Pisces man left me for his ex. Will he come back t

Understanding Pisces men and their relationship tendencies can be complex. In this discussion, a Taurus woman shares her experience of a six-month relationship with a Pisces man who left her for his ex. The conversation covers themes of emotional weakness, past connections, and the influence of ex-partners. Many users provide insights into Pisces men's behavior, emotional struggles, and their tendency to be dreamers. By reading this thread, you will gain a deeper understanding of how Pisces men handle past relationships and what signs might indicate whether they will come back. This discussion offers valuable perspectives for anyone navigating love with Pisces men.

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Bebo2014 on Wednesday, November 12, 2014 and has 40 replies.

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I'm a Taurus woman dated a Pisces for 6 months. We just broke up two weeks ago because his ex came back In the picture. He dated her(Capricorn) for 4 years and they were broken up for 3 years. I am very mad at him because he never told me that he still had feelings for her. I also know he never meant to intentionally hurt me. It was her who contacted him two months ago when she found out he is still single. she contacted him to patch things up. This was going on behind my back for two or three months while we were dating. He is happy that she is back in his life but he also misses me. And when we were arguing he mumbled "oh god why she is came back". What was that for? He had to let me go because there is no way he can work things out with her while he's with me. He is comparing my 6 months with 4 years of his relationship and that's not fair. he kept saying he has to go back because she moved back in town for him. He also was pressured to marry her by next year. Why can't he take the stand for himself? Why he is so weak emotionally? It's nice to work things out with ex but promise to marry her before they even start dating again— And he didn't want to lose the chance with her do he said yes. It sounds so stupid to me. He left what we had good just because he was so curious what's it's like to be with her again. He is a dreamer for sure. I left him alone now. But I still wish he comes back to me. Will he??

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This is a tough situation. I'm of the mind once a man leaves you for another woman, it's over. But he might flame out with her and then come running back to you. Will that be enough? Can you forgive him? Will it be better the 2nd time around? And also, if he's flirting you up and keeping you on the line, he's treating you like the "fall back" girl and not treating his now-girlfriend very well either. Of course you can say he's confused and justify it sideways to Sunday but I think that kind of behavior reflects very poorly on a man's character. Plus, he was seeing both of you at the same time at the end and hiding that from you. Again, serious character/maturity issue here. I'm old school. I think if a man loves you enough, no ex, no other woman is going to lure him away. If that happens I read that to mean he was never that into me. But that might not always be the case. I just don't think this situation is good for you or that it will turn out into "happily ever after." For that reason I think you should cut all contact and wait for someone whose got more to bring to your table. Don't ever settle for scraps from a man's table.

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Thanks for the reply. I believe people can learn from their mistake. I do believe he is capable of trusting once he made up his mind. People I have dated always came back to me for second chance and I never given them second chance and never thought about my past exs to come back. But i do wish for him and only because I had a very strong connection which is worth giving a second try. He might made the best decision to get back with his ex and only time will tell. But until then I am doing whatever it takes to tell myself he was not worth my attention.

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I'm sorry. I know you're hurting, but maybe it's good that this happened before things got serious (I'm assuming that "he is still single" means you weren't exclusive yet).

A person will rarely tell you that they have feelings for an ex. I dated an Aries once, who swore up and down that he was over his ex. He ended up breaking things off with me after a few months b/c she was back in the picture. Although I was hurt, I respected him for his honesty.

I wouldn't give him any hope, nor the option to come back. If that's where he wants to go, that's where he needs to stay.

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Thanks all for the reply. Yes I am happy that he is getting a second chance to be with someone he loves. I don't know that girl but I wouldn't want him to break her heart to be with me. I'm upset that he led me on while he was making future plans with his ex. I asked him if you were so much in love with her then why didn't you ever contact her? He responded "my ego". His ego and pride was bigger than his love?? He does act very innocent because he himself didn't know how and when this whole thing happened. He didn't think she would move back in his life.

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Why do you think he led you on? Did you ever ask if he was dating anyone else? Dating can be tricky that way. Seems like maybe he didn't want to reveal his cards too soon...at least while he was trying to figure out what or who he wanted. Sometimes it's best to keep your options open, until both individuals have agreed to date exclusively or become official.

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I thought he was really insecure and sensitive. He couldn't take any criticism and he definitely didn't like smart/intelligent women.

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First off lets do the math here...

Ex girl 4 yrs together broken up for 3 yrs

He dated or did what ever for 2.5 yrs. The remaining .5 he dated you Ms. Taurus.

Out of that .5 time frame within three months of dating him he had his ex contact him because she stated he was still single..which he was not because we all know he was dating who? You.

For the remainder of the two-three months they flirted and began to patch stuff up then poof he leaves with excuses coming out his ass as to why. No one is pressured to do many things..fucking, marrying and committing a crime are some of them.....These are decisions that are made. He made em.

