@Stensco21
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I told my ex I was dating someone
I mean the very next day after we broke up and he's never done that during our fights
Posted by HearttofTopaz
Maybe he feels like he’s got the go ahead to pursue this chick
She doesn't like him
Posted by HearttofTopaz
Maybe he feels like he’s got the go ahead to pursue this chickShe doesn't like him
Guys can be oblivious.. but then again he may just be trying to make you jealous if he knows you know that he had a thing for her.
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I don't think he knew I knew about it
Posted by Senorita_LL
Isn't that normal? Since you guys just broke up and suddenly you telling him, you are dating another.It's something we call mirror. lol
Yea I get it but what did he expect. It's like he fake breaks up with me to keep me in check
Posted by Senorita_LL
Isn't that normal? Since you guys just broke up and suddenly you telling him, you are dating another.It's something we call mirror. lol
We do? 😂💦
Posted by Senorita_LL
Isn't that normal? Since you guys just broke up and suddenly you telling him, you are dating another.It's something we call mirror. lol
Yea I get it but what did he expect. It's like he fake breaks up with me to keep me in check
Maybe so.
You think only women loves drama? Men do this too, sometimes.
Were you really dating someone else or were you just making that up?
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I really am.
Posted by Senorita_LL
Isn't that normal? Since you guys just broke up and suddenly you telling him, you are dating another.It's something we call mirror. lol
Yea I get it but what did he expect. It's like he fake breaks up with me to keep me in check
Maybe so.
You think only women loves drama? Men do this too, sometimes.
Were you really dating someone else or were you just making that up?
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He told me he just changed his relationship status to piss me off
Posted by GeminiGirl052388
Why did you have to tell him in the first place? Do you still have feelings for him? I honestly told my ex about who i was seeing after our breakup because I still like my ex. It was my way to get a reaction and see where I am at with him. Now, the moment I was sure I wasnt THAT into him anymore, I didnt mind at all. I dont tell him. He hasnt taken down our photos yet but I have.
So me would stop texting me and trying to use me to feel a void I don't like him at all
Posted by GeminiGirl052388
Why did you have to tell him in the first place? Do you still have feelings for him? I honestly told my ex about who i was seeing after our breakup because I still like my ex. It was my way to get a reaction and see where I am at with him. Now, the moment I was sure I wasnt THAT into him anymore, I didnt mind at all. I dont tell him. He hasnt taken down our photos yet but I have.So me would stop texting me and trying to use me to feel a void I don't like him at all
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what is really your concern or question or..... what?
from this post (I dont know the circumstances) you sound very selfish and self-centered.... sorry
it would be better, if you told us what lead to this post..... because its not clear... is he stalking you? why did you tell him you are dating somebody? was that dating somebody the cause of your break-up?
are you over him? is he bothering you? what is your problem? (asking honestly)
if you are dating somebody, dont you like that he removed your pictures from facebook? or what?
you are dating somebody, telling him and he will beg you or plead or..... what exactly did you expect?
I dont know the back-story, so sorry, if I am confused.... can you explain, please?
Posted by Cvurko8
Wait, are you being 100% truthful with yourself. Because i dont understand why that would make you feel uncomfortable if you have really moved on. And btw, his reaction doesnt seem any more bizzare than you telling him you have a new bf and thinking it was 100% cordial. Its never like that with ex's who have made a deeper connection than sex.
You don't know how he's been treating me
Posted by Cvurko8
Wait, are you being 100% truthful with yourself. Because i dont understand why that would make you feel uncomfortable if you have really moved on. And btw, his reaction doesnt seem any more bizzare than you telling him you have a new bf and thinking it was 100% cordial. Its never like that with ex's who have made a deeper connection than sex.
exactly
He cheated on me
Posted by Stensco21
He cheated on me
I am very sorry he cheated on you...
so you told him cordially, that you are dating someone, as a revenge?
and now you are hurt more, because he removed the pictures from facebook?
how long have you been together? how do you know he cheated on you?
we are not going to hate him, if you are not telling the full story
Posted by Stensco21
He cheated on meI am very sorry he cheated on you...
so you told him cordially, that you are dating someone, as a revenge?
and now you are hurt more, because he removed the pictures from facebook?
how long have you been together? how do you know he cheated on you?
we are not going to hate him, if you are not telling the full story
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No I told him so he would stop texting me and he removed the pics after we broke up a month ago. Been together for 2 years and I found condoms
Posted by Senorita_LL
Isn't that normal? Since you guys just broke up and suddenly you telling him, you are dating another.It's something we call mirror. lol
Yea I get it but what did he expect. It's like he fake breaks up with me to keep me in check
Maybe so.
