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They love cheating on their women for an easy lay more like
I know a Virgo male (early 30's), married with two kids sleeping with a 60 yr old(Gem)with no kids. Virgos...smh!
Why does he go for her?
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She's interesting, and stable....
He'd always pick her calls no matter who he's with, she brings him to his knees. He's always begging, they live together now, he kick out the mother of kids. I don't agree with them both, but I like them separately. I knew her through him.

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They love cheating on their women for an easy lay more like
I know a Virgo male (early 30's), married with two kids sleeping with a 60 yr old(Gem)with no kids. Virgos...smh!
Why does he go for her?



She's interesting, and stable....
He'd always pick her calls no matter who he's with, she brings him to his knees. He's always begging, they live together now, he kick out the mother of kids. I don't agree with them both, but I like them separately. I knew her through him.
How did they meet?

What's he going to do when she's too old and he's left a widow? Like do those things cross his mind?
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Exactly, sounds like 'little boy syndrome' MIXED with an Oedipus Complex.

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You sound really jealous Do it yourself! Maybe you're tired of " doing it yourself" ‚‚‚‚ I am no granny by any means.. I will let him take the lead but it's getting uncomfortable because society says this isn't the way. I'm not planning on spending the rest of my days with him.. I just want to have fun and enjoy his company.
I am really considering it! Or I wouldn't be asking on DXP!
Bitch hes not leading you anywhere.

You are the old horse that cant drink.

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Well damn lmao. What's your sign? So much aggression lol
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Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Shescomeundone
Posted by ontransit
Xlyrising you hate me enough.

I am the one and only.

Too beautiful to be hated. Yes Jesus loves me...and guess what so do I.

Let grannma get her rocksks off to this thread her wrinkles will never ironed out. Saggy pants for life!

😉.
Are you high or drunk cuz you make no sense! This is why this guy likes me, I'm real and can have a conversation not spew a bunch of crap out of my mouth .. You think because you're younger then me you are desirable? Ha! Someday when you grow up maybe you will understand
She's on the shortbus.
Oh, I see she's a Cancer.. That explains some of it.
I knew I remembered you!

Weren't you dating a married man? A Virgo?
Not dating, had an affair for several years with him... I've left that alone and haven't dated anyone for awhile.. This new guy is a Virgo too.. They love me😋‚
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Oh sweetie, karma is about to be a mother...you are just too damn selfish in anyway for this to turn into a favorable blessing for you.

I see this turning into a very intense, sexual relationship and when he breaks things off with you, because he will, it will pour over into your work life and unfavorably so.
The world is operating on a patriarchal and ageism pov, this will not go well for you.

Karma. It's time you get acquainted.
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divinesurrender
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I would love to be grandma by that age in a time when women are hitting menopause at as below as 35 years of age. Also, i wish to have had all my enjoyment and sexual escapades before reaching that age so i can focus on what a grandma does - passing on wisdom and guidance...not a promiscuous aunt who lacked such a life before only leading to whoring it up in her old age or maybe is simply a sex addict. One who cannot be respected either by those younger than her nor by her own peers.
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Posted by Arielle83
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Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Namy
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They love cheating on their women for an easy lay more like
I know a Virgo male (early 30's), married with two kids sleeping with a 60 yr old(Gem)with no kids. Virgos...smh!
Why does he go for her?



She's interesting, and stable....
He'd always pick her calls no matter who he's with, she brings him to his knees. He's always begging, they live together now, he kick out the mother of kids. I don't agree with them both, but I like them separately. I knew her through him.
How did they meet?

What's he going to do when she's too old and he's left a widow? Like do those things cross his mind?
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I'm not sure he's thinking that far....she could die any minute for all he cares. I mean he cares but he's realistic.

I'm more worried about her, thinking she can adopt his kids and make them hers. She's been with him since before the kids. Of course their real mother won't let her have them.
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lisabeth
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Posted by starlover
Been there, done that. Wouldn't again. Age isn't just a number. There are palpable differences between older women and younger guys. It can be fun and the sexual chemistry for me was off the wall 😛. The problem can begin with letting them go and with age gaps, it is only fair to let the younger person free to follow their path. Some women do get involved and then kid themselves it will work, but in most cases it doesn't, long term.


