Venus in Scorpio

What is ** love to you ** what do you normally expect for someone that says they ** love you **

typical dxp. trying the same story from other angles. other aspects. other boards..........

yet the main question stays the same.

Love is like a spring bear.

The reason for my question coz I think Venus in Scorpio views love on a whole other level. I think love for them is no PAIN no Gain.. I am a Taurus sun so to me love is extemely peaceful.. But I don't think

I don't think the view of love isn't the same

Posted by Fleshpot
Love is like a spring bear.

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Fleshpot
Love is like a spring bear.

Please explain deeper

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It's a quote from one of my favorite books.

“I really like you, Midori. A lot.”
“How much is a lot?”
“Like a spring bear,” I said.
“A spring bear?” Midori looked up again. “What’s that all about? A spring bear.”
“You’re walking through a field all by yourself one day in spring, and this sweet little bear cub with velvet fur and shiny little eyes comes walking along. And he says to you, “Hi, there, little lady. Want to tumble with me?’ So you and the bear cub spend the whole day in each other’s arms, tumbling down this clover-covered hill. Nice, huh?”
“Yeah. Really nice.”
“That’s how much I like you.”

”• Haruki Murakami, Norwegian Wood

Love is uplifting, calm, and secure, like a spring bear. A feeling of familiarity, and living for one another's dreams, while not forgetting our own.

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Fleshpot
Love is like a spring bear.

Please explain deeper

It's a quote from one of my favorite books.

“I really like you, Midori. A lot.”
“How much is a lot?”
“Like a spring bear,” I said.
“A spring bear?” Midori looked up again. “What’s that all about? A spring bear.”
“You’re walking through a field all by yourself one day in spring, and this sweet little bear cub with velvet fur and shiny little eyes comes walking along. And he says to you, “Hi, there, little lady. Want to tumble with me?’ So you and the bear cub spend the whole day in each other’s arms, tumbling down this clover-covered hill. Nice, huh?”
“Yeah. Really nice.”
“That’s how much I like you.”

”• Haruki Murakami, Norwegian Wood

Love is uplifting, calm, and secure, like a spring bear. A feeling of familiarity, and living for one another's dreams, while not forgetting our own.

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Thank you for ur explanation! Wow love sounds so peaceful to you... how come that's different to a lot of explanations on the Internet lol

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Posted by saweetz1988
The reason for my question coz I think Venus in Scorpio views love on a whole other level. I think love for them is no PAIN no Gain.. I am a Taurus sun so to me love is extemely peaceful.. But I don't think

So would u walk at the first sign of trouble?

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my stubborn Taurus sun is extrme too. Once I fall deeply in love with someone, I am too stubborn to let it go ... lol well this one has taken me on a one hell of a ride but the passion is more than worth it and it keeps me around . Perhaps my psyche in Scorpio relates very well with Venus Scorpio in a way.. and my sun in Taurus... is too stubborn to let it go after everything we been through...

Posted by saweetz1988
What is ** love to you ** what do you normally expect for someone that says they ** love you **

um.... love?

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Posted by Fleshpot

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Fleshpot
Love is like a spring bear.

Please explain deeper

It's a quote from one of my favorite books.

“I really like you, Midori. A lot.”
“How much is a lot?”
“Like a spring bear,” I said.
“A spring bear?” Midori looked up again. “What’s that all about? A spring bear.”
“You’re walking through a field all by yourself one day in spring, and this sweet little bear cub with velvet fur and shiny little eyes comes walking along. And he says to you, “Hi, there, little lady. Want to tumble with me?’ So you and the bear cub spend the whole day in each other’s arms, tumbling down this clover-covered hill. Nice, huh?”
“Yeah. Really nice.”
“That’s how much I like you.”

”• Haruki Murakami, Norwegian Wood

Love is uplifting, calm, and secure, like a spring bear. A feeling of familiarity, and living for one another's dreams, while not forgetting our own.

