How old is too okd

I'm a very young 51 yr old he is a very old 28 year old... We work together so this is touchy.. There is a mutual attraction but I keep avoiding the tension because I'm not sure if it's creepy... This would be a relationship based on mutual interest and admiration. I don't expect it to evolve obviously but would really like to get to know him better? Input is very welcome. TIA

Step away from the child

Damn, how do you edit when posting from phone?! Anyway.. Yes we work together.. I'm staying away but it's getting harder to do.. He's a baby but I would like to have my way with him!

You sound really jealous Do it yourself! Maybe you're tired of " doing it yourself" ‚‚‚‚ I am no granny by any means.. I will let him take the lead but it's getting uncomfortable because society says this isn't the way. I'm not planning on spending the rest of my days with him.. I just want to have fun and enjoy his company.

Posted by Shescomeundone
You sound really jealous Do it yourself! Maybe you're tired of " doing it yourself" ‚‚‚‚ I am no granny by any means.. I will let him take the lead but it's getting uncomfortable because society says this isn't the way. I'm not planning on spending the rest of my days with him.. I just want to have fun and enjoy his company.

I am really considering it! Or I wouldn't be asking on DXP!

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Posted by Shescomeundone
I'm a very young 51 yr old he is a very old 28 year old... We work together so this is touchy.. There is a mutual attraction but I keep avoiding the tension because I'm not sure if it's creepy... This would be a relationship based on mutual interest and admiration. I don't expect it to evolve obviously but would really like to get to know him better? Input is very welcome. TIA

You're too old

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Too old to enjoy my life? I'm pretty happy that he and his friends all like me and that he is obviously interested...

Posted by SensitiveBlues
On second thought men do this all the time! Why can't women

Exactly!

Posted by ontransit
Xlyrising you hate me enough.

I am the one and only.

Too beautiful to be hated. Yes Jesus loves me...and guess what so do I.

Let grannma get her rocksks off to this thread her wrinkles will never ironed out. Saggy pants for life!

😉.

Are you high or drunk cuz you make no sense! This is why this guy likes me, I'm real and can have a conversation not spew a bunch of crap out of my mouth .. You think because you're younger then me you are desirable? Ha! Someday when you grow up maybe you will understand

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No,seldom do work and pleasure mix,well,unless you need that contract signed!

Thank you for a real answer... If we didn't work together I would at the very least let him know I'm interested

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Xlyrising you hate me enough.

I am the one and only.

Too beautiful to be hated. Yes Jesus loves me...and guess what so do I.

Let grannma get her rocksks off to this thread her wrinkles will never ironed out. Saggy pants for life!

😉.

Are you high or drunk cuz you make no sense! This is why this guy likes me, I'm real and can have a conversation not spew a bunch of crap out of my mouth .. You think because you're younger then me you are desirable? Ha! Someday when you grow up maybe you will understand

She's on the shortbus.

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Oh, I see she's a Cancer.. That explains some of it.

Posted by ontransit
I blow you out of the water grandma and youre not even in my water.

And crap? You are a crap mouth filyhy haggard dried fish stick!

Like I said...you are the horse that cannot drink. You are FRIED!

Silly little girl

Posted by xyIrising
Don't let your age make you feel like you're living in prison

except if person's underage, don't even get close

Thank you.. I probably won't act on this but really needed some outside advice.. Time will tell..

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Xlyrising you hate me enough.

I am the one and only.

Too beautiful to be hated. Yes Jesus loves me...and guess what so do I.

Let grannma get her rocksks off to this thread her wrinkles will never ironed out. Saggy pants for life!

😉.

Are you high or drunk cuz you make no sense! This is why this guy likes me, I'm real and can have a conversation not spew a bunch of crap out of my mouth .. You think because you're younger then me you are desirable? Ha! Someday when you grow up maybe you will understand

She's on the shortbus.

Oh, I see she's a Cancer.. That explains some of it.

I knew I remembered you!

Weren't you dating a married man? A Virgo?

