Trying really hard not to flip. Twin sister Pisces

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Um, well, first of all, if you wanted your family to sincerely listen to you, you shouldn't have gotten into a physical fight with your sister. That's no way to get someone to take you seriously.

Secondly, are you just worried about being replaced by her, or do you fear that the girl may end up backstabbing your sister? The former is an immature thought, the second you just can't control. Some people need to learn by experience.

Thirdly, it's your family. No matter how hard she tries to replace you, she can't. So, just ignore her.

Fourthly, you should never say anyone deserves to have a family member be ill or dying. You went through it yourself, you should know how that feels.

Fifthly, maybe she hasn't had a good record or her personality may not be all that great, but maybe she is just insecure or actually genuinely wants to be your sister's friend. You can't pick your sibling's friends, so maybe you should learn where you stand in this situation. Basically, you can do nothing. So, instead of holding all this hate for someone, move on. It will just make your situation with your family even worse if you hold on to your anger like this.
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Because you can't get over your little immature self, you don't go to the funeral ... which means you think your jealousy is more important than the passing of your grandmother.


Obviously, your family enjoys this nice lady and is happy to include her in their lives ... you seem to be the one who they don't enjoy including.


You should check the reality here, and grow up.
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point is, you already flipped. don't claim you're "trying very hard" because that's BS and you're not trying at all. you allowed your own jealousy to escalade into physical contact with your own sister over a friend you don't like. what are you, a child? meanwhile this friend calls your mother "mom" and YOU'RE all butt-hurt, but you couldn't give two shits about how your mother feels.

so why the hell should she care about how you feel? what sympathy do you deserve?

I think it's best you take a step back and reflect on the actions you have taken, because you sound like one selfish tuna. and I'm getting this from across the internet. I don't even know you, I'm not going to pretend to know your life. but your words are so full of drama and "me, me, me," you sound like a child, and it isn't very becoming of you for a first impression. I can only imagine what your family feels... understand the sun doesn't wake up on your shoulders; they're just as entitled to their own feelings about YOU as you are about THEM, and they have every right to be upset.

you need to figure out why you're SO PISSED OFF with your life and what to do about it. stop acting like you're entitled to everything just because you're alive. guess what, you're not entitled to anything, especially with the attitude you've got on now. what have you worked hard for? what have you shown them? why shouldn't they be accepting of this girl as a close family friend...? because you don't like her? well aren't you a queen...

have you thought about the fact that YOU'RE the jealous one here? because you are. it's obvious. have you taken a moment to think about how YOU'RE words and YOU'RE decisions have driven your family away from you? you present nothing valid against this girl other than she's "annoying and ugly." wow, she's such a terrible person. she really should die, as well as everyone who is annoying and ugly to you. you're ugly for being so selfish, conceited and immature.

NOTHING will ever come to you in life through hatred and self-pity. grow up, show some respect to your parents and get your head out of your ass. one day you won't have family anymore and it will be because of your own decisions, and unless you would rather be alone, no one will care about you. your actions and words toward them is disgraceful, considering they have done nothing wrong. you are the one pushing them away.
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Listen, we're all basically saying the same thing. You won't be happy unless you hear what you want, and anything else anyone says can go to hell. You throw out insults to the girl freely and even to us. This is a matter of immaturity.

But, hey, listen, immaturity is not a disease. It's not like being unattractive, either. You can fix it. That's what people do. That's how they grow up. So, honestly, it's not a big deal to let yourself believe you are. Because, right now, you're either in denial or just haven't taken a look at yourself in a while. You know what would make everyone happier(And happy is good, not this anger you're holding over someone)? Is if you helped yourself by looking at your faults and trying to change. If not, you're going to end up bitter and alone. Families don't have the obligation or responsibilties to take care of all your problems and fix them for you. If you keep this up, they'll all alienate you and you won't have any idea after that what is going on with your family nor that girl. All of that will just be gone from your life. And you may say "Well, fine, I wouldn't care much", just remember that this is how you are, and you will certainly repeat it with other people. So instead of replying to this and saying "I'm not immature. You're a fucking idiot.", why don't you stop and think over this all.
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you remind me of one of those kids at the mall who cry, scream! about not getting the toy they so desperately wanted, even though it's totally useless. this thread is a waste of energy. everyone is wasting their time here with you because you're a mule. stubborn and full of yourself. you think your hostility is threatening, your arrogance makes you strong in some way, it doesn't. good luck with your problems and all.
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Posted by P-Angel
Like the DeludedScorpio for example .... who tried to make herself look big by lying. She still has no clue that she was caught, and so is one of those people who are too stupid to know they are, and make a fool out of themselves.


I think that shit is funny, dude.


Likewise, I think it's really funny that you think all of us are lying. : )
Too bad you're too stupid to know when someone is actually lying or not. Which is also hilarious.
Oh wait, I didn't mention the fact that you post about all of us 'liars' where ever you go. Man, this stalkerish behavior makes you look even more like a fool! Haha, this so fun.