I thought it had a twist along the lines of the bear got hungry and mauled them.

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Me too. 😆

Posted by saweetz1988

Thank you for ur explanation! Wow love sounds so peaceful to you... how come that's different to a lot of explanations on the Internet lol

Well, that was just one aspect of it for me. I think that a certain degree of conflict is necessary in order to keep things interesting, and it's unrealistic to expect any relationship to be smooth sailing 100% of the time. But yeah, for the most part, I'd like for it to be peaceful and harmonious. My Libra sun/mars definitely trumps my Scorpio venus card when it comes to love.

I know that for a lot of others with ViS, any instantaneous feeling of stability usually ends up turning into complacency, and boredom, so to speak. They seem to place more value on things they have to struggle for, which makes sense. There should be a distinction between passion and drama, though. The former drives, while the latter destructs.

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I thought it had a twist along the lines of the bear got hungry and mauled them.

You sound awfully disappointed. 😄

Posted by DwellingOnMove
typical dxp. trying the same story from other angles. other aspects. other boards..........

yet the main question stays the same.

She's very insecure.

Posted by saweetz1988
The reason for my question coz I think Venus in Scorpio views love on a whole other level. I think love for them is no PAIN no Gain.. I am a Taurus sun so to me love is extemely peaceful.. But I don't think

I disagree.

Venus is Scorpio love - You are mine heart, body and soul. I am yours heart, body and soul.

Posted by saweetz1988
The reason for my question coz I think Venus in Scorpio views love on a whole other level. I think love for them is no PAIN no Gain.. I am a Taurus sun so to me love is extemely peaceful.. But I don't think

I thought this comes from Scorpio placements. well, more personal parts than the generational.

now what will change if you see it that way?

Actually love is passionate and if it's strong enough.. this is attached to possessions.. Something different and beautiful I hope with lots of respect and maturity. Love is emotions including possessive trait to some.

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Posted by truecap
Venus is Scorpio love - You are mine heart, body and soul. I am yours heart, body and soul.

hence the labels venus in creepio/creepy-o or venus in scarepio 😛

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Lol!!!

Posted by backtokemet

Posted by truecap
Venus is Scorpio love - You are mine heart, body and soul. I am yours heart, body and soul.

hence the labels venus in creepio/creepy-o or venus in scarepio 😛

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lol "Scarepio". I like that.

thanks all... I am slightly insecure yes, I won't lie.. I do love him with my heart body and soul, but I think mostly due to this issues, it's a lot more complicated. so I'm fixing things .. Maybe I am the guilty one bringing the drama to the table so now it's changing and I can see the improvement yes!!!!! im doing it for the baby... if it doesn't work out for us as a romantic factor, I want us to be best friends forever... for the baby's sake... tell me more tell me more ‚ Does gift means much to you? i noe sexually is how I best communicate my deepest feelings for him (psyche in Scorpio) and that's all figured we don't need practise for that.. But in distance apart from words.. what r some ways?? I am very communicative but he's a very silence and deep type( lately getting better)... you guys r into action... what r they? Patience, love, action? Do u like surprises? Lol... perhaps after all the horrible fights I'm still around and love him regardless, it never changes, I think he secretly loves that a lot... phew

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Posted by truecap
Venus is Scorpio love - You are mine heart, body and soul. I am yours heart, body and soul.

hence the labels venus in creepio/creepy-o or venus in scarepio 😛

lol "Scarepio". I like that.

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I like that too lol

Also I read it takes Venus in Scorpio a long time to fall in love... How did u fall in love and why—?? How long —? What were the main reasons u fell in love with such person—

I think love is just a word people throw around with no meaning anymore. I don't take anyone seriously when they tell me they love me. If you love me you will show me you love me. These days, saying "I love you" is just like saying "I'm sorry". Just empty words that may or may not hold meaning to the speaker. Actions are what speak louder than words.