You think only women loves drama? Men do this too, sometimes.
Were you really dating someone else or were you just making that up?
I really am.
Great.
So just let him do whatever he wants. Ignore his bs and just be happy since he were the one who cheated on you.
Cheaters are normally like that. They can't seems to accept defeat. I wouldn't even wanna tell mofo anything if I were you and just let him sit back and watch me neigh neigh because what's the point?
Unless your intention is to seek revenge, but since you said you are no longer into him, just walk away. I used to have an ex, who treated me like garbage, but I wasn't really that into him. I block his ass on watsapp and he added me on IG. I accepted his request, since he wanted to stalk my life so bad, but to talk to him again, haha never!
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I told him so he would get the point that it's really over. We've broken up three different times and got back together not this time though screw him
Posted by Senorita_LL
Isn't that normal? Since you guys just broke up and suddenly you telling him, you are dating another.It's something we call mirror. lol
Yea I get it but what did he expect. It's like he fake breaks up with me to keep me in check
Maybe so.
You think only women loves drama? Men do this too, sometimes.
Were you really dating someone else or were you just making that up?
I really am.
Great.
So just let him do whatever he wants. Ignore his bs and just be happy since he were the one who cheated on you.
Cheaters are normally like that. They can't seems to accept defeat. I wouldn't even wanna tell mofo anything if I were you and just let him sit back and watch me neigh neigh because what's the point?
Unless your intention is to seek revenge, but since you said you are no longer into him, just walk away. I used to have an ex, who treated me like garbage, but I wasn't really that into him. I block his ass on watsapp and he added me on IG. I accepted his request, since he wanted to stalk my life so bad, but to talk to him again, haha never!
I told him so he would get the point that it's really over. We've broken up three different times and got back together not this time though screw him
Yeah, you have done your part by telling him that. The best is to now ignore his ass. 😉
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Can't wait
Maybe you should get back with him since you posted this.
Posted by AntiSocial
Maybe you should get back with him since you posted this.
It seems like she wants to, but it will take time.... like at least 6 months
Posted by Senorita_LL
Isn't that normal? Since you guys just broke up and suddenly you telling him, you are dating another.It's something we call mirror. lol
Yea I get it but what did he expect. It's like he fake breaks up with me to keep me in check
Maybe so.
You think only women loves drama? Men do this too, sometimes.
Were you really dating someone else or were you just making that up?
I really am.
Great.
So just let him do whatever he wants. Ignore his bs and just be happy since he were the one who cheated on you.
Cheaters are normally like that. They can't seems to accept defeat. I wouldn't even wanna tell mofo anything if I were you and just let him sit back and watch me neigh neigh because what's the point?
Unless your intention is to seek revenge, but since you said you are no longer into him, just walk away. I used to have an ex, who treated me like garbage, but I wasn't really that into him. I block his ass on watsapp and he added me on IG. I accepted his request, since he wanted to stalk my life so bad, but to talk to him again, haha never!
I told him so he would get the point that it's really over. We've broken up three different times and got back together not this time though screw him
Yeah, you have done your part by telling him that. The best is to now ignore his ass. 😉
Can't wait
I'm curious. What's his sun and moon sign?
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Libra sun Pisces moon
Posted by AntiSocial
Maybe you should get back with him since you posted this.It seems like she wants to, but it will take time.... like at least 6 months
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lol yeah or fuuuckin stop postin for 6 months
Posted by GC02
I love how as soon as a relationship ends people delete all pics with the ex and it’s like they never happened. 😆
You love it cause it's funny or cause you do it too?
Posted by GC02
I love how as soon as a relationship ends people delete all pics with the ex and it’s like they never happened. 😆You love it cause it's funny or cause you do it too?
I’ve been in the same relationship for too long to remember if I ever did that.
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so you did do it lol
Posted by Senorita_LL
Isn't that normal? Since you guys just broke up and suddenly you telling him, you are dating another.It's something we call mirror. lol
Yea I get it but what did he expect. It's like he fake breaks up with me to keep me in check
Maybe so.
You think only women loves drama? Men do this too, sometimes.
Were you really dating someone else or were you just making that up?
I really am.
Great.
So just let him do whatever he wants. Ignore his bs and just be happy since he were the one who cheated on you.
