@scorpdiva
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Sexual Deal Breakers
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anything goes with me. i hate hearing the word no in the bedroom, dries me up.
Sag Sun
Scorp Moon
Virgo Mars
Posted by Jynja
*Health - is wealth. Are you tested, do you use protection, how are your teeth, lacerations, STDs, etc?*Physical weakness is one of my greatest worries too - I like to be strapped down, hog tied, pound hard, plowed, ripped up. A man who might get a heart attack after that will not make it anywhere on my list.
*Arrogance - If you dare to say how amazing you think you are, you're gone. I don't mind a man who says how he'll perform though. Tell me you'll pin me up against a wall and do me till I see stars... corny but a good start
*Stupid fucking archaic ideas - if you want me to pull on your straw, learn to find yourself a spoon. My needs are many, and this is like the least of them. A man without this basic ability is not very manly to me.
*Stupid fucking archaic ideas (Advanced Edition): I'm a submissive, I need a man who can wield a whip without breaking down on me about how it's not conventional or whatever.
*Main deal breaker - Casual sex. Can't do it, so if a man proposes it he's gone.
Sun: Leo
Moon: Cancer
Mars: Scorpio
interesting, your sun and moon doesnt strike me as the submissive type. even how you wrote this post doesnt seem very submissive like. you wrote this as a BOSS chick.
Something's are a given. Selfishness, talking shit but not able to back it up. Not wanting to use protection. I automatically use, but if you want me to...raw dawg it...sorry, night's over and you've probably lost me.
I am a patient lover. I don't mind a woman who isn't experienced.
Deal breakers: casual sex. Sorry, I need a deep connection just for me to even think about having sex with you. This has been a bit of a sore spot because men are expected to simply want it but I got I over that phase in my mid 20s.
Being inhibited: Not having an open mind really dulls the mood. I'm a pleaser but I also love to be pleased.
Oh btw,
Sag Sun
Leo Moon
Scorpio Mars
Venus Sag
Posted by scorpdiva
If I know that I would like to have sex with a men, talking about it first is something I like to do just to see what they are into sexually. So I met this aries/taurus April 20 and as we are conversing he says he doesn't do oral on women yet he Really Really enjoys when it is done for him,
You. only. get. what. you. give.
Sun Aries
Moon Cancer
Mars Sag
I'm kinda like jynja except I don't require all the props. My headspace is similar though.
1.) I NEED mental stimulation first. I don't fuck people I don't like and witless stupidity is a huge turn-off. I have honestly turned down a gorgeous, godly-looking man because of what came out of his mouth. A couple of times. And I'd do it again.
2.) Don't disrespect me. This covers a lot.
3.) Be willing to mix things up. Sometimes I want to make out a little first, sometimes I want a quickie, sometimes I like different locations, etc. Don't be selfish about it either.
4.) Don't tell me no and give me sex often and regularly.
Um, I just realized this list could go on for a while. I won't lie... I'm damn picky but I know what I like when it comes along. I don't envy the men who pursue me but the rare one that can stick it out reaps the rewards big time.
Sun: Leo, Moon: Virgo, Mars: Scorpio
Posted by ninjamu
I'm kinda like jynja except I don't require all the props. My headspace is similar though.1.) I NEED mental stimulation first. I don't fuck people I don't like and witless stupidity is a huge turn-off. I have honestly turned down a gorgeous, godly-looking man because of what came out of his mouth. A couple of times. And I'd do it again.
2.) Don't disrespect me. This covers a lot.
3.) Be willing to mix things up. Sometimes I want to make out a little first, sometimes I want a quickie, sometimes I like different locations, etc. Don't be selfish about it either.
4.) Don't tell me no and give me sex often and regularly.
Um, I just realized this list could go on for a while. I won't lie... I'm damn picky but I know what I like when it comes along. I don't envy the men who pursue me but the rare one that can stick it out reaps the rewards big time.
Sun: Leo, Moon: Virgo, Mars: Scorpio
🙂
Posted by robyn808
lol, I thought this was supposed to be about deal breakers, not describe your ideal lovers.
"Down Virgo!"
**cracks whip**
deal breakers:
Smelly pussy
Bad Body odor
Bad breath
Unshaved legs/privates
Loose pussy
To name a few.