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I think love is just a word people throw around with no meaning anymore. I don't take anyone seriously when they tell me they love me. If you love me you will show me you love me. These days, saying "I love you" is just like saying "I'm sorry". Just empty words that may or may not hold meaning to the speaker. Actions are what speak louder than words.

I totally agree. in that case what have ur lovers or precious lovers done in the past that made u believe he loves or loved u?

Posted by saweetz1988
Also I read it takes Venus in Scorpio a long time to fall in love... How did u fall in love and why—?? How long —? What were the main reasons u fell in love with such person—

here is a good description of ViS:

http://www.venusmarseffect.com/venus-in-scorpio/

PASSION, LOYALTY AND CONFIDENCE

Venus in Scorpio man and Venus in Scorpio woman have very similar styles of love. There’s no denying that Scorpios have all of the above going on. The reason I’m discussing the actual Sun sign Scorpio is because it gives us insight into what Venus in Scorpio is like. So yeah, there’s the passion, the loyalty, the sensuality… In other words, if you can’t stand the heat, get out the kitchen! Some of the more challenging traits are jealousy, smothering, and suspicion. That being said, let’s move on to Venus in that sign…

VENUS IN SCORPIO


Venus in Scorpio in love is loyal and passionate. They fight to the death to maintain a relationship that they believe in. They’re not ones to just walk away when the heat is on. They jump right into the fire and try to restore order. And their lovers appreciate that. There’s also nothing wishy-washy about Venus in Scorpio when it comes to love. They either love you or they don’t. And this goes for friendships.

Be careful, also, if you slight or hurt Venus in Scorpio’s feelings. Generally they find some way to pay you back even if it’s mild. It’s in their love nature to do so, so if you can deal with that, then you’re good. These Venus types give their all in relationships. Some of our more flighty friends may find this too overwhelming. For example, Venus in Aquarius matched with Venus in Scorpio is a difficult relationship to maintain as one is “all in” and the other (Venus in Aquarius) has one foot in and the other foot somewhere else. I’m not insinuating cheating, no, just the concept of detachment – which will drive Venus in Scorpio nuts. Theirs is a relationship that needs to be watered.

They also have a tendency to make their relationship a focal point of their lives, probably a carry over from Venus in Libra energy. "

Posted by DwellingOnMove
typical dxp. trying the same story from other angles. other aspects. other boards..........

yet the main question stays the same.

lol yeah.

anyway, are you a ViS yourself, OP??

if you are dating one, for example, then you should know.

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I think love is just a word people throw around with no meaning anymore. I don't take anyone seriously when they tell me they love me. If you love me you will show me you love me. These days, saying "I love you" is just like saying "I'm sorry". Just empty words that may or may not hold meaning to the speaker. Actions are what speak louder than words.

I totally agree. in that case what have ur lovers or precious lovers done in the past that made u believe he loves or loved u?

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Well the Virgo sun/Scorpio moon I dated was a grade A manipulator, and I am pretty naive. I just see the good in everyone and believe in them to a terrible fault. It was stupid, but I was blinded by his manipulation. He would say kind words, but he would also say hateful ones. At first, he showed no trace of being a cruel person or being corrupt, so I fell in love pretty easily (I fall in love easily regardless because of some of my other aspects). I am the type who just dives into love with high hopes and aspirations. I am typically blinded by my high hopes. Once I see someone as fascinating, I am just entranced by everything that they do even if it's not that great. It is definitely not a perk. I think this could have to do with my 7th house being in Aries. I think that Aries traits show up in my relationships even though I am NOT a Venus Aries. I am a Venus in Scorpio, however, I am at 0 degrees. Though this is said to be the purest form of a sign, I think that it dulls the intensity that it may hold. Maybe that is ViS in its "purest" form. I do love deeply and strongly. I do become a bit obsessive but only mentally. I never show it outwardly. I am fascinated by my lovers, but I also want them to be fun and free with me and just enjoy life together. A man with all of that is who grabs my heart. I kind of like really strange men lol...not sure why. I am not that jealous of a lover, though I do have small pangs of jealousy. I rationalize my feelings of jealousy and tell myself mentally to be reasonable, because most of the time I feel that those feelings are being irrational and unreasonable. There is no doubt that they exist, but I keep them under control. An overly jealous person is a very ugly person. I learned this from the Virgo Sun/Scorp Moon...he also had a Scorp Mars....

