Upset Pisces? What's his deal?

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Capstar03
@Capstar03
8 Years

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I've been dating my Pisces bf for 2 years. We are in our late 20's.

So yesterday we were in the car and he's texting while he's driving us in my car like he often does (which drives me crazy and he knows this) So I snapped at him about it. Then he's rubbernecking to look at this truck that's for sale and isn't in his lane so I get after him again. So he snaps back "I hate when you correct me while I'm driving" so I reply "well maybe if you'd f***ing drive and I felt safe I wouldn't say anything" He also drives for a living so I think he's extra sensitive when I correct him. But seriously! He's not even good at texting while driving and it scares me! Am I wrong?!

So then he tells me "maybe you should just drive" (Which he knows I can't currently due to a medical issue I'm having with my hands going numb and weak) So that really upset me. I responded with "Yeah, I wish I could!" And he snapped back "yeah I wish you would too"

Ive basically been ignoring him completely since then (which was last night) until he comes to his senses and apologizes. Now he's ignoring me back?! What the heck. I feel like he's totally in the wrong for the driving thing AND for saying what he did to me about driving. He never apologized for being irresponsible while driving or for what he said. He usually texts me while he's at work (probably while driving ?) so I'll guess we'll see.

What do I do now? Am I being too ridged? I'm a Capricorn so I know it's in my nature but I let a lot of things slide until I feel like I'm personally attacked. I realize I wasn't so nice about texting and driving but it's pretty irresponsible to be doing it esp when you're swerving around not paying attention to other cars! How can I help him understand? I've been nice about it in the past and he even agreed that it isn't a good idea to be doing it...

Now I don't understand why I'm being ignored. Any thoughts please?

I should add that we usually get along great and he is very attentive and sweet normally. This texting thing is seriously one of my only annoyances with him but I feel it's more of a safety issue.