Being too pushy. If I say no, you better learn to listen the first time or else it will kill my drive for a long time. And, that won't be my conscious doing, so it's harder to try to fix.
If you're hesitant in bed. I need someone to make me feel like they have no doubts when ripping my clothes off and getting to business.
If you're too focused on foreplay. I'm sorry, I must be one of the rare ones, but I can't stand it when people take forever getting down to business. I'm not sure if it's my venus in Aries or what. If it were up to me, I'd erase the word from the dictionary. I can handle bending to my partner's will occasionally on that, but honestly, I don't need it nor do I really want it. My mood can get killed instantly, so in the midst of giving you oral, I hope you don't mind if I organize everything I have yet to do that day.
I'm a killjoy, I know.
Posted by Scenic
If you're too focused on foreplay. I'm sorry, I must be one of the rare ones, but I can't stand it when people take forever getting down to business.
Loooool! My ex Scorp was like that, she had Moon in Pisces and Mars in Aries too. Foreplay consisted of her whipping mine out and putting it in her mouth.... anything else would have just slowed us down! Supposedly every man's dream, but it kind of made me feel lazy and passive and I don't like that feeling. I want a woman who likes foreplay because then I truly feel in control.
Sun LEO
Moon CANCER
Mars LEO
Deal Breakers:
lack of eye contact
lack of verbal stimulation
Oral - If I can't go down on you ,then you can't have the goods
Deal Makers:
bedroom confidence
sexy,silky outfits, dress like a high-class hooker and I'll send you into the next galaxy
Foreplay ,smile ,strut your stuff and make me beg because I'm a greedy whore too.
Sun : Libra
Moon: Gemini
Mars : Sag
Venus : Sag
Posted by exoskeleton
musts:respect
good hygiene
mutual oral, give and take/unselfish attitude
sexual/sensual confidence, natural expressiveness, and willingness to fully immerse themselves in the act, no holding back
willingness to at least try new things, positions, and all my tricks - never disappointments there, lol.
Exactly...
Posted by PP
deal breakers:
Smelly pussy
Bad Body odor
Bad breath
Unshaved legs/privates
Loose pussyTo name a few.
do i detect virgo in you?
Posted by capgirl75
Only deal breaker I have is not respecting my feelings, pushing me too far or making me do something that is known that I don't like or want.
Also it really is not worth it to me if there is no cuddling or affection with it, if its just sex.
What she said. Same here!
I will add it's important to have reciprocity as well. And I like dirty texting! 😉
Sun: Cap
Moon: Cap
Aqua: Mars
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Posted by robyn808
lol, I thought this was supposed to be about deal breakers, not describe your ideal lovers."Down Virgo!"
**cracks whip**
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Dang, I think I will have to go get myself "Virgoized" again!!!
Posted by Scenic
Being too pushy. If I say no, you better learn to listen the first time or else it will kill my drive for a long time. And, that won't be my conscious doing, so it's harder to try to fix.If you're hesitant in bed. I need someone to make me feel like they have no doubts when ripping my clothes off and getting to business.
If you're too focused on foreplay. I'm sorry, I must be one of the rare ones, but I can't stand it when people take forever getting down to business. I'm not sure if it's my venus in Aries or what. If it were up to me, I'd erase the word from the dictionary. I can handle bending to my partner's will occasionally on that, but honestly, I don't need it nor do I really want it. My mood can get killed instantly, so in the midst of giving you oral, I hope you don't mind if I organize everything I have yet to do that day.
I'm a killjoy, I know.
Just plain confusing is what I thought. How often do you say "No" and then react negatively when the next time they are "hesitant?"
Just plain confusing is what I thought. How often do you say "No" and then react negatively when the next time they are "hesitant?"
Being hesitant and saying no are two different things. I'm talking about confidence in bed and knowing what you want and I haven't come across a guy yet who becomes hesitant just because his girl doesn't say yes everytime he wants it. And, I don't say no very often, as long as the guy isn't pushy. Because I said that doesn't mean I'm a bitch. People are allowed to say no sometimes if they're not feeling it. My current boyfriend and I, when we lived together, had sex everyday, sometimes 3-4 times a day. I'm not depriving him, but I'm not going to say yes everytime his high sex drive kicks in.
deal breakers:
flighty/unstable, unconfident, unkind, disrespectful,
desperate and clingy
Posted by Jynja
*Health - is wealth. Are you tested, do you use protection, how are your teeth, lacerations, STDs, etc?*Physical weakness is one of my greatest worries too - I like to be strapped down, hog tied, pound hard, plowed, ripped up. A man who might get a heart attack after that will not make it anywhere on my list.