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Posted by SensitiveBlues
the OP is a disgusting human being so i don't care what she does with her life

she sleeps with married men.

to me that's just gross.
I never slept with a married man.. No sleeping involved. That was along time ago that I had an affair.. Grow up, it happens.. I'm not proud of what happened but sometimes you meet people who you need to be with . It's not usually even about the sex.. It happens way more then it should. I was honest about what I did so what.
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the OP is a disgusting human being so i don't care what she does with her life

she sleeps with married men.

to me that's just gross.
I never slept with a married man.. No sleeping involved. That was along time ago that I had an affair.. Grow up, it happens.. I'm not proud of what happened but sometimes you meet people who you need to be with . It's not usually even about the sex.. It happens way more then it should. I was honest about what I did so what.
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I wasnt trying to like your quote...but this reads a lot like contradiction
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You sound really jealous Do it yourself! Maybe you're tired of " doing it yourself" ‚‚‚‚ I am no granny by any means.. I will let him take the lead but it's getting uncomfortable because society says this isn't the way. I'm not planning on spending the rest of my days with him.. I just want to have fun and enjoy his company.
I am really considering it! Or I wouldn't be asking on DXP!
Bitch hes not leading you anywhere.

You are the old horse that cant drink.
Well damn lmao. What's your sign? So much aggression lol
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Aries moon.. So hostile
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Posted by Shescomeundone
Posted by ontransit
Xlyrising you hate me enough.

I am the one and only.

Too beautiful to be hated. Yes Jesus loves me...and guess what so do I.

Let grannma get her rocksks off to this thread her wrinkles will never ironed out. Saggy pants for life!

😉.
Are you high or drunk cuz you make no sense! This is why this guy likes me, I'm real and can have a conversation not spew a bunch of crap out of my mouth .. You think because you're younger then me you are desirable? Ha! Someday when you grow up maybe you will understand
She's on the shortbus.
Oh, I see she's a Cancer.. That explains some of it.
I knew I remembered you!

Weren't you dating a married man? A Virgo?
Not dating, had an affair for several years with him... I've left that alone and haven't dated anyone for awhile.. This new guy is a Virgo too.. They love me😋‚
Oh sweetie, karma is about to be a mother...you are just too damn selfish in anyway for this to turn into a favorable blessing for you.

I see this turning into a very intense, sexual relationship and when he breaks things off with you, because he will, it will pour over into your work life and unfavorably so.
The world is operating on a patriarchal and ageism pov, this will not go well for you.

Karma. It's time you get acquainted.
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I have very good karma, I'm a good person and I do understand what you are saying, I really do! This is why I'm so torn. Listen I know I'm 51! I know this will hurt my heart some but I truly believe that we have to expect things in life to hurt.. No pain no gain you know. He is sexy as hell, we are drawn to each other and I'm going into this without any expectations.. I know this is t meant to be a lasting thing but damn I'm not getting any younger I have to live my life and enjoy every minute I can....I've always been with younger men, always. My late husband was the only older man I ever had a lasting relationship with...
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Posted by malloryor
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
Posted by Shescomeundone
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Shescomeundone
Posted by ontransit
Xlyrising you hate me enough.

I am the one and only.

Too beautiful to be hated. Yes Jesus loves me...and guess what so do I.

Let grannma get her rocksks off to this thread her wrinkles will never ironed out. Saggy pants for life!

😉.
Are you high or drunk cuz you make no sense! This is why this guy likes me, I'm real and can have a conversation not spew a bunch of crap out of my mouth .. You think because you're younger then me you are desirable? Ha! Someday when you grow up maybe you will understand
She's on the shortbus.
Oh, I see she's a Cancer.. That explains some of it.
I knew I remembered you!

Weren't you dating a married man? A Virgo?
Not dating, had an affair for several years with him... I've left that alone and haven't dated anyone for awhile.. This new guy is a Virgo too.. They love me😋‚
Oh sweetie, karma is about to be a mother...you are just too damn selfish in anyway for this to turn into a favorable blessing for you.