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Posted by saweetz1988
Also I read it takes Venus in Scorpio a long time to fall in love... How did u fall in love and why—?? How long —? What were the main reasons u fell in love with such person—

here is a good description of ViS:

http://www.venusmarseffect.com/venus-in-scorpio/

PASSION, LOYALTY AND CONFIDENCE

Venus in Scorpio man and Venus in Scorpio woman have very similar styles of love. There’s no denying that Scorpios have all of the above going on. The reason I’m discussing the actual Sun sign Scorpio is because it gives us insight into what Venus in Scorpio is like. So yeah, there’s the passion, the loyalty, the sensuality… In other words, if you can’t stand the heat, get out the kitchen! Some of the more challenging traits are jealousy, smothering, and suspicion. That being said, let’s move on to Venus in that sign…

VENUS IN SCORPIO


Venus in Scorpio in love is loyal and passionate. They fight to the death to maintain a relationship that they believe in. They’re not ones to just walk away when the heat is on. They jump right into the fire and try to restore order. And their lovers appreciate that. There’s also nothing wishy-washy about Venus in Scorpio when it comes to love. They either love you or they don’t. And this goes for friendships.

Be careful, also, if you slight or hurt Venus in Scorpio’s feelings. Generally they find some way to pay you back even if it’s mild. It’s in their love nature to do so, so if you can deal with that, then you’re good. These Venus types give their all in relationships. Some of our more flighty friends may find this too overwhelming. For example, Venus in Aquarius matched with Venus in Scorpio is a difficult relationship to maintain as one is “all in” and the other (Venus in Aquarius) has one foot in and the other foot somewhere else. I’m not insinuating cheating, no, just the concept of detachment – which will drive Venus in Scorpio nuts. Theirs is a relationship that needs to be watered.

They also have a tendency to make their relationship a focal point of their lives, probably a carry over from Venus in Libra energy. "

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the part that is bold definitely me. but the Libra energy in me allows me to have some wishy-washy kindness in me in order to be kind to everyone.

I have never resorted to payback though. I tried with the Virgo, and I felt too guilty and ashamed for trying. I carry heavy guilt with me when even thinking of revenge, because I think that revenge is weak and very pathetic. Life happens and we should learn from it...not seek revenge. I am grateful I was raised this way and think the way that I do. I can't imagine being

...vengeful my whole life. It seems so toxic and tiring.

Raindancer- It's mine and I don't want to share possessions that are worth something. If I do get possessive over someone...it just means I like you and care and will show you by being there for you always. But it's just possession and it can easily possibly get thrown away...I love beautiful and unique things and people so much

Which can be toxic. Because I can latch on to another almost symbiotic..and when it fades it can be a parasitic relationship not good.

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
...vengeful my whole life. It seems so toxic and tiring.

I think this VIS of mine has a tendency to do a pay bak ... subtly ... hopefully he's done with his payback though I truly hope so lol....

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by DwellingOnMove
typical dxp. trying the same story from other angles. other aspects. other boards..........

yet the main question stays the same.

lol yeah.

anyway, are you a ViS yourself, OP??

if you are dating one, for example, then you should know.