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Not dating, had an affair for several years with him... I've left that alone and haven't dated anyone for awhile.. This new guy is a Virgo too.. They love me😋‚

Posted by SensitiveBlues
She's not purr! Purr is younger and a crab

If memory serves me right she's a libra

Yes I'm a Libra.. If I wanted to I could have created a new profile but I'm not ashamed of who I am or my life experiences

Posted by SensitiveBlues
She's not purr! Purr is younger and a crab

If memory serves me right she's a libra

Yes I'm a Libra.. If I wanted to I could have created a new profile but I'm not ashamed of who I am or my life experiences

Posted by SensitiveBlues
The only thing is don't get angry when he just uses you for sex

Cause you won't be able to give him children so he probably won't end up with you

I have no plans on this being a permenantl thing...that's crazy.. I am not interested in it becoming anything like that.. Thanks for your advice though because it is difficult to not develop feelings for someone when you are intimate with them... Damn! This is not easy.. and I'm not crazy I had a 21 yr old little boy trying to get me on snapchat last week... Lololol maybe young men like an older woman!

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Lol! @let them have their fun. Is that the motto?

Granma you need to close all your cobwebs wrinkles pruney and all.

He doesnt want you he is misguided.

No love.

Take that too that bank!

Good riddance.

If she's a "Granma" at 51, does that mean you're the product of teenage sex?

Just trying to understand your perspective. I don't know any 51 yr old "Granma's" unless they're from your trailer park.

dude do the math. if a grandma had a kid at age 20 and her kid had a kid at age 20 she'd be 40. most people are grandparents in their 40s.

Yeah like I said I don't know any 51 yr old grandmas because they are probably from the trailer park or ghetto.

Sorry every chick having a kid at 20 is draining the welfare system.

The op works.

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That's right!

Posted by tiziani
51 / 2 + 7

32.5 years.

What does this mean?

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Posted by leow31
When it comes to big age gaps..its the lifeline that matters.
Speaking if you weren't working together.
You're almost 60 he's almost 30 .. honestly do as you want but ..what if things would turn for the serious.
People do catch feelings.
Maybe he wants kids...maybe he wants to get married.
Know what I mean?
Maybe you're not in that vibe anymore?

Sex is all fun until shit gets serious.

You definitely rounded up that fifty to sixty real quick. 51 is closer to 50

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Thank you, I noticed that too!

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51 / 2 + 7

32.5 years.

What does this mean?

You're cut off limit for relationships is 32.5 years.

Anything below that and you're in the penalty.

When in doubt, the plus 7 rule will never let you down.

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That's pretty close!

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Lol! @let them have their fun. Is that the motto?

Granma you need to close all your cobwebs wrinkles pruney and all.

He doesnt want you he is misguided.

No love.

Take that too that bank!

Good riddance.

If she's a "Granma" at 51, does that mean you're the product of teenage sex?

Just trying to understand your perspective. I don't know any 51 yr old "Granma's" unless they're from your trailer park.

dude do the math. if a grandma had a kid at age 20 and her kid had a kid at age 20 she'd be 40. most people are grandparents in their 40s.

Yeah like I said I don't know any 51 yr old grandmas because they are probably from the trailer park or ghetto.

Sorry every chick having a kid at 20 is draining the welfare system.

The op works.

That's right!

If you are a grandma, I'll give you props for working and raising a family.

However, I don't usually see it. Women who have kids young, don't usually stay in the workforce that late.

Or they've gone back. Anyways, I don't know your life. I'm just over young bimbos being ageist to older women.

It's amazing how many little boys older women can get. I'm starting to notice this shit now at 32.

This is probably why because girls ( not all) in their 20's act like this! I am not a grandma , my kids are in their late teens and nor at home anymore.. College...I've taken care of all my responsibilities and now I have some freedom to do me!

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When it comes to big age gaps..its the lifeline that matters.
Speaking if you weren't working together.
You're almost 60 he's almost 30 .. honestly do as you want but ..what if things would turn for the serious.
People do catch feelings.
Maybe he wants kids...maybe he wants to get married.
Know what I mean?
Maybe you're not in that vibe anymore?

Sex is all fun until shit gets serious.

You definitely rounded up that fifty to sixty real quick. 51 is closer to 50

Thank you, I noticed that too!

Oh por favor. it was a mistake not intended to insult you in anyway.