I see this turning into a very intense, sexual relationship and when he breaks things off with you, because he will, it will pour over into your work life and unfavorably so.
The world is operating on a patriarchal and ageism pov, this will not go well for you.

Karma. It's time you get acquainted.


I have very good karma, I'm a good person and I do understand what you are saying, I really do! This is why I'm so torn. Listen I know I'm 51! I know this will hurt my heart some but I truly believe that we have to expect things in life to hurt.. No pain no gain you know. He is sexy as hell, we are drawn to each other and I'm going into this without any expectations.. I know this is t meant to be a lasting thing but damn I'm not getting any younger I have to live my life and enjoy every minute I can....I've always been with younger men, always. My late husband was the only older man I ever had a lasting relationship with...
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But i
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Posted by ontransit
Fwiw all these women who say men Hit on them they dont.

They all have a hard time taking social cues...dried and died....move along!
You are so full of yourself I feel bad for you. I understand social cues I think you may have a problem with them...I'm laughing my ass off, you think a woman in her 50's is dried up and dead‚‚‚ how sad for you! When a guy is interested in me I know it's because he really like me, not because I'm some dumb girl he's gonna lay
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Posted by malloryor
Oh fucking hell...words cut off..

...as I was saying...

...is he worth it? Worth your career? Your respect? These things do have a tendency of crossing over into the workplace. Is a temporary fling worth it? If it is, go for it, but your hesistation tells me otherwise. You should listen to that voice.
This is not my career this is a fun job for me, I took it to get out and meet new people etc.. 90% of the people I work with are 30 and under..I am hesitant because I haven't been with anyone this much younger then me...
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Oh fucking hell...words cut off..

...as I was saying...

...is he worth it? Worth your career? Your respect? These things do have a tendency of crossing over into the workplace. Is a temporary fling worth it? If it is, go for it, but your hesistation tells me otherwise. You should listen to that voice.
This is not my career this is a fun job for me, I took it to get out and meet new people etc.. 90% of the people I work with are 30 and under..I am hesitant because I haven't been with anyone this much younger then me...
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Okay. Well go for it. If you have been with younger, I dont see whats an issue with a few years younger...he is legal after all. As long as you know the chances of it just being a sexual fling snd you can handle that, then go for it.
You know yourself better than us, so at the end of the day you need to have this conversation with yourself.
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Been there, done that. Wouldn't again. Age isn't just a number. There are palpable differences between older women and younger guys. It can be fun and the sexual chemistry for me was off the wall 😛. The problem can begin with letting them go and with age gaps, it is only fair to let the younger person free to follow their path. Some women do get involved and then kid themselves it will work, but in most cases it doesn't, long term.


😆


That was the weirdest thing i ever saw.
Is the movie any good?
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you should watch it. My ex husband Pisces sun/leo moon used to like watching weird stuff like this, off the wall films....with some meaning about it. And I was much younger than him but he introduced me to this and I thought whoaaa that was surreally weird.

yes you should watch it.

it gives some true meaning to love beyond borders, love beyond age, and timeless love no matter what. but it's hard to grasp at first, especially when you're not ready for it. there's beauty in the message.
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Posted by divinesurrender
I would love to be grandma by that age in a time when women are hitting menopause at as below as 35 years of age. Also, i wish to have had all my enjoyment and sexual escapades before reaching that age so i can focus on what a grandma does - passing on wisdom and guidance...not a promiscuous aunt who lacked such a life before only leading to whoring it up in her old age or maybe is simply a sex addict. One who cannot be respected either by those younger than her nor by her own peers.
I know you aren't talking about me, you don't know me at all. I AM NOT A GRANDMOTHER FOR **** sake what is wrong with you people thinking a 50 yr old is a grandma, you must live in the damn ghetto or something! I'm in the prime of my life and enjoy sex and companionship Jesus!
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The loss of estrogen and testosterone following menopause can lead to changes in a woman's body and sexual drive. Menopausal and postmenopausal women may notice that they're not as easily aroused, and they may be less sensitive to touching and stroking. That can lead to less interest in sex.