You then want his sorry ass back and ask will he come back.

Do you really want this man back? You had no damn relationship. The .5 was not about you it was about her. You were an option. And you lost. Why would you want that back? You deserve to be a priority and if this sorry ass man made you one he would not have entertained the contact she made with him and said he was not SINGLE. He would have pushed her aside and made sure you were his main concern.

So since he did not Ms. Taurus let his sorry ass go. Let him swim in the dirty water he went back to. They deserve each other. You deserve better. The end..no more thinking about this piece of crap.

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We were dating exclusively but we weren't in a serious relationship cuz he didn't promise me anything. I did introduce him to my family and he knew my intentions were to get serious with him. We were heading to right direction but I didn't know his secret agenda. Oh forgot to mention he threw the "Love" word around me so I don't look at other options. I was falling for him and I did let him know but he always took it as joke and got scared of love talk. He did have an ego issue for that he never really opened up to his true feelings to me. he didn't mind holding my purse in public just so my hands don't get tired. Carried me to my car after club so I don't hurt myself in heels. Yet his ego was so big to tell me exactly how he felt. Mannnnn!!

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Posted by Bebo2014
I thought he was really insecure and sensitive. He couldn't take any criticism and he definitely didn't like smart/intelligent women.

And it's this kind of man who a) doesn't commit b) steps out on you behind your back and/or c) leaves you for another broad. And haven't you seen enough of all that with this guy? Letting go is hard to do. It really does sound like you're better off without him. He's not the only fish in the sea.

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Posted by Bebo2014
We were dating exclusively but we weren't in a serious relationship cuz he didn't promise me anything. I did introduce him to my family and he knew my intentions were to get serious with him. We were heading to right direction but I didn't know his secret agenda. Oh forgot to mention he threw the "Love" word around me so I don't look at other options. I was falling for him and I did let him know but he always took it as joke and got scared of love talk. He did have an ego issue for that he never really opened up to his true feelings to me. he didn't mind holding my purse in public just so my hands don't get tired. Carried me to my car after club so I don't hurt myself in heels. Yet his ego was so big to tell me exactly how he felt. Mannnnn!!

Don't hang your hat on any cowboy whose not exclusive. You let your heart get hooked before you had any commitment from this guy. Talk is cheap and doesn't mean anything when the actions aren't telling the same story.

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Posted by Bebo2014

He had to let me go because there is no way he can work things out with her while he's with me.

And he didn't want to lose the chance with her do he said yes.

You weren't a couple. He considered himself single. She is worth more to him, since you are disposable, while she is an opportunity to be missed.

There doesn't appear to be anything wrong here except your ignorance.

In fact, you being this ignorant is probably why you weren't worth much to him to begin with.

Never the less, he could have chosen to treat you bad, but, instead he decided to be honest with you.

Again, there doesn't appear to be anything wrong with that. So, it's not clear why you pine away for someone who chose another woman over you.

Are you retarded?

There's a Taurus woman on the Virgo board who also appears to be pretty dumb ... maybe it's in the stars.

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Posted by Bebo2014

..... when she found out he is still single. she contacted him

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Posted by Bebo2014

We were dating exclusively but we weren't in a serious relationship cuz he didn't promise me anything.

You weren't in an exclusive relationship if he considered himself single.

You don't appear to realize that.

If there are no promises to you, then you aren't exclusive.

Why don't you know that?

Are you a child?

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Thank you all! It was lesson learned experience for me. I was blind for 6 months because I didn't want to see the red flags. I over analyze everything but this time I choose not to because I went with flow.

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But you two weren't in a serious relationship, so really he was free to talk to or see whomever. He did eventually tell you.

The messed up thing is him throwing around the "L" word. Honestly, my brothers were just telling me that before they decided to get serious, they used the "L" word, they introduced women to their family. They gave these women hope that they could potential be something more, but strung them along. It's not what they say, it's what they do.

The fact that could tell you he loved you, but got scared of love talk, should have been a warning...he wasn't sure or it wasn't true.

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No I'm not a child.

What he told people that's out of my control. He wasn't stupid. He just played his cards right and I played my cards with my eyes closed.

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Exactly saggyrl!!!

It's not the first time I dated someone. Ppl who want to get to know you use their words properly and keep distance. There is no L word and attachment. He left no distance between us. If I don't pick up my phone he constantly called me until I pick up. If I'm out with friends he would FaceTime me. Of course he could talk to anyone who am I stop him. But I'm not a jealous type of woman. His actions were strong and I felt safe but I didn't see he would throw his ex card on me. everytime I went out he would ask me if I met anyone or gave my number to anyone else? That was his way of finding out if I was still into him or not.