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No worries but yes as you hit your 50's time flies by super fast!

People pop out kids with no intentions of raising them.. It's hard work to do so properly and I'm very proud of my children.. Actually they would probably say go for it mom......

OP, this is to you

You say there is "attraction" . Are you sure he sees you in a romantic/sexual way and not just "a friendly person to talk to" way?

Are you his immediate boss or someone who can give him a promotion/higher salary?

Is he single? Has he been single for a long time?

Are there Leo placements in your Ascendant, Moon or Venus?

Posted by Shescomeundone
I'm a very young 51 yr old he is a very old 28 year old... We work together so this is touchy.. There is a mutual attraction but I keep avoiding the tension because I'm not sure if it's creepy... This would be a relationship based on mutual interest and admiration. I don't expect it to evolve obviously but would really like to get to know him better? Input is very welcome. TIA

Age is nothing but a number (so long as all participants are full grown consenting adults).

BUT the whole work thing is a big no-no. Ive ALWAYS been strict about that. Honey, if you come between my income and I then it just wont work.

Find yourself a man elsewhere.

Posted by xyIrising
steamy sex at work sounds appealing though.. idk

You know whats not steamy hot? Two idiots getting potentially fired and having to figure out how to pay their mortgages/rent next. Oy vey.

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Lol! @let them have their fun. Is that the motto?

Granma you need to close all your cobwebs wrinkles pruney and all.

He doesnt want you he is misguided.

No love.

Take that too that bank!

Good riddance.

If she's a "Granma" at 51, does that mean you're the product of teenage sex?

Just trying to understand your perspective. I don't know any 51 yr old "Granma's" unless they're from your trailer park.

dude do the math. if a grandma had a kid at age 20 and her kid had a kid at age 20 she'd be 40. most people are grandparents in their 40s.

Of they're Hicks. Most ppl having kids late 20s early 30s

All of you need to go back to 1st grade math!

I think the more important question here is: How old is too old to not know 1st grade math? 😕

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Ah snap!!! ‚‚‚‚

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steamy sex at work sounds appealing though.. idk

You know whats not steamy hot? Two idiots getting potentially fired and having to figure out how to pay their mortgages/rent next. Oy vey.

*shrugs* Maybe some people have an unemployment fetish.

Gosh, stop being so judgmental!!

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I mean maybe they can bring hobo-porn back and rise back to the top again. Started from the bottom (of the bridge) now we here sort of story.

Now thats what fantasies are made of.
Said no one. Ever.

Posted by Nevermore
Damn what a age discrimination here.

I'm around midtwenties and wouldn't mid to have a 50 year old guy anyway.

Plus, charlie caplin did married a 16 year old girl when he was age 51.

And theres a celebs that are 30/25 age gab married and still happy.

But one thing thats crucial to the OP is about job fall in love..

Girl (or guy idk) Charlie Chaplin lived in a time and age where age laws and sex laws didnt exist!!!! Bad example for this topic... BAD example. LOL retreat, I repeat abort mission.

"I'm a very young 51 years old" is an adorable way of a starting a thread.

It shows joie de vivre and I like that.

I wish there were more people like the op.

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steamy sex at work sounds appealing though.. idk

You know whats not steamy hot? Two idiots getting potentially fired and having to figure out how to pay their mortgages/rent next. Oy vey.

*shrugs* Maybe some people have an unemployment fetish.

Gosh, stop being so judgmental!!

I mean maybe they can bring hobo-porn back and rise back to the top again. Started from the bottom (of the bridge) now we here sort of story.

Now thats what fantasies are made of.
Said no one. Ever.

i'd watch that

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Good, weve started a tip jar for them. Theyll need business associates, a camera man, investors... You know... the whole shebang shebang.

Posted by Palerio
"I'm a very young 51 years old" is an adorable way of a starting a thread.

It shows joie de vivre and I like that.

I wish there were more people like the op.

That joie de vivre likes you right back!!

OP, we've got your comeback all planned out in case all else fails.

Dont ask any questions.

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steamy sex at work sounds appealing though.. idk

You know whats not steamy hot? Two idiots getting potentially fired and having to figure out how to pay their mortgages/rent next. Oy vey.

