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Posted by kstarks2
wow. and she still didn't listen..hm..
i just "let go" of a pisces guy and i had been telling to change his ways as well and didn't listen.
😢 i'm sorry. it's so selfish of partners to not even try to change. i gave it my all with this girl.
change...not what I was looking for, some kind of movement so I know you are actually alive...now that would have been nice 😛
yeah and if I got stoned I'd talk your ear off and giggle so you wouldnt get any peace!
Posted by sweethearts
change...not what I was looking for, some kind of movement so I know you are actually alive...now that would have been nice 😛
i'm assuming you had a bad experience with a pisces?
Posted by kstarks2Posted by cloudymindedPosted by kstarks2
wow. and she still didn't listen..hm..
i just "let go" of a pisces guy and i had been telling to change his ways as well and didn't listen.
😢 i'm sorry. it's so selfish of partners to not even try to change. i gave it my all with this girl.
yeah. but life goes on. I give people enough rope to hang themselves.click to expand
are you implying you are a pushover?
Posted by sweethearts
yeah and if I got stoned I'd talk your ear off and giggle so you wouldnt get any peace!
oh god.. well as long as we can engage in some good conversation i'm okay with that. let's do it right now. except i'll shroom.
not 1 but 2 bad experiences...was enough to know to leave those fishes alone...they are too slow to catch worms!! lol
And nah, I wouldn't make much sense, I freak out on the stupidest things and then try to explain why its sooooo funny!
And nah, I wouldn't make much sense, I freak out on the stupidest things and then try to explain why its sooooo funny!
Posted by spicaPosted by cloudyminded
We've been broken up for three weeks now... I don't communicate with her at all. She keeps trying to text me and call me, leaving me voicemails crying and wanting me back, her best friend has been trying to talk to me as well. Her facebook picture is a picture of us and my friends tell me her statuses have to do with heartbreak and calling me an asshole and what not.
Venus in Taurus, moon in Sagittarius, rising in cancer, mars in gemini afaik.
Drop off the face of the earth, block her so she can't see you. Eventually she'll do the same if she has any self worth.
The grieving process lasts only a while, if there's no true love involved.click to expand
And if there was true love involved?
Posted by sweethearts
not 1 but 2 bad experiences...was enough to know to leave those fishes alone...they are too slow to catch worms!! lol
And nah, I wouldn't make much sense, I freak out on the stupidest things and then try to explain why its sooooo funny!
that's why you go for the pisces-aries cusp male. we "possess strong mental powers coupled with the priceless gift of comprehension." and then match that with a gemini moon. that's whassup.
yeah weed makes me feel like i'm going insane after smoking it for too long. paranoia sets in and it's not great at all lol. in small amounts it's okay. i'll stick to my psychedelics though.
Posted by cloudymindedPosted by kstarks2
wow. and she still didn't listen..hm..
i just "let go" of a pisces guy and i had been telling to change his ways as well and didn't listen.
😢 i'm sorry. it's so selfish of partners to not even try to change. i gave it my all with this girl.click to expand
Been there, done that, got the miserable 4 year old T-shirt out of the experience as well.
My favorite is how they bait us in thinking that they are interested in new or different things, when the reality is they could care less and refuse to compromise on ANYTHING.
Posted by cloudymindedPosted by sweethearts
not 1 but 2 bad experiences...was enough to know to leave those fishes alone...they are too slow to catch worms!! lol
And nah, I wouldn't make much sense, I freak out on the stupidest things and then try to explain why its sooooo funny!
that's why you go for the pisces-aries cusp male. we "possess strong mental powers coupled with the priceless gift of comprehension." and then match that with a gemini moon. that's whassup.
yeah weed makes me feel like i'm going insane after smoking it for too long. paranoia sets in and it's not great at all lol. in small amounts it's okay. i'll stick to my psychedelics though.click to expand
Dude, don't eat too many drugs.
"Drugs are bad, mmmmkay?"
Geez hard enough finding out what star sign a guy is without having to find out exactly what time they are born and date lol they think your a fruit asking too many questions!
