Have you guys ever met someone that you know you aren't compatible with but you still feel a strong connection with that person? What does it mean? Should I not try to be close with someone I know it will be difficult to be with?
Not compatible but I love you
Follow your heart, you can't live a life based on star signs. Give it a chance it could work out. It's better to try than to wonder what it could've been based on assumptions.
If both of you have the same strong connection & are mutually willing to work on the difficulty, then it will be worth trying. It will take two, so if it is one-sided then you should probably forget it.
Posted by sagsagsagI see what you did there.
anything worth having is worth fighting for
Posted by MayygooImagine there is someone who is very compatible with you but for some reason you don't trust that person (maybe she/he doesn't trust you either) and it doesn't work at all. I think that's worse. 😉
Have you guys ever met someone that you know you aren't compatible with but you still feel a strong connection with that person? What does it mean? Should I not try to be close with someone I know it will be difficult to be with?
Posted by sagsagsagCheryl Cole?Posted by themagnetorebornlol. what?Posted by sagsagsagI see what you did there.
anything worth having is worth fighting forclick to expand
Posted by sagsagsagInitially, I was gonna respond with the next line of the song:Posted by themagnetorebornPosted by sagsagsagCheryl Cole?Posted by themagnetorebornlol. what?Posted by sagsagsagI see what you did there.
anything worth having is worth fighting for
hahahahaha yes.. that song.. exactly ??click to expand
quit is out of the question...
when it gets tough, gotta fight some more!!
Posted by followerIt's more than his star sign. Our whole chart has real challenges.
Follow your heart, you can't live a life based on star signs. Give it a chance it could work out. It's better to try than to wonder what it could've been based on assumptions.
Posted by TheSagIt is worse ! I have been with people I'm more compatible with than this person but I can't get them out of my mind/heart. It's crazy.Posted by MayygooImagine there is someone who is very compatible with you but for some reason you don't trust that person (maybe she/he doesn't trust you either) and it doesn't work at all. I think that's worse. 😉
Have you guys ever met someone that you know you aren't compatible with but you still feel a strong connection with that person? What does it mean? Should I not try to be close with someone I know it will be difficult to be with?click to expand
Posted by Mayygoogreat short term sex = i feel a connection with them!
Have you guys ever met someone that you know you aren't compatible with but you still feel a strong connection with that person? What does it mean? Should I not try to be close with someone I know it will be difficult to be with?
great long term relationship = i am compatible with them!
being able to keep this straight allows you to have the best of both worlds.
Terrible outcome = mixing up the above two concepts
It's not going to work, walk away now before your feelings get hurt.
And the reason it won't work has nothing to do with natal charts and compatibility ... it's because you've already programmed your mind for failure. You are looking for obstacles and calling that energy to you.
Your mind has already decided .....
If you are this close minded all the time, then I'd wager that you never actually find love.
Was in a 16 yrs marriage with a Taurus.
Every astrologer who looked at our charts said "We are not compatible", etc.
First 5 yrs was great. Then the "incompatibility" started to kick in.
She started drifting.
Finally everyone got involved in our relationship. And Karma...
---
I felt: She need not involve all her family into personal matters.
I wished: She would focus on mending rather then outbursts.
She felt: I was not sensitive, responsible.
She wished: I was more friendly with her family.
===
Somehow, when we were separated we both knew it was time. 🙂
Every astrologer who looked at our charts said "We are not compatible", etc.
First 5 yrs was great. Then the "incompatibility" started to kick in.
She started drifting.
Finally everyone got involved in our relationship. And Karma...
---
I felt: She need not involve all her family into personal matters.
I wished: She would focus on mending rather then outbursts.
She felt: I was not sensitive, responsible.
She wished: I was more friendly with her family.
===
Somehow, when we were separated we both knew it was time. 🙂
Everyone going to have some craziness to them doesn't mean stop talking, and try to get to know them. No one is perfectt. Can be friends or not depends on your background life style .
Posted by Mayygoonope.
Have you guys ever met someone that you know you aren't compatible with but you still feel a strong connection with that person? What does it mean? Should I not try to be close with someone I know it will be difficult to be with?
if we both FEEL for eachother and it's not unrequited, you damn straight it's a GO.
I don't allow astrologers to bother into my life and love life. that's weak to me.
if you have to go through other people's "control" about your own relationship, theres something wrong.
you can't navigate the ship without someone taking control, which is other people.
which is lame sauce to me. A lot of people cannot control their own lives so they take control of other people's lives. Think about it. why would they try to control your life? are their own lives in order?
astrology is awesome to look at why both people got together and the "connection" and to help/aid
in health, maybe financial prospects but even then you as an individual need to navigate and take control of your own life. You don't go into the office with the astrologer by your side telling you how to work.
so fucking lame sauce.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Mayygoonope.
Have you guys ever met someone that you know you aren't compatible with but you still feel a strong connection with that person? What does it mean? Should I not try to be close with someone I know it will be difficult to be with?
if we both FEEL for eachother and it's not unrequited, you damn straight it's a GO.
I don't allow astrologers to bother into my life and love life. that's weak to me.
if you have to go through other people's "control" about your own relationship, theres something wrong.
you can't navigate the ship without someone taking control, which is other people.
which is lame sauce to me. A lot of people cannot control their own lives so they take control of other people's lives. Think about it. why would they try to control your life? are their own lives in order?
astrology is awesome to look at why both people got together and the "connection" and to help/aid
in health, maybe financial prospects but even then you as an individual need to navigate and take control of your own life. You don't go into the office with the astrologer by your side telling you how to work.
so fucking lame sauce.click to expand
I didn't say anything about astrology being the reason why we aren't compatible. We really are night and day and not in the cute opposites attract way. I know if we were together it would be a nightmare for both of us in the end. I just can't stop thinking about him.
Posted by P-Angelthis was the best answer.
It's not going to work, walk away now before your feelings get hurt.
And the reason it won't work has nothing to do with natal charts and compatibility ... it's because you've already programmed your mind for failure. You are looking for obstacles and calling that energy to you.
Your mind has already decided .....
If you are this close minded all the time, then I'd wager that you never actually find love.
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