sweethearts
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Sorry guys, but I have to ask this question
LOL!!! I'm not sure.
Yeah thats kinda what I figured... pity cos I'm really not the maturnal type!
That's what I'm getting too Bella....they show their maturity when they first meet you but it's not long before that charade disappears and your left with another kid to deal with!! I thought I'd given up my man hating ways...but they are coming back, I'm trying to fight it though...
Perhaps it's just a period of time in my stars...(any imput I'm Libra) at the moment though I'm ready to get in a boxing ring with a few people(men)!
Perhaps it's just a period of time in my stars...(any imput I'm Libra) at the moment though I'm ready to get in a boxing ring with a few people(men)!
You have a point sweethearts. I only have female friends because I find most guys my age immature. I've even worked with men well ove the age of 40 and I don't know how their wives put out with them . Seems men are at their peak of maturity at the age of 30, then they start "regressing" haha
I know it's just me, I have little tolerance at the moment and just need to stare clear of any male contact..think I've just been irritated lately by 4 so have reverted to thinking the worst of them all... Breathe slow and deep...
@Ian and this from a man that steals kisses and runs! Are you being agreeable to taunt?
@enfant, you could have a point there...find a 30 year old and then trade in when the maturity level drops? ha
Hahah yeah Bella, you know that blank look that blondes get...I GET THAT!!!
@Ian and this from a man that steals kisses and runs! Are you being agreeable to taunt?
@enfant, you could have a point there...find a 30 year old and then trade in when the maturity level drops? ha
Hahah yeah Bella, you know that blank look that blondes get...I GET THAT!!!
OOwww your almost old enough Ian.... Well so long as you promise not to throw your toys out of the cot if I wont play your game 😉
Thats because he is still innocent...wait til he meets a girl!!!
No, they never grow up and their toys just get more and more expensive with age!!! My ex husband is 43 and he still acts like he's 23! But, I kinda like a man that doesn't act quite his age because I act and look younger than I am anyway. But there is a difference between immaturity and irresponsibility..... I don't like an irresponsible man. That's a whole other ball game!
i can be mature when i'm working tho but other then that i still act like a kid haha
Posted by No1delete2
sweethearts: Do men ever really mature—
Well, let me ask: Do women really want men to mature?
From what I've seen... not necessarily!
My younger Scorpio Brother is just a Big Boy, and lots of women find that attractive - for a wide variety of reasons. But, let's face it: Grown up guys like me are not as "exciting" as the immature guys who have a long string of short-term relationships... I don't create drama, because I don't like drama - but lots of you ladies crave it...
About the immaturity...
Male dependency begins at home. Some parents do too much for their children, and they don't learn to be fully functional adults until they are (often FORCED!) to move out on their own... OR, In the case of my own parents, by the time the two youngest kids were born, us three older ones had worn them out, and they didn't have it in them to be as tough with the babies as they needed to be...
You could be on to something here. Some very good points. I know I am guilty about the maturity portion to a degree.
As I stated earlier, I like to act carefree and not quite my age. Whereas I would agree that drama is derivative of immature behaviour, I do however believe that excitement doesn't always have to be a direct result of only drama. Personally, I don't like drama and that is a form of excitement that I can do without. Nor do I want someone with a history of short term relationships. I just want someone that is fun, carefree, committed and responsible with his financial affairs and wants to have a good time with me. There is a time and a place for immaturity and sometimes it can be refreshing in the right situations.
Posted by deemnsout4ever
Once your responsibilities are tended too, why not just fuck around and have a laugh ??
Agreed
Well, let me ask: Do women really want men to mature?
DY I think there is a difference in being young at heart and immature. But your point is valid, i have noticed the mummies boys and in fact that is one question I always or want to know about. How much they love their mothers...now that's a double edged sword!!!
DY I think there is a difference in being young at heart and immature. But your point is valid, i have noticed the mummies boys and in fact that is one question I always or want to know about. How much they love their mothers...now that's a double edged sword!!!
SH - Do pigs fly? 😛 hahahaha j/k
Funny you are talking about this, I was talking to one of my class mates about this. We have come to the conclusion that most don't but if they are mature, they kinda have the boring factor going on. You, know ....just way too serious about life. Yes, it is important to be serious and responsible but not to the point where one becomes a mono tone robot. Make sense? I love young hearted men.....and have grown to appreciate their annoying immaturity. That is just me though. What can you do .....cannot beat them join them in the fun. lol
PD
Funny you are talking about this, I was talking to one of my class mates about this. We have come to the conclusion that most don't but if they are mature, they kinda have the boring factor going on. You, know ....just way too serious about life. Yes, it is important to be serious and responsible but not to the point where one becomes a mono tone robot. Make sense? I love young hearted men.....and have grown to appreciate their annoying immaturity. That is just me though. What can you do .....cannot beat them join them in the fun. lol
PD
Oh I appreciate a man who has great respect and affection for their mother, because thats the way they treat women that they love but when push comes to shove he better be prepared to back me if something important comes up or I'm out of there!!! When I say important I'm meaning something in our lives...not just general bickering over nothing.
And Sometimes mother-in-laws want to include themselves in you personal problems and I wont have that!!
And Sometimes mother-in-laws want to include themselves in you personal problems and I wont have that!!
NO..............maybe 0.0000000000000000000000001%
Of course they do....when they hit 87 😛
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