*Arrogance - If you dare to say how amazing you think you are, you're gone. I don't mind a man who says how he'll perform though. Tell me you'll pin me up against a wall and do me till I see stars... corny but a good start
*Main deal breaker - Casual sex. Can't do it, so if a man proposes it he's gone.
Can I just say I agreed with all of this^^^. I don't know, I have so many deal breakers, but to add I guess:
1) Don't push, TRY to manipulate me into anything, because I'll just bite down and refuse out of spite. I'm stubborn that way.
2) Hygiene (breathe oh so minty fresh, groomed, clean, etc...)
3) Keep your yap shut!!!!! I observe everything, make a mental note and proceed accordingly. Even if your ex was the b*tch that broke your heart, don't put down your ex or divulge what you did with her to me thinking you're scoring points. While I may be curious (because I'm nosy like that), I think it's crass and a violation of trust. I'm not talking about generalized discussions, but specific details, especially if I know/seen the woman. Intimate details about your partner (what you shared or did) should be respected even if you aren't together anymore. I don't respect or trust people that divulge something that was said to you/done with you in confidence regardless of the reason.
seriously, listerine is the most understated cologne/perfume.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Clean, doesn't smell
Give and take, don't be selfish
No piss and shit or weird stuff
Ta
so no golden showers?
^^^^Oops sorry, I always forget to add this stuff:
Sun: Scorp
Moon: Gemini (but can't confirm. No TOB, but strong possibility)
Mars: Scorp
FYI for anyone else that does not know their moon due to not knowing their TOB this site helped me out:
http://www.ofesite.com/spirit/horoscop/moonsign/moonform.htm
so to all the people who want a clean person, lets say you 2 are leaving a club at 2am and when u get home u want to get freaky. would u take shower first or let the after club funk fly?
or if your guy comes home from a long day at work on the construction yard and he wants you to slob the knob as soon as he walks in the door..do you demand a shower or give him what he wants?
Double oops, one more thing...
4) Must provide mental stimulation. I don't care what the topic is--I'd actually prefer a person that can speak on several topics. Teach me something in and outside of the bedroom
5) Must be open-minded. I can't stand stubborn and ignorant people. It's one thing to be passionate about your views, but don't be dismissive and refuse to at least listen to another person's perspective/thoughts/opinions before you come to a conclusion.
Posted by DMV
seriously, listerine is the most understated cologne/perfume.
LOL! Yes!!!!! The only type of cologne I don't mind if you overdo it.
a small penis (less than 5 inches) is a sexual deal breaker.
2.) quiet men. mars in virgo needs a verbally responsive person to let me know im doing a good job.
3.) men who just lay there. im a worker in the bedroom, but shit venus in cap is keeping score on your part.
4.) men who want to cuddle afterwards. omg, either get ready for the next round, make me some food, or get the hell out.
5.) men with no rhythm. no motion of the ocean.
6.) men who does use their fingers. sheesh. watch a porno or something.
7.) SWEAT dripping on me. ewwwwwww. men who perspire too much need not apply.
Posted by libragemmale
Deal Breakers:
Oral - If I can't go down on you ,then you can't have the goods
Posted by DMV
so to all the people who want a clean person, lets say you 2 are leaving a club at 2am and when u get home u want to get freaky. would u take shower first or let the after club funk fly?or if your guy comes home from a long day at work on the construction yard and he wants you to slob the knob as soon as he walks in the door..do you demand a shower or give him what he wants?
I know it will be hard to believe, but no matter how tired I am, especially after a club I HAVE to take a shower before getting into bed--otherwise the sheet smell funky (cigarettes, other people's funk, etc...)
As for the construction Adonis doing yard work---we can shower together first as a form of foreplay, but the shower is a must. Sorry. I don't like any restrictions one I'm engaged in the act. BO turns me off big time. And what are you gonna do, get him worked up then say "err, can you clean up that situation please"? I think that would offend anyone.
7.) SWEAT dripping on me. ewwwwwww. men who perspire too much need not apply.