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Posted by Bebo2014
Thank you all! It was lesson learned experience for me. I was blind for 6 months because I didn't want to see the red flags. I over analyze everything but this time I choose not to because I went with flow.

Meh, just wait a few months until he realizes he's not that interested in her after all... That's a long time to be broken up and get back together. A flip flopping fish.

Bet he will you in a few months 🙂

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Never mind. I don't know how I completely missed "he's still single". After 6 months?

You were "exclusively dating" but not in a serious relationship and he used the word "love".... Hmph. Is there some reason you didn't call him on the mixed messages he was sending before getting further involved? I'm not sure he is the only one to blame for "leading you on". Sounds like you ran with a few ideas yourself.

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Oh yes I definitely feel guilty for letting him lead me on. I did call him out but it didn't get anywhere. It was frustrating. I felt I was talking to a child. If I ignored him or get mad, he played the sympathy card so I feel bad hurting his feelings. Whenever I tried keeping my distance, he tried the revered psychology on me. I knew what was going on. I gave him space and wasn't up on his case asking him to commit because he gave me enough confidence that there was no woman in his life. He knew I wasn't talking to any other guy cuz he constantly needed assurance from me. So confusing I know!!!

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Posted by Bebo2014
We were dating exclusively but we weren't in a serious relationship cuz he didn't promise me anything. I did introduce him to my family and he knew my intentions were to get serious with him. We were heading to right direction but I didn't know his secret agenda. Oh forgot to mention he threw the "Love" word around me so I don't look at other options. I was falling for him and I did let him know but he always took it as joke and got scared of love talk. He did have an ego issue for that he never really opened up to his true feelings to me. he didn't mind holding my purse in public just so my hands don't get tired. Carried me to my car after club so I don't hurt myself in heels. Yet his ego was so big to tell me exactly how he felt. Mannnnn!!

This is even worse...you made a pseudo relationship. You are talking as if you knew what he was thinking when he never said a word and reality him not saying anything says he wasn't into you he just tolerated you until he got what he truly wanted...make this a lesson learned.

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Posted by Bebo2014
No I'm not a child.

What he told people that's out of my control. He wasn't stupid. He just played his cards right and I played my cards with my eyes closed.

There were no cards..no one was at the table but you. He was off with is ex. This calmness and niceness you show is heartbreaking to say the least. You wasted 6 months of your life pretending to be in a relationship and thinking someone loved you. Then you want to make excuses for such behavior. This really wasn't him. This was all you. You broke your own heart. I have been here being silly it's why I am coming down hard on you. You have to do better as a woman and know your worth. Let a man earn you.

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Posted by LadyOfRebirth
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hate to say it, but you are better off. pisces males??_ 😢

find yourself a reliable type, you need it taurus 🙂

Wtf does any of this have to do with the guy being a Pisces male?

Did he cheat on her? No.

People change their minds, and have a right to do so. If anything he hasn't lead her on.

Ironic that you're so judgemental tho, I remember when you joined dxp your Taurus was emotionally cheating with you while having a gf.
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Thanks...was going to say same. Amazing isn't it? Women scorned....smh

To the OP...be glad you weren't with him 6 years..I realize it doesn't hurt less, but at least you found out within a year's time, give him his space, maybe it's closure that will happen with the two of them and what they both need. If he comes back, make sure HE'S SURE before you jump in with both feet. In the mean time keep yourself busy and move on. Good luck!

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wtf kind of response is that?

she isn't moving on .. she's here telling us she wants him

People don't read, and when they do, they don't comprehend.

she isn't moving on ... she's wanting to know how to get in deeper

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P-Angel

You seem like a tough woman. What hurts me the most that I always considered myself a strong person and people look up to me as a strong person and I disappointed them and myself with this whole situation. I want to feel strong and in control like I was before I met him. I def learned a good lesson and it definitely taught me to be more responsible for my own actions. Yes I will be more careful guys with my heart next time!! And being ignorance towards myself is the dumbest thing I have ever done.
Why do I want him back you would ask? Perhaps I don't. When you go thru heartbreak your heart takes over your mind but I know over time I will be in control and think more clearly and get all my answers.
Thanks
(Whatever happened, happened for a reason - we just don't know the reason yet)

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please answer this OP: why the hell would you go and degrade yourself so much? why would anyone with one bit of self-respect want a scum bag like him back in their life? don't you love yourself even one bit?

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Hate to say it but he went back because he still loves her and wants to be with her. He's sugar coating things...and I think youre being naive...both of you are doing both to not hurt you. I get like this when bad stuff happens.

Question though...why would you EVER take him back?

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Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Posted by jeannegrey
hate to say it, but you are better off. pisces males??_ 😢

find yourself a reliable type, you need it taurus 🙂

Wtf does any of this have to do with the guy being a Pisces male?

Did he cheat on her? No.

People change their minds, and have a right to do so. If anything he hasn't lead her on.