*shrugs* Maybe some people have an unemployment fetish.

Gosh, stop being so judgmental!!

I mean maybe they can bring hobo-porn back and rise back to the top again. Started from the bottom (of the bridge) now we here sort of story.

Now thats what fantasies are made of.
Said no one. Ever.

i'd watch that

Good, weve started a tip jar for them. Theyll need business associates, a camera man, investors... You know... the whole shebang shebang.

#gofundme

all you need is a camera, a pornstar, and a homeless shelter to screen prospective stars!

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I mean we already have two, is this gunna be one of those group ones? What are they called?

Idk, my morals wouldn't let me invest in something like that...... Well, as long as we dont film on the 7th day.

‚‚‚ ok i have to go to bed now with these thoughts in my head. lovely

I'm in my late twenties. I guess that makes me a toddler..

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zIf I was single, and 51, and kept up with the squats, I'd be chasing these kids too.

YOLO

Haha

I mean...

Posted by Arielle83
You can biologically have a fucking baby when you start bleeding for fucks sake.

I'm not caring about the numbers. I'm looking at the social context.

Op was born mid-60s before feminism, and university education for women was being pushed. Birth control was available.

This isn't 2016, where young sluts fuck with their birth control to get pregnant and pop out kids as soon as they realise they need to do something with their lives. Get government assistance and believe they are living the dream with a vacant baby daddy.

No this woman was in her 20s in the 80s where women were commended for their place in the work force and became more career driven.

So like I said, unless she's from some trailer park, I doubt she was a grandma at 51.

Now all you bishes in 2016, popping out kids like it means nothing. You are the reason for that movie "idiocracy" and proof that smart ppl wait later to have children, like op.

She's still working and all you haters are in dxp and bragging like you can do math.

This is why I have no faith in humanity when I've got some bimbos not getting a point.

Context retards.

She isn't from the trailer park or ghetto like you bunch of navel gazers.

Stop being selfish when there's lot of people who may benefit from a similar scenario.

For instance if more women had babies in their teens, the grandma porn industry would be amazing.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
They love cheating on their women for an easy lay more like

I know a Virgo male (early 30's), married with two kids sleeping with a 60 yr old(Gem)with no kids. Virgos...smh!

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zIf I was single, and 51, and kept up with the squats, I'd be chasing these kids too.

YOLO

Haha

I mean...

Dude, I just commented on your cancer/inner slut thread.

Coincidence?

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Haha, Nope...it's Cancer thing..

Go for it!

Men do this all the time...

people meet at work all the time, it's not unusual.

Enjoy.

And you are not old 🙂

Posted by xyIrising
Well damn. I hope when I turn your age, young tales (over 20) will still take interest in me.

I just hope this shxt isn't true

it must be the tea

But he's your son, moms!

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Well damn. I hope when I turn your age, young tales (over 20) will still take interest in me.

I just hope this shxt isn't true

it must be the tea

or the rice

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or Dogs meat

go for it! And play him this video

What? Lady pleaseee...

...this man will play you. And you two work together. I get no good vibes from this. No good vibes.

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They love cheating on their women for an easy lay more like

I know a Virgo male (early 30's), married with two kids sleeping with a 60 yr old(Gem)with no kids. Virgos...smh!

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That shit is jusr nauseatingly disgusting. Just vile.

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If it works for you, it works for you, and I don't think love has an age. However, I don't think I could date a girl who has more wrinkles than me, sorry to say, but that just puts me off. I've always been into girls who are younger than me, like one to ten years younger.

I can imagine if you're in the 50s and dating a 28 year old girls.

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LoL you have no wrinkles cuz you're a skeleton!

Posted by busyeyes88
OP. I'm almost your age group and I have had a few young men between the ages of 22-33 "hitting" on me! I tell them to go and play with their "tonka toys".

That age is just too young, and you should be mature enough mentally not to "entertain" it! Especially a work colleagues.

Rule no 1: never shit on your own door step!

I wouldn't do this with any guy.. This ones special.. I've had plenty of opportunity if I was just looking to get laid.. I am not stupid... Also he is my bossðŸ'š But I don't depend on this job it's something I do because I want too and the money is good but not nevcesary