Yuk...imagine if it dripped in your mouth as you were yelling for more *shudders* FIXED. *sigh*
7.) SWEAT dripping on me. ewwwwwww. men who perspire too much need not apply.
Yuk...imagine if it dripped in your mouth as you were yelling for more *shutters*
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IT DID ONCE!
this mars in virgo almost had a freak out attack
7.) SWEAT dripping on me. ewwwwwww. men who perspire too much need not apply.
Yuk...imagine if it dripped in your mouth as you were yelling for more *shutters*
IT DID ONCE!
this mars in virgo almost had a freak out attack
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LOL!!!! I wanted fight when it almost happen to me. His sweat hit the side of my mouth and inside I was screaming "No! You did that sh*t on purpose!!!!! You're lucky I love your ass...". Did the subtle head thrashing back and forth *wipe face on pillow* back to head thrashing.
*Wiped my face as I type this*
*to
Hmm...
Arrogant, self absorbed, fixated on doing crap in public, being disrespectful, man-whores, not wanting to receive or give oral sex, no foreplay (especially without eye contact).
Oh, I almost forgot guys pressuring you to do anal sex. No thanks.
Posted by DMV
a small penis (less than 5 inches) is a sexual deal breaker.2.) quiet men. mars in virgo needs a verbally responsive person to let me know im doing a good job.
3.) men who just lay there. im a worker in the bedroom, but shit venus in cap is keeping score on your part.
4.) men who want to cuddle afterwards. omg, either get ready for the next round, make me some food, or get the hell out.
5.) men with no rhythm. no motion of the ocean.
6.) men who does use their fingers. sheesh. watch a porno or something.
7.) SWEAT dripping on me. ewwwwwww. men who perspire too much need not apply.Oh, god. I can't stop laughing- this is hysterical! (I did feel the urge to throw my fist in the air when I read #2. Could not agree more. I'm a verbal creature, sans doute.)
But, truly, you don't like to cuddle? At all? My mind, it's... boggled.
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naw, not really into the cuddling thing after sex. if we're on the couch watching tv and you want to cuddle, fine by me, i enjoy that. but like right after sex. feels a bit unnatural to me. it may take me years to cuddle up with someone immediately after sex. i feel uncomfortable.
girl, i dont even like to hug or touch people. unless im smashing. only then is physcial touch of the utmost importance.
u feel me with #2 right?! funny thing is, im not very verbal myself.
Posted by exoskeleton
lol, my aries friend was once kissing a dude with bad breath and told him so. aries went to the bathroom and came back with toothpaste on his finger for him. dude said nothing and just scrubbed his teeth and they resumed.kinda awkward/insulting, but hilarious. 😛
hahahahahahaha
Posted by ninjafish
My deal breaker would be wanting to sleep around or have orgies. I'm way too possessive for that, tyvm.
^ Same here....massive dealbreaker
Hygiene is a biggie and I have a thing about smooth skin...I don't think I could deal with a man who has skin problems.
A dash of respect and care and we're good to go.
girl, i dont even like to hug or touch people. unless im smashing. only then is physcial touch of the utmost importance.
u feel me with #2 right?! funny thing is, im not very verbal myself.
Oh, my god, you would HATE me! 😉 If I care for someone, there's so much warmth in me when I'm in their presence. I *need* to touch them. Smell them, be near them. I need it.
What do you do? Pull away or just create a little distance? That makes me sad- I don't know why because you sound totally at ease with it.
You remind me of my sister, a Scorp. Like you, she's very, very cool and particular about physical affection. I don't understand. No comprendo!
Yes, I definitely feel you about talking in bed. It's non-negotiable. It could be loving-talk or the opposite of that, depends on what's going down. But I TALK, you better believe it.
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im okay with touch, just not immediately after sex. touching and hugging people takes time and me getting to know you. i absolutely cringe inside when people try to give me an unwarranted touch. i never got how people can just readily embrace strangers or people they hardly know.after sex, i usually get up and go do something lol. the first time i had sex with a scorp, after he came in my mouth, i rolled over and closed my eyes. he started talking to me and changed positions on the bed so that he wouldnt talk to my back. then he demanded i open my eyes and gave me a bear hug.
it was all a bit uncomfortable. i didnt know him like that. had this been a year or 2 down the road, i would have welcomed the embrace.