Also, lower levels of estrogen can cause a drop in blood supply to the vagina. That can affect vaginal lubrication, causing the vagina to be too dry for comfortable sex -- but there's help for that.

http://www.webmd.com/menopause/guide/sex-menopause
I remember my last ex's mother, pisces sun, she is a good woman, and she likes really young guys (I bet she has aqua and Capricorn strong in her chart, or maybe virgo, who knows? or leo) anyway she went for a guy she loved and cared for who was 30 plus years younger. He is the type that loves to be nurtured and she loved to nurture. It worked perfectly.

when the time came that she past menopause, she said she had to take estrogen shots to maintain her sexuality because he still wanted sex.

of course she told us what was going on and the dificultys. but they worked it out.
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Posted by starlover
Been there, done that. Wouldn't again. Age isn't just a number. There are palpable differences between older women and younger guys. It can be fun and the sexual chemistry for me was off the wall 😛. The problem can begin with letting them go and with age gaps, it is only fair to let the younger person free to follow their path. Some women do get involved and then kid themselves it will work, but in most cases it doesn't, long term.


😆


That was the weirdest thing i ever saw.
Is the movie any good?
you should watch it. My ex husband Pisces sun/leo moon used to like watching weird stuff like this, off the wall films....with some meaning about it. And I was much younger than him but he introduced me to this and I thought whoaaa that was surreally weird.

yes you should watch it.

it gives some true meaning to love beyond borders, love beyond age, and timeless love no matter what. but it's hard to grasp at first, especially when you're not ready for it. there's beauty in the message.
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I love the trailer, will have to watch the movie. It's weird yes but this is what I'm trying to say! Some people enter your life to teach you things about yourself or to teach them some things. Realsionships aren't always about being bound to one person the rest of your life or about filling a role because that's what society says example people thinking I should be a dried up grandmother at 51. Crazy ...
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by starlover
Been there, done that. Wouldn't again. Age isn't just a number. There are palpable differences between older women and younger guys. It can be fun and the sexual chemistry for me was off the wall 😛. The problem can begin with letting them go and with age gaps, it is only fair to let the younger person free to follow their path. Some women do get involved and then kid themselves it will work, but in most cases it doesn't, long term.


😆


That was the weirdest thing i ever saw.
Is the movie any good?
you should watch it. My ex husband Pisces sun/leo moon used to like watching weird stuff like this, off the wall films....with some meaning about it. And I was much younger than him but he introduced me to this and I thought whoaaa that was surreally weird.

yes you should watch it.

it gives some true meaning to love beyond borders, love beyond age, and timeless love no matter what. but it's hard to grasp at first, especially when you're not ready for it. there's beauty in the message.
I love the trailer, will have to watch the movie. It's weird yes but this is what I'm trying to say! Some people enter your life to teach you things about yourself or to teach them some things. Realsionships aren't always about being bound to one person the rest of your life or about filling a role because that's what society says example people thinking I should be a dried up grandmother at 51. Crazy ...
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well if it makes you BOTH happy and you are enjoying yourselves, why not? You are NOT hurting anyone? you are giving eachother joy and happiness.
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The loss of estrogen and testosterone following menopause can lead to changes in a woman's body and sexual drive. Menopausal and postmenopausal women may notice that they're not as easily aroused, and they may be less sensitive to touching and stroking. That can lead to less interest in sex.

Also, lower levels of estrogen can cause a drop in blood supply to the vagina. That can affect vaginal lubrication, causing the vagina to be too dry for comfortable sex -- but there's help for that.

http://www.webmd.com/menopause/guide/sex-menopause
I remember my last ex's mother, pisces sun, she is a good woman, and she likes really young guys (I bet she has aqua and Capricorn strong in her chart, or maybe virgo, who knows? or leo) anyway she went for a guy she loved and cared for who was 30 plus years younger. He is the type that loves to be nurtured and she loved to nurture. It worked perfectly.

when the time came that she past menopause, she said she had to take estrogen shots to maintain her sexuality because he still wanted sex.

of course she told us what was going on and the dificultys. but they worked it out.
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Just for the record everyone is different! I do not have this problem.. Or I wouldn't be looking at this guy as a sexual partner!
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I know most here want you NOT to mix pleasure with business.

so you don't have sex with co-workers.


but let's be honest. ......if you are having strong desires and have no ties with anyone, not with a boyfriend/girlfriend living with someone/or married, and you are both fully single...

go for it.