Yeah I dont do much at all these days, if at all. it makes me clean, lol but ony because I just take the edge off and too much makes me so freakin paranoid, I'll think something is going to happen and it does everytime!!!
Yeah I dont do much at all these days, if at all. it makes me clean, lol but ony because I just take the edge off and too much makes me so freakin paranoid, I'll think something is going to happen and it does everytime!!!
Posted by ScubafishPosted by cloudymindedPosted by kstarks2
wow. and she still didn't listen..hm..
i just "let go" of a pisces guy and i had been telling to change his ways as well and didn't listen.
😢 i'm sorry. it's so selfish of partners to not even try to change. i gave it my all with this girl.
Been there, done that, got the miserable 4 year old T-shirt out of the experience as well.
My favorite is how they bait us in thinking that they are interested in new or different things, when the reality is they could care less and refuse to compromise on ANYTHING.
yeah that's exactly what killed me. it's lovely when you talk to girls who have the same problem as you though... i feel bad, there's a few girls i'm talking to now who are in relationships that experience the same problems. some of them have sex problems with their boyfriends, some of them are treated like shit by their boyfriends. well guess what? they come to me and talk about them and i make them feel good.
Posted by ScubafishPosted by cloudymindedPosted by sweethearts
not 1 but 2 bad experiences...was enough to know to leave those fishes alone...they are too slow to catch worms!! lol
And nah, I wouldn't make much sense, I freak out on the stupidest things and then try to explain why its sooooo funny!
that's why you go for the pisces-aries cusp male. we "possess strong mental powers coupled with the priceless gift of comprehension." and then match that with a gemini moon. that's whassup.
yeah weed makes me feel like i'm going insane after smoking it for too long. paranoia sets in and it's not great at all lol. in small amounts it's okay. i'll stick to my psychedelics though.
Dude, don't eat too many drugs.
"Drugs are bad, mmmmkay?"
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I try not to.. I usually space out my psychedelic use to a monthly thing. but they're so goddamn fun and each experience holds
something new for me.
it sounds like you need something to take the edge off then! but different strokes for different folks, i guess.. :\
Posted by sweethearts
Geez hard enough finding out what star sign a guy is without having to find out exactly what time they are born and date lol they think your a fruit asking too many questions!
Yeah I dont do much at all these days, if at all. it makes me clean, lol but ony because I just take the edge off and too much makes me so freakin paranoid, I'll think something is going to happen and it does everytime!!!
it sounds like you need something to take the edge off then! but different strokes for different folks, i guess.. :\
Posted by cloudyminded
😢 i'm sorry. it's so selfish of partners to not even try to change. i gave it my all with this girl.
😢 I am sorry it didn't work out with you and the gemini girl. From what I can infer, it was partly due to not communicating your needs to each other properly.
Generally speaking, most geminis respond well to reasoned arguments and we'd gladly talk it through and make adjustments.
Besides we re both mutables, we do not find the idea of shifting and adapting alien to our nature, unless we are discussing basic incompatibility in values, ideas etc.
Don't worry about her trying to approach you. Everyone that has been dumped unceremoniously (pardon my harsh expression) would feel shock, rejection, sorrow. She will heal. If you haven't treated her badly or didn't do justice to what you had by, for example, speaking of your breakup to common friends and blaming - and assuming she is not emotionally unstable -she won't bear any grudge and soon she'll have moved on, no hard feelings.
I wish you the best. 🙂
It's more a memory these days...I prefer a glass of wine
Posted by LilithPosted by cloudyminded
😢 i'm sorry. it's so selfish of partners to not even try to change. i gave it my all with this girl.
😢 I am sorry it didn't work out with you and the gemini girl. From what I can infer, it was partly due to not communicating your needs to each other properly.
Generally speaking, most geminis respond well to reasoned arguments and we'd gladly talk it through and make adjustments.
Besides we re both mutables, we do not find the idea of shifting and adapting alien to our nature, unless we are discussing basic incompatibility in values, ideas etc.