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I am not a Scorpio Venus but has a psyche in Scorpio so I can relate to someways... if I am dating one or not it is a very very very long story lol.. but I will b involved with him for life so I wanna make things right...:p

Posted by saweetz1988
thanks all... I am slightly insecure yes, I won't lie.. I do love him with my heart body and soul, but I think mostly due to this issues, it's a lot more complicated. so I'm fixing things .. Maybe I am the guilty one bringing the drama to the table so now it's changing and I can see the improvement yes!!!!! im doing it for the baby... if it doesn't work out for us as a romantic factor, I want us to be best friends forever... for the baby's sake... tell me more tell me more ‚ Does gift means much to you? i noe sexually is how I best communicate my deepest feelings for him (psyche in Scorpio) and that's all figured we don't need practise for that.. But in distance apart from words.. what r some ways?? I am very communicative but he's a very silence and deep type( lately getting better)... you guys r into action... what r they? Patience, love, action? Do u like surprises? Lol... perhaps after all the horrible fights I'm still around and love him regardless, it never changes, I think he secretly loves that a lot... phew

No drama (but that might be my cap parts). No surprises. Consistency is vital.
Fighting is a no for me. Love, peace, happiness. Drama gets in the way of that.

Posted by saweetz1988
Also I read it takes Venus in Scorpio a long time to fall in love... How did u fall in love and why—?? How long —? What were the main reasons u fell in love with such person—

8 months to a year.

To discover the character and monitor the consistency of the man. To make sure he was who he said he was. To make sure he didn't bring unnecessary drama to the table. To make sure his actions matched his words.

Takes time.

Of course, I don't know how much my cap parts overshadow this. I'm a cap stellium, though.

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I think love is just a word people throw around with no meaning anymore. I don't take anyone seriously when they tell me they love me. If you love me you will show me you love me. These days, saying "I love you" is just like saying "I'm sorry". Just empty words that may or may not hold meaning to the speaker. Actions are what speak louder than words.

I totally agree. in that case what have ur lovers or precious lovers done in the past that made u believe he loves or loved u?

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You can't manipulate love by studying astrology. If you're not genuine, he will see right through it. Perhaps this is the why he's giving you reason to feel insecure.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by saweetz1988
Also I read it takes Venus in Scorpio a long time to fall in love... How did u fall in love and why—?? How long —? What were the main reasons u fell in love with such person—

here is a good description of ViS:

http://www.venusmarseffect.com/venus-in-scorpio/

PASSION, LOYALTY AND CONFIDENCE

Venus in Scorpio man and Venus in Scorpio woman have very similar styles of love. There’s no denying that Scorpios have all of the above going on. The reason I’m discussing the actual Sun sign Scorpio is because it gives us insight into what Venus in Scorpio is like. So yeah, there’s the passion, the loyalty, the sensuality… In other words, if you can’t stand the heat, get out the kitchen! Some of the more challenging traits are jealousy, smothering, and suspicion. That being said, let’s move on to Venus in that sign…

VENUS IN SCORPIO


Venus in Scorpio in love is loyal and passionate. They fight to the death to maintain a relationship that they believe in. They’re not ones to just walk away when the heat is on. They jump right into the fire and try to restore order. And their lovers appreciate that. There’s also nothing wishy-washy about Venus in Scorpio when it comes to love. They either love you or they don’t. And this goes for friendships.

Be careful, also, if you slight or hurt Venus in Scorpio’s feelings. Generally they find some way to pay you back even if it’s mild. It’s in their love nature to do so, so if you can deal with that, then you’re good. These Venus types give their all in relationships. Some of our more flighty friends may find this too overwhelming. For example, Venus in Aquarius matched with Venus in Scorpio is a difficult relationship to maintain as one is “all in” and the other (Venus in Aquarius) has one foot in and the other foot somewhere else. I’m not insinuating cheating, no, just the concept of detachment – which will drive Venus in Scorpio nuts. Theirs is a relationship that needs to be watered.

They also have a tendency to make their relationship a focal point of their lives, probably a carry over from Venus in Libra energy. "

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I think the key phrase here is "A relationship they BELIEVE in".