Cheaters are normally like that. They can't seems to accept defeat. I wouldn't even wanna tell mofo anything if I were you and just let him sit back and watch me neigh neigh because what's the point?
Unless your intention is to seek revenge, but since you said you are no longer into him, just walk away. I used to have an ex, who treated me like garbage, but I wasn't really that into him. I block his ass on watsapp and he added me on IG. I accepted his request, since he wanted to stalk my life so bad, but to talk to him again, haha never!
I told him so he would get the point that it's really over. We've broken up three different times and got back together not this time though screw him
Yeah, you have done your part by telling him that. The best is to now ignore his ass. 😉
Can't wait
I'm curious. What's his sun and moon sign?
Libra sun Pisces moon
Make sense. lol...
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Why do you say that?
Posted by Senorita_LL
Isn't that normal? Since you guys just broke up and suddenly you telling him, you are dating another.It's something we call mirror. lol
Yea I get it but what did he expect. It's like he fake breaks up with me to keep me in check
Maybe so.
You think only women loves drama? Men do this too, sometimes.
Were you really dating someone else or were you just making that up?
I really am.
Great.
So just let him do whatever he wants. Ignore his bs and just be happy since he were the one who cheated on you.
Cheaters are normally like that. They can't seems to accept defeat. I wouldn't even wanna tell mofo anything if I were you and just let him sit back and watch me neigh neigh because what's the point?
Unless your intention is to seek revenge, but since you said you are no longer into him, just walk away. I used to have an ex, who treated me like garbage, but I wasn't really that into him. I block his ass on watsapp and he added me on IG. I accepted his request, since he wanted to stalk my life so bad, but to talk to him again, haha never!
I told him so he would get the point that it's really over. We've broken up three different times and got back together not this time though screw him
Yeah, you have done your part by telling him that. The best is to now ignore his ass. 😉
Can't wait
I'm curious. What's his sun and moon sign?
Libra sun Pisces moon
Make sense. lol...
Why do you say that?
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Pisces moon - Scorpio moon is an emotional connection
(there can be a problem with scropio sun - libra sun, thou.... different egos)
what are your other placements?
Posted by Senorita_LL
Isn't that normal? Since you guys just broke up and suddenly you telling him, you are dating another.It's something we call mirror. lol
Yea I get it but what did he expect. It's like he fake breaks up with me to keep me in check
Maybe so.
You think only women loves drama? Men do this too, sometimes.
Were you really dating someone else or were you just making that up?
I really am.
Great.
So just let him do whatever he wants. Ignore his bs and just be happy since he were the one who cheated on you.
Cheaters are normally like that. They can't seems to accept defeat. I wouldn't even wanna tell mofo anything if I were you and just let him sit back and watch me neigh neigh because what's the point?
Unless your intention is to seek revenge, but since you said you are no longer into him, just walk away. I used to have an ex, who treated me like garbage, but I wasn't really that into him. I block his ass on watsapp and he added me on IG. I accepted his request, since he wanted to stalk my life so bad, but to talk to him again, haha never!
I told him so he would get the point that it's really over. We've broken up three different times and got back together not this time though screw him
Yeah, you have done your part by telling him that. The best is to now ignore his ass. 😉
Can't wait
I'm curious. What's his sun and moon sign?
Libra sun Pisces moon
Make sense. lol...
Why do you say that?
Pisces moon - Scorpio moon is an emotional connection
(there can be a problem with scropio sun - libra sun, thou.... different egos)
what are your other placements?
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He's depressing mars libra and sag Venus and Mercury in Scorpio for me
He has mars in Aquarius and Venus in Scorpio and Mercury in Scorpio
If your still reporting back to him then he still has a hold on you.
Posted by LadyNeptune
If your still reporting back to him then he still has a hold on you.
Yea I know he does a little but he's gross just left over attachment
Doesn't Every one of us wish our exes stayed single and suffer to the rest of their lives? Lol
Posted by Supes
The condoms could have already been there.Telling a recent ex that you just broke up with that you’re seeing someone is just cruel and heartless.
Plus, having a new guy already tells me that you were prob emotionally cheating anyways before you called it quits
He has other girls too. He just doesn't know that I know and he's just using me until he gets one locked down. I could care less about hurting him at this point
Posted by Supes
The condoms could have already been there.Telling a recent ex that you just broke up with that you’re seeing someone is just cruel and heartless.