Don't worry about her trying to approach you. Everyone that has been dumped unceremoniously (pardon my harsh expression) would feel shock, rejection, sorrow. She will heal. If you haven't treated her badly or didn't do justice to what you had by, for example, speaking of your breakup to common friends and blaming - and assuming she is not emotionally unstable -she won't bear any grudge and soon she'll have moved on, no hard feelings.
I wish you the best. 🙂
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thank you for your input. personally i do feel like i couldn't have made my points any clearer to her though. is it normal that she tries to call me on my phone on random phone numbers daily, though? i get about six calls a day from her. my friend answered the phone because i was "passed out" and she's like "don't play games with me. am i invited over?" we've been broken up for over a month now!
Posted by sweethearts
It's more a memory these days...I prefer a glass of wine
yeah you're at that age, i suppose. woeijaskldnj
yes its normal, your such a pushover, she thinks she can wear you down!!
You are obviously giving off vibes to her or her friends to say you're ok with it!
You are obviously giving off vibes to her or her friends to say you're ok with it!
Posted by sweethearts
yes its normal, your such a pushover, she thinks she can wear you down!!
You are obviously giving off vibes to her or her friends to say you're ok with it!
hahaha i most definitely do not give off the vibes saying i'm okay with it. once something is ended, it's ended for good. my venus in aries makes sure of it. people who put me over the edge witness it. i think the only reason she's doing it is because she's scared she's losing me
So tell me why it is bothering you so much that she is ringing you?
Put your phone on silent, delete her friends already, get mad and tell her to F...O if you have to but why is it effecting you so much? You said you were ignoring her or have you allowed her to get in a little by talking to hr lately? Did you break down when you hadnt heard from her in those few days—
I have plenty of male friends and I've not seen any of them stress like you do. My make Pisces friend hasn't even lost any sleep over the countless girls he's screwed around with that thought he was the one!
Put your phone on silent, delete her friends already, get mad and tell her to F...O if you have to but why is it effecting you so much? You said you were ignoring her or have you allowed her to get in a little by talking to hr lately? Did you break down when you hadnt heard from her in those few days—
I have plenty of male friends and I've not seen any of them stress like you do. My make Pisces friend hasn't even lost any sleep over the countless girls he's screwed around with that thought he was the one!
Posted by sweethearts
So tell me why it is bothering you so much that she is ringing you?
Put your phone on silent, delete her friends already, get mad and tell her to F...O if you have to but why is it effecting you so much? You said you were ignoring her or have you allowed her to get in a little by talking to hr lately? Did you break down when you hadnt heard from her in those few days—
I have plenty of male friends and I've not seen any of them stress like you do. My make Pisces friend hasn't even lost any sleep over the countless girls he's screwed around with that thought he was the one!
okay, honestly it's because she's insane. she has serious brain damage and i'm being dead serious. i grew really attached to her and she does seem normal but she has some serious illness too. it's stressing me out because i can't block all numbers! and it's stressing me out because why the fuck is she calling me on all these random numbers? maybe you're right, maybe i gotta let go. fuck it i'm gonna get laid and be done with it.
No this is not 'normal', although during breakups many people do get hyper emotional and behave in ways they probably wouldnt
under different circumstances. But to explain her reaction, as the 'dumpee', even if you saw it coming, you might have tricked yourself to believe your issues werent so fundamental or deep and you'd have time to work them out gradually in the future - or, hoping the other person would come to terms with them and drop it. Not a mature way to approach a relationship of any kind, but it happens - people often get so wrapped up in the relationship they think issues would magically disappear over time. I do not know how serious were these issues in your case, but for many, 'denial is bliss'.
And she is in denial, sadly, sometimes geminis think there is nothing that cannot be solved by applying reason and talking it through, especially since she is still 'feeling' it for you. She might not comprehend how you reached this decision - especially if for her your problems were 'minor'. Now, she is confused and of course OVERreacting.