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I think love is just a word people throw around with no meaning anymore. I don't take anyone seriously when they tell me they love me. If you love me you will show me you love me. These days, saying "I love you" is just like saying "I'm sorry". Just empty words that may or may not hold meaning to the speaker. Actions are what speak louder than words.

I totally agree. in that case what have ur lovers or precious lovers done in the past that made u believe he loves or loved u?

You can't manipulate love by studying astrology. If you're not genuine, he will see right through it. Perhaps this is the why he's giving you reason to feel insecure.

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+1111000000 and plus hits on your +1 hahaha. very true.

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I think love is just a word people throw around with no meaning anymore. I don't take anyone seriously when they tell me they love me. If you love me you will show me you love me. These days, saying "I love you" is just like saying "I'm sorry". Just empty words that may or may not hold meaning to the speaker. Actions are what speak louder than words.

I totally agree. in that case what have ur lovers or precious lovers done in the past that made u believe he loves or loved u?

You can't manipulate love by studying astrology. If you're not genuine, he will see right through it. Perhaps this is the why he's giving you reason to feel insecure.

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Thanks true cap!! You have given me great insights...!!! I can udnedstand and relate much better now... I see alot of cap in ur statements and I can relate... I am 1 millions guinene about my feelings for him and I have proven it a lot.. True the drama and the pain has caused me to act in ways that I regret but we passed that... I truly hope we will work it out in the long run 😉

He said * I'm addicted to you it's really bad... *. And then he said * I'm like your slave or something * yet to know what it truly means.... and I feel the same ... 😢

Im dating a kibra sun venus scorpio now its taking forever for trust we been dating for 10 months now smh idk what to do. Do they test ppl alot in love to make sure

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Im dating a kibra sun venus scorpio now its taking forever for trust we been dating for 10 months now smh idk what to do. Do they test ppl alot in love to make sure

From what I learnt from him in particular, I can share my story with you... I slept with one just for casual and that was easy nothing exciting and another one he wanted more and was possesive in the beginning . That pushed my Aquarius moon away.. I learnt it takes them along time to trust and fall in love with you .. They may feel it deeply within but they won't share to you esp not by words in early days... Whatever u do, don't repeat the mistakes I did, I think he tested me a lot but instead I failed many of them too.. lol.... it was very complicated... We went from high to low to high to low... n now high... And I intend to keep it on a medium level from now on.... I think for them, once they let u in their circle you r pretty much there for a long time.. unless they caught u lying or dishonest in anyway.. thank god, I never lied to him ever even if the truth hurts like hell I will always be honest with him... I think that's the reason why he's still around.... I think patience is needed a lot and you have to be able to give them ur all... Heart body and soul..... All of you... Love all of him.... best and worst ... that's my take on them.... good luck ! x

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Raindancer- It's mine and I don't want to share possessions that are worth something. If I do get possessive over someone...it just means I like you and care and will show you by being there for you always. But it's just possession and it can easily possibly get thrown away...I love beautiful and unique things and people so much

Which can be toxic. Because I can latch on to another almost symbiotic..and when it fades it can be a parasitic relationship not good.

Ah. Scorpio in Venus is the opposite. We thrive off throwing all the possession out the window. A lack of having ignites us.

Which can also be toxic.

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When it's done right in an owning someone kind of way it's declious and the most beautiful thing... ever.... I will never know how to love someone like this again... Intense deep and beautiful feeling... comes with pain (toxic) but it's worth it... Transform you in the craziest way..

Awww thats sweet. What are there tests though it can be anything im doomed 😢 i want a venus scorpio love long as u not abusive but more protective and want all my love i can give and handle that....

It's not a test.

It takes time to observe and see if you are who you say you are. It takes time to see the character traits. It takes time to see if actions are consistent. Scorpio in venus is cautious and suspicious. We put our all into it and just need to to see if you do too. We won't put our all into someone that we think might betray us. So, it takes time. A lot of time to see if you're worthy of our all.

