Taurus woman and taurus man- post break up

I had been seeing a Taurus man for about 6 months. Taurus man would go hot and cold... we would get close, things would get intimate and we would get close, then he would back off. This last backing off he did I got a bit clingy by texting him often and asking to see him.

Before we met he had been single and celibate for ten years. He is divorced and through many conversations he told me he felt deceived by his ex. He has taken things very slowly and he would question my motives often. It took a while to have sex and then it was very sporadic and seldom. Then all if a sudden he started inviting me over and the sex improved. Then he questions my reasons for wanting sex and tells me he doesn’t trust me because I want sex and have a strong drive and this is one thing about me he is unhappy about. We talk about it often. He quit inviting me over and backed away. The last time we were together he tells me I should examine why I want sex and maybe look for another man who wants a lot of sex. I have been telling him I don’t want another man and it is fine we don’t have sex and just take our time getting to know each other. I have also said maybe we should be friends and develop that aspect without the pressure of romantic expectations since he seems to be struggling with trust.

Well, we have this conversation and I text him asking if I could ask him some questions. He doesn’t really give me an answer. Later that night we run into each but I am drunk and we talk briefly. I leave the bar without saying goodbye then go back in to say goodbye but he’ gone. I call him, it’s late and I am drunk and emotional. He says he doesn’t like this emotional stuff, this isn’t what he wants and basically ends things.

I emailed him a lengthy explanation about myself and sex- very personal and honest.

I have not heard from him and I want to give it time before I see or talk to him. One thing I emphasized in the email was how important our friendship is to me and that I want to be friends.

Will he contact me? Will he want to be friends? I have strong feelings for this man, but I feel given his trust issues it would be better to develop a strong friendship as a basis first... but I pissed him off calling late and being all emotional and needy. I need advice. We are both older, well-established, divorced.