Too much Compatibility

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Aquistorm on Thursday, August 25, 2016 and has 6 replies.

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@Aquistorm
10 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Is there a such thing as too much Compatibility? Not everyone is 100% compatible with each other because nobody is perfect. But as in relationships itself. If there was such thing as 100% compatible, would you date them?

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@Cancan26
10 Years5,000+ Posts

I do believe that there can be a thing as too much compatibility....it can make things boring....or more brotherish....

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@Aquistorm
10 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

100% would be like Adam and Eve, Romeo and Juliet sort of thing. It is unrealistic, but something to think about. It would be everything you want in a partner and vice versa.

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@UrsaMediocre
16 Years1,000+ Posts

At first, I thought 'no' because being with someone who is too much like you would be rather masturabatory without room for growth, but now I wouldn't have a problem with being with someone who was just like me.

I analyzed every relationship (romantic, friendship, family....everything) I've had with a dual cosmodyne calculator (negative numbers = discord or needs work, +10 = average harmony, +20 = harmonious, +30 ideal harmony) and of course, I had high compatibility scores with my closest friends. The highest compatibility score I found was with my last girlfriend (45.65) and some of our shared traits were eerie (from nearly identical embarrassing stories from our pasts to having beauty marks on our hands that mirrored one another). Sadly, that only lasted for 6 months.

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@VenusAquarius
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I did a reading (online astro blog site) for a male who was dating another male with a chart astonishingly almost a complete duplicate to his.

I told him what I saw, concluded. Let's just say that that experience was a perfect example to the saying, "there's a fine line between love and hate."

He then went on to tell me of examples of both extreme heroism and betrayal he experienced from this person.

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@Daddy
10 Years

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