Most of the deal-breakers mentioned here... seem to have more to do with lack of chemical compatibility... which is a deal-breaker for me. It is something difficult to find, but when one finds it, sex becomes surreal and intoxicating. It is found in the first whiff of the perfume on her skin... some perfumes are unrecognizable on another... it is her pheromones coming through. With chemical compatibility her body odor is arousing... and the taste of her wet skin taunting. Every piece of her bidding to be seduced... to be inhaled... her entire body becomes the pleasure... the desire to be saturated by her... the drinking of her dew.... the insatiable hunger... hungering for more.
Doesn't anyone here know what the hell I'm talking about ??!!!
Posted by tbirdnot wanting to receive or give oral sex
This is one I don't get. I can understand not wanting to give it, but who doesn't like to receive it?!!
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You know I have no freaking idea. I love to give oral, and receive it. So...*shrugs shoulders* Maybe it is an intimacy issue or something? I mean going down on a person... you can't get more intimate than that, imo.
Posted by ninjafish
My deal breaker would be wanting to sleep around or have orgies. I'm way too possessive for that, tyvm.^ Same here....massive dealbreaker
Hygiene is a biggie and I have a thing about smooth skin...I don't think I could deal with a man who has skin problems.
A dash of respect and care and we're good to go.
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When I read your post, I thought you must be a virgo and yes, I am correct! lol.
I don't want a guy who has been sticking his Mr. Winky in every hole on the planet. I can't be with a guy who is like that. I don't think you have self control if you can do any and everyone. Oh, I have a Taurus moon and Venus so I'm WAY too possessive (this normally kicks in after I sleep with a guy).
Posted by David13
Most of the deal-breakers mentioned here... seem to have more to do with lack of chemical compatibility... which is a deal-breaker for me. It is something difficult to find, but when one finds it, sex becomes surreal and intoxicating. It is found in the first whiff of the perfume on her skin... some perfumes are unrecognizable on another... it is her pheromones coming through. With chemical compatibility her body odor is arousing... and the taste of her wet skin taunting. Every piece of her bidding to be seduced... to be inhaled... her entire body becomes the pleasure... the desire to be saturated by her... the drinking of her dew.... the insatiable hunger... hungering for more.Doesn't anyone here know what the hell I'm talking about ??!!!
Indeed!
Posted by David13
Most of the deal-breakers mentioned here... seem to have more to do with lack of chemical compatibility... which is a deal-breaker for me. It is something difficult to find, but when one finds it, sex becomes surreal and intoxicating. It is found in the first whiff of the perfume on her skin... some perfumes are unrecognizable on another... it is her pheromones coming through. With chemical compatibility her body odor is arousing... and the taste of her wet skin taunting. Every piece of her bidding to be seduced... to be inhaled... her entire body becomes the pleasure... the desire to be saturated by her... the drinking of her dew.... the insatiable hunger... hungering for more.Doesn't anyone here know what the hell I'm talking about ??!!!
Posted by David13
Most of the deal-breakers mentioned here... seem to have more to do with lack of chemical compatibility... which is a deal-breaker for me. It is something difficult to find, but when one finds it, sex becomes surreal and intoxicating. It is found in the first whiff of the perfume on her skin... some perfumes are unrecognizable on another... it is her pheromones coming through. With chemical compatibility her body odor is arousing... and the taste of her wet skin taunting. Every piece of her bidding to be seduced... to be inhaled... her entire body becomes the pleasure... the desire to be saturated by her... the drinking of her dew.... the insatiable hunger... hungering for more.Doesn't anyone here know what the hell I'm talking about ??!!!
Completely and utterly! That's why many of the demands made by the posters on this thread would be deemed as deal breakers in themselves.
Sex is carnal and involves a lot of exertion (usually from the male) but some of you wouldn't tolerate sweating?!!! What fucking planet do you lot live on? The 50th grey moon in the Shade Galaxy?! As long as the body is relatively clean (and let's face it, no body can ever be 100% clean at any one point in time), what's the issue? Sweating is a natural bodily function and various factors will affect the possibility of any body odour (diet being one of them). When you meet the right person, such neuroses should not come into play. Fucking sort it out. Sheez!