Ironic that you're so judgemental tho, I remember when you joined dxp your Taurus was emotionally cheating with you while having a gf.
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Posted by Bebo2014
Thanks for the reply. I believe people can learn from their mistake. I do believe he is capable of trusting once he made up his mind. People I have dated always came back to me for second chance and I never given them second chance and never thought about my past exs to come back. But i do wish for him and only because I had a very strong connection which is worth giving a second try. He might made the best decision to get back with his ex and only time will tell. But until then I am doing whatever it takes to tell myself he was not worth my attention.

Connections? Do you not realize how many connections youre going to have with people?

I was just reading about this.

This who connection line that women use is starting to get out of hand.

SO WHAT? A connection is just a feeling...a drug...youre trying to get a hit for christ sakes.

CRACK IS WACK

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Posted by Bebo2014
Thanks for the reply. I believe people can learn from their mistake. I do believe he is capable of trusting once he made up his mind. People I have dated always came back to me for second chance and I never given them second chance and never thought about my past exs to come back. But i do wish for him and only because I had a very strong connection which is worth giving a second try. He might made the best decision to get back with his ex and only time will tell. But until then I am doing whatever it takes to tell myself he was not worth my attention.

And no offense but youre not doing whatever it takes because youve been alluding to taking him back. Its even in the title. Lay off the pipe man.

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Ill be honest. No woman is going to move back for the guy and not tell him. He knew it probably and just didnt tell you

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Posted by tiziani
To be fair, he is leaving with the intention of marrying someone. If he had left just to be with another girlfriend I would say he is flaky. But he seems to have a clear idea of where his commitment lies.

No doubt it sucks for you but like others said, better he made a quick decision 6 months in rather than drag it out. I actually think he handled things old school myself.

THANK YOU. This man is agreeing to marry this woman and you're like "Ill take him back." COME. ON.

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Posted by Bebo2014

We were dating exclusively but we weren't in a serious relationship cuz he didn't promise me anything.

You weren't in an exclusive relationship if he considered himself single.

You don't appear to realize that.

If there are no promises to you, then you aren't exclusive.

Why don't you know that?

Are you a child?

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She said they were dating exclusively...not in an exclusive relationsip...they're different.

btw...relax on her. sheesh

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I cant believe there are people in here even talking about what to do when he comes back or that he will..

SO WHAT?

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Thanks Roam!!

Yes I also believe no woman will move until she is sure he is taking her back. We were still in touch with each other after they gotten back together. I realized he is cheating on her with me now and I don't want to become "other woman". I told him not to contact me until he realize what you wants. Don't contact me and don't mess with my head or play any games. It's hurting him too that he had to let me go but that's his choice and now he has to live with that.

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Posted by PhoenixRising
Never mind. I don't know how I completely missed "he's still single". After 6 months?

You were "exclusively dating" but not in a serious relationship and he used the word "love".... Hmph. Is there some reason you didn't call him on the mixed messages he was sending before getting further involved? I'm not sure he is the only one to blame for "leading you on". Sounds like you ran with a few ideas yourself.

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The whole problem is you.

The whole problem with all of you women in here .... is you.

here's why:

Guys says one word, just one fucking word LOVE ... and you fall all over yourselves and all over anyone in the vicinity.

You forget values, you forget respect, you forget standards .... because you are so desperate to be wanted that as soon as the guy utters this one word .... you make utter fool out of yourself.

Men aren't stupid they know that .... that's why they say it when it isn't meant. They will say it the first time, to see how much of a fool you are. And then they will decided how they are going to treat you after your reaction.

There's no doubt in my mind that they next guy you have, the moment he says this one word .... you will become this same fool again because that's what desperate women do.

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Posted by SpinCycle
First off lets do the math here...

Ex girl 4 yrs together broken up for 3 yrs

He dated or did what ever for 2.5 yrs. The remaining .5 he dated you Ms. Taurus.

Out of that .5 time frame within three months of dating him he had his ex contact him because she stated he was still single..which he was not because we all know he was dating who? You.

For the remainder of the two-three months they flirted and began to patch stuff up then poof he leaves with excuses coming out his ass as to why. No one is pressured to do many things..fucking, marrying and committing a crime are some of them.....These are decisions that are made. He made em.

You then want his sorry ass back and ask will he come back.

Do you really want this man back? You had no damn relationship. The .5 was not about you it was about her. You were an option. And you lost. Why would you want that back? You deserve to be a priority and if this sorry ass man made you one he would not have entertained the contact she made with him and said he was not SINGLE. He would have pushed her aside and made sure you were his main concern.

So since he did not Ms. Taurus let his sorry ass go. Let him swim in the dirty water he went back to. They deserve each other. You deserve better. The end..no more thinking about this piece of crap.

Thank you!!!!!! Im glad someone has said it.