Plus, having a new guy already tells me that you were prob emotionally cheating anyways before you called it quits
He has other girls too. He just doesn't know that I know and he's just using me until he gets one locked down. I could care less about hurting him at this point
So, he’s gross because he was doing the same stuff you’re doing? Bahahahahaha!!!
Plus, you’re flaunting the new guy by telling him the day you called it quits (officially)?
Seems to me that you’re the viscous one.
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Lol no I wasn't cheating and it's not the same. And whatever I don't care. It is vicious I guess. I just don't let ppl play me and then use me after we break up. Call it vicious but it's self respect
Posted by nightowl
yeah that wasnt necesarry but since you broke up..it shouldnt really matter
True but it's the only thing that made him realize it's really over he's used to smooth talking me ain't happening
Lol no I wasn't cheating and it's not the same. And whatever I don't care. It is vicious I guess. I just don't let ppl play me and then use me after we break up. Call it vicious but it's self respect
No. Just no.
This is a total L for the Scorpio boards right now.
Lol no I wasn't cheating and it's not the same. And whatever I don't care. It is vicious I guess. I just don't let ppl play me and then use me after we break up. Call it vicious but it's self respect
No. Just no.
This is a total L for the Scorpio boards right now.
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So I should have kept texting him and new guy I'm dating on the DL?
Posted by Supes
The condoms could have already been there.Telling a recent ex that you just broke up with that you’re seeing someone is just cruel and heartless.
Plus, having a new guy already tells me that you were prob emotionally cheating anyways before you called it quits
He has other girls too. He just doesn't know that I know and he's just using me until he gets one locked down. I could care less about hurting him at this point
So, he’s gross because he was doing the same stuff you’re doing? Bahahahahaha!!!
Plus, you’re flaunting the new guy by telling him the day you called it quits (officially)?
Seems to me that you’re the viscous one.
Lol no I wasn't cheating and it's not the same. And whatever I don't care. It is vicious I guess. I just don't let ppl play me and then use me after we break up. Call it vicious but it's self respect
Self respect is walking away with your head held high.
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So I shouldn't have told him and kept letting him love bomb me to lure me back? I don't get what I did wrong.
Lol no I wasn't cheating and it's not the same. And whatever I don't care. It is vicious I guess. I just don't let ppl play me and then use me after we break up. Call it vicious but it's self respect
No. Just no.
This is a total L for the Scorpio boards right now.
So I should have kept texting him and new guy I'm dating on the DL?
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You're messy. All around messy, period.
1) If you didn't want your ex to message you anymore, there's a nifty thing called block.
2) Condoms don't equate to cheating
3) You telling your ex you are dating someone, is 100% about emotionally hurting someone.
4) You didn't block him because you are too busy playing games
5) You are obviously stalking him via social media, and aware of his every move
It has nothing to do with self respect, and everything to do with you being emotionally immature af.
L for my sign
I really want to understand where you're coming from, I really do, but to be honest, no matter from what angle I try to see your reasoning, it looks to me like you were trying to get a reaction out of him, it backfired because he acted differently than what you expected and now you're hurt it didn't work out the way you wanted.
Lol no I wasn't cheating and it's not the same. And whatever I don't care. It is vicious I guess. I just don't let ppl play me and then use me after we break up. Call it vicious but it's self respect
No. Just no.
This is a total L for the Scorpio boards right now.
So I should have kept texting him and new guy I'm dating on the DL?
You're messy. All around messy, period.
1) If you didn't want your ex to message you anymore, there's a nifty thing called block.
2) Condoms don't equate to cheating
3) You telling your ex you are dating someone, is 100% about emotionally hurting someone.
4) You didn't block him because you are too busy playing games
5) You are obviously stalking him via social media, and aware of his every move
It has nothing to do with self respect, and everything to do with you being emotionally immature af.
L for my sign
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First off if I block him he shows up to places and waits outside. He made it clear he was done with me and then tried to butter me up when he wanted something. The only way to get him to see this is serious is the fact I've moved on. And yea he's my ex I look at his Facebook so shoot me. And like I said if it hurt I could care less. He hurts me on a daily basis. Wants me to play gf role and he can screw whoever he wants. So yea I don't care about his feelings. I hope it did hurt
Lol no I wasn't cheating and it's not the same. And whatever I don't care. It is vicious I guess. I just don't let ppl play me and then use me after we break up. Call it vicious but it's self respect
No. Just no.
This is a total L for the Scorpio boards right now.