Another thing is, Geminis often have no problem staying friends with exes, even if the breakup was more painful to them. we get more hurt on a special one 'disappearing' on us all of a sudden as if it was that easy to get us out of their lives than telling us to our face that they do not feel it any more and they have moved on. Sometimes it's better to be honest with your not wanting the relationship anymore and then gradually fade away - if you went MIA after declaring your decision, she might believe you re just hurt/angry and it can be fixed (by Logically discussing your problem). In the former case, we will SEE that you have actually moved on and you re very casual in our interactions and we ll move on too. (CAUTION: this is not advisable to earth/water sings).
If you dropped her abruptly and refused to talk/explain to her from day 1, she might want her Closure.
She has no right to harass you, though, so whatever you do, dont let her further transgress boundaries - I have a feeling your silence is eating her so maybe a final confrontation would be better for both of you, in a public place, use sound logic and be firm and calm but not harsh and do not dwell on your past hurts.
From what you said earlier, it seemed that you didnt just 'fell out of love" but you did indeed based your decision on important problems in your relationship. May I ask of what nature - if you feel comfortable answering of
under different circumstances. But to explain her reaction, as the 'dumpee', even if you saw it coming, you might have tricked yourself to believe your issues werent so fundamental or deep and you'd have time to work them out gradually in the future - or, hoping the other person would come to terms with them and drop it. Not a mature way to approach a relationship of any kind, but it happens - people often get so wrapped up in the relationship they think issues would magically disappear over time. I do not know how serious were these issues in your case, but for many, 'denial is bliss'.
And she is in denial, sadly, sometimes geminis think there is nothing that cannot be solved by applying reason and talking it through, especially since she is still 'feeling' it for you. She might not comprehend how you reached this decision - especially if for her your problems were 'minor'. Now, she is confused and of course OVERreacting.
Another thing is, Geminis often have no problem staying friends with exes, even if the breakup was more painful to them. we get more hurt on a special one 'disappearing' on us all of a sudden as if it was that easy to get us out of their lives than telling us to our face that they do not feel it any more and they have moved on. Sometimes it's better to be honest with your not wanting the relationship anymore and then gradually fade away - if you went MIA after declaring your decision, she might believe you re just hurt/angry and it can be fixed (by Logically discussing your problem). In the former case, we will SEE that you have actually moved on and you re very casual in our interactions and we ll move on too. (CAUTION: this is not advisable to earth/water sings).
If you dropped her abruptly and refused to talk/explain to her from day 1, she might want her Closure.
She has no right to harass you, though, so whatever you do, dont let her further transgress boundaries - I have a feeling your silence is eating her so maybe a final confrontation would be better for both of you, in a public place, use sound logic and be firm and calm but not harsh and do not dwell on your past hurts.
From what you said earlier, it seemed that you didnt just 'fell out of love" but you did indeed based your decision on important problems in your relationship. May I ask of what nature - if you feel comfortable answering of
I just saw the 'brain damage' comment - are you implying that before your break up she showed signs of emotional instability?
Is it not a behavior she is manifesting in this post-breakup phase only?
Is it not a behavior she is manifesting in this post-breakup phase only?
Now you're getting it!
She can only effect you if you are allowing her to!
Go get laid, that's the way most men handle it...change your number if you have to.
If I dont want to see someone anymore I make sure I dont frequent old stomping ground...I take myself out of the picture completely. You should do that, she can probably hang on for another month or two you know before she starts to get the picture...it's taken me at least 6 months to get a guy out of my head, although I'm not a fruit, so they are just thoughts swirling in my head.
She can only effect you if you are allowing her to!
Go get laid, that's the way most men handle it...change your number if you have to.
If I dont want to see someone anymore I make sure I dont frequent old stomping ground...I take myself out of the picture completely. You should do that, she can probably hang on for another month or two you know before she starts to get the picture...it's taken me at least 6 months to get a guy out of my head, although I'm not a fruit, so they are just thoughts swirling in my head.
I was trying get at a Gemini, all she wanted to do was talk, talk her muthafucking ass off......but she aint wanna give it up. Playing games and shit, she gave me blue balls, I had to cut her loose.
Ahaha that's some funny shit, pls explain what you mean by "she gave me blue balls"—
Posted by sweethearts
Ahaha that's some funny shit, pls explain what you mean by "she gave me blue balls"—
Talking dirty after midnight
got me all "oh la la"
she say what time show start
Im ready
I get on stage....and my co-star got stage fright.