I keep hearing it all the time here that you can't mix work stuff with other co workers. but no way...if you DESIRE someone badly and he DESIRES you back...hell YEAH!!! you can't pass up that opportunity.

but you're gonna have to be very discreet and hopefully it doesn't interfere with your work.

the reason why work and pleasure don't mix is because you both will have BIAS for eachother in the work place and there's the CONFLICT of INTEREST.

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That's creepy and weird! I did have one of my sons friends hit on me... Seriously! He was like a son to me! That freaked me out and finally blocked his calls! Listen I am an average woman, I'm all natural though no plastic on me... Well I guess I'm not average in only that I don't look my age but I definitely look in my 40's... Listen I can't wait to be a grandmother. There is nothing more special in this world. I spent my time with my kids. Stayed home for 13 years and had an excellent relationship with my children and their father. It's just time for me now and I want to make the most of it... I'm not gonna get to emotionally attached to anyone now...
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I would love to be grandma by that age in a time when women are hitting menopause at as below as 35 years of age. Also, i wish to have had all my enjoyment and sexual escapades before reaching that age so i can focus on what a grandma does - passing on wisdom and guidance...not a promiscuous aunt who lacked such a life before only leading to whoring it up in her old age or maybe is simply a sex addict. One who cannot be respected either by those younger than her nor by her own peers.
I know you aren't talking about me, you don't know me at all. I AM NOT A GRANDMOTHER FOR **** sake what is wrong with you people thinking a 50 yr old is a grandma, you must live in the damn ghetto or something! I'm in the prime of my life and enjoy sex and companionship Jesus!
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You din't read what i said or maybe don't want to. I said i want to be grandma by that age not thatbu are already. I don't know you but looks like a woman ur age trying to get younger boys for pleasure is as perverted as old men wanting females their grand daughteter's age Don't you get men your own age— Or u r not respected by them to have a real relationship?? Or u have self esteem issues which you compensate throguh feeling wanted by young boys. Eithet ways ur ways r disturbing.
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Posted by Shescomeundone
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The loss of estrogen and testosterone following menopause can lead to changes in a woman's body and sexual drive. Menopausal and postmenopausal women may notice that they're not as easily aroused, and they may be less sensitive to touching and stroking. That can lead to less interest in sex.

Also, lower levels of estrogen can cause a drop in blood supply to the vagina. That can affect vaginal lubrication, causing the vagina to be too dry for comfortable sex -- but there's help for that.

http://www.webmd.com/menopause/guide/sex-menopause
I remember my last ex's mother, pisces sun, she is a good woman, and she likes really young guys (I bet she has aqua and Capricorn strong in her chart, or maybe virgo, who knows? or leo) anyway she went for a guy she loved and cared for who was 30 plus years younger. He is the type that loves to be nurtured and she loved to nurture. It worked perfectly.

when the time came that she past menopause, she said she had to take estrogen shots to maintain her sexuality because he still wanted sex.

of course she told us what was going on and the dificultys. but they worked it out.
Just for the record everyone is different! I do not have this problem.. Or I wouldn't be looking at this guy as a sexual partner!
The average age of U.S. women at the time of menopause is 51 years. The most common age range at which women experience menopause is 48-55 years. Premature menopause is defines as menopause occurring in a woman younger than 40 years.
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The age is going lower ad lower...
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Posted by SDNA
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The loss of estrogen and testosterone following menopause can lead to changes in a woman's body and sexual drive. Menopausal and postmenopausal women may notice that they're not as easily aroused, and they may be less sensitive to touching and stroking. That can lead to less interest in sex.