So I should have kept texting him and new guy I'm dating on the DL?
You're messy. All around messy, period.
1) If you didn't want your ex to message you anymore, there's a nifty thing called block.
2) Condoms don't equate to cheating
3) You telling your ex you are dating someone, is 100% about emotionally hurting someone.
4) You didn't block him because you are too busy playing games
5) You are obviously stalking him via social media, and aware of his every move
It has nothing to do with self respect, and everything to do with you being emotionally immature af.
L for my sign
First off if I block him he shows up to places and waits outside. He made it clear he was done with me and then tried to butter me up when he wanted something. The only way to get him to see this is serious is the fact I've moved on. And yea he's my ex I look at his Facebook so shoot me. And like I said if it hurt I could care less. He hurts me on a daily basis. Wants me to play gf role and he can screw whoever he wants. So yea I don't care about his feelings. I hope it did hurt
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Huge L for the Scorpio board.
Why talk to him if it's over?
The guy you are dating must be absolutely shit cos he seems to have done nothing for you.
Yes your boyfriend was cheating. Yes he has another girl he wants to bed.
Good for you. You found out early. Got out without being in too much of a mess. And bonus.. there is another girl to whisk him away from you... while you go out with new guy.
I see all positives. So why even think of him?. It's over and let it be over for your own sake.
Just don't understand how he said I stabbed him in the back when we were already broke up
Why talk to him if it's over?
The guy you are dating must be absolutely shit cos he seems to have done nothing for you.
Yes your boyfriend was cheating. Yes he has another girl he wants to bed.
Good for you. You found out early. Got out without being in too much of a mess. And bonus.. there is another girl to whisk him away from you... while you go out with new guy.
I see all positives. So why even think of him?. It's over and let it be over for your own sake.
Just don't understand how he said I stabbed him in the back when we were already broke up
Why are you even listening to him?
He sounds like an all around asshole. Do you think he will change?
He will not. He will just get better at hiding things.. or he'll get worse.
You need help so take it. If this guy bothers you tell your new guy about it. Just don't let him come back into your life.
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Very true it has gotten worse. I am done with it. Just didn't know why he's acting like I did something wrong
Why talk to him if it's over?
The guy you are dating must be absolutely shit cos he seems to have done nothing for you.
Yes your boyfriend was cheating. Yes he has another girl he wants to bed.
Good for you. You found out early. Got out without being in too much of a mess. And bonus.. there is another girl to whisk him away from you... while you go out with new guy.
I see all positives. So why even think of him?. It's over and let it be over for your own sake.
Just don't understand how he said I stabbed him in the back when we were already broke up
Why are you even listening to him?
He sounds like an all around asshole. Do you think he will change?
He will not. He will just get better at hiding things.. or he'll get worse.
You need help so take it. If this guy bothers you tell your new guy about it. Just don't let him come back into your life.
Very true it has gotten worse. I am done with it. Just didn't know why he's acting like I did something wrong
Because he knows he can walk all over you.
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True that's why I put my foot down! He was walking all over me
Why talk to him if it's over?
The guy you are dating must be absolutely shit cos he seems to have done nothing for you.
Yes your boyfriend was cheating. Yes he has another girl he wants to bed.
Good for you. You found out early. Got out without being in too much of a mess. And bonus.. there is another girl to whisk him away from you... while you go out with new guy.
I see all positives. So why even think of him?. It's over and let it be over for your own sake.
Just don't understand how he said I stabbed him in the back when we were already broke up
Why are you even listening to him?
He sounds like an all around asshole. Do you think he will change?
He will not. He will just get better at hiding things.. or he'll get worse.
You need help so take it. If this guy bothers you tell your new guy about it. Just don't let him come back into your life.
Very true it has gotten worse. I am done with it. Just didn't know why he's acting like I did something wrong
Because he knows he can walk all over you.
True that's why I put my foot down! He was walking all over me
There is no foot.
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Lol huh
Libras suck in bed too
I say if hes your ex then tough, hes a ex. He needs to man up a bit, and if the shoe was on the other foot, then he wouldn't be so bothered about it. But mind games have a habit of back firing, which is why i dont do them lol 😉
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He acted surprised, but I thought it was over and we were just being cordial. He said he felt like someone stabbed him in the back. But he changed his relationship to single the very next day on Facebook and took the pic of me and him down. And added a selfie. Then added back a girl I always knew he was interested in. I don't understand why he's so upset.