Then she wanna call and talk the next day like "Im sorry i fell asleep blah blah blah yada yada yada" shut the fuck up
Cloudyminded, this isn't really a post relating to a Gemini, but a post relating to a person with brain damage. If she seriously has those issues, astrology isn't going to explain her behavior. A jilted Gemini might stalk you, but not so blatantly. It will be more along the lines of figuring out where you will be, "coincidentally" showing up there, and pretending to be having way more fun than you.
Damn LibraSid ... you trying to trip someone into an epileptic seizure —?
Seriously ... back off with the flashing please.
Seriously ... back off with the flashing please.
cloudyminded .... for at least 7 pages you've been talking about how to be rid of a person.
7 pages is a clear indication that you enjoy relishing in her.
What an odd Fish ... swim mate ... or are your fins broken?
7 pages is a clear indication that you enjoy relishing in her.
What an odd Fish ... swim mate ... or are your fins broken?
There was a gemini guy I dated who stalked me. I just continued to ignore him. When he found out I was seriously dating someone else, he left me alone. However, years later, if he saw me alone in a supermarket or mall, he would start stalking again. I would have to call security. Because of this, I never dated another gemini and never will. And yes, I used to ask.
Posted by P-Angel
cloudyminded .... for at least 7 pages you've been talking about how to be rid of a person.
7 pages is a clear indication that you enjoy relishing in her.
What an odd Fish ... swim mate ... or are your fins broken?
i'm done. finally got away. now let's put an end to this thread, shall we?
with a face like that? No wonder you cant shake her! lol
Posted by cloudymindedPosted by P-Angel
cloudyminded .... for at least 7 pages you've been talking about how to be rid of a person.
7 pages is a clear indication that you enjoy relishing in her.
What an odd Fish ... swim mate ... or are your fins broken?
i'm done. finally got away. now let's put an end to this thread, shall we?click to expand
No.
Posted by FebruaryFish
I was trying get at a Gemini, all she wanted to do was talk, talk her muthafucking ass off......but she aint wanna give it up. Playing games and shit, she gave me blue balls, I had to cut her loose.
LOLLL! 🙂
I had a pisces ex. I broke up with him but after a few months of no contact with him etc, I rang him up just to say hi.. he seemed like he was happy to hear from me.. after that I became obsessed and wanted him back only because he had moved on and the fact that he didnt want me made me want to have him again only so that I could be satisfied that I got what I wanted.
It was more so my ego.. I couldnt STAND that he didnt want me lol sounds shallow but hey im being honest! So yes like someone else said, we cant STAND rejection and we cant stand knowing someone doesnt like us. Were like BUT WHY!?!? *confused*
So maybe its just that she cant stand knowing you dont want her. She'll get over it... eventually.
After my pisces ex got a new gf which he told me about I got over him because he was clearly taken so no point trying to work the charm to get him back.
I have a cancer venus.. she has a taurus venus.. arent they similar in the sense that we both find it extremely hard to let go of someone we've loved deeply.. and I know the type of "love" fish men can help us gem girls feel... its DEEP.
It was more so my ego.. I couldnt STAND that he didnt want me lol sounds shallow but hey im being honest! So yes like someone else said, we cant STAND rejection and we cant stand knowing someone doesnt like us. Were like BUT WHY!?!? *confused*
So maybe its just that she cant stand knowing you dont want her. She'll get over it... eventually.
After my pisces ex got a new gf which he told me about I got over him because he was clearly taken so no point trying to work the charm to get him back.
I have a cancer venus.. she has a taurus venus.. arent they similar in the sense that we both find it extremely hard to let go of someone we've loved deeply.. and I know the type of "love" fish men can help us gem girls feel... its DEEP.
Posted by PandorasBox
tell them you wanna wrangle them into marriage and live on a farm
No. Don't try this.
I know one that IS married AND lives on a farm.
Yes it is a pretty screwed up marriage, but hey, they are both pretty screwed up people
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