Also, lower levels of estrogen can cause a drop in blood supply to the vagina. That can affect vaginal lubrication, causing the vagina to be too dry for comfortable sex -- but there's help for that.

http://www.webmd.com/menopause/guide/sex-menopause
I remember my last ex's mother, pisces sun, she is a good woman, and she likes really young guys (I bet she has aqua and Capricorn strong in her chart, or maybe virgo, who knows? or leo) anyway she went for a guy she loved and cared for who was 30 plus years younger. He is the type that loves to be nurtured and she loved to nurture. It worked perfectly.

when the time came that she past menopause, she said she had to take estrogen shots to maintain her sexuality because he still wanted sex.

of course she told us what was going on and the dificultys. but they worked it out.
just like there is testosterone replacement therapy for guys
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really?? I didn't know about that. I only heard of "Viagra" for old men.
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Posted by SDNA
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Posted by SDNA
The loss of estrogen and testosterone following menopause can lead to changes in a woman's body and sexual drive. Menopausal and postmenopausal women may notice that they're not as easily aroused, and they may be less sensitive to touching and stroking. That can lead to less interest in sex.

Also, lower levels of estrogen can cause a drop in blood supply to the vagina. That can affect vaginal lubrication, causing the vagina to be too dry for comfortable sex -- but there's help for that.

http://www.webmd.com/menopause/guide/sex-menopause
I remember my last ex's mother, pisces sun, she is a good woman, and she likes really young guys (I bet she has aqua and Capricorn strong in her chart, or maybe virgo, who knows? or leo) anyway she went for a guy she loved and cared for who was 30 plus years younger. He is the type that loves to be nurtured and she loved to nurture. It worked perfectly.

when the time came that she past menopause, she said she had to take estrogen shots to maintain her sexuality because he still wanted sex.

of course she told us what was going on and the dificultys. but they worked it out.
just like there is testosterone replacement therapy for guys
really?? I didn't know about that. I only heard of "Viagra" for old men.
yeah but i think once you start it you have to keep taking it coz your t-levels will go lower than it was when you go off it. it was quite common in fighting and you saw these much older fighters knocking out younger guys. there's also HGH which is what stallone was caught with a few years back.
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oh that's horrible.
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I would love to be grandma by that age in a time when women are hitting menopause at as below as 35 years of age. Also, i wish to have had all my enjoyment and sexual escapades before reaching that age so i can focus on what a grandma does - passing on wisdom and guidance...not a promiscuous aunt who lacked such a life before only leading to whoring it up in her old age or maybe is simply a sex addict. One who cannot be respected either by those younger than her nor by her own peers.
I know you aren't talking about me, you don't know me at all. I AM NOT A GRANDMOTHER FOR **** sake what is wrong with you people thinking a 50 yr old is a grandma, you must live in the damn ghetto or something! I'm in the prime of my life and enjoy sex and companionship Jesus!
You din't read what i said or maybe don't want to. I said i want to be grandma by that age not thatbu are already. I don't know you but looks like a woman ur age trying to get younger boys for pleasure is as perverted as old men wanting females their grand daughteter's age Don't you get men your own age— Or u r not respected by them to have a real relationship?? Or u have self esteem issues which you compensate throguh feeling wanted by young boys. Eithet ways ur ways r disturbing.
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I am not going after young boys Ick! This guy is almost 30 seriously when did that become a young boy,.

He has an old soul and we click.. I enjoy his company. Omg I'm attracted to men my age, I have never based who I like to societies standards, I follow my gut and go with whom I'm attracted to and who likes things I like etc.. Give me a break.. You make this sound like some predatory thing!
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Madonna and her ego are deluded. 😆
well she IS 12th house sun.

hm I didn't realize it. it's very similar to my ex's mother, who is definitely a pisces sun and yes, she may have had a virgo moon too, or cap moon. or aqua. or leo ...but the 12th house/pisces is there for sure.


I have no problem with couples going for eachother and they have a HUGE age gap.

Like that of Jeri Hall, Cancer sun/Pisces mars/Aries moon, venus Gemini.

married to Rupert Murdoch
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Jerry_Hall


for some reason even when I was a teenager it never really bothered me at all. i'm not like...ohhhh judgy look at that. I mean I get shocked at first like whoa but hey, so what? they are happy pappy. maybe because I understand love beyond borders....love is boundless and it is not about age, culture, or where you're from. This is 12th house/ 9th house themes.