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All your points are valid, but I believe the distinction between sweating and excessive sweating was made. You know what the difference is. |Like the difference between a nice wet kiss and someone leaving a gallon of spit in your mouth.
Ahhh... PhoenixRising... I just realized you are a Scorpio. All of what you have said here adds up now.
An ex of mine had a Scorpio father... the man drove me crazy !!! Going to her parents house was like visiting a hospital. If you ate cake at his house without a plate, for example, he required it to be eaten over the sink ! He had anti-bacterial soap anywhere that water could flow... he'd remind people to use it after eating said cake ! The guy had a rule for everything. I imagine he would be the founder of the full-body condom... if there really is a such a thing. Maybe he didn't need it though... apparently he went to the doctor about having some prostate trouble. The doctor asked him how often he was having sex ! His answer was 'once every month or two'. The doctor prescribed him to have sex 3 times a week. I'm sure he had rules in the bedroom too !
The difference between sweating and excessive sweating ? The difference between a wet kiss and a wetter kiss ? Again, it all depends on chemical compatibility.
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
@ DMV
You couldn't give him a hug, but you let him come in your mouth—? Bwahahahahahahahah. I'm sorry, that shit sounded so backwards....
isnt it though! i dont get it either. but sexual contact is much more easier to do then nonsexual contact.
Posted by David13
Most of the deal-breakers mentioned here... seem to have more to do with lack of chemical compatibility... which is a deal-breaker for me. It is something difficult to find, but when one finds it, sex becomes surreal and intoxicating. It is found in the first whiff of the perfume on her skin... some perfumes are unrecognizable on another... it is her pheromones coming through. With chemical compatibility her body odor is arousing... and the taste of her wet skin taunting. Every piece of her bidding to be seduced... to be inhaled... her entire body becomes the pleasure... the desire to be saturated by her... the drinking of her dew.... the insatiable hunger... hungering for more.Doesn't anyone here know what the hell I'm talking about ??!!!
Completely and utterly! That's why many of the demands made by the posters on this thread would be deemed as deal breakers in themselves.
Sex is carnal and involves a lot of exertion (usually from the male) but some of you wouldn't tolerate sweating?!!! What fucking planet do you lot live on? The 50th grey moon in the Shade Galaxy?! As long as the body is relatively clean (and let's face it, no body can ever be 100% clean at any one point in time), what's the issue? Sweating is a natural bodily function and various factors will affect the possibility of any body odour (diet being one of them). When you meet the right person, such neuroses should not come into play. Fucking sort it out. Sheez!
All your points are valid, but I believe the distinction between sweating and excessive sweating was made. You know what the difference is. |Like the difference between a nice wet kiss and someone leaving a gallon of spit in your mouth.
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yes. the shit is just gross. sweat dripping like rain droplets on my face is a turn off
Posted by David13
Most of the deal-breakers mentioned here... seem to have more to do with lack of chemical compatibility... which is a deal-breaker for me. It is something difficult to find, but when one finds it, sex becomes surreal and intoxicating. It is found in the first whiff of the perfume on her skin... some perfumes are unrecognizable on another... it is her pheromones coming through. With chemical compatibility her body odor is arousing... and the taste of her wet skin taunting. Every piece of her bidding to be seduced... to be inhaled... her entire body becomes the pleasure... the desire to be saturated by her... the drinking of her dew.... the insatiable hunger... hungering for more.Doesn't anyone here know what the hell I'm talking about ??!!!
*fans self*
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J'ai pens? ?? toi ! 😉
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If I know that I would like to have sex with a men, talking about it first is something I like to do just to see what they are into sexually. So I met this aries/taurus April 20 and as we are conversing he says he doesn't do oral on women yet he Really Really enjoys when it is done for him, sorry this is a major deal breaker and this let's me know you are a selfish lover also. So besides him saying this, we had fool around a little before we had this talk and I like his package and though it was a good size therefore let me just have sex with him and maybe he can do that good enough to where he doesn't need to do the oral. He was so boring in bed it was terrible, so boring and blah to me I wouldn't give him a second chance it's not worth adding miles to my vagina Lol, I save that for the ones who know how to please me and I don't have to teach them, so this thread is me wondering if any of you have deal breakers, things that the other person must do?
also what is your sun sign, moon, and mars
Me
Sun: Scorp
Moon: Taurus
Mars: Sagg