually make an effort. But he's probably burned out from this whole thing and the only thing you can offer him now, at least in his mind, is sex; which you willingly do. You know he has a girlfriend. Grow up and gain some self-respect. You don't deserve this and you don't deserve to have a man make you feel like this; but if you're going to continue making a fool of yourself while your cap continues to use you, then by all means, have your heart broken again. There is better, and it's not in this cap.
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Posted by tubbyscubby
what the??!?!?

your first response was fine. she gets bluntness and direct action. that's why she's blowing up dude's phone on the regular. you want to get her attention? follow the leader. "nice" has no home in this discussion.



And honestly, I really don't think it matters how gentle or how harsh we are with her.. you know how hard headed & naive women can be. That doesn't change after a few harsh opinions are thrown at her, she won't change until she's ready to. And I'll just learn to keep my mouth shut because you know half these chicks on this site don't want the truth anyway. LOL They want you to tell them what they want to hear, and they'll argue their case to the death, and I just don't have the energy for the back & forth shit.
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LOL@and I just don't have the energy for the back & forth shit...tell me about it

Yeah she's gone, ain't no reaching her

I haven't read the whole board but if she wants to make crumbs out of crumb cake and thus make this relationship out to be more than what it really is then let her, she herself said she's stuck on stupid and that's very apparent so she won't learn anything through discussion especially when a woman is this naive and hard headed, experience is the best communicator and the first to whip her ass into shape....
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I called my Cappy and asked could I see him before he go out of town and he said he was gonna be busy. Someone called him and he said he was gonna call me back didn't think he was gonna call back because yesterday we talk for a while and he said he would call me back and didn't. This time he called but I miss the phone call. I started not to call him back, but I did anyway. He ask me where I was at? I said why! He said if you wanna see me Iam be in you neighborhood shortly. We was thinking of where we was gonna meet at and he ask me could I treat him to lunch and I said yes meet him and treated him to lunch. After we ate my sweet heart gave me a 2K ring. I was astonish!!!! Then he said it was a friendship ring can respect that. For a minute I was thinking it was for something else. He said he wanted to see me but I been acting like I was too busy for him lately. I have been not going to see him. I be wanting to so bad but I don't know how long I can wait it out!!!!
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I called my Cappy and asked could I see him before he go out of town and he said he was gonna be busy. Someone called him and he said he was gonna call me back didn't think he was gonna call back because yesterday we talk for a while and he said he would call me back and didn't. This time he called but I miss the phone call. I started not to call him back, but I did anyway. He ask me where I was at? I said why! He said if you wanna see me Iam be in you neighborhood shortly. We was thinking of where we was gonna meet at and he ask me could I treat him to lunch and I said yes meet him and treated him to lunch. After we ate my sweet heart gave me a 2K ring. I was astonish!!!! Then he said it was a friendship ring can respect that. For a minute I was thinking it was for something else. He said he wanted to see me but I been acting like I was too busy for him lately. I have been not going to see him. I be wanting to so bad but I don't know how long I can wait it out!!!!
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trick cut the BULL'S SHIT already.

IF he did give you a ring, it's cubic zirconia and don't wear it when you shower cause your finger is gonna turn green. i mean WTF you foolin?

what/who do you really do? even for typing via phone, you clearly lack education (someone had to say it). do you recognize that you're a 38 y/o female who types as if she's a 14 y/o hood rat? bypass the men and take some classes at your nearest community college.

WHY AM I STILL SUBSCRIBED TO THIS!!?!?!?

no m??s!!
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Posted by tubbyscubby
trick cut the BULL'S SHIT already.

IF he did give you a ring, it's cubic zirconia and don't wear it when you shower cause your finger is gonna turn green. i mean WTF you foolin?

what/who do you really do? even for typing via phone, you clearly lack education (someone had to say it). do you recognize that you're a 38 y/o female who types as if she's a 14 y/o hood rat? bypass the men and take some classes at your nearest community college.

WHY AM I STILL SUBSCRIBED TO THIS!!?!?!?

no m??s!!



I thought the same thing. She said she only dates successful men! Couple that comment with the way she writes her posts and it just doesnt add up. Most people either have common sense or book sense. She has neither. smh
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Stop being narrow minded! You a hate!!! I been honest and told you guys the good bad and the ugly!!!!People so negative when I share with you guys something he did to show he care yall think it's a lie. People only believe the negative crap. I knew he care 4 me yall misguided because yall not wearing my shoes nor can you guys even wear my shoes. No one is perfect and everybody got something smart to say!!!! Go get a hobby and stop hating!
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faith $ golphin

if you really are a 38 yo leo female, then, you already know what you must do AND you know that most of them are right and you're just trying to be the martyr in this situation. you don't want us to see him as the "bad guy" cuz then it won't make it alright to do what you're planning on anyway.

BUT, do what you're going to do! you're going to anyway! you've obviously have already made up your mind regardless if it's right or WRONG!
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busy. I just got home. The majority of the time I write on this forum I'm doing it from a cell phone. A lot of times I be driving and typing at the same time. I sometimes get on the pc @ home and check out what I actually wrote and. Do look crazy and unprofessional. I have a BS and I'm well rounded. I'm just got in my bed from a long night.I also post messages late from my bed so. I'm going to sleep now I have another long day. Posted by amethyst2002
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Posted by hikoro
Sometimes I get the feeling that this is fake.

Anybody else?





Yea... I have had that thought since the "lick back and front" thread

no-one could possibly be this stupid...



She probably thinks you can get pregnant from giving a BJ, too.
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