I'm so tired of hearing people call it a test. It's not a test. It's about character and seeing if you have the character traits worthy of the kind of love venus in scorpio can give. When we fall, we fall hard, so we are cautious about who gets that love.

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Fleshpot
Love is like a spring bear.

Please explain deeper

It's a quote from one of my favorite books.

“I really like you, Midori. A lot.”
“How much is a lot?”
“Like a spring bear,” I said.
“A spring bear?” Midori looked up again. “What’s that all about? A spring bear.”
“You’re walking through a field all by yourself one day in spring, and this sweet little bear cub with velvet fur and shiny little eyes comes walking along. And he says to you, “Hi, there, little lady. Want to tumble with me?’ So you and the bear cub spend the whole day in each other’s arms, tumbling down this clover-covered hill. Nice, huh?”
“Yeah. Really nice.”
“That’s how much I like you.”

”• Haruki Murakami, Norwegian Wood

Love is uplifting, calm, and secure, like a spring bear. A feeling of familiarity, and living for one another's dreams, while not forgetting our own.

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Awww love that, so cute!!

Posted by truecap
It's not a test.

It takes time to observe and see if you are who you say you are. It takes time to see the character traits. It takes time to see if actions are consistent. Scorpio in venus is cautious and suspicious. We put our all into it and just need to to see if you do too. We won't put our all into someone that we think might betray us. So, it takes time. A lot of time to see if you're worthy of our all.

I'm so tired of hearing people call it a test. It's not a test. It's about character and seeing if you have the character traits worthy of the kind of love venus in scorpio can give. When we fall, we fall hard, so we are cautious about who gets that love.

I feel and understand what you have written 🙂 thank you for explaining it quiet clearly... I hate how he can read my mind within seconds like if something slightly bothers me he won't let go he will keep asking * what's wrong * what's wrong what's wrong .. Tell me tell me tell me... so I had no choice but to explain what bothered me... our communication has improved so much!! I understand what u said when u said, u wanna only give the love u have so deeply to someone who will never betray you because once u love.. There's no turning back etc.... he used to have his first ex girlfriend a long long time ago who betrayed him after 5 years, when they broke up for 2 months n he went to date someone for a few months and wanted the ex back... The ex went and marry a guy he knows.... I think that has made him an ice box and extemely extrmely scared... to ever love again...

Don't make excuses for him. My ex of 18 years betrayed me, but I still found love with someone else. Wasnt scared to love again, but i was cautious. Want to make sure he is right for me. We are both taking it slow. 3 1/2 years in this relationship and just now talking about maybe getting married. Just saying to stop making excuses for him, stop worrying and don't push.

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I think love is just a word people throw around with no meaning anymore. I don't take anyone seriously when they tell me they love me. If you love me you will show me you love me. These days, saying "I love you" is just like saying "I'm sorry". Just empty words that may or may not hold meaning to the speaker. Actions are what speak louder than words.

Scorpi ex with Scorp Venus thought the same way.

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really?! that's crazy! I truly do believe in that. I believe in action and proof more so than the words. though I'm pretty easy with forgiveness

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Posted by flowingwater

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I think love is just a word people throw around with no meaning anymore. I don't take anyone seriously when they tell me they love me. If you love me you will show me you love me. These days, saying "I love you" is just like saying "I'm sorry". Just empty words that may or may not hold meaning to the speaker. Actions are what speak louder than words.

Scorpi ex with Scorp Venus thought the same way.

really?! that's crazy! I truly do believe in that. I believe in action and proof more so than the words. though I'm pretty easy with forgiveness

Yeah I've said it before and it meant nothing to him.. He wanted me to prove it through the rings of fire.

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😢 I'm not that intense lmao. I am typically a pushover, but something as simple as getting me a little something (like chipotle w my favorite way of making it). I like simple things, but I don't like sorrys. even a simple gesture shows that someone cares, as long as they don't disregard it