Open or Closed?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Ninjagirl on Monday, December 31, 2012 and has 18 replies.

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@Ninjagirl
15 Years500+ PostsSagittarius

So....when you're busy getting down to some slap and tickle action, how do you have your peepers?

Post moon/mars/venus or any other placements you feel relevant.

Me;

In the past I've had my eyes closed more than open when performing...not entirely sure why, although i feel part of it for me is shyness/vulnerability. It's only since I've been seeing the Aqua that I've noticed I do this, only because he's big on eye-contact. He's encouraged me to have my eyes open much more??_it's so much more intense.

moon Aqua//mars Aqua//venus Cap

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@Ninjagirl
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Posted by capgirl75

Posted by Ninjagirl

In the past I've had my eyes closed more than open when performing...not entirely sure why, although i feel part of it for me is shyness/vulnerability. It's only since I've been seeing the Aqua that I've noticed I do this, only because he's big on eye-contact. He's encouraged me to have my eyes open much more??_it's so much more intense.

My Scorp always tells me to look at him but I can't do it for very long, because I lose control. Lol.

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Lol...same here. Sometimes it's just too much!

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@Ninjagirl
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Posted by bubblyaquarius
I keep looking down, like I sorta close my eyes, until I feel really comfortable with the person. It's all about how well I know them, and how long we've been doing it, my comfort level. I like eye contact during sex, but it always feel funny the first couple times.

Maybe it's an Aqua thing to like eye-contact. =/ And talking. Merc makes me chatty. haha

Funny you mention this...we often talk throughout our sex, sometimes I'll be talking and him listening and vice-versa. He's always been big on eye-contact from the start...I agree on the comfort level thing if I'm on top and looking down it makes me feel really...exposed (?) so I can only do glances here and there but it has got better over time.

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@appropriate
13 YearsScorpio

I peek open mine when her's are closed lol She makes lovely faces that she isn't comfortable with me seeing, but I do.

I don't understand avoiding eye contact throughout sex, I need to see visuals.

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@Scenic
14 Years5,000+ Posts

I always keep my eyes open. I would even really like to during kissing, but I don't, since none of the guys I've been with have really enjoyed opening their eyes to that. Haha. It just feels more natural to me.

Pisces moon, Cancer mars, Aries venus.

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@Ariess
14 YearsAries

Moon Cancer mars Cap asc Leo

Closed. Or opened when we are really close together or he can't see me. I need to be doing something with my mouth to make eye contact- either kissing
Biting his lip orrrrrr